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I might be making a big mistake...

Recently, I wrote an online marketing book.

Don't get me wrong; it's a REALLY GOOD book and those who read it will definitely have a lot of "aha" moments, but the purpose of writing it was not necessarily to make money from it, it was more to use it as a tool--a way to get more live coaching clients.

It goes without saying that if you're going to do something like this the book HAS to be good, otherwise it can have the opposite effect.

Anyway... my vision was to do more free instructional videos and at some point during the video hold up my book and say, "And, don't forget to get my book."

Again, this was NOT to make money from book sales, but to give myself the added coaching credibility that comes with authoring a book in my niche.

But, here's where things went wrong (sort of).

After putting my heart and soul into this book and making sure it was genuinely helpful, I discovered something crazy... I no longer want to be a business coach.

What!

The main reason I wrote that book (aside from helping others) was to use it as a tool for getting more clients!

But, I've concluded that teaching people online marketing really doesn't change the world much.

Besides, a lot of my best coaching advice is now in the book (in fact, the core of the book was taken from the original guidebook I wrote for my private clients).

So... after spending more than 20-years in online marketing and sales and then showing others what I've learned and what to avoid, I've decided to switch niches and do something that is not only more beneficial to the world at large, but in the process build a better life for myself and my family.

I'm still going to coach my current business clients because I've got that down to the few individuals I really like working with, but I'm not going to take on those types of clients anymore.

So, what's my plan?

I'm going to be what I'm tentatively calling a "Happiness Coach."

Never heard of it?

Nether have I.

I don't even know if it's a "thing."

But, being happy and getting those around me to feel happy too has always been my superpower--even more so than teaching online marketing.

I'm not talking about being a therapist. I'm not going to take on chronically depressed clients nearing suicide. That's not what this is about. This is about greatly enhancing the quality of an already decent life.

My first step will be to write another book. Once again, the purpose is not to make money off the book itself. This time, though, in addition to the credibility factor, it's more to align my thoughts and hammer out an underlying foundational system. Writing a book will force me to clarify that foundation.

Once I get the system in place I can offer live coaching to those who want personalized guidance.

That's the plan, anyway.

Maybe what I'm defining here is actually a "Life Coach."

I don't know because I've never really looked into what a Life Coach does. Maybe what I'm looking at is a Life Coach with the emphasis on "Happiness."

If Health, Wealth and Happiness are the big three, then happiness definitely enhances, if not directly increases, the magnitude of the other two.

Would you rather be rich or happy?

If you answered honestly, I think you came to the same conclusion I did.

What good is being a billionaire if you're not happy?

Flying around on a private jet is fun and can give you a certain amount of temporary happiness, but at the end of the day, you'll still have to jump in bed and watch cartoons until you fall asleep, just like everyone else.

So, what do you guys think... am I crazy, or what?


P.S. Up until now, I've never shared this with anyone. I haven't even discussed it with my wife.

But, I wanted to put it out there in front of other online marketers--those who would be more apt to talk me out of it--in order to really put this idea to the test.
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  • Hi William, nice post.

    I'm not sure if anyone can actually "coach" happiness. In my experience, people are either happy at heart or they're not. You might end up with clients who are looking for the kind of therapy you're hoping to avoid getting involved with. Otherwise, why would they be hiring you?

    Nevertheless, getting your thoughts down in a book would be a good way to see if a clear direction or workable system to the ideas you have start to emerge as you write. So that's probably the best first step to take.

    Good luck!
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  • That might just be the saddest thing I have ever heard.

    We get it. You're bored after 20 years. That's no reason to jump into a fantastical niche. The world doesn't need another Tony Robbins. It really, really doesn't.

    Why not make the focus of what you currently teach, more about 'achieving happiness through financial independence?' Focus less on the money and more on the mental and physical benefits of working toward making money in a more holistic fashion.

    Anyone who tells you that money doesn't buy happiness simply didn't have very much money. Of course I'm being facetious, but truth be told, I'd rather be rich with problems, than poor and carefree.

