Should Coacing Be a Refundable Proposition?

by tpw
62 replies
I am not doing coaching myself, but I know others who are...

A friend just got a request for refund on his coaching services...

In the refund request, the customer said:

I gave up trying to implement what you taught.

So I am requesting a refund because your coaching didn't work for me.
If you are in the coaching business, is this something that should be refunded?

After all, the coach has already given the person a boatload of time, and over half of the time allotted, before the student quit responding to the coaches messages...

If you are a coach and this has happened to you, what would your typical response look like?
#coacing #proposition #refundable
  • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
    I make it clear right up front and have them sign an iron clad contract...there
    are NO REFUNDS ON MY TIME.

    If they don't like it, they can go look for somebody else.

    It's a moot point with me anyway because my screening process is so
    strict that I turn down a good % of the people who apply for my services.

    You can usually weed the problem ones out by the way they approach you
    if you know what to look for.

    But to answer your question, NO, there should be NO refunds on your time.
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2774802].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author Kay King
      I think Steve's right - no refunds but it needs to be clearly stated up front. Most people wouldn't think of asking for such a refund but there are always exceptions.

      If this is one on one coaching I'd say no refunds as the time has been spent and paid for. If it's a coaching site or group process, it's really up to the coach to decide whether to refund in full, in part or not at all.

      kay
      Signature
      Saving one dog will not change the world - but the world changes forever for that one dog
      ***
      One secret to happiness is to let every situation be
      what it is instead of what you think it should be.
      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2774812].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Andie
    A teacher can teach, but it is up to the student to absorb and apply. Coaching not working is someone not using what they are paying for; but they can't give back the information...so I'd say no refunds!

    Andie
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2774814].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author Chris Busa
      LOL "I gave up trying to implement what you taught. So I am requesting a refund because your coaching didn't work for me" that is a good one...

      I definitely think there should be any refund at all. Can you get a refund from college or a refund after you pay a lawyer to take your case? The truth is your are paying for information just like college you are paying for information and it is only as good as the book you were taught from and the teacher who taught it.

      So the end result is that it is up to the person to do something with the info they have been taught or they will never make any money.
      Signature

      Discover The Easiest Way to Generate Passive Income Month after Month Fast!...Click Here To Get The Free Training Now!

      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2774878].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Troy_Phillips
    When I do coaching, if the client has all the steps documented and does not get the desired, pre-determined outcome ... I refund.

    Quitting half way through would make it impossible to document all the steps.

    Troy
    Signature

    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2774852].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author mattjay
    agree with both. either make it extremely clear that there are absoultley NO refunds, or make it clear that in order to get a refund, you have to provide satisfactory proof that the steps advised were taken.
    Signature



    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2774864].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Dwight Anthony
    In this case, i would do a pro-rated refund to at least sort the matter and show some good will. Obviously, the person that is asking for the refund is in a different state mentally and no amount of coaching may help until they fix their mindset.

    I would always do a refund policy upfront on the site up page for your services. At least then clients know what to expect.
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2774917].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author Tina Golden
      I wouldn't give a refund, not for that reason anyway. 'I've changed my mind' is not a good reason to me and that's basically what this person is saying. Or it could be code for 'oh, crap, this takes work'.

      Either way - no way would I give a refund.

      Tina
      Signature
      Discover how to have fabulous, engaging content with
      Fast & Easy Content Creation
      ***Especially if you don't have enough time, money, or just plain HATE writing***
      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2775058].message }}
      • Profile picture of the author Frank Donovan
        Hmmm. Do students get their college fees refunded if they don't graduate? Would a driving instructor refund anyone who didn't pass their driver's test?

        I would think that if you have a program of instruction/coaching that's demonstrably proven to provide success, it has to be down to the individual students to also play their part in the learning process.


        Frank
        Signature


        {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2775101].message }}
        • Profile picture of the author Troy_Phillips
          If I was driving them at the time of the refund request, bet I could get it :-)


          Originally Posted by Frank Donovan View Post

          Hmmm. Do students get their college fees refunded if they don't graduate? Would a driving instructor refund anyone who didn't pass their driver's test?

