Is Your Head Full Of Why You Can't Make It?

Great freakin' post! You rarely have a money problem. The money problem is the root of your action, thoughts and beliefs. A problem with YOU!

Not your friends, family, the government or anybody else. If there is a will there is a way, you justs have to stop excusing =) Go produce that product, go for your dream...

Less whining more doing =)

-Chris

Why it won't work means - Not all people good at all things. If a person can do good offline promotion, May be another person is not cut out for it ... If one person good at article writing but not another person. So people should know and try which works for them.

Another thing why they say it won't work is - they move on fast from one to another task and don't put full effort on one advice properly.

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Words of wisdom, as usual.

I do think there are some who just get lost in the forest of ideas and have a natural proclivity that makes it tough to focus on any one thing and take action. But for those who have ready excuses for every single good idea that works, it strains patience.

And, as you say, some people just aren't cut out for this. I can't play video games worth a damn, even with lots of practice. So I stopped trying. But I play a mean round of golf, so that's what I do with all the spare time I used to spend trying to get good at video games. Point being, for some folks maybe they need to quit trying and find another source of income. Sometimes being a quitter is a good thing.

John

I was just thinking earlier today about all the ways to make GOOD money when you need it most. The problem is, personal fears is what stops people from being able to break into that new realm of money.

I think if less people had the fear of public speaking and fear of failure, more people would be highly successful. For some reason the people who get over those two fears, and push through even when they are scared, always come out WInNERS in the money /income game.

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Andy. Spot on.

Most people want to either:

1. Be told that they "could" make money, if they needed to in an emergency or when they finally decide to get rich

2. Want to hear that there's a cool little trick you can do to make Google pay you £1000 per day by abusing their system...or whatever.

Let's face it - working from home is beautiful, but extremely challenging mentally.

You'll be distracted, lost, confused, bored, lonely...and when you realize that money doesn't deliver happiness, you'll also be heart broken....

...because after all this time chasing the gold at the end of the rainbow, you never learned to love the rain.

A friend and I once affirmed to each other and ourselves that we will indeed make great money. On her part, though, I don't know what she expects - money to fall out of the sky? She's the kind of person who talks about doing certain things, but never actually does it.

It sure as hell is working for me though, because I take action.

I don't always work in the most efficient manner or have the best judgment, but at the end of the day, I get s*** done.

Sometimes,we need to think more carefully before we do.Definitely,some methods are good in some situations,but it does not mean that they are always good methods.What's more,whether you can make money or not still has relationship with your personal ability.

Thanks for the "spot on" words of wisdom Andy...so true.

IMHO, really, we already know "how to make money" if we need it, we just lose focus sometimes.

We really only need 5 - 10% of what we know to actually "make money"...but when times are tough, it's natural to want to find a quick way to get relief from whatever our situation is.

My feeling is...when our backs are up against the wall, we do our best so long as we focus on "doing" instead of worrying. Some people can't focus on "doing" instead of worrying as well as others when the chips are down. The ones that can, well, start to do some extraordinary things when that happens.

Amen, do it, don't do it, diddle dally around, it's your life you make the calls!

Andy is right... If you're not making money online try something else and see if good things can came out of it...

For me, I started in IM to make some extra money. I'm blessed in that I have a job that I love, that challenges me mentally every day and I get to do what I like to do. However, having a full house of kids, there is always an emergency here or threatening to become real. Hence the need for extra dough.

My problems with IM are many. I can never decide exactly what I want my business to be or to look like. There are so many fun things to try and different approaches to take. I've become a full time student and (if I'm real focused) a very part time doer.

Second...I'm a perfectionist. It kills me to have things not be exactly right. Since nothing is ever perfect, I never get anything completely deployed. I'm working my way through that one, but it is tough.

Third, I think I'm a little afraid of success. What if I succeed at one thing and then people expect me to succeed all the time? What if it turns out to be a flash in the pan?

I could go on and on. The important thing to note, however, is that I have all the excuses I'll ever need .

IM is a complex and multifaceted thing. I love that part of it. Focusing on one facet is something I have a hard time with. Please know that I'm not whining about it nor am I saying that nothing works for me. I think any of the many business models COULD work.

Anyhow, if you can see how this message rambles, then you know why I have a hard time getting stuff done. Oh well, someone has to be the ultimate customer without being the competition!

Personally i don't ask that question because i know what i can do to make it like thinking over finances also looking for other means of living.making notes of your expenses and allotting for emergency use would be usefu-)

This isn't directed at anyone in particular, but as far as I am aware, there are hundreds if not thousands of legimate ways to make money off the internet. So many newbies seem to alternate from thinking that they are all scams to chasing the latest thing.

One of the quickest ways to success it to pick one path and stick to it, regardless of anything else. I do buy WSOs, but only those that compliment my strategy.

For a lot of people, I wonder if it is the vast choice and range of options that causes problems.

Money DOES NOT buy happiness BUT having money gives you options AND having options is an enormous luxury. It's all about what you do with your money....and your options!

You might want to try this.

Instead of thinking why you can't make it...why not list down
ALL the reasons why YOU CAN MAKE IT?

For example...

1. I'm determined and I'll pursue my goals with
dogged persistence till the end...

2. I'm smart. And there's no reason why I will
fail if I put in place a specific plan and take
specific actions on the specific goals I have...

3. And so on...and so on...and so on...


And if everyday, you wake up, you take up
this list...and repetitively and consciously
autosuggest to yourself these points...you will
"burned" these thoughts in your subconscious mind.

I guarantee you that it will make a major difference.

Jag