Domain Screwed...Need Advice (RESOLVED)

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I have a problem and it's my own damn fault, so before anybody starts giving
me a lecture, yeah, I know...dumb. But I'm trying to fix it and don't know how.

Here's the story.

Many years ago, when I wasn't as savvy as I am now, I joined this program
where one of the perks was getting a domain and hosting for free. All I had
to do was give the person the domain I wanted, so I did. There were other
perks too. It was really a great package.

Well, I did very little with the domain at first. But gradually, I started to
monetize it and now it's making a nice chunk of change. Plus, I intend to
do a lot more with it next year.

I started to realize that I didn't want this person in control of this domain
any longer. Yes, it's in HIS name. It's not that I don't trust him. I've known
him for 4 years now and he seems like a decent guy. It's just that what if
something happens to him?

The domain is in HIS name. If he dies or something, I'm screwed.

But here's what really concerns me.

Last year, I asked him to let me take over paying for the domain and he
said not to worry about it, that as long as I was in his program he would
continue paying for the domain and hosting. Since I am a lifetime member
(cost me $300 4 years ago) that means I'm always going to be in his
program. Still, I wanted to take the responsibility myself.

If it were me, I would have just said, okay, I'll transfer it over to you.

He didn't.

This year, just a couple of days ago, I contacted him again about it.

Haven't heard back yet.

I'm afraid that, for whatever reason, he wants to hold onto this domain
and doesn't want to give it to me. Legally, I have no grounds to stand on.

He paid for it.

It's in HIS name.

I'm screwed and I know it.

Question is, is there ANYTHING I can do?

I expect this domain to start making me a lot of money soon and the
thought of losing it just makes me sick.

Yes, I should have known better and never took this offer. But it was at
a time when I was more concerned about the other perks than the
domain. That was just an afterthought.

Any suggestions on what to do will be greatly appreciated.
#advice #domain #screwedneed
  • Profile picture of the author Kieron
    Could it not be argued that domain name is the intellectual property of your company? this comes up a lot when partnerships breakdown, who owns what and normally regardless of which person registered the domain it is considered part and parcel of the company.

    I would imagine a good place to start is back when you registered for the service, what were the terms and conditions of the products and services offered at the time? have they been amended and if so when and what notice was provided to. You paid for the service but it could be argued that you own the domain unless it states otherwise, by the sound of it this could well be the case.

    Don't just assume your screwed as you have put it...go find out for sure. Then and only then you can beat yourself up.

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    • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
      Originally Posted by Kieron View Post

      Could it not be argued that domain name is the intellectual property of your company? this comes up a lot when partnerships breakdown, who owns what and normally regardless of which person registered the domain it is considered part and parcel of the company.

      I would imagine a good place to start is back when you registered for the service, what were the terms and conditions of the products and services offered at the time? have they been amended and if so when and what notice was provided to. You paid for the service but it could be argued that you own the domain unless it states otherwise, by the sound of it this could well be the case.

      Don't just assume your screwed as you have put it...go find out for sure. Then and only then you can beat yourself up.

      Kieron

      There were no contracts signed. I just signed up with a program that
      said you get XYZ. I assumed that meant it was mine for as long as I
      was a member OR the site went out of business.

      As I know nothing about law, and at the time knew very little about
      protecting my property, I didn't give this a second thought. The other
      perks, honestly, if they went away now, I wouldn't even care. What
      mattered to me the most then mean the least to me now.

      Things change.

      As I said, I was naive back then and didn't think that I'd care about this
      domain if anything happened to it.

      But no, there were no signings of any contracts. It was all just in the
      sales letter that I paid through.
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    • Profile picture of the author Monika Mundell
      Hi Steven,

      Maybe these links will shed some light on intellectual property rights with domain names:
      Internet Domain Name Disputes: Some Questions and Answers
      Cybersquatting - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
      10 US Laws Every Domainer Needs to Know

      If all else fails you could always consider hiring a lawyer, especially if your anticipated income from that site will be higher than the cost of hiring legal counsel.

      Best of luck in getting your domain.
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  • Profile picture of the author eaglechick
    Geez Steven

    I really feel for you - Unfortunately I'm not an expert on this. Maybe Alexa Smith can help out - she would make one heck of a fierce lawyer and is pretty clued up on a lot of stuff. Or what about "Caliban". I truly hope you can get a solution for this.

    It's a pity this guy don't want to co-operate and do the right thing, but is the "way the cookie crumble" - I've never seen you so "down" in any of your posts - Just hang in there - someone will come up with the "perfect" solution!

    Good luck!
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  • Profile picture of the author AceOfShirts
    Maybe if you offer to host a new domain name (or maybe a couple more) with him he will trade you control of the domain name you want from him. Just be careful it's not a domain name that you will have to go through this again with.

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  • Profile picture of the author txconx
    Yes, you're screwed unless he voluntarily transfers it to you. He bought it, it's in his name and you have no contract saying that he bought the domain for you.

