Goodbye Warriors

I have been worrying and
wondering about this as
well. It is all so very sad.

If we don't hear from Jeffery
in the next few days we will
need to start checking the
Clarksville obituaries. I have
family there, I could do this.
If anyone knows Jeffery's
full name could you please
send it to me.

Or check the obits and post
it here. Please.

Maybe KK could do it.

Thank you.

Yes, it is our Jeffery.


https://www.facebook.com/jeffery.ash.3


This is so sad.


God Bless Jeffery

Jeffrey posting about his impending death made me think quite a lot about...what would I do if I knew I only had a day or two?

Who would I tell? So Cheryl and I discussed how she should get in touch with anyone that would be affected by my passing...suppliers, relatives, memberships I subscribe to...that sort of thing.

There are lots of internet marketing fees that are auto billed every month, and those would have to all be cancelled. Life insurance and Social Security...the essentials.

I wrote down all my passwords, and who to contact to dismantle this life.
And who would get my library of business books and ...believe it or not, comic books.

But mainly, I think I would get my affairs in order. We didn't talk about what we would do if she were about to die. Too much in one sitting. Another time.

I hope that Jeffrey didn't go through much pain...and the emotional pain this would cause his family. He seemed like a good guy. A smart man.

On a whim, a few years ago, I Googled my entire graduating High School class. Of the ones I found, about a third were already gone.

I did the math. In the next ten years, there is a better than 50% chance that Cheryl or I will be gone. So I treasure every day with her.

I wish I did more of that with my Mom and Dad.

That was very well said.

I thought of that. Dan Kennedy posted that he was going to die in a couple of days, a couple years ago. Rumors spread that he had died. People were sad...I was sad.

But he didn't die. Eventually, he got better.

And because I was a fan of his, I actually felt put out because of this. His statement that he was going to die caused people pain. They mourned.

And now, when he really does die, I don't know how I'll feel about it.

What I did take out of that experience was to not tell anyone that I was sick (I'm not), until after the fact. Then my wife can post it.

I didn't really process it about Jeffrey, until I saw the notice from the funeral home.

Although I never met him, or even talk to him directly, he added to the experience of being here.