Yet ANOTHER Reason So Many Fail Online

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Khuram made great point in this thread...

http://www.warriorforum.com/main-int...d-yes-you.html

...many people don't WANT the truth - which is is this - IM (or any business requires work). Often hard work.

But there's a totally understandable reason why - at least from a United States perspective.

Walk into a restaurant, clothing department, gas station, bookstore, auto-mobile lot or ANY business.

You'll be hard pressed to find anyone who WANTS to work. :-)

If you're an employer of a handful of employees, how many of those want to work?

Our society (U.S.) literally "trains" people to do next to nothing and expect a check.

"Workers" tend to have poor performance, drag their feet and have a bad attitude. Then whine that they aren't getting paid enough.

HOWEVER, here's what I have found to be true.

People who worked hard offline usually come online and do well.

Those who are wired for drive and achievement do well also.

But the person who comes for the hope and hype from a position of lazy expectation - well, they just don't seem to excel for some reason. :-) Go figure.

Agree? Disagree?

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  • Profile picture of the author Eric Lorence
    Originally Posted by Paul_Evans View Post

    Khuram made great point in this thread...

    http://www.warriorforum.com/main-int...d-yes-you.html

    ...many people don't WANT the truth - which is is this - IM (or any business requires work). Often hard work.

    But there's a totally understandable reason why - at least from a United States perspective.

    Walk into a restaurant, clothing department, gas station, bookstore, auto-mobile lot or ANY business.

    You'll be hard pressed to find anyone who WANTS to work. :-)

    If you're an employer of a handful of employees, how many of those want to work?

    Our society (U.S.) literally "trains" people to do next to nothing and expect a check.

    "Workers" tend to have poor performance, drag their feet and have a bad attitude. Then whine that they aren't getting paid enough.

    HOWEVER, here's what I have found to be true.

    People who worked hard offline usually come online and do well.

    Those who are wired for drive and achievement do well also.

    But the person who comes for the hope and hype from a position of lazy expectation - well, they just don't seem to excel for some reason. :-) Go figure.

    Agree? Disagree?

    Success is NOT an Accident,
    Paul
    Sure it's about work, but about working "smarter", not necessarily "harder".

    "Hard" workers will not necessarily succeed either, I have to say an even bigger obstacle to success, online or off, is lack of focus and tenacity.

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  • Profile picture of the author Paul_Evans
    No doubt about working smarter.

    But when folks don't have know how to work at all then "smarter" may already be a loss. :-)
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  • Profile picture of the author Paul_Evans
    Interesing article from Seth G...

    Seth's Blog: Is effort a myth?
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  • Profile picture of the author CarolStep
    Agree 100% that hard work is the beginning requirement. Give nothing, get nothing is a truth online as well as off.

    Success and hard work offline will not necessarily translate into the same thing online. A lot depends on your particular talents and abilities.

    I was a teacher and I am an effective teacher online. Not sure that makes me a good "marketer".

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      Originally Posted by warner444 View Post

      "I've missed more than nine thousand shots in my career. I've lost almost three hundred games. Twenty-six times I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that's why I succeed."


      - Michael Jordan; professional basketball player
      I love that quote.
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  • Profile picture of the author valerieSONORA
    Huh? Isn't Khuram a scammer? I guess he's one of those who don't want to work, not doing the work many paid him to do. He should take his own advice.

    Another reason for failure is scamming people. But he may just come back under a different id.
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  • Profile picture of the author jbolte1976
    I agree, in my opinion you may have to just start "working hard" and get to "working smart" after you've learned the ropes. No matter what your working at.... But there again "work" is the common theme. No getting around that.

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  • Profile picture of the author edwardboey
    Yupz, you have to be patient in whatever you do if you want to see success.
    If you give up halfway then all is lost. Make sure you continue to learn and focus on your goals, and I'm sure we can succeed.
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    • Profile picture of the author Jenni Mac
      100% agree!

      You really have to work at anything you want, online or offline, business or personal.

      I know that my success online will just continue to pick up speed and go higher and higher because I work my tail off. I'm writing articles left right and centre, social bookmarking, learning new techniques, maintaining my sites, running an offline business and looking after my kid on my own and I never even think about quitting.

      It's a mindset that not everyone has!