    I would call him on the phone and talk to him to get a feel for how willing he would be to transfer the name to your account. Make sure you have an account with the same registrar, so it's an easy push.

    If you can't get him to transfer it, see if you can get him to put your information in as the contact. If something happens, you can contact the registrar and go through the process to provide your ID and get it transferred to you. Messier, but probably doable. He could, of course, refuse to do it or change the registration information back to his own at any time, but if he won't transfer it, it's better than nothing.

    Then let this be a lesson for everyone - never EVER have someone else buy a domain name for you.
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  • Profile picture of the author AndyBeard
    Explain to him that you want all your assets under your own control - freaky things can happen with security as daily people get trojans, break-ins etc. Legally it is interesting - I am not a lawyer If the domain has your name in it he hasn't got a chance in hell. If you have invested 4 years in your domain there is a good chance trademark law can help you. Ultimately people are in general good, and there is a high chance they will just transfer it to you especially in the days of social media and negative SEO.
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  • Profile picture of the author theemperor
    Steven,

    I am no expert but I would like to throw another option in the mix:

    Apply for a trademark under the domain name under question. E.g. if it is superdiscountshoes.com then apply for a trademark for "Super Discount Shoes" and then you may have more ground to stand on.

    Obviously get a good lawyer and chat to him or her about it.

    Another option is to redirect that domain to a new domain you do own and start there. It will kill your SEO in the short term but you may get this back in the longer term of course you kind of have to start again with backlinking and all that. But at least you will get the old domain traffic from day 1 because of the redirection.
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  • Strictly from a legal point of view, it would largely depend on any verbage in the contract that was "electronically or otherwise signed/agreed" upon. If their is no legal language in the contract pertaining to the registration and control of the domain, under ICANN rules the purchaser and owner of the domain would be in control of the domain.

    If you were to contest the domain you would have to file a Dispute with ICANN under their Uniform Domain Name Dispute Resolution Policy (UDRP). The cost to file the arbitration is $1500 to be decided among one panelist and $4000 to be decided among three panelists.

    While you do not need a lawyer to submit your argument to the arbitration board, its advisable since they would be better prepared to argue the legal merits of your case pertaining to ICANN rules.

    Unfortunately, in your situation the person in control of the domain has a lot greater legal ground to stand on than you. And its probably wise to contact an Intellectual Property attorney familiar with ICANN rulings for a consultation before spending a fortune in legal and filing fees only to find out you don't have a case.
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  • Profile picture of the author sbucciarel
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    Unfortunately, since he paid for and registered the domain, I doubt that there is anything you can do to get it in your name without his cooperation. Since you are a lifetime member, it is really unreasonable of him not to turn it over to you. I think that's just plain bad business.
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    • Profile picture of the author Kay King
      Steve -

      I can't believe some of what I'm reading here. If you want a lawyer - get a LAWYER!!!! You know that.

      However, there were terms and conditions when you bought years ago that you agreed to. You have requested the seller change the agreement - and he has declined.

      You can call him to see if an arrangement can be reached - or you may be reassured that there is not plan to abandon the domain...or you.

      You can decide not to pursue developing the site further.

      You can put in a backup order on the domain so you have a chance to get it in the future.

      Or - you can listen to forum members telling you what you can do to move AGAINST someone who has kept his part of the bargain and has done nothing wrong to you.

      Can't see you choosing some of these options, Steve, any more than I would.

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      • Profile picture of the author theemperor
        Originally Posted by Kay King View Post

        Or - you can listen to forum members telling you what you can do to move AGAINST someone who has kept his part of the bargain and has done nothing wrong to you.
        Kay, I'm afraid business is business sometimes ... not all decisions are easy and if this domain is as valuable as Steve makes it sound, some pre-emptive action might be wise.

        I agree with you that he should see a lawyer ahead of taking our advice but now he has a few ideas if he want's to go down the legal route.

        Or he could carry on having the domain owned by someone else and that'll probably be fine to be honest, it depends how much security is needed, and how much he trusts the owner if this were to become a $10k, $100k or $1M domain in the future.

        It's all about options and there are some good options in this thread.
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        • Profile picture of the author Jill Carpenter
          Well, on the flip side of the coin if you were ever sued - that particular site/domain would be in safe territory (it sounds like but I could be wrong).

          You could begin directing that traffic/site to a different site now.

          (can you get the .co ? there are a lot of those to grab and now is the time)

          Perhaps if you are comfortable with the hosting and him paying to renew the domain every year you could approach him to ask what you should do should anything ever happen to him. Let him know you don't wish him ill, but should the circumstance arrive you'd like to know that you can keep your business in tact. Ask him what the provisions are that he has in place for this type of event.

          Also, ask about what if you wanted to actually sell the site and domain. Tell him you've had offers - see what he says.
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        • Profile picture of the author Kay King
          Business is business - and an agreement is your word.

