Refund Requests from months ago...

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Ya know - it's just another "refund request" rant.... and I get VERY FEW refund requests for my products.

BUT:

People buy something. They consume it. They use it or dream about it or whatever.

A month goes by.

A few more weeks go by.

Then, out of the blue - they want a refund.

Did they all of a sudden remember they had a light bill to pay? Or a phone bill and were a little short?

Did they scan thru all of their Paypal purchases and just start emailing people asking for a refund?

Is that what happens?

I cannot even remember what products I purchased a month or two ago unless I scan thru my Paypal transactions and start asking people for refunds.

Is this really what people do? Would there be any other reason?

Sometimes I am dumbfounded but I know it's just part of the territory.

I think I'll just say "NO" this time
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  • Profile picture of the author Steve Ranger
    Anything over 30 days really surprises me. As soon as I've paid for info I have a quick glance over it all and make a decision if it's worthwhile - if it is absolutely dreadful and I've been mislead I will request a refund if the guarantee is there. I'd never request one more than 30 days after purchase - it seems a bit wrong.

    I worry about the people that give 'lifetime guarantees' - if you say 'lifetime' you have to mean lifetime, and follow it through.

    Do what Jason Fladlien (from here actually) does, he attempts to sell something similar to them for a discount when they request a refund. Or says 'what can I do to make you stay' and does it for them, if they're on a continuity program they usually forget they ever complained and stay signed up. Tough work!
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  • Profile picture of the author Jesus Perez
    Pure buyers remorse. They suddenly remembered the purchase while cleaning the inbox and request a refund.
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  • Profile picture of the author ryangb74
    Originally Posted by winebuddy View Post

    Ya know - it's just another "refund request" rant.... and I get VERY FEW refund requests for my products.

    BUT:

    People buy something. They consume it. They use it or dream about it or whatever.

    A month goes by.

    A few more weeks go by.

    Then, out of the blue - they want a refund.

    Did they all of a sudden remember they had a light bill to pay? Or a phone bill and were a little short?

    Did they scan thru all of their Paypal purchases and just start emailing people asking for a refund?

    Is that what happens?

    I cannot even remember what products I purchased a month or two ago unless I scan thru my Paypal transactions and start asking people for refunds.

    Is this really what people do? Would there be any other reason?

    Sometimes I am dumbfounded but I know it's just part of the territory.

    I think I'll just say "NO" this time
    Personally, I don't care what you do, what you say, how big you write it on your Thank You Page -- when people get their CC statement or paypal statement they don't know what CLCKB*NK or whatever your payment processor is.

    I see this problem with Clickbank all the time. Instead of researching exactly what the charge is for, they simply ask for a refund, which Clickbank offers all too easily, even to the point of having a big link saying "Request Refund"

    There is nothing you can do about it, and it is partly due to the dumbing down of society and everyone wanting something for nothing.
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  • Profile picture of the author moniez
    I just got a chargeback for a sale that was made FIVE MONTHS AGO! I feel your pain.
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    • Profile picture of the author dave147
      Originally Posted by moniez View Post

      I just got a chargeback for a sale that was made FIVE MONTHS AGO! I feel your pain.
      Worse than that...

      How about getting a chargeback when they could have simply requested a refund!!!
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  • Profile picture of the author winebuddy
    just got this by email...

    after I asked why, after so long, they asked for a refund:

    My personal circumstances did not allow me to implement.
    It's alright Mike, I withdraw my request for a refund.
    And the buyer went on to ask a few questions...

    But still - after so long... WHAT'S UP WITH THAT?
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    • Profile picture of the author Black Hat Cat
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      Originally Posted by winebuddy View Post


      But still - after so long... WHAT'S UP WITH THAT?[/FONT]
      They asked for it when they decided they wanted a refund. Some of us actually keep up with where our money goes. What difference does it make when they ask anyway, as long as it's within the allowable time frame? Day one or day 59, it's the same refund.

      I asked for a refund on a clickbank product on day 58 a couple months ago. Why? Because the owner hadn't fully delivered on the product, and I had zero confidence he ever would, considering he had already moved on to his next product. Turns out I was right. 6 months after releasing that original product, he still hasn't completed it. And you know the funny(or sad) part? The new, recently released product he has been "slaving away" on for 6 months...the one he says kept him from finishing the original product....well, it's not complete either, lol. I'm sure he'll get to it any day now.

      Not.
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  • It sucks, but it happens.

    I just give them the refund,
    and go on about my business.

    Life's too short to worry about
    the one or two jerks that crawl
    out of the walls.