    After 70 years on the planet I believe that for myself, I'm able to make that statement as honestly as I can. Fortunately, I have found a meaningful balance between my financial state and my psychological well-being. I have enough money to live comfortably, want for nothing and have no major concerns outside of health issues, which are common for anyone at my age. That said, I'm sure if I were poor, I would not be as happy as I am and my medical woes would have a much stronger deleterious effect on my ability to extend my life.

    You can't teach happiness. You can teach the things that give people a better chance of achieving what they perceive as happiness - and unfortunately, money (financial security) still ranks high on the list - and this is coming from a dyed-in-the-wool hippie. lol

    Do what you've spent a lifetime learning. Just do it differently - in a way that serves your happiness better, which will trickle down to your students.

    Happiness Coach, indeed. :-) I hope in some small way that I have saved you from yourself.

    P.S. I do Life Coaching. PM me. lol
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    • You two must never have looked or know much about Neuroscience, then. You can absolutely teach Happiness. Happiness is NOT always this abstract touchy feely "heart" based ideology that you either have or don't have.

      Happiness can actually be attributed to certain brain mechanisms, structures, and bio chemicals like Dopamine, Oyctocin, Endorphins, Serotonin to name a few.

      And you can literally teach people how to access these neurotransmitters more frequently by different Techniques and Exercises.

      One way is building new neural pathways in your Brain and bypassing the old ones that promoted bad thinking and bad experiences. And ones that promote Happiness

      If you have more of these flowing in abundance ( neurotransmitters) guess what...viola you will be more Happy

      It's as simple as that. this ain't brain science ( oh wait ,it is )

      And this is actually Science backed up by Controlled Experiments where these Exercises are Performed on Subjects.... and MRIs and PET Scans are taken to see which part of the brain is affected and the activity in those regions..Exercises that include Meditation, Breathing, Physical Exercise, Imagery, Visualization, Hypnosis etc..etc..

      Happiness is based much less on the circumstances and environment around us ( having money, materialistic stuff , etc..etc.. ) and based more on the Physiology of the actual human body and the Brain itself.

      That's true Power, when you come to this realization and when you learn how to access it.
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  • Thanks for the responses so far!

    What I'm taking from this is to, first of all, NOT call myself a "happiness coach." LOL.

    But, I kind of knew that going in.

    Also, I think I need to clarify that I'm not saying "wealth" is bad, or that it isn't a part of being happy--it absolutely is and it's something I would cover. I wrote an eBook years ago called Instant Wealth Report that had nothing to do with online marketing, it was all about mindset. So, I'm somewhat hip to that stuff too.

    OptedIn...

    Point 1: The world DOES need another Tony Robbins. It really, really does!
    Point 2: I have no intention of being anything like Tony Robbins.

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    • Well, that's a matter of personal opinion. He definitely appeals to a certain segment of our society that I take great pride in not being a part of. Thankfully. Although I may have meandered and had many stumbles while traveling on life's path, I have never felt the need for anyone to show me the way. Especially someone so obviously full of shit. :-)

      To each, his own.
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  • William, I think that you may be underestimating the impact you might be having.

    Kay King uses the following as her sig:

    I'd paraphrase that to something like:

    Helping one business owner succeed may not change the world -- but forever changes the world of one business owner, and everyone they touch.

    Add in the Butterfly Effect, and you have no idea how much one small action may change things in the future.

    Ditching everything you've built to become a "happiness coach" sounds a bit crazy to me.
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  • Thing about the makin' money online deal is you got all kindsa step-by-step techniques an' plans you can outline so people can follow 'em.

    It's the essential Expert's "How To" formula -- an' it is repeated over an' over with great success in bookstores, in cheat sheets, on the internet.

    Problem I see with the Happiness angle been touched on by Opto.

    Bcs some people say potatos while other people say potatos.

    Canya hear the difference?

    First is potatos.

    Second is potatos.

    Course, if I were to drag Benedict Cumberbatch along to smooth his gorgeous vowels over my obtuse argument, we'd all hear him say ...

    Po-TAY-tos

    an' then

    Po-TAH-tos

    (after which there gonna be a loud KER-LUNK as my legs give way beneath me, an' I fall to the floor, red-faced & fightin' for breath).