          Hopefully, negotiation will work if you explain your concerns. If it doesn't, get a plan b for the site.
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          • Profile picture of the author edlewis
            Offer to buy the domain from him. If it's making you money, it shouldn't be a problem.
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          • Originally Posted by Kay King View Post

            Business is business - and an agreement is your word.

            Hopefully, negotiation will work if you explain your concerns. If it doesn't, get a plan b for the site.
            Yes very good point, while business is indeed business, Steven's case isn't entirely too uncommon. I have had several clients over the years who's "webmaster" registered and hosted their domain, and when they asked to regain control and have their domain transferred to them were met with demands for more money or refusal altogether.
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            • Profile picture of the author rainyclayday
              Is it possible this person will read this thread? If so, they now know how desperately you want the domain and you might have just increased its perceived value to the domain name owner.

              But anyway, I was going to suggest to just offer him a nice chunk of change and see if he will sell it. Money usually talks, and maybe that is what he is waiting for.
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  • Profile picture of the author Damien Roche
    Looks like he's got you by the b**** if he so pleases. Do you have access to the original terms of purchase for the program? There may be something in there which could help you.

    Here's what I would do..
    ..come to WF and ask for advice

    I'm as stumped as you. Live and learn.
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  • Profile picture of the author derekwong28
    If he does not cooperate, it would be extremely difficult for you to get hold of it. If this turns out to be the case, I would start winding down the domain. This is what I would do

    1. Register a new domain
    2. Do a 301 redirect from the old domain to the new domain.

    In time, the new domain would take over the existing backlinks, pagerank and serps. So that if it is dropped eventually, you will only lose some type in traffic..


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  • Profile picture of the author Rob Thayer
    I spoke to my attorney briefly about this. Really what it comes down to is the verbage used in your original contract for the membership site. If they reference "owning" the domain name as one of the features of membership, and you maintain that membership (which you do, lifetime), then you can force him to transfer the domain to you.
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  • Profile picture of the author eaglechick
    You're head will probably be spinning around with all the advice - but I've owned an offline construction business for 25 years - and you don't know the type of people you have to deal with - I agee IM is not "offline" business.

    Lawyers fees could run into thousands of dollars - but will you succeed in the end? Unless you can negotiate a no results - no fees agreement with you lawyer. Until this day offline clients still owe me in excess of close to $40 000 almost triple the amount of lawyer fees later with no results I'm still the one that looses out. And I've practically "gave my left kidney" to please the clients in question.

    The guy I recommended - Jeff Herring just bought up all the possible domain names and is really a decent bloke and did a redirect to the new domains - Chris Knight agreed to put his staff on to doing all the article stuff (being a respected marketer on EZA I'm sure he'll do the same for you)

    Honestly I'm with the emporer, derekwong, avenuegril and alexa - but I know you probably think who am I to give you advice - but surely you'll respect advice from Caliban

    In the end it's your decision - Do whatever you feel is going to be in your best interest.
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    • Profile picture of the author BillyBee
      Just buy him out. Everyone has a price! And do it now before that site starts raking in more money; you'll be able to ask for a lower price that way.

      Thanks for posting this as a cautionary tale. Very understandable mistake, by the way.
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  • Profile picture of the author Sojourn
    Steven - Since I've sponged off of all the free info you've provided in this forum I feel obligated to throw in my 2 cents (which may be worth less than that but it's all I got!)

    Besides all the get a lawyer or trademark routes mentioned, my first inclination would be to find an easier way. I'm of the opinion everyone has a "price". This may or may not be actual money.

    Idea #1
    He gets something from this arrangement. I'm not familiar with the set up but there's some reason he offers this service. Is it just the one-time $300? If so, there would be no reason for him not to let you have it back in exchange for something. Since he's declined to let the domain go there must be something else in it for him. What is it?

    Not familiar with the arrangement my guesses would be:
    1. Some sort of backlinks to his own sites?
    2. Better rate for the cost of his services on the back end the more domains he owns?
    3. Betting on a default rate which leaves him some share of aged domains?
    I don't know, but there is something. He said no for a reason and I'm sure he didn't disclose to you his most critical, underlying reason but if you can figure out what that is and understand its value to him you might be able to offer something in exchange that's worth more. Leverage. If it's the aged domains he wants offer to buy him one with similar characteristics as yours in exchange. Something along those lines.

    Idea #2
    You have an invaluable set of skills and experience and somewhere in there is likely something you could use to barter with him in exchange for the domain. For example, you might try saying "In exchange for the domain, I'd be willing to:
    1. Send my list a recommendation of your service. You said you'd been pleased with him for 4 years. Yes, you know now that it wasn't ideal but maybe the service is valuable to someone else who is new or has limited resources.
    2. Write 10 articles about your service and distribute them to 50 article directories. (some variation on the theme)
    3. Build some promotional web 2.0 properties that point to his money site.
    I'm sure you know enough to be able to analyze his site, his backlinks, his competition, his seo efforts and see if there is a gap that you could help him fill in exchange for ownership of the domain. Make it juicy, irresistible, tempting. Mention numbers. Make it very hard for him to say no but don't make it your best possible offer up front. If he says no, counter-offer.