      Great post, thanks Paul
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  • Profile picture of the author Angela V. Edwards
    Originally Posted by Paul_Evans View Post


    "Workers" tend to have poor performance, drag their feet and have a bad attitude. Then whine that they aren't getting paid enough.
    Some workers are like this. Other workers work their tails off and do anything they are asked to do and more, without complaining. In WA State, the minimum wage is $8.07 and goes up every year. The problem with having such a high minimum? The gap between what the lazy whiner makes and the model employee makes is very small. We, as employers, cannot afford to give the good employees what they deserve...because we have to pay EVERYBODY such a high wage.

    That's one of the major problems with increasing the minimum wage.

    </rant> Sorry for the thread hijack.
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    • Profile picture of the author Ricter
      Originally Posted by Angela V. Edwards View Post

      ... We, as employers, cannot afford to give the good employees what they deserve...because we have to pay EVERYBODY such a high wage.

      That's one of the major problems with increasing the minimum wage.

      </rant> Sorry for the thread hijack.
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  • The conclusion = Hard work + Smart work = HUGE SUCCESS

    It is not likely that once you stumbled across a money making opportunity
    and you can become a millionaire with it. Even with smart work, you will
    still need to at least put in some work to make it comes true.

    If you truly want for long-term success, you cannot run away from hard
    work and smart work.
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  • Profile picture of the author Paul_Evans
    Good thoughts all.

    The "herd mentality" post in the War Room is great thought catalyst for failure online.



    On being trained... This may just be in my area but the Chik-Fil-A group has trained some great employees. Told my son (15) that if he got a higher paying job at another place I would pay the difference for him to be under Chick-Fil-A management.
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  • Profile picture of the author tommygadget
    Khuram Dhanani was called out for not delivering on this WSO. He was also called out for not answering PMs, emails and other correspondence. His post, which the OP quoted has merit but does not apply to him. His post was a nice piece of PR. There are lots of people who are willing to work hard and fail miserably. You need the right offer in front of the right audience at the right time. This is not the easiest formula to implement. If it were, we'd all be rich and this forum would have maybe 10 posts.

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  • Profile picture of the author naruq
    Excellent Post Paul Evans! I own offline businesses. when I came online I knew that I would have to learn, work hard and take consistent action. It took me 2 to 3 Years to earn a profit in my offline businesses. It took me 9 months to turn a profit with my online business.
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  • Profile picture of the author Paul_Evans
    Thanks Craig.

    Naruq... what a great example of the tenacity mentioned earlier!

    It takes different amounts of time for different people. But it takes work for all people.

    TomG - true. Same as offline. Lots of people work hard and fail.

    Hard work isn't THE answer, just part of an answer.

    Just like it's not THE reason for online failure, but another piece of the puzzle.

    As we all know - Failure/Success is rarely linked to ONE thing, but a combination.

    However, I still believe that it's going to be MUCH harder for the person who is lazy and who has been trained to expect fire before putting in the wood (Earl Nightingale reference) than for the person who enters the online world with a strong work ethic.
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  • Profile picture of the author TiffanyLambert
    I know for me, when I worked offline, I started out in my Journalism career all hard working and proud. As my J-O-B grew (it was no career), and I saw management higher than myself take credit for my work, or got frustrated with how everyone else got the same pay when they didn't do anything (and were proud of it), it made me quit working hard. I didn't care.

    Online, though - I thrived. I had NO boss. NO salary confines. NO strict job description - I could switch gears if I wanted!!

    NOW...I'm back to my old, enthusiastic self. I have dreams that have come alive again. I don't have to worry if my boss will jerk me around because I AM the boss. I don't have to get disgruntled with lazy coworkers because I don't HAVE any.

    So even if someone's disheartened about offline careers, they can awaken online and as I know to be true - work harder for themselves than they EVER have for someone else.
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    • Profile picture of the author dbishop
      Originally Posted by TiffanyDow View Post

      I know for me, when I worked offline, I started out in my Journalism career all hard working and proud. As my J-O-B grew (it was no career), and I saw management higher than myself take credit for my work, or got frustrated with how everyone else got the same pay when they didn't do anything (and were proud of it), it made me quit working hard. I didn't care.

      Online, though - I thrived. I had NO boss. NO salary confines. NO strict job description - I could switch gears if I wanted!!
      Tiffany, I agree with this completely! I hate working for someone else, and even though I start out strong, I always seem to slack off at some point... mainly because of what you mention here.

      But I never tire working for myself! I can work 16 hours a day, 6 days a week (never work on Sunday), and I'm great with that.