    Gotta figure happiness is so subjective it ain't gonna transmit in any pure form between individyools without sum kinda extra information.

    Soon asya question what that information might be, the expertise required to help sumone else become happy depends more on their requirements for happiness than your viewa what happiness might mean.

    We all had conversations in college with sumone read a book changed their lives ... but when we read it ourselves we are like WTF?

    Gotta figure happiness, like personal change, manifests in idiosyncratic ways outta superspecific circumstances an' genetic predispositions -- which is why alla that 7 Habits of Successful People schwango 'pon my boobiture doth get.

    A "How To" for your original enterprise is easier to figure in termsa definable steps & method.

    An' if goobers complain it don't work, you can retrace steps an' point out how they never followed procedure -- hence guarantees & T&Cs.

    Happiness is real mix & match, on-the-fly, hard to define -- an' you got real problems when people part with a tonna cash an' then complain cos they still a miserable f*cker.

    Way I see it, you got 20 years xp in sumthin' specific not evrywan can do but which they might wanna pay ya for (in order to boost their happiness alongside similar decisions 'bout apparel, travel, books).

    versus

    limited xp in a general parta the hooman condition still baffles governments, phiosophers & religions.

    As for "happiness coach", first thing came to mind was a buncha teen boys bein' driven at speed along the highway while a buxom stripper plies 'em with alcohol an' makes exotic with a cucumber.

    Like Frankie says, good luck -- but I figure your prior venture mebbe less dependent on that commodity for its success.
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  • The problem with being a "happiness coach" is that clients will think "If he's so happy, why isn't he living like a glutton, making crazy money, and having sex all day?" Most people attribute happiness with wealth, free time, and some sort of *secret* in life. Why would you trade YOUR happiness time, to earn a little bit of more money teaching someone how to be happy in their own way?
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  • Princess, just for the record - nobody says "Po-TAH-tos".

    Ever.
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    • Princesses don't count?

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  • Happiness is internally derived. It can not be delivered by any job, any car, any partner, any trip, any possession, any system, any book, any person.

    There are people that have everything and are genuinely miserable and there are people that have nothing that are genuinely happy.

    Promising people happiness in exchange for significant sums of money sounds like a scam to me. But that's just me.

    Write a book. If people buy your book on how to be happy for $20 and it doesn't make them happy, which it almost certainly won't, then they're out $20 and they'll probably at least still learn something.

    Taking on coaching clients, which I can only assume will come with the kind of price tag that personal coaching tends to come with, is, in my opinion, dishonest, because not only is your system unproven, (because it can't be proven), but there is absolutely no way for you to know what it is inside any given person that is keeping them from being happy - because odds are that person can't even pinpoint it themselves - so how could you possibly know how to help them as individuals?

    If you want to try to teach people to be happy for honorable reasons, I think that's awesome. But do it on the cheap or give it away, because the fact is you can't teach someone to be happy. You might be able to guide them down a path, but the reality is, it's entirely on them. Happiness is not something you can offer a 60-day moneyback guarantee on.
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    • And most of the world's population live somewhere between those two extremes.
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  • The two are not mutually exclusive.

    Money can't buy happiness but it can damn sure rent some first-class accommodations.

    Brent
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  • The way I read the Op nothing has changed

    He is just repackaging for a wider audience

    Its all the same ole marketing including this thread itself.
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  • Being rich or happy is not a choice... they aren't mutually exclusive... so
    right away I'm skeptical of your premise. Sounds a bit touchy feely for me.

    Call me crazy but I think anyone who has to be coached on how to
    be happy probably isn't going to find much happiness in their life.
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    • That's not completely true. Many people can't see the forest for the trees or have never learned how to cope with certain parts of their existence that renders them unhappy and oftentimes feeling hopeless.

      Developing a close friend that can tell you what you ned to hear, looking for guidance from your religious contact or going to therapy can certainly make the human condition much happier to experience.

      Wouldn't any of those individuals be considered a 'life coach' and if their interaction resulted in bringing a modicum of happiness to that person, would it be invalid to call them a 'happiness coach?' Certainly not in the broadest sense of the term. That said, the only person that I would consider a happiness coach charges $250 an hour and can be found in the lobby of most reasonably upscale hotel bars. Puts a happy, happy smile on my face.