    Idea #3
    I assume that what is bringing traffic and making sales is mostly your content - which he does not own. If that's true, do you have the option of moving your content? I realize this is not ideal and would require a lot of re-work to rank a new domain but in the end you'd own the domain and control its future.

    Maybe sift through those ideas and come up with a few options. Draft an email that explains to him that you have come to a cross-roads with this domain - that you must either own the domain to continue building it or that you will have to consider focusing your efforts elsewhere. Explain your preference for owning the domain but that you have evaluated a number of other options regarding the content, as well.

    Play on your four years as a good customer. Play to the relationship. Compliment his business model. Explain that you understand this is business but that as a result of your long standing relationship you feel obligated to let him know where you stand at the moment. Tell him that ideally you'd like the outcome to be a win-win for both of you. Tell him you'd like to give him a chance to boost his bottom line as a result. If you're fairly certain what the domain means to him through evaluation of his model, offer him something of value in exchange for ownership of the domain. If you're uncertain, ask him for ideas. Let him know that you have built up a number of valuable resources in online marketing. Ask him an open-ended question like "What would it take for me to obtain ownership of this domain?"

    His response should be fairly telling. Or lack of response. I realize he hasn't responded to your last email. You might do some checking around, check his online haunts if you know them, is he active? Do a whois request for contact information and try to reach him by snail mail, too, if the domain is worth the effort.

    My thoughts.
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  • Profile picture of the author Scott Ames
    Simple. Hire a hit man. The guy will not renew and you pick up the domain.
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  • Profile picture of the author LilBlackDress
    I always tell my kids you don't ask you don't get.

    So you asked but it sounds like you asked in a way that did not make it clear how much you want the site. He said he would continue to pay etc and not to worry.
    So then you emailed him again.

    In this email did you make it very clear what your feelings are? Did you spell out that you are concerned about what could happen to the site and that you want to take it to the next level and you want it in your name no ifs ands or buts.

    Or did you simply indicate you want it because you are afraid that spelling it out will not give you the desired result.

    IF you have clearly expressed your desire and you know he has heard you and he will not give you then site, then it makes no sense for you to continue to build it up. You have the decision then to fight it or to give it up.

    Since he has a membership site it seems that you should be able to communicate to other members how he is treating a verbal agreement you had and he would want to make sure you are happy.

    So bottomline, call him, email him again and make your desire very very clear if you haven't already. And if you have Commonsense would tell you not to continue building up a site someone will not turn over to you.
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  • Profile picture of the author Trent Brownrigg
    I say just do everything in your power to get in contact with him and if you do then explain why you want the domain. He should give it to you if he is an ethical businessman in any sense of the word.
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  • Profile picture of the author Janedoe
    I agree on just offering to buy it from him first. If that doesn't work I would move the content to a new domain and put a subtle notice up on the old domain with the new domain name. Then start contacting site owners to update their links to point to the new domain and get some new, fresh high quality links to the new domain that the old domain doesn't have. (If you 301 the domain the people you have links from now may not see the need for them to update their links.)

    It will work. I just did this for someone in a similar situation where a bitter, ex-webmaster wouldn't release his domain and got the new site ranking pretty quick. Once as many of your old links as you can get have been pointed to the new domain, take your content off the old domain. If the domain owner tries to restore the old content then file DMCA requests against the domain owner for copyright infringement.

    This only works if you own the copyright on the content, otherwise you will have to create new content for the new site besides starting over with a new domain.
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  • Profile picture of the author Will Edwards
    Hi Stephen

    Personally, I believe that your answer lies in finding a win-win solution. That, of course, means listening to what this person wants in return for the transfer. When you fully understand his position, the two of you can creatively brainstorm the solution.

    "Seek first to understand, then be understood" - Stephen R Covey

    Good luck,

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  • Profile picture of the author TimG
    Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

    Well, I did very little with the domain at first. But gradually, I started to
    monetize it and now it's making a nice chunk of change. Plus, I intend to
    do a lot more with it next year.

    I expect this domain to start making me a lot of money soon and the
    thought of losing it just makes me sick.
    Steven,
    I highlighted the two parts I wanted to address from your original post. Understand that the domain makes you a nice chunk of change right now but it has the potential to make much more.

    My question is how much more and based off what? If the increase is based on work you will be performing on behalf of the site could you not simply leave this site in place (while attempting to secure it) and instead build another site in the same niche with a similar domain name?

    Realize that is probably not an answer you are lookign for but my gut tells me that anyone who knows how to purchase domains and operate as a host provider is probably smart enough to know how valuable the domain he loans you truly is.