          I would think that if you have a program of instruction/coaching that's demonstrably proven to provide success, it has to be down to the individual students to also play their part in the learning process.


          Frank
          Signature

          {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2775163].message }}
        • Profile picture of the author hometutor
          Originally Posted by Frank Donovan View Post

          Hmmm. Do students get their college fees refunded if they don't graduate?

          Frank
          Got partial refund when I quit my first semester. I agree with stating the policy upfront. Sometimes even a full or partial refund isn't going to get any word of mouth advertising nor would the prospect be likely to try again.

          Rick
          {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2775262].message }}
        • Profile picture of the author seasoned
          Originally Posted by Frank Donovan View Post

          Hmmm. Do students get their college fees refunded if they don't graduate? Would a driving instructor refund anyone who didn't pass their driver's test?

          I would think that if you have a program of instruction/coaching that's demonstrably proven to provide success, it has to be down to the individual students to also play their part in the learning process.


          Frank
          Unemployed Law Student Will Hand Back Degree For Tuition Refund - The Consumerist
          {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778536].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Nelson Felix
    Banned
    I know a guy who provide a coaching service, 7 days no ask refund and 30 days 50% refund, even some schools provide free trial courses, right?
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2775082].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author Troy_Phillips
      But the guy knows that if the client is asking for a refund in seven days they will be more trouble than they are worth anyway. They charge enough that they are well pleased if you refund in 30 days.

      Now I didn't say they charged an excessive amount for their services. Some people make a business model out of counting on the majority of the people cutting out half way and only having to refund half.



      Originally Posted by 92 View Post

      I know a guy who provide a coaching service, 7 days no ask refund and 30 days 50% refund, even some schools provide free trial courses, right?
      Signature

      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2775183].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author mattlaclear
    When someone pays for coaching they are paying for the coach's time. If they do not like what the coach teaches them then that's still too bad. They should of done a better job selecting the coach is all. It's not like the coach can get a refund on the time he or she spent teaching the student.
    Signature

    Free Training for SEO Providers in the United States - https://happyseoclients.com/happy-seo-clients-training/

    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2775271].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author Black Hat Cat
      Banned
      Originally Posted by mattlaclear View Post

      When someone pays for coaching they are paying for the coach's time. If they do not like what the coach teaches them then that's still too bad. They should of done a better job selecting the coach is all. It's not like the coach can get a refund on the time he or she spent teaching the student.
      I don't pay coaches for their time, I pay for their knowledge. If I wanted to pay for time, I could just snatch someone off the street.
      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778270].message }}
      • Profile picture of the author kentaiwan98
        Having worked in education for a number of years... I have sympathy with several of the opposing viewpoints in this thread.

        However, for 1-to-1 coaching or tutoring, I would not offer a refund on classes already completed. It's that simple. I might offer a prorata refund on unfinished classes. Either way, I would DEFINITELY make it clear up up front my refund policy.

        Since all payments are upfront for my tutoring, I hold the money, so I can decide this. But if you are receiving money afterwards, then the shoe is on the other foot.

        If someone was really, really having 'issues' (that one in a thousand) I might make an exception. But someone saying "it doesn't work for me"... well, sorry. We all buy things that sometimes don't suit us.

        Why is that the seller's problem? It's the purchaser's job to do his or her DD before buying AS LONG AS the seller is 100% truthful and upfront.

        Kenneth
        {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778404].message }}
      • Profile picture of the author kentaiwan98
        Originally Posted by Black Hat Cat View Post

        I don't pay coaches for their time, I pay for their knowledge. If I wanted to pay for time, I could just snatch someone off the street.
        While that is very pithy, it's actually not very practical. For most situations when tutoring, time and knowledge are integral. You cannot impart one without the other. I cannot teach you particle physics without spending hours of my time to do so.

        I'm pretty sure that guy/gal off the street couldn't do that.

        BTW, I can't either. It was just an example.

        Kenneth
        {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778419].message }}
      • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
        Originally Posted by Black Hat Cat View Post

        I don't pay coaches for their time, I pay for their knowledge. If I wanted to pay for time, I could just snatch someone off the street.
        By all means, please show us how one can impart knowledge without
        taking the time to do it, outside of just handing somebody an ebook.