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  • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
    Originally Posted by winebuddy View Post

    I cannot even remember what products I purchased a month or two ago unless I scan thru my Paypal transactions and start asking people for refunds.
    I frequently go through a frenzy of buying stuff, and then don't have time to go through it all. So I store it in a special folder, and as I have time, I pull it out and go through it.

    It might be several weeks before I get to something. I have a course on using Camtasia which I bought about a month and a half ago. Haven't even unzipped it.

    I also have three inexpensive membership-site plugins for WordPress. One of them, I've had since December. One of these days, I'll get around to trying them. As it stands, I have three membership sites planned, but I haven't gone any further than registering the domains. The idea is that I'll put each plugin on one site, and whichever one I like best I'll migrate to the other two sites.

    Now, if I were the kind of person who asked for refunds, I can see potentially saying "I should never have bought this Camtasia course" and asking for a refund without ever looking at it. I can also see starting to watch it and saying "this course sucks arse" and asking for a refund. And with the membership plugins, I could see trying to get a refund for the two I don't use.

    But I'm not the kind of person who asks for refunds, ever, so none of those things will happen. I'm just figuring that if I were that kind of person, this is why I might ask for a refund long after the purchase.
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  • Profile picture of the author Johnny
    Just refund and keep moving. Save the trouble
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  • Profile picture of the author warriorkay
    Like someone here said, it's nothing but
    buyer's remorse, especially when they
    notice they spent more than they should
    and now have less money than they
    should,

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  • Profile picture of the author Damien Roche
    It's pretty sad really on the buyers part. The *only* reason somebody should ask for a refund is if the product is crap - which can be open to interpretation - and I'm in no doubt that's why so many rehashed bags of cat's ass still make lots of money.

    But that, I feel, is the *only* reason!!

    Actually, a second reason: if the buyer has been blatantly misled which, again, could be open to interpretation.

    It does rile me though and I don't even have a product yet! It's like buying a hamburger, eating half, chucking it in bin, letting it go moldy THEN returning a month later, fishing it out and taking it back to the counter for a refund.

    Just because I have a magic hamburger cloner doesn't mean you're getting a refund!

    BUT I would also agree on the above - despite the moral issues, it's often better to just issue a refund and be on your way.
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  • Profile picture of the author Cash37
    Broke ass people will remain broke.

    I just had someone literally send me an email "Hi may I haz refund?" along with another person who requested a FREE supplemental report then refunded days later. I wanted to give them some choice words but instead informed them they are on my blacklist and no longer welcome to my future products!!!!!
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  • Profile picture of the author hitext2
    Months? That's nothing...I got a refund request after three and a half years!

    The guy looked at his credit card statement one day and saw he had been paying our monthly membership fee ($47) for 42 months straight without realizing it. He wanted the whole lot refunded.

    Shame he didn't get it...
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  • Profile picture of the author humbledmarket
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    Wow,
    That does get annoying but at least it isn't a regular event for you. I'm guessing your product pricing is also on the higher range right? As another thread mentioned earlier those on the higher range for some reason get fewer charge back. I guess it really the type of consumer you're attracting.

    And the thing that makes it even worse is Paypal rarely sides with the vendor with online digital products as I've soon experienced.

    Anyways too bad I can't help much but I wish you all the Best.
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  • Profile picture of the author GeorgR.
    Some are "professionals" and know about the 60 days refund policy eg. on clickbank. And they refund on the very last day.
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    • Profile picture of the author theimdude
      I look at it this way. If a seller offer 60 day refund or 1 day refund honor it and don't debate it. Not sure why people that offer refunds and when they get asked for one they complain as if they complain it means they don't really want to give a refund.

      If I buy something from clickbank I buy it with the piece of mind that I can use it for 60 days. If at day 59 I valued the product whether I used it or not feel that is not of value to me I am at liberty to ask for a refund.
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      • Profile picture of the author Votoshka
        Well, the way I see it is you should give products a GOOD chance before you ask for a refund. UNLESS it is a useless pile of steaming dogs*#t of course... in which case it's better to request an immediate refund.

        I guess, if I put something to work, to the letter, and it honestly didn't work, it would seem reasonable to ask for a refund. AND it would probably be towards the end of the two months, because I'd have to have given it TIME!

        That being said, I have never asked for a refund, even when what I bought turned out to be rubbish.
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        • Profile picture of the author greff
          Originally Posted by Votoshka View Post

          Well, the way I see it is you should give products a GOOD chance before you ask for a refund. UNLESS it is a useless pile of steaming dogs*#t of course... in which case it's better to request an immediate refund.