  • DR,

    I would take some time off, a vacation maybe, and seriously think about what it is that you want to do in your remaining years.

    So you've come to the realization that you don't want to be a business coach. What is it about being a business coach that you don't like?

    I ask because being a "happiness" coach (or whatever you call it) probably won't be much different than what you're doing now. Maybe you don't like the daily routine, having to continually search for new clients, or being tied down to a consulting schedule. Well, all of these things probably won't change much from one type of coaching to another. So I'm saying, find out right now what you don't like doing in your current profession and what you would really like to do in a new one.

    To jump ship and change what you're doing in mid-career is a big step. Maybe you're independently wealthy - I don't know - but be sure you can make the transition without putting your family at risk.

    The best to you,

    Steve
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  • First, I actually read your book. A solid B. But that is neither here nor there.

    I get what you are thinking of. But why write a book? You're seeking an "underlying foundation" THEN you will personalize it. Is this correct or am I misinterpretting?

    Wouldn't it be better to hammer out the concept, and then write a book, it just seems cart before the horse sort of thing. You don't need any cred to be a life coach, just call yourself one. More than a few Warriors over the years have taken on that mantle. If memory serves even the SaltyDroid took on one of those self proclaimed "life coaches".

    I don't get it. I understand coaches, being a one time golf coach and all. But for life?

    It is akin to the daily, "What should I do?" question asked here. Who are we, in the collective or as an individual to tell anyone what they should do.

    The problem is in the question. Say, I want to do this, HOW? Then we are in a position to offer qualified responses.

    First, what makes you think you can help other people as it is today? You don't have a book, and from your post, you don't yet have a solid FOUNDATION to build on. What makes you think you can "enhance the quality of an already decent life"? What are your methods?

    What techniques do you offer which enhances your own life?

    For what it is worth, write out a simple outline of what you think the book would look like, put in sample chapter headings. Is it a start here go to there book?

    Is it a pick any page and find your nuggets of gold book?

    Do an outline and see on paper what you think you want to tell people. Then ask why?

    What gap in this market will your experience fill? Tony Robbins may be king of the hill, but he is one of thousands of so-called life coaches.

    OPINION. I would offer your services as an ACCOUNTABILITY COACH. I get that. It is helpful, especially when working at home, or alone or on an IM project which may be long term, to have someone to account to. The WF new section THE WARRIOR PATH is exactly that.

    Why do people need a life coach? The answer is, or must be, they don't know how to live their life so need someone to tell them how to do it.

    Just doesn't make sense to me. But if someone doesn't know what they want or which of many skills or interests to focus in on to get some results as opposed to spinning their wheels, then those kinds of tools are already in abundance.

    If someone needs to be told what to do, as opposed to making a choice and HOW to do it, then you've got the worst client you will ever have or had.

    You may be jumping out of the frying pan and into the fire.

    GordonJ

    PS. Different thing completely if you have life experiences you want to share which have worked for you, and you write a book about that and ALLOW them to take your wisdom and put it to use, then by all means, join Wayne Dyer, Cheryl Richardson, Louise Hay, Eckhart Tolle, Don M. Ruiz, or 1001 other people who offer guides on how to ENHANCE THE QUALITY OF A LIFE via their own prescriptions. But life coaching,,,NO.
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  • This is what I think of when I hear about these kinds of coaching programs:

    Constant Breakthroughs Package - Tony Robbins Trained Coach - YouTube
  • Wow! So many great responses!

    This is precisely why I posted this here.

    JohnMcCabe -- I might be underestimating the impact I'm having on the world with the Butterfly Effect and all. My clients do get results and make positive impacts on their clients. Maybe this is more for selfish reasons than I'm willing to admit. You got me thinking.

    Steve B -- You make a great point that this new coaching gig will probably be a lot like my current one. That's probably true and I definitely need to take time and think that through. This could be the show stopper right there. Hmm.

    GordonJ -- You read my book! Yay! That makes you and my mom.

    You also make some great points. One of which I'll address below. I do have the general concept and I literally wrote the book on outlining, so I'm right with you on all that.