        Because that is NOT coaching.
        {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778555].message }}
        • Profile picture of the author seasoned
          Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

          By all means, please show us how one can impart knowledge without
          taking the time to do it, outside of just handing somebody an ebook.

          Because that is NOT coaching.
          You missed the point ENTIRELY! NOBODY pays for time! NOBODY! If you are hired to flip burgers for mcdonalds, and fail to do so, they FIRE YOU! You need time to do the job, and may be paid according to the time the job lasts, but you are paid for the JOB, NOT the time!

          Steve
          {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778576].message }}
          • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
            Originally Posted by seasoned View Post

            You missed the point ENTIRELY! NOBODY pays for time! NOBODY! If you are hired to flip burgers for mcdonalds, and fail to do so, they FIRE YOU! You need time to do the job, and may be paid according to the time the job lasts, but you are paid for the JOB, NOT the time!

            Steve
            Sorry Steve, but you can't have one without the other. You can't pick my
            brain without me taking the time to let you do it. No, I didn't miss his point,
            but it's a typical smart ass answer that BH gives so I gave him a smart ass
            answer back.
            {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778651].message }}
          • Profile picture of the author Michael Mayo
            Originally Posted by seasoned View Post

            You missed the point ENTIRELY! NOBODY pays for time! NOBODY! If you are hired to flip burgers for mcdonalds, and fail to do so, they FIRE YOU! You need time to do the job, and may be paid according to the time the job lasts, but you are paid for the JOB, NOT the time!

            Steve
            Just curious, If they pay you to do the job of flipping hamburgers and not the
            time then why do they tell you to be here at 9:00am and you can leave at
            5:30pm instead of telling you we need you to flip 2500 burgers then you can go?

            And, Why are the called hourly employees?

            Now on the other hand, Managers are paid salary therefore they are paid for the job not their time.

            Food for thought! <-Bad Pun Intended!

            Have a Great Day!
            Michael
            {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778697].message }}
            • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
              Originally Posted by Michael Mayo View Post

              Just curious, If they pay you to do the job of flipping hamburgers and not the
              time then why do they tell you to be here at 9:00am and you can leave at
              5:30pm instead of telling you we need you to flip 2500 burgers then you can go?

              And, Why are the called hourly employees?

              Now on the other hand, Managers are paid salary therefore they are paid for the job not their time.

              Food for thought! <-Bad Pun Intended!

              Have a Great Day!
              Michael

              That is true Michael. If I'm working hourly at a store and nobody comes
              in and buys anything, I still get paid for my hours put in.
              {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778729].message }}
              • Profile picture of the author seasoned
                Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

                That is true Michael. If I'm working hourly at a store and nobody comes
                in and buys anything, I still get paid for my hours put in.
                But what if people come in, and you do NOTHING!?!?!?
                {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778765].message }}
                • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
                  Originally Posted by seasoned View Post

                  But what if people come in, and you do NOTHING!?!?!?
                  Then you will most likely get fired.

                  If you're that stupid to ignore customers all day then you deserve to be
                  fired.

                  And your point is?
                  {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778782].message }}
                • Profile picture of the author Michael Mayo
                  Originally Posted by seasoned View Post

                  But what if people come in, and you do NOTHING!?!?!?
                  Then you put on your steel toed boots and... j/k

                  As you said in your other post they would get fired.
                  And most likely won't get paid for the 40 hours they would have worked but they will be paid for the time they did work prior to being fired.

                  Have a Great Day!
                  Michael

                  PS, Have to dodge tornadoes now.
                  be back later...
                  {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778796].message }}
            • Profile picture of the author seasoned
              Originally Posted by Michael Mayo View Post

              Just curious, If they pay you to do the job of flipping hamburgers and not the
              time then why do they tell you to be here at 9:00am and you can leave at
              5:30pm instead of telling you we need you to flip 2500 burgers then you can go?

              And, Why are the called hourly employees?

              Now on the other hand, Managers are paid salary therefore they are paid for the job not their time.

              Food for thought! <-Bad Pun Intended!