    In fact, chances are he is probably kicking himself in the butt for allowing you a lifetime deal for $300 based on the potential for the domain in question.

    Resepctfully,
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  • Profile picture of the author JayXtreme
    Is it only me who sees this as a non issue?...

    If a domain is making "a nice chunk of change".. then it can very easily be replaced with another domain, in the same niche, with very little work. And from this point, you can roll up the income on the new site as you expected to do with the current one.

    You know exactly what SEO and content work you have done on this domain, so outranking and beating it shouldn't be a problem.

    Do this. Remove all content from the earlier domain and then remove yourself from the control of this guy.

    Aren't you over-thinking it a little, Steve?

    And having said all that... Nobody should really be taking legal advice on a forum. Consult a lawyer who specializes in this kind of work..

    Although I think they would tell you, If you wish to pursue this in an official capacity, you are going to lose if the guy wants to keep control.

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    • Profile picture of the author Jill Carpenter
      Originally Posted by JayXtreme View Post

      Is it only me who sees this as a non issue?...
      I think what would really p*ss me off is that I spent time building links to a site that I don't even have the option to sell the domain name. We have no idea the value to what he has right now - so it's hard to tell.

      I'm sure he can sell on a fresh domain - but it definitely adds to the work load.
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    • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
      Originally Posted by JayXtreme View Post


      Aren't you over-thinking it a little, Steve?
      No, I'm not. I shouldn't have to move all that content. I shouldn't have
      to start all over. I shouldn't have to do anything but just business as
      usual.

      I'll leave my response at that because if I say anything else I will only
      regret it.
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      • Profile picture of the author JayXtreme
        Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

        No, I'm not. I shouldn't have to move all that content. I shouldn't have
        to start all over. I shouldn't have to do anything but just business as
        usual.

        I'll leave my response at that because if I say anything else I will only
        regret it.
        :rolleyes:

        It's not HIS fault that YOU want the deal changing now. You signed up under his terms. Period.
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        • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
          Originally Posted by JayXtreme View Post

          :rolleyes:

          It's not HIS fault that YOU want the deal changing now. You signed up under his terms. Period.
          No, it's not. And as I said in my original post, I was dumb back them.

          Not the point. Point is, I should be able to find a way to work this out
          without having to start all over.
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      • Profile picture of the author Joe Mobley
        Steven,

        Am I missing something?

        YOU say YOU have e-mails from this guy saying that he bought this domain name for YOU as part of a service YOU paid for.

        I'm thinking that almost any attorney would make short work of this... in your favor.

        Anyway, please keep us posted. You have us on the edge of our seats.


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        • Profile picture of the author sanssecret
          I have no idea how this would work out. I hope it works out in your favour because you're the one who's put the work into it.

          Having said that, a HUGE thanks to you for posting it. I got a free domain as part of my web hosting package. Given that I'm not particularly impressed with the hosting, I'll probably be moving my sites when the renewal comes up.

          Luckily I just had to click a link to get an authorisation code to transfer the domain so at least I'm not screwed. But if it hadn't been that simple, I dread to think where I'd have ended up. I wouldn't have a clue of where to start or what to do otherwise.

          Really hope you get this sorted Steven. And thanks again for the lesson.
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          • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
            Okay, this has been resolved.

            1. The domain is now under both our names.

            2. The domain was renewed for 10 years and I paid for half of it.

            3. As a side benefit, after a nice phone conversation, we have decided to
            do a JV together that should prove to be quite profitable for both of us.

            To those who said I should just pack up my marbles and put my content
            on another domain, as I said, there should be a way for two reasonable
            people to work something out.
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            • Profile picture of the author sbucciarel
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              Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

              Okay, this has been resolved.

              1. The domain is now under both our names.

              2. The domain was renewed for 10 years and I paid for half of it.

              3. As a side benefit, after a nice phone conversation, we have decided to
              do a JV together that should prove to be quite profitable for both of us.

              To those who said I should just pack up my marbles and put my content
              on another domain, as I said, there should be a way for two reasonable
              people to work something out.
              That's a nice solution. Still not sure why "your" domain should remain in his name at all, but if you're happy with this ... it's all good.
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              • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
                Originally Posted by sbucciarel View Post

                That's a nice solution. Still not sure why "your" domain should remain in his name at all, but if you're happy with this ... it's all good.
                Don't really care if it's in his name as long as I have as much control over
                renewing it as he does. He has no interest in doing anything with it other
                than having it as part of his domain collection. Not sure what he gets out
                of that but it doesn't matter. And since I will keep all profits from my
                content (out JV is with something else entirely different) I'm fine with it.

                The only thing that would make this significant would be if I decide to sell
                the domain someday. He would get half of the sale. But since I plan on
                running this domain until I die (at which time my business will just fold up
                as my wife and daughter want no part of it) there won't be any sale in
                the future.