    Princess B -- Although you make some fine points, your whole post is a bit too "Shakespearean Po-TAH-to" for me. It hurt my brain and I had to take an Advil. But, don't go changin'.

    OK, many of you believe you cannot "coach" happiness. I beg to differ. I've done it and made tremendous impacts on people's lives already. People have come to me YEARS later and told me I completely changed the course of their lives.

    If you're not a happy person but you want to be, it means you're going to have to change your thinking and that can be difficult. And, it also means you're going to have to let go of some naturally occurring beliefs and that is going to be even more difficult.

    Growing up I was always a happy person and I literally could not understand why people couldn't be happy most of the time. Sure, everyone gets sad or angry once in a while. So do I. But, my basic nature is to be happy.

    It took me a lifetime (I'm 58-years old) to understand much of what made me different.

    I don't have all the answers yet; that's something I'm still working on. But, I know enough to help others.

    So, here's my new (slightly) updated plan...

    I'm definitely going to ditch the "happiness coach" title and think up something else. It's going to be more than just happiness anyway.

    I intend to cover the big three: Health, Wealth and Happiness.

    I'm going to write my book on how to be happy and get some feedback. If it's a hit, I'll take it to the hole. If not, no real worries, it will be something I can give to my daughter (who is not quite 3) and tell her this is what daddy lived by to live a happy life.

    I'm not going to throw away everything I've built up 'til now. I still love online marketing, copywriting, creating digital products, etc. I will be continuing on with this stuff for some time. My family won't starve.

    Anyway, thanks to everyone for their feedback. You've all had an impact on me and given me a lot to think about.

    Keep the thoughts/advice/hate mail coming. I'll read it all.
  • "Sad, it's like happiness for deep people"

    - Dr Who
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  • rhealy29 -- Wow! That dude comes across as a desperate used car salesman. If I ever do something like that, someone please shoot me.
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  • Wow, i admire your courage for sharing this. That says really great things about this platform that you all are comfortable and connected enough to be open with each other!

    I'm new to the WF family, it's a pleasure!
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  • Great post. I like how you express your ideas. I would definitely bring this up with your wife, but I do understand you want professional opinions first.

    Whether or not you're making a mistake really depends on what you consider to be a mistake. How much are you willing to risk losing to do this? How will your wife react? How much might your business suffer or thrive?

    Those are questions I would ask myself before I make the leap.
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  • If you feel like you need to make the world a better place, then go. Millions of people are suffering with no one caring for them which eventually results to some of them committing suicide. You can still be a business coach anyway. You can be a business and happiness coach at the same time.
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  • all very good i would say , except the part about money and hapiness

    Those who dont have money will definitely be happy with more money.

    I think its a classical mistake to try to compare money to happiness

    Most rich people I know are happy about most part of their lives as they dont have "lack"

    My experience is that wealth doesnt make people unhappy but most wealthy people pretend to be unhappy when speaking with others

    happiness and unhappiness may come from lots and lots of reasons...lack of wealth is the main cause of unhappiness for majority of the population

    Many rich people do have "unhappiness" in their lives due to many other factors

    but people who dont even have enough money , trying to compare happiness with wealth, is I feel a negative attitude towards money

    In my country there is a saying

    " a badguy without money is a poor badguy , and a badguy with lots of money is a rich badguy

    though badguy was not the word actually used, it got censored
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    • I agree and I shouldn't have made it a comparison between rich and happy.

      That's not what I was trying to say. I should have left out that comparison and just asked the "What good is being a billionaire if you're not happy?" question.

      That's all I was getting at. There's nothing wrong with being rich.
  • This is a great post, thank you for sharing.
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  • I think true Happiness belongs within, and it's Bliss, i achieve it through Trancendental Meditation: everything can make you happy, but everything is gonna change sooner or later, you need to have something behind that never change, which is the Self. The experience of the Self which is beatitude.

    Howevr, you can now teach to be an Online Happy Internet Marketer: how to make things, proccesses without strugglin in between, without destroyin other people's dreams etc.
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  • I been in those moments when you realize something is not for you right when you get it. Now, I like your idea, a nice cause. Same as others down here state, happiness is something you can't teach because happiness works differently with people. With that said, I think you should totally do it! If you think you got the ingredients to teach people how to enhance their life, go for it.