          I guess, if I put something to work, to the letter, and it honestly didn't work, it would seem reasonable to ask for a refund. AND it would probably be towards the end of the two months, because I'd have to have given it TIME!

          That being said, I have never asked for a refund, even when what I bought turned out to be rubbish.
          Why won't you ask for a refund?
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          • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
            Originally Posted by greff View Post

            Why won't you ask for a refund?
            Speaking for myself, I don't ask for refunds because I think the inability to get my money's worth out of a product is my own failure - not the product creator's.

            And when getting a refund is not an option, you'll be surprised what you can come up with.
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            • Profile picture of the author Woody C
              Originally Posted by CDarklock View Post

              Speaking for myself, I don't ask for refunds because I think the inability to get my money's worth out of a product is my own failure - not the product creator's.
              I fully agree with this...if the product does what it says in the salespage.

              I would imagine that people that ask for refunds late bought the product with grand expectations of being able to make money without having to WORK (and the salespage may have even said this) then when they do nothing and realize they haven't made anything after a while, they just ask for a refund because they can't face up to the fact that they are the problem.
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  • Profile picture of the author M Thompson
    I had a clickbank refund request on a recurring billing after 10 months ...clickbank still refunded the last 2 months payments.

    I tried to get a straight answer from them as to why they fell that asking for a refund after 10 months actually justifies one.

    still not had a satisfactory answer
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  • Profile picture of the author greff
    Send a refund. It's better for you in many ways.
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    • Profile picture of the author bullseyemarketing
      I believe in the Costco return policy. I don't care how long it has been I will give a refund. And most of the time I tell them to keep the item. This is my experience from selling physical products online. I just consider it good customer service. I have found very few jerks who just want something for nothing. And there is that karma thing too.
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  • Profile picture of the author winebuddy
    I purchased a CB product becuase of one single part of the product that was mentioned. This was just a couple of weeks ago...

    After going thru what seemed like 10 upsell and downsell pages, I finally got to the product page. What was there? 3 videos that had been "removed for copyright infringement". The thing - the part that I wanted - was nowhere to be found.

    I not only asked for a refund, I informed CB of what was up and now the product has been taken down.

    So yeah - I think you should ask for refunds when warranted.
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  • Profile picture of the author Daniel Deegan
    Refund requests suck..but you never really know the truth behind the request. If in fact the person is just short on cash to pay a bill I still wouldn't sweat it. Life is to short and I rather focus on the goodness in things. If my giving them a refund helps them out of bind, I can live with that.

    Now if its a repeat offender thats a different story...

    If I keep getting refunds, well then the problem is me or my product...

    If it's just a normal or out of the blue refund...no biggie...I'll refund it with a smile and move along.

    I also have no problem personally asking for a refund if...

    1.Your product is ass...

    2.You oversold it to me in the sales letter and I don't think it worth what your charging...

    3.It's just not the right fit for me...

    I don't get this bullsh*t marketers creed where were not suppose to ask for refunds from other marketers, because we to are marketers...Forget that man, if I buy something from a brick and mortar store I have no problem getting a refund. Buying an information or digital product is no different for me.
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  • Profile picture of the author E. Brian Rose
    I received a refund request last week. The guy started by telling me what a great product I created, but said that he disagreed with one sentence that he pasted in the email for me. Because of this one sentence, he wanted a refund.

    I replied and asked if he would be implementing the rest of the course. He said that he had implemented it and that he made his first profit already.

    I refused the refund. He filed a dispute. I contested the dispute and pasted his email. I lost the dispute.
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    • Profile picture of the author sbucciarel
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      Originally Posted by E. Brian Rose View Post

      I received a refund request last week. The guy started by telling me what a great product I created, but said that he disagreed with one sentence that he pasted in the email for me. Because of this one sentence, he wanted a refund.

      I replied and asked if he would be implementing the rest of the course. He said that he had implemented it and that he made his first profit already.

      I refused the refund. He filed a dispute. I contested the dispute and pasted his email. I lost the dispute.
      That's why it's so frustrating and pointless to even pursue the dispute. Paypal will give them their money back if it's a digital product. I've had people download websites from me and 5 minutes later file a dispute ... never contacted me. Got their damned money back and get to keep the website to boot.
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    • Profile picture of the author keyaziz
      Why are people so negative?

      It can take a few months to try a product out - if it has to do with internet marketing and copying a process it can take a while to get set up initially and see if you can get decent results like the salespage always promises. Same with a weight loss product - if after following it for a month or so you see NO results then why not ask for a refund - I would.