                So it's a total win-win for me.

                I get the domain for what I need it for AND I got a hold of a guy who is
                a very successful marketer in his own right to JV with on a MMO product.

                It doesn't get better than that.
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            • Profile picture of the author Jill Carpenter
              Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

              Okay, this has been resolved.

              1. The domain is now under both our names.

              2. The domain was renewed for 10 years and I paid for half of it.

              3. As a side benefit, after a nice phone conversation, we have decided to
              do a JV together that should prove to be quite profitable for both of us.

              To those who said I should just pack up my marbles and put my content
              on another domain, as I said, there should be a way for two reasonable
              people to work something out.
              Oh! Would love to know how the joint domain ownership is done.

              Anyway, glad to hear you came to a mutually beneficial arrangement. Perhaps we can hear some detail about it Friday.
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              • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
                Originally Posted by avenuegirl View Post

                Oh! Would love to know how the joint domain ownership is done.

                Anyway, glad to hear you came to a mutually beneficial arrangement. Perhaps we can hear some detail about it Friday.
                It's simple. He took my info and added it to the registrar info. Now, either
                one of us can renew when the time comes.

                The only way I can see this as becoming a problem is if he wants to sell
                the domain and I don't want to or visa versa. I just don't see that
                becoming an issue for either of us, but if it does, I will cross that bridge
                when I get to it.
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                • Profile picture of the author Joe Mobley
                  Mmm... This doesn't smell good at all.

                  The only way I can see this as becoming a problem is if he wants to sell the domain and I don't want to or visa versa.
                  Or he gets divorced and has to sell everything to get ca$h for the soon-to-be ex-wife.

                  Or he dies and everything gets to go through probate.

                  Or he and his wife dies and the kids want to divvy up dad's digital empire.

                  Or he gets sued and has a lien on everything he owns short of some aging body parts.


                  No no no... I think you may feel better. I remain unconvinced that you are better.

                  I do hope though, that this works out well for you. Only time will tell.


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                  • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
                    Originally Posted by DigitalJoe View Post

                    Mmm... This doesn't smell good at all.

                    Or he gets divorced and has to sell everything to get ca for the soon-to-be ex-wife.

                    Or he dies and everything gets to go through probate.

                    Or he and his wife dies and the kids want to divvy up dad's digital empire.

                    Or he gets sued and has a lien on everything he owns short of some aging body parts.


                    No no no... I think you may feel better. I remain unconvinced that you are better.

                    I do hope though, that this works out well for you. Only time will tell.


                    Joe

                    Okay, first of all, all sales that go through this domain go to MY PayPal,
                    Clickbank or other affiliate program account (mostly checks). This person
                    has NO idea how much money I'm making with the domain. All he can see,
                    if he really wants to look, is how much traffic I'm getting.

                    So what money is he going to get out of me? For that matter, he'll have
                    no idea what that domain is worth to anybody who wants to put a lien
                    on his property or whatever. And if he gives the domain to his heirs in his
                    will and they want to sell it or whatever, great, they can sell it to me.

                    They'll have no idea how much it's worth and I'm under no obligation to
                    disclose my income from this domain to them as their is no contract
                    stating that I have to share anything with this person.

                    Just as he didn't have to give me the domain, I don't have to give him a
                    dime of my income from it. He did what he did willingly as I offered to pay
                    for half the renewal willingly (even though he had been paying for this
                    domain out of his own pocket for years.)

                    And if his family WANTS to make a court case out of it, all I have to do
                    is point out the initial agreement from years ago that simply states for
                    $300 I get X, Y and Z. It says nothing about him getting any income from
                    me or anything else.

                    On top of that, I've known this guy for years and we're now working on
                    a project where I am going to be bringing him in a boat load of money.

                    In a few words, no, I am NOT worried.
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              • Profile picture of the author Sonomacats
                Congratulations on finding a positive solution that works for you.

                Even better, you got an additional positive deal out of it beyond what you originally wanted.

                Sometimes it's just about being heard, as well as hearing what the other person is saying.

                Very cool.
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            • Profile picture of the author JayXtreme
              Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

              Okay, this has been resolved.

              1. The domain is now under both our names.

              2. The domain was renewed for 10 years and I paid for half of it.

              3. As a side benefit, after a nice phone conversation, we have decided to
              do a JV together that should prove to be quite profitable for both of us.

              To those who said I should just pack up my marbles and put my content
              on another domain, as I said, there should be a way for two reasonable
              people to work something out.
              A fairytale ending.. what more could you ask for?

              Happy for you, Steve!

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            • Profile picture of the author TimG
              Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

              Okay, this has been resolved.

              1. The domain is now under both our names.

              2. The domain was renewed for 10 years and I paid for half of it.

              3. As a side benefit, after a nice phone conversation, we have decided to
              do a JV together that should prove to be quite profitable for both of us.