    I see great opportunity in your idea. There will be people (important people too) that will want to meet the man that wrote this book. I would like to read a book that teaches me how to improve my well being

    Wish you luck!

    PS: Let me know if it published
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    • Thanks! I really appreciate the positive encouragement. I've been compiling my ideas for the book and should have a detailed outline worked up in the next few days.

      I've got to admit... I'm pretty jazzed about this.
  • Wow it would be a shame to let what sounds to be a quality work you have so much time into go to the wayside. And to be honest, it has been my experience (as I believe someone else already mentioned) that although this may be a bit of a generalization: Either people are happy at heart or they are not.

    No matter how much you help others become happy around you, it seems that it is oftentimes short-lived and only a matter of time until they need a third party to pep them up again.

    A coach of this nature would have to plant some very deep seeds within the person he is helping that could grow within so that eventually they can learn to find their own happiness. It is true that happiness to a great extent is made of one ingredient - hope.

    What your book taught and any online marketing courses teach at the core is that there is hope. A better way, freedom, self improvement. The biz opp and internet marketing niche essentially is hope and by helping people even find the tiniest bit of success, it helps continue this hope.

    For whatever it's worth, that's my two cents.
    Kent
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    • I still have passion for my online marketing work and won't let that just fall to the wayside. My current clients are great and I have no intention of giving them the boot anytime soon.

      Also, the online marketing book I wrote is largely comprised of universal concepts every online entrepreneur needs to run a successful online business and those concepts will stand the test of time. Stuff that's true now and will continue to be true for years to come. So, that book isn't going to fall to the wayside either.

      I believe I can teach people to change their perspective, let go of the thinking processes and habits that work against them, show them what has worked for me and others, and permanently bring more happiness into their lives.

      When I read what you wrote about "hope," I had to laugh because I devote quite a few paragraphs explaining the very same thing in my online marketing book! LOL

      Anyway, thanks for the great response!
  • Hi DR,

    Does being a Happiness Coach make you feel alive? I mean, SUPER excited?

    Do it. This energy precedes greatness. This energy cuts through all the resistance you will face by following your passion - see the low energy responses below - and it'll detach you from outcomes.

    Some folks beg me wanting to know how I was featured on Dirty Dick Branson's blog and Fox News and why I spoke at NYU. I practiced, I created, I connected, but so do thousands and thousands of entrepreneurs. But not too many get featured on sites like this. Passion my friend, passion. Makes you shine like a lighthouse in a dark storm.

    Ryan
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    • Yes! You get it. Following your passion is an important component of happiness and it's sad a lot of people feel they are stuck in a situation where they cannot follow it. They think it's impossible to make the necessary changes.

      I want to help those people and this is a great example of coaching happiness.

      For those who say you can't coach happiness, what if I were able to show you how you could make the changes necessary to follow your passion? Wouldn't you be a happier person with that result?

      Ryan does that (I checked out his blog). He made that happen. And, so can you.

      Yes you can.

      By the way, Ryan, I was featured on both CNN and USA Network (the actual TV broadcast, though, not the blogs). Welcome fellow traveller.
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  • Not entirely sure how I stumbled across this, but I'm pretty new to the the world of Online Marketing / Warrior Forum and just signed up as I really wanted to contribute to this discussion...

    This is a really interesting post and I'm intrigued by 3 things in particular:

    - The Desire
    - The Motivations
    - The Ultimate Outcome

    I do believe that there is a market for this kind of service for a particular segment of society, but you would need to thoroughly assess each of the above factors before taking that leap and going all in.

    As others have mentioned, it might actually be more conducive (not to mention profitable - if that's your goal) to focus on packaging your product / service as some sort of sub-niche...something along the lines of "how to live a happy, fulfilled and prosperous life with financial freedom and a laptop lifestyle".

    On the other end of the spectrum, if you genuinely want to focus solely on making people happy / life coaching then I think it's also important to point out that it's highly likely that you're going to encounter individuals that will have you in desperate search of your very own Happiness Facilitator!