      Personally I give any refund quests the benefit of the doubt - I don't automatically think the person is remorseful, trying to scam - I just think the product didn't suit them, even if they ask for a refund a month down the line.

      It wouldn't actually bother me if someone requested a refund and their real reason for doing so was because they needed the money to pay a bill - I guess because I know what its like to be poor and it's not nice...although I would prefer they be honest about it, it is understandable why one wouldn't.
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  • Profile picture of the author Fraggler
    Originally Posted by winebuddy View Post

    A month goes by.

    A few more weeks go by.

    Then, out of the blue - they want a refund.
    If you don't want people asking for a refund months after they purchased the product then don't make the refund deadling so long.
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  • Profile picture of the author Mike Schwenk
    I don't currently own any of my own products, however:

    If I had a solid product that required even a moderate amount of action to implement, then I would feel a lot better about refunds closer to the deadline.

    Why?

    Because that at least means there is a better chance they actually tried to make it work. Someone who purchases and is contacting you the next day for a refund would seem a lot more suspicious to me.

    Again, this is assuming the product is solid. If that isn't the case, then a refund would certainly be warranted.

    It must be tough owning digital products, knowing that this sort of thing happens. But, as mentioned, I guess that just comes with the territory.

    I think this is one reason why it would be beneficial to build a list with a solid foundation (i.e. - "relationship"). If you've bonded with your customers, they'd logically be less inclined to want to put one over on you.

    That's a general statement, of course - not directed at the op. I don't know how you run things. :-)

    Just my two cents.

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    • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
      Originally Posted by Mike Schwenk View Post

      Because that at least means there is a better chance they actually tried to make it work. Someone who purchases and is contacting you the next day for a refund would seem a lot more suspicious to me.
      A lot of products fail to mention what I need to make things work.

      Frank Kern's 4-Day Cash Machine only works if you have a list, and a product the list doesn't own that you can price however you want.

      And the usual reponse IMers have to that is that EVERYONE should be building a list (although not everyone is), and EVERYONE should have access to products they can price themselves. At the very least, head over to some PLR site and grab something there.

      But even if that's true, when someone is deciding whether to pay for your product (which they didn't have to with the 4DCM), he should know whether he's in a position to use it before he pulls out his credit card. If you say "anyone can do it" and you really mean "anyone with a list and his own products can do it," you should really be expecting refunds.
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  • Profile picture of the author Sarah Russell
    Sometimes I'm good, but most of the time, there's about a 1-2 month lag time between me buying something and then actually going through it and implementing it. And then, if I get to it and it sucks - and I'm within the deadline window - I'll request a refund.

    What kind of refund deadline do you have up? If you have a lifetime guarantee, change it to something you feel is more appropriate - a month or two, perhaps. You'll always get people who request refunds late, but at least then you can point them to your established policy.
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    • Profile picture of the author E. Brian Rose
      Originally Posted by Sarah Russell View Post


      And then, if I get to it and it sucks - and I'm within the deadline window - I'll request a refund.
      What about when you buy a book at Barnes and Nobles? Do you return it if you don't like it? How about when you rent a movie at Blockbuster? Do they give you a refund if it sucks?
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  • Profile picture of the author Pauline60
    I took ages to ask for a refund on something simply because I am a newbie and was afraid to stick my neck out and say I wasn't happy with the product I had bought. Actually I never received what was advertised.

    I never got the refund as the seller just ignored all of my communiactations.
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  • Profile picture of the author Pauline60
    I have had a refund at blockbusters twice, no argument invlolved, just told them what the problem was. Of course if I had simply not liked the film then i would not ever have though about a refund.

    Fisrt time - they put the wrong film in the box ( almost identical title but different classification).

    Second time film was worn and didn' t play properly.

    Blockbuster gave refund on both occasioans without difficulty.

    If the product is is not as was advertised then the seller should give refunds wthout question.
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    • Profile picture of the author E. Brian Rose
      Originally Posted by Pauline60 View Post

      I have had a refund at blockbusters twice, no argument invlolved, just told them what the problem was. Of course if I had simply not liked the film then i would not ever have though about a refund.

      Fisrt time - they put the wrong film in the box ( almost identical title but different classification).

      Second time film was worn and didn' t play properly.

      Blockbuster gave refund on both occasioans without difficulty.

      If the product is is not as was advertised then the seller should give refunds wthout question.
      I meant if you didn't like the movie.
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