              To those who said I should just pack up my marbles and put my content
              on another domain, as I said, there should be a way for two reasonable
              people to work something out.
              Good deal.....glad to see this worked out for you and looks like some of us learned a little during this thread about joint domain ownership. I was not aware that could happen.


              Thanks,
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  • Profile picture of the author Popstar
    I agree with the person who said you should try to find out why he wants to hold on to the domain name. It may be as simple as the fact that you're one of the few people (or even the ONLY person) who has a profitable domain name registered with him.

    His motives could be nefarious. But maybe he's using your domain as an example of how successful people can become if they use his service.

    You could try offering a testimonial and letting him continue to use your site as an example of the success of his service (if that's what he's doing) in exchange for registering the domain in your name. Or find a monetary offer that he finds acceptable (as others have suggested).

    Of course, if he's holding onto it for another reason, then your solution to this will probably be different.

    But unless you're making a lot of money (and I mean A LOT), it's unlikely to be worthwhile financially to retain a lawyer. But you can always get a half-hour free consultation with one to see if there are any legal avenues worth pursuing.

    Regardless of whether this person is trustworthy or not, business is business. If you don't already have one, make a backup of the site... and start moving the content.

    From a legal standpoint, which one of you owns the content? Do you have a copy of the original agreement? Sometimes, people sign all their rights away to anything that's posted on another person's site. In other situations, that's how the other person usually has the legal right to show your content on their site.

    You should get that clarified as soon as possible. Or you may have bigger problems than which one of you owns the domain name.

    You may want to make sure you have your copyrights in order.

    Janedoe and others gave some good suggestions as to what to do technically to get a new site moving, so there's no need to repeat it here. I wouldn't put any new content on the site, though.

    But I'd urge you not to jump the gun with this person in terms of making threats or filing legal actions. Try to work it out amicably at first. If you can't, then you can take more adversarial measures, if that's what you decide to do.

    (My concern is that if you start threatening him, even subtly, in any way, he may take control of the domain in more than name only. For now, it sounds as though you have physical control of the content and the redirects. You don't want to lose that prematurely.)

    Good luck.
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  • Profile picture of the author gabibeowulf
    If I had access to FTP .. I would use a 301 redirect to a domain I own.

    This way the SEO benefits would go to your new domain.

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  • Profile picture of the author Rob Thayer
    I hope you got your info in the "Administrative Contact" part of it so you'll be notified if there are any changes to it.
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    • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
      Originally Posted by Rob Thayer View Post

      I hope you got your info in the "Administrative Contact" part of it so you'll be notified if there are any changes to it.
      Yes, it's there.
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  • Profile picture of the author XoOaiL
    Business is business - and an agreement is your word.
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  • Profile picture of the author txconx
    Unless you have access to his account with the registrar, you still have no control over it.

    If he bought it FOR YOU, then transferring it to your registrar account shouldn't be a problem for him.

    I'm glad you're happy with the resolution because I sure wouldn't be. But - I wouldn't have let someone else register a name for me in the first place.

    At the very least, this time make sure your agreement regarding the name is in writing.
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    • Profile picture of the author Janedoe
      Unless you have access to his account with the registrar, you still have no control over it.
      If you can't switch it to your own domain registrar account, then technically you have no control over it.
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      • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
        Originally Posted by Janedoe View Post

        If you can't switch it to your own domain registrar account, then technically you have no control over it.
        I have as much control over it as he does as I am listed under the
        administrative contact under the registration.

        I love the way people just love looking for trouble.
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        • Profile picture of the author txconx
          Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

          I have as much control over it as he does as I am listed under the
          administrative contact under the registration.

          I love the way people just love looking for trouble.
          We're not looking for trouble, we're just trying to tell you how this works.

          Do you have other domain names that you've registered? Do you understand how this works?

          This is in HIS account at the registrar. You cannot log into his registrar account and therefore you have no control over the domain name. Being listed as the administrative contact doesn't give you control of the domain name. He can change that information at any time - you can't.

          I'm glad you trust the guy because someone else having complete control over a domain name for a site you've put a lot of work into building requires a lot of trust. I would still get the agreement regarding the domain name put into writing, just in case you ever need to get the registrar to transfer the name to your own account.
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        • Profile picture of the author sbucciarel
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          Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

          I have as much control over it as he does as I am listed under the
          administrative contact under the registration.

          I love the way people just love looking for trouble.
          No one is looking for trouble. If your deal works out for you, that's great, but the facts are:

          1. If the domain is registered under his name and in his account at the registrar, it is his domain. period.

          2. If you are listed as the administrative contact, that is easily changed by the person who has the account. It could be changed to Santa Claus, as long as there's a legitimate email and address.

          Your control of this domain depends entirely on his good will.
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          • Profile picture of the author Jill Carpenter
            Originally Posted by sbucciarel View Post

            No one is looking for trouble. If your deal works out for you, that's great, but the facts are:

            1. If the domain is registered under his name and in his account at the registrar, it is his domain. period.

            2. If you are listed as the administrative contact, that is easily changed by the person who has the account. It could be changed to Santa Claus, as long as there's a legitimate email and address.

