Sorry, I never read your emails. I just don't want to hurt your feelings by unsubscribing!!!

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I counted up and found that I receive 17 email newsletters 2 or 3 times per week and I NEVER read them. In fact I don't even open them.

The only reason why I don't unsubscribe is because I don't want to hurt their feelings.

These are from people I have made aquaintances with on either this or other forums.

I did open them originally but seriously, they weren't very good and now I just don't bother.

Am I the only one who does this? Is anybody else in a similar situation?

It also got me thinking about some of my email campaigns. Having x amount of subscribers is no indication of how many emails are read.

It would be interesting to see if others do the same as me?

Gary
#emails #feelings #hurt #read #unsubscribing
  • Profile picture of the author lilhay
    Business is business!
    I seriously doubt you will hurt anyone's feelings for unsubscribing from their list.
    If you do, that person may want to find another profession other than internet marketing.
    Some people are going to remove themselves from your list eventually. This happens to everyone who has a email opt in list they have built for their business, products and services.
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    • Profile picture of the author garyfromdurham
      Originally Posted by lilhay View Post

      Business is business!
      I seriously doubt you will hurt anyone's feelings for unsubscribing from their list.
      If you do, that person may want to find another profession other than internet marketing.
      Some people are going to remove themselves from your list eventually. This happens to everyone who has a email opt in list they have built for their business, products and services.
      The people I'm referring to are not just random publishers....these are people who I have friendly correspondence with either by PM or email, so I think that they might be slightly offended by seeing my unsubscribe message

      Gary
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      • Profile picture of the author Ron Douglas
        Originally Posted by garyfromdurham View Post

        The people I'm referring to are not just random publishers....these are people who I have friendly correspondence with either by PM or email, so I think that they might be slightly offended by seeing my unsubscribe message

        Gary
        How would they even know that you unsubscribed? Can't you just hit the unsubscribe button without leaving a message?

        If they're really friends, maybe it would be helpful for them to know what they can do to improve.
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      • Profile picture of the author peterj
        Originally Posted by garyfromdurham View Post

        The people I'm referring to are not just random publishers....these are people who I have friendly correspondence with either by PM or email, so I think that they might be slightly offended by seeing my unsubscribe message

        Gary
        Well there's a good chance that those people who are from this forum might be 'slightly offended' if they read this! :p
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  • Profile picture of the author Mike Schwenk
    Hey Gary,

    I was just thinking about this yesterday. I also receive several newsletters every day and barely read them. I'm not sure why I haven't bothered to opt-out.

    Perhaps, subconciously, I'm in the same boat as you. However, I've made a promise to myself lately to not let myself be distracted by several things at once. So, I think in the process of making things a bit more simple, I might just unsubscribe to a few.

    The only ones that I actually read are from Clayton Makepeace, Drayton Bird and any that come through from Namecheap or Hostgator.

    -Mike
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    • Profile picture of the author Mike Schwenk
      In retrospect...

      If you are saying that the lists you're on aren't that great, chances are you aren't alone.

      In that case, is it possible that they may already be experiencing poor conversions and want to condense their list to save space/costs for their service? Or at least "improve" their conversions and change their perception of how successful their marketing is.

      I'm not very familiar with how much detail those services give you in regard to who clicks your links specifically. But if they are looking to condense their list and can't tell where to start, you might be doing them a favor, no?

      Again, I'm not very experienced with e-mail marketing but I just thought I'd throw that out there.

      -Mike
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  • Profile picture of the author Ty Neal
    I think a lot of people do that, that is why u have another email address for joining people list and you check that email for nice headline and ad copy,

    most people on your list maybe doing the same thing, That's why it important to have an attention grabber headline that make them want to click on your email

    Ty Neal
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  • Profile picture of the author George Wright
    It's been said a lot here lately and your OP gives reason to say it again.

    "It's a numbers game."

    Super Markets send out tens of thousands of ad papers, a large number of them don't make it from the mail box to the house as they are put in file 13 before the "customer" reaches the house.