              Have a Great Day!
              Michael
              HEY, I was surprised to find that many furniture employees ARE literally paid BY THE PIECE. There has to be some metric though. They are expected to do the work, but on a slow day, 2500 burgers may be too many even for a TOWN, let alone one worker. So they pay BY, but not FOR the hour. AND, by the same token, they must be there WHEN the job has to be done.

              As for salary vs hourly? That is really silly. Some jobs could be EITHER! Heck, where I am, I have a quota of 40hours a week. Though I DO have PTO I can pull from, if I work 20Hours, my pay is cut in half. If I work 80, it is doubled. I am STILL considered salaried! Go figure!

              Steve
              {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778757].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Mike Murphy
    All terms have to be clearly stated up front (especially the "no refunds" term).

    If someone got 1 month of coaching and before the start of the second session fell ill or had a decent reason as to why they couldn't continue, I would issue a refund.

    Otherwise time spent is just that...can't get it back.

    As for a desired outcome....they have those in IM? I mean of course there's a desired outcome, but can anyone guarantee the outcome? Doubt it.

    Mike
    Signature
    Guitar PLR - New MONSTER Guitar Video PLR Pack![LIMITED]
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2775408].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Clyde
    Can I ask a refund for an engineering degree because I couldn't get a job afterwards?
    Signature

    Generate Unlimited Number of Micro Niche Keywords, Multi-threaded EMD Finder PLUS More!




    50% OFF WSO.
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2775424].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author Andie
      Originally Posted by Al Mukmin View Post

      Can I ask a refund for an engineering degree because I couldn't get a job afterwards?

      I actually saw an article the other day:
      A law student was suing the college for the tuition of his Law Degree because he could not find a job as a lawyer.
      Epic FAIL
      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778442].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Jim Hallmark
    I've given up what this thread is trying to teach me.

    So I'm requesting a refund because this thread isn't working for me.
    Signature
    "Thoughts become things... choose the good ones!" Mike Dooley
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2775555].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author tpw
      Originally Posted by Jim Hallmark View Post

      I've given up what this thread is trying to teach me.

      So I'm requesting a refund because this thread isn't working for me.

      haha... Great response...
      Signature
      Bill Platt, Oklahoma USA, PlattPublishing.com
      Publish Coloring Books for Profit (WSOTD 7-30-2015)
      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2776135].message }}
      • Profile picture of the author Shaun OReilly
        I qualified as a coach back in June 2000 and have had a
        coaching practice for many years.

        So, should your friend refund or not?

        It depends upon what the stated refund policy was
        at the outset. Did they offer a money-back guarantee?
        Or did they make it clear that they had a no-refund
        policy?

        I used to sign people up for 8 sessions with an up front
        fee of £895-£1,295 depending upon the package.

        My refund policy was that anyone could get a full refund
        of the entire fee if they were not satisfied - at the end
        of the first session.


        Thereafter, clients could request a refund of the unused
        part of their coaching sessions at any point in the future.

        One-on-one coaching is a time-consuming activity for the
        coach and the client.

        After all, you can't get your time back after it's gone.

        If your friend is delivering a valuable service and the coachee
        isn't doing the recommended steps, then a refund is entirely
        at the discretion of the coach IMO and not obligatory.

        An option is to offer a conditional money-back guarantee. So,
        you ask them to give you evidence that they followed-through
        on the recommended steps. If they can't do that, then how
        can they reasonably expect a refund?

        Dedicated to your success,

        Shaun
        Signature

        .

        {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2776389].message }}
        • Profile picture of the author seasoned
          Originally Posted by Shaun OReilly View Post

          I qualified as a coach back in June 2000 and have had a
          coaching practice for many years.

          So, should your friend refund or not?

          It depends upon what the stated refund policy was
          at the outset. Did they offer a money-back guarantee?
          Or did they make it clear that they had a no-refund
          policy?

          I used to sign people up for 8 sessions with an up front
          fee of £895-£1,295 depending upon the package.

          My refund policy was that anyone could get a full refund
          of the entire fee if they were not satisfied - at the end
          of the first session.


          Thereafter, clients could request a refund of the unused
          part of their coaching sessions at any point in the future.