            Your control of this domain depends entirely on his good will.
            What if there is an email agreement or written documentation?

            I'm sure a simple fax/contract agreement can be signed by both parties to close any open holes.
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            • Profile picture of the author sbucciarel
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              Originally Posted by avenuegirl View Post

              What if there is an email agreement or written documentation?

              I'm sure a simple fax/contract agreement can be signed by both parties to close any open holes.
              Yeah ... a written or faxed contract would be beneficial. I would want one naming me co-owner.

              The thing is .. I've seen these plans before and even got suckered into one before where they host and they register the domain for you in their name. I can see why they are doing it. It gives you incentive to keep using their service. But that only applies if it is a monthly fee. Steve has paid for lifetime membership so there should, IMO, be no reason whatsoever for this person to hold any part of ownership of this domain.

              He should gracefully hand it over to all of his lifetime customers. That's what I would do and I question his motives in wanting to retain any ownership of someone else's domains ... although they are not really someone else's.

              Domains increase in value over time and in this case, it sounds like Steve has the ability to make a lot of money from it. If he did make a lot of money from this domain and then wanted to flip it for an even more outrageous sum of money, he would not be able to do that under this agreement.

              It's a bad deal for the users of this site, particularly for the lifetime members.
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              • Profile picture of the author Kay King
                Steve -

                I think it's a good compromise. You negotiated a settlement that you can both be happy with - and if you feel safer this way, it doesn't matter what "dangers" others think up.

                Glad it's resolved to your satisfaction.

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                • Profile picture of the author Janedoe
                  I'm sure a simple fax/contract agreement can be signed by both parties to close any open holes.
                  An agreement is helpful if it goes to court or to an ICANN dispute resolution, but the reality is good IP attorneys charge $300+ an hour and the ICANN dispute fees are not cheap. It is still best to try to get hold of your own control panel on your own registrar account rather than have to go eventually through legal remedies.
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  • Profile picture of the author AndyBeard
    The negative side of this...

    Again I am not a lawyer - these are just some things to think about

    Before, you could possibly have had full ownership

    Now you have effectively a new contract with the person which acknowleges in some way joint ownership.

    Say the domain is worth 15 months income, his current asset is worth half that, and going forward he doesn't have to do anything to still have his half.

    Also if you didn't exclude it, what is to stop him claiming half the income 12 months down the road? (of course backdated)
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    • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
      Originally Posted by AndyBeard View Post

      The negative side of this...

      Again I am not a lawyer - these are just some things to think about

      Before, you could possibly have had full ownership

      Now you have effectively a new contract with the person which acknowleges in some way joint ownership.

      Say the domain is worth 15 months income, his current asset is worth half that, and going forward he doesn't have to do anything to still have his half.

      Also if you didn't exclude it, what is to stop him claiming half the income 12 months down the road? (of course backdated)

      There is nothing to claim. As I stated above to Digital Joe, he has no
      idea what I earn from the domain and I am under no contractual
      obligation to tell him.

      Again, there is nothing to worry about here.
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  • Profile picture of the author Dennis Gaskill
    ...and the lesson is, it's usually better to work with someone when it's possible, rather than trying to wrest control from them behind their back.

    Glad you found an amicable resolution, Steven.
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  • Profile picture of the author garyv
    If you ever have a problem w/ it, you could always upload one of those autoblogs and tax the hell out of his processors and bandwidth. I'm sure he'd be glad to be rid of it after that.
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  • Profile picture of the author Janedoe
    I have as much control over it as he does as I am listed under the
    administrative contact under the registration.
    If it is registered with Godaddy, they send domain transfer approval instructions to the email address of the admin owner. So in order to have control of the domain, you either have to have the Godaddy password for the account so you can update the admin email address, or the password for the email address on the admin contact page of the domain.

    If your email address is now in the admin contact, if it were me I'd transfer the domain ASAP to a registrar account under my sole control, otherwise the owner of the domain account can change the email address at any future date to an email address only he controls.

    Aged domains with links are worth money, and people who buy and sell web sites can pretty much tell just from looking at Alexa how much a site would be worth to them. They don't have to know your current income to value the site.
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  • Profile picture of the author theemperor
    Steven, looks like you have a solution. Your original issue was:

    The domain is in HIS name. If he dies or something, I'm screwed.
    So I guess this is kind-of solved, although as someone mentioned his spouse or whoever could access the account or sell the domain as they are unaware of your agreement, so there is still a bit of risk there.

    If you get control panel access to the domain as someone suggested that would give you extra security.

    It's your call though and glad you have a solution and a JV.
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  • Profile picture of the author Hugh
    Steven,

    Happy for you to get it worked out to YOUR satisfaction.

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