    More often than not people who are actively seeking someone who will "make them happy" have deep rooted issues and in some cases, undiagnosed psychological disorders, which can be extremely challenging emotionally. The latter may feel they need a Happiness Coach, but in fact require a Medical Professional.

    Needless to say, if you're going to go down that root, you also have to bare that in mind (I've worked with this group, I know).

    Of course, you can be stringent with your selection criteria, but ultimately it's still going to be people that feel they need some sort of assistance in the happiness department.

    Ultimately, whatever you do decide...i hope it makes YOU happy!

    All the best ;o)
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    • Thanks for the insights and words of encouragement.

      I'm going to start with a book explaining the thoughts and attitudes that made me happy throughout my life. I do believe anyone can adopt these ideas and become a happier person for it.

      I could be wrong; maybe it only works for people with a naturally positive attitude to begin with, but that's why I'm starting with a book and not immediately jumping into coaching.

      I'll see what kind of feedback I get.

      Anyway, thanks again and welcome to the Warrior Forum!
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  • William, if you were wondering whether there's a potential market for "happiness coaching", it would seem the topic is gaining traction. Yale has just launched a "happiness" course which has proved to be its most popular class ever:

    https://www.nytimes.com/2018/01/26/nyregion/at-yale-class-on-happiness-draws-huge-crowd-laurie-santos.html

    There are now even government departments set up specifically to tackle what must, presumably, be some recently-identified unhappiness epidemic.

    I suspect, however, that all this is simply another manifestation of the rise of entitlement - a trait the self-help industry has never been shy to exploit.

    One of the major factors affecting happiness is comparing yourself to others. Today, there's unprecedented access to the lifestyles of peer groups around the world. No matter that most of these lifestyles are probably fabricated or imagined, perception is all. It's never been easier to find others better off and apparently happier than you. Advising people to follow their passion as a means to personal happiness risks pandering to this sense of entitlement.

    Happiness is such a nebulous concept to coach, that I doubt any broad-brush treatment would prove useful. A one-to-one approach, in which you could address specific factors and attitudes within an individual's life might work. Whether you believe you're qualified for that, or if it's a road you want to follow is, of course, up to you.
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    • Wow! Thanks for posting this, Frank.

      Very interesting! I'm blown away at the popularity of the course. Everyone wants happiness (or, so you'd think), but this is amazing.

      And, I fully agree with your assessment that one of the major factors affecting happiness is comparing yourself to others. That's a big one.
  • One of the elements in this comparison is what people choose to post.

    Often, people who do compare their lives to what they think is happening for others end up comparing their own day-to-day existence to someone else's "highlight reel."
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    • Quite so. But even without the help of social media, there are those for whom next door's grass will always look greener.
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    • William --

      What you describe in your OP sounds very much like the positive psychology trend, and it appears to be an up-and-coming (perhaps already here?) market.

      I'd suggest doing some research on it and see if that is the path for you.

      Best of luck to you.
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  • Boy you have a lot of time on your hands. Happiness is in the eye of the beholder. Get the money issue out of the way first then tackle their happiness. give the book away for free let people start to make money from your vast unique knowledge and if they are still unhappy tell them to call you.
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  • My Dear DeadRooster,

    I wholeheartedly applaud your tremendous success as an Internet Marketer. You are a true 1%-er, achieving much more than 99% of us in the same racket. You were an apex wolf in a world of sheep. HOWEVER, "Success tends to corrupt, and absolute success corrupts absolutely." AND you have become living proof of that axiom.

    Somehow your extreme material success as a capitalist shark now qualifies you as a spiritual guru providing enlightenment to the benighted masses? OMG, your audacity and arrogance are epic.

    You asked for advice from strangers.

    OK, here is advice from the Ancient Greek playwright Aeschylus: "Like some inferior doctor who's become ill. You're in despair and seek to discover...by what medicine you yourself can be cured."

    In other words, as Jesus said: "Physician, heal thyself (before attempting to heal others)."