      I've found this whole idea that Paul presented so prevalent in the WAHM (work-at-home-mom) market. These women tend to be looking for a way to stay home, but not work. Then they wonder why they have to go back to a job! It requires work and a lot of it to succeed online as has been mentioned here. But isn't it worth it to have the freedom of working for yourself?!

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  • Profile picture of the author Paul_Evans
    Absolutely Tiffany.

    Thanks for your example!!!
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  • Profile picture of the author Adam Kenzington
    My grandfather told me something when I started working (at 12 yrs old).

    He said "Boy, always work like you are being paid $2.00 and hour more than you are really getting. If you work like that your boss will see it and pay you what you deserve. Don't wait for the raise before you start working hard, it doesn't work that way. Prove you deserve the money and it will come."

    That advice has always served me well. Thank you Pop Pop.

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    • Profile picture of the author Adam Kenzington
      Originally Posted by tommygadget View Post

      Adam, is I do even more important than I can?

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      Probably so, Tom. But it is the "I can" that gets me moving into the "I do".

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  • Profile picture of the author Clark
    Or does the sales letter do a poor job of properly qualifying its prospects?

    I know lots of people who "work hard" but have a phobia about anything and everything technical.

    Does the product speak well to its intended audience in a language they understand and at their level of expertise?

    I know lots of people who "work hard" however, they would succumb to frustration then eventually quit if the product/process/system didn't speak to them in their language or at their level of expertise.

    Even if you had the best prospect that was properly qualified to attempt/execute the information in the product, it still comes down to focus, calculated risk & the intelligence/willingness to identify/analyze failures then recover from them continually to reach a point of sustained personal success.

    The fact is that not "everybody" can make money online despite their Herculean work ethic... I know it's a brutal fact but it's one that remains a constant regardless of how well polished the product is or how big the product creator's ego is.

    One size does not fit all in IM so naturally, there will be a percentage of fallout which really shouldn't come as a surprise to anyone.

    Khuram didn't mention any of his customers who were successful with the implementation of his system (even with his personal one on one coaching as his sales letter states) so that in and of itself speaks volumes about where the root of the failure resides.
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    • Profile picture of the author Paul_Evans
      Originally Posted by Clark View Post

      I know lots of people who "work hard" however, they would succumb to frustration then eventually quit if the product/process/system didn't speak to them in their language or at their level of expertise.

      That's a HUGE point.

      It's one of the reasons I've changed a ton of my training toward individual adaptation.

      For another post...but ANOTHER reason for online failure is blind cloning rather than personal discover and alignment.
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  • Profile picture of the author Devin T
    I agree that success is not an accident. In any form of life, be it social, professional, personal, etc. the more effort one puts into these aspects, the more successful they'll become.

    I believe one part of this is going above and beyond what is expected of you. This is what creates true relationships that will have strong bonds to stand the test of time.
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  • Profile picture of the author Chris Monty
    I definitely agree with that, although, I believe that many people must go online and work harder BEFORE they realize they can work smarter.
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    • Profile picture of the author Darrell Hagan
      I've seen this many, many times in nearly every work environment that I've been in.

      The lazies just complain about one thing after another. The workers get the job done and achieve. Its all about whether or not a person is willing to put forth the required effort. If not, then they will fail.

      I agree that U.S. society is slowly training a new generation of people who will be lazier than ever before. And part of what is causing this is get-rich-quick and work from home ads everywhere which promise great incomes with little or no work.

      Combine this with the World-Owes-Me-A-Living attitude which seems to be popular these days and there you go - recipe for disaster.

      Thats why I feel proud when I see young folks like Chris Remple, Dan Grossman, Amy Bass, and others who really are doing well and providing for themselves and their loved ones and doing what they like.

      Now if I can just get my 23-year old daughter to see this :rolleyes:
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      • The main reason people fail is because they are not 100 % original and they copy old idea's that have gone around over and over again.
        People are always looking for the easy way to get rich and want it given to them.
        It just doesn't work like that in real life.
        Money goes to the guy with the brains and who'll risk working extra hard.
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  • Profile picture of the author Money on the Side
    I agree totally. When I actually do see someone hustling or going above and beyond these days, I really take notice and often compliment them on their performance. But again, these are rare occasions.
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    • Profile picture of the author iwebtopia
      I wish I could be my own boss. I've been in the work force for 30 years and currently a secretary and I work like a dog all day, every day catering to bosses demands (and upper management) with more and more work piled on every day. I am not lazy by any stretch of the imagination, but by the time I get home, I am plain worn-out exhausted and then I have to tend to kids, household, errands, etc. All I want is to transition myself so I equal what I make now (which isn't very much). Once I can work from home, then I can devote my time and really focus on IM. I want to succeed online, but I can't even get out of the starting gate.
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  • Profile picture of the author Paul_Evans
    Cindy - Michel Gerber's book "Awaken the Entrepreneur Within" maybe of interest to you.
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  • Profile picture of the author AndrewStark
    It's not only hard work that is required, it's enjoyment, and good management.