    There is a lady who stands on the street in LA giving an expensive glossy flyer to all who pass by. A block away the trash can is full of flyers.

    I guess the difference is the "merchant" knows when we unsubscribe if he/she checks stats.

    I know when I get the dreaded unsubscribe it hurts my feelings so much so please, please don't unsubscribe if you get an email from me. I'll simply die.


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  • Profile picture of the author dndoseller
    I have an email address that I only use for subscribing to get free downloads that I dont even check. It has about 5,000 unread emails in it. I use my real email if I know and trust the source and I really need to get the emails for instance the official google or wordpress blogs.
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  • Profile picture of the author ZILLIONAIRE
    simply unsubscribed no harm done! would they care if you didn't make any money by using their methods!! i don't think so!
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  • Profile picture of the author Mukul Verma
    Its a #s game is right.

    Here is what I do
    1. I just set up a command to move them into a folder and if I ever get around to it (there are 3500 unread emails there now), I get around to it.

    Now people I know personally who unsubscribe from me, I dont care. Listen I like giving really really good info only to me list once in a while as a thank you. Those who remove would not get that information, so its not my loss, its thier choice.

    I had one guy tell me, well I did not know that, you should have told me. I emailed my list that info, if you unsubscribed, its your choice

    Nothing personal, its business.

    Cheers,
    Mukul
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    • Profile picture of the author LawForYourWebsite
      Volume overload.

      I unsubscribe as soon as I realise I haven't clicked into a newsletter for a month. Never going to have the time to go back to it.

      I also unsubscribe from anyone who sends me a dozen emails in the first week. Drives me nuts! Don't have time to skim everything, so I often filter on volume rather before even getting to content.
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  • Not long ago I unsubscribed from like 95% of the newsletters I was subscribed to because A) sheer volume and B) most of them simply promote stuff.

    I really like it now with my uncluttered email inbox
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  • Profile picture of the author sbucciarel
    Banned
    No ... I just hit unsubscribe if I don't want to receive it any longer. If they take it personally, they're not very professional to start with.
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  • Profile picture of the author R Hagel
    As Ron said, just go ahead and unsubscribe without leaving a message. Depending on what type of autoresponder service they're using, they probably won't even know.

    But consider this (Mike Schwenk above started to address this point):

    Most people run their lists through services like Aweber, GetResponse or any number of other similar services that charge by list size and/or number of emails sent per month. If you're just uselessly taking up space on the list, you could be costing this person money.

    Some list owners are sitting right on the line where they have to pay more for their service due to their number of subscribers. If you and other non-interested parties left the list, maybe they'd save some money (by dropping into the lower service fee bracket) while having a more responsive list.

    It's like going to a busy restaurant and just ordering water. You're sitting there taking up a table. That costs the restaurant owner and the servers money, because if you weren't sitting there then a real customer could take your place.

    Think about it. If your friend owned this restaurant, he'd politely tell you to order something... or leave.

    It shouldn't be all that different just because you're online.

    Cheers,
    Becky
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  • Profile picture of the author JayXtreme
    Unsubscribe.

    Seriously, if they are runnin any kind of decent sized list, you would simply become a stat.

    No major worrying.
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  • Profile picture of the author MassiveMarketer
    That's business and they should also know that. They just have to handle that. Unsubscribe if the newsletters don't help you. You are a customer, it's your choice and if it's bugging you, make it stop.
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    • Profile picture of the author sanssecret
      I'm with Becky on this one. A lot of people are paying the autoresponder service based on the number of subscribers. You're costing them money by being there.

      I make it a habit to check my own lists and regularly delete folks who are just taking up space. I figure a lot of them can't be bothered to hit the unsubscribe, or can't remember signing up, or are so overwhelmed with emails from more well known 'gurus' that mine are just getting lost in there. Whatever the reason, I'm not prepared to pay out extra money just so I can say I have X number of folks on my list.

      If some of these listowners are your mates, then let them know in your regular emails that you're unsubscribing and why. I'm sure none of them will take it as a personal insult.
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