    OR BETTER YET, become true again to thy real nature....by changing your name to 'Jesus II'...and writing a book for $19.95 apiece teaching your Sheeple how to find happiness. :-) And by that Shining Path, you can make your second billion.

    BUT OH-H-H PLEASE ... don't disillusion all of us by believing your own hype.

    With my kindest wishes for your happiness,
    Preston
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    • My real name is William McCamment.

      I mention that because, after reading your full response, I'm pretty sure you have me confused with Tai Lopez.
    • Very long an innuendo and accusation with precisely zero proof of any of it.

      And you have the temerity to call him audacious and arrogant... amusing.

      Your post should be deleted.
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  • I was deeply unhappy. I was suicidal, in fact. I read books that challenged my perspectives and that made me see the world differently and I became "Happier". By the way, that's the name of Tal Ben-Shahar's book that greatly impacted me.

    I don't understand why this concept is so hard to grasp. The OP can absolutely impact the happiness of others. Sure, people have to WANT to be happy, as I did, but many truly don't know the way. Those are the people that will seek out a coach and voila, the OP has a business if he can bring the goods.
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    • You bought a book. It cost you $20 (estimate). If it didn't work, you were out $20. You could buy another book for $20.

      That's a very different proposition than offering someone expensive one on one coaching.
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  • rhealy - My guess is that you didn't actually read any of my posts. I never asserted people wouldn't pay high prices to learn to be happy.

    You are correct. I didn't go back through the catalog of your posts, but rather I replied to your direct quote and reply of my post. I didn't know that it was a requirement. You addressed me as such:

    rhealy - You bought a book. It cost you $20 (estimate). If it didn't work, you were out $20. You could buy another book for $20.

    That's a very different proposition than offering someone expensive one on one coaching.


    To me that appeared as though you were asserting that people wouldn't pay high prices to learn to be happy. If I misunderstood, my apologies, but I'm sure you can understand why it might look that way.

    You are also right. I do look at it from the perspective of "is there a market"? As to "will they pay", I've already stated that nobody knows until and unless the OP tries, but that people have shown a willingness to pay.

    I look at it from the standpoint of "is it right to charge people significant money for something you can't possibly be sure you can deliver?"

    In any coaching or therapy so much is up to the individual receiving the guidance that there is always a possibility that the results don't come. If the OP can show that he can help people then he can have some reasonable expectations of delivering. Nothing is guaranteed in life. I just watched Cesar Millan on tv try to help some families with their dogs (which is usually more about the people). There are always some wins and some losses. The subject of the coaching has their own say in the matter.

    You and I may not see things that differently. Next time I'll be sure to study up on all of your posts before answering a direct challenge to one of mine.

    Have a happy weekend!
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    • I purchased this course for 10 dollars. what's more, expresses gratitude toward God I earned yesterday 200 usd .

      Spotlight on the strategy for the fifth page of the course is a decent way and I am as of now taking a shot at it th interface is

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  • Wow, you writers. I think you need to focus your efforts more effectively to get your book out to as large an audience as possible. Less writing, more marketing........you can do this!
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  • My suggestion is as follows:

    1. List what you like/dislike about being a business coach...it matters...it could be that you dislike the "type" of businesses you have been coaching thus far which can be fixed not by changing your coaching but by changing how you market and deliver the course. For example, it may be that you relate better to coaching entrepreneurs in the software space so you work with VC';s and target that sector...or it could be you want to target specifically existing start-ups to get to the next level, etc... versus dealing with newbies 90% of which don't really understand what an entrepreneur means and can wear you down.

    2. If indeed the exercise in #1 points to changing your market entirely - then start by clearly identifying a desire (not happiness and not something you think people need to be happier - but something people are already looking for...how to find better friends, how to stop worrying, etc... things that keep people up at night and they will pay to solve). Then prep a program outline, develop the first session material and go sign up 10 people to a "beta" group (charge them something nominal to make sure they are serious - but with huge discount off of intended price) - spend a month working with the group, refining and developing the material, incorporating feedback so you come out with a rock-solid course with at least a few champions who can articulate the benefit/results

    3. Now decide on product mix - a lead gen, intro product and higher-end product ideally which should be much more straightforward given what you did in #2
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