    When people enjoy what they do it's easier to put in the effort and by going the extra yard makes a huge difference - especially for anyone who is self-employed.

    If you have to sell ten widgets each day in order to feed your family you won't sell 4 then go and surf the internet or read the paper.

    Now sadly the easy product to sell is the one that is marketed to be the "golden button" that turns the 4 sales into 10. It encourages laziness, and is perhaps indicative of the current financial mess the world is in.

    After all wouldn't it be great to get a 7% guaranteed return on a bunch of mortgages. Just a shame that all taxpayers are now suffering from the mistakes of the newbie investment bankers who didn't fully read the salespage.
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  • Profile picture of the author olbiz4cash
    I totally agree Paul...When I first started as an Internet Marketer, I knew there was going to be work involved, but was a lot more in reality. I am stepping up though because I want my online business to be a success...

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  • Profile picture of the author idcowgirl
    Totally agree. A lot of people just think the world owes them something and sit around waiting for it. You have to work hard in this life to get anywhere, not many things are going to be handed to you on a silver platter.

    People who do exceptionally well, online or off, have a completely different mindset. You have to think like a rich person, believe you are worth what you want to make. Most of us get a paycheck twice a month, and we accept that, that is what we are worth, and that is all we will ever be worth. In order to rise above the rest and be more successful, you have to change your thinking completely, and reset your "financial thermostat," so to speak. You are what you think you're worth, and as a result you will put in the effort required to get to the level you want. If the people around you think you're crazy...so what? Chances are they don't make much money. They won't be laughing or criticizing once you get things rolling. Start hanging out with millionaires, and pretty soon you might become one!
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    • Profile picture of the author Adam Kenzington
      Originally Posted by idcowgirl View Post

      People who do exceptionally well, online or off, have a completely different mindset...If the people around you think you're crazy...so what? Chances are they don't make much money. They won't be laughing or criticizing once you get things rolling. Start hanging out with millionaires, and pretty soon you might become one!
      It has been my experience that the one's you left behind in the non-achieving catagory will actually try to drag you back "where you belong", with them in their sinking ship.

      By you succeeding, you make them have to question their lot in life. But instead of following your example (with actual effort and hard work) they will try to bring you back into the fold. That way they can feel justified not expending the effort, and be able to say "I told you so, that would never work"...

      Sad isn't it?

      Your right, sometimes you will have to drop these old friends and find some successful new friends that "get it" and encourage you in your plan for financial betterment .

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  • Profile picture of the author David Williams
    I feel that focus is the key. If one is continually being sidetracked then no momentum is created. It has taken me a year to find a way to get my products and site up and running and I still have to optimize it! However I am not discouraged because I know the future, for me, is on the web.
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    • Profile picture of the author ic7
      Great thread. You know, it may also be about motivation. I'm a newbie to IM, but I can already see that it's turning me into my own boss. And that really motivates me to work hard. A lot of people working at the mall are just not motivated. They don't feel like they're in charge of anything. They don't see the "big picture". They don't have a plan.

      On the other hand, I worked hard when I had those jobs. I can't stand doing a poor job. And I love perfect customer support.

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  • Profile picture of the author Mark Hendricks
    The most successful internet entrepreneurs I know all have an instinct for understanding
    the emotional feelings of their prospects and customers, and tap into that psychology to
    help those people take action in buying.

    A lot of times, people not coming from a sales and marketing background have a difficult time
    understanding the reality that people buy for their reasons, not because you want to make
    a sale.

    So spend a lot of time studying human psychology as it relates to what people really want,
    especially in the marketplace you work in.

    Study their posts in forums, newgroups, yahoo answers, etc -- and study how your
    competitors relate to those prospects too -- you will learn tons from your competitors!

    Hope this helps a bit (see ISS below for more on this).

    Mark Hendricks
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