          One-on-one coaching is a time-consuming activity for the
          coach and the client.

          After all, you can't get your time back after it's gone.

          If your friend is delivering a valuable service and the coachee
          isn't doing the recommended steps, then a refund is entirely
          at the discretion of the coach IMO and not obligatory.

          An option is to offer a conditional money-back guarantee. So,
          you ask them to give you evidence that they followed-through
          on the recommended steps. If they can't do that, then how
          can they reasonably expect a refund?

          Dedicated to your success,

          Shaun
          Now YOUR policy is reasonable. The idea of "MY TIME=$X, PERIOD", or "teachers teach" is STUPID! Some "teachers" CAN'T teach and, if you can't learn, you shouldn't have to pay. At least YOU offer prorated with a 1 period trial.

          Steve
          {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778563].message }}
          • Profile picture of the author tpw
            Originally Posted by seasoned View Post

            Some "teachers" CAN'T teach and, if you can't learn, you shouldn't have to pay.

            If a student is unteachable, why would the student buy the coaching in the first place?

            In this particular case, the coach has a long track-record of delivering the anticipated outcome to his students... He is a coach with a good reputation...

            I want to thank everyone who participated in this thread...

            I hope my friend finds your feedback useful... Unfortunately, he is out of the loop for a couple more days...

            I will share with you something I told him right after this refund request was made...

            My friend indicated that he was leery of this particular student from the get-go, because he needed to talk to the guy for an hour, before the student made the decision to purchase the coaching service...

            I told my friend, "That was your first red flag... In the future, maybe you will trust your instincts and turn away prospects who trigger those red flags..."


            Originally Posted by Thomas Belknap View Post

            It sounds like the person isn't interested in the work involved and decided it wasn't for them. If there was considerable time invested, on the coaches part, and no refund guarantee then I would decline the refund.
            I think this is exactly what happened... The person did not like the work that accompanied the learning process...

            Time invested by coach was just over half of what was anticipated...
            Signature
            Bill Platt, Oklahoma USA, PlattPublishing.com
            Publish Coloring Books for Profit (WSOTD 7-30-2015)
            {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2780488].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author deannatroupe
      Originally Posted by Jim Hallmark View Post

      I've given up what this thread is trying to teach me.

      So I'm requesting a refund because this thread isn't working for me.
      ROTFL. I would actually laugh out loud, but I don't want to wake my daughter up from her nap.
      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778799].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Rex.T
    It also depends on what the coach promised.

    If it's something like guaranteeing results, then I would think Troy's suggestion seems fair enough

    When I do coaching, if the client has all the steps documented and does not get the desired, pre-determined outcome ... I refund.

    Quitting half way through would make it impossible to document all the steps.

    Troy
    But if what the coach promised was to basically teach them what the coach knew/did before, then it's a case of no refund. Just my 2 cents.
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2775662].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Ashley Wright
    You cannot get the time back when you are coaching, so I strictly give No refunds when it comes to coaching, and another point is ALWAYS make sure you get the money upfront, as the old saying goes "Time is Money!"
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2776374].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Fernando Veloso
    Why should I refund my time and knowledge?

    Not everybody can be a eagle, some have to stay a seagull.
    Signature
    People make good money selling to the rich. But the rich got rich selling to the masses.
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2776386].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author KarlWarren
    Here's what I'd say...

    As clearly outlined before the coaching began, I do not offer refunds on my time. As you can probably understand, when I spend time with a mentee - I provide my time and expertise. My years of experience have a certain value, however, my time is priceless. I gave you my time, which could have been spent with other students, running my other businesses or with my family.

    [optional]

    I have calculated that I have spent xxxx hours working with you. The coaching was for yyyy hours and cost zzzz.

    As a gesture of goodwill, I am refunding a proportion of the coaching fee - proportionate to the remainder of time owed.

    I consider this to be more than fair, as I have shared my very valuable experience with you - and feel that if you follow the steps outlined you will have an advantage in your business.

    Kindest regards,
    Karl.
    Signature
    eCoverNinja - Sales Page Graphics & Layout Specialist
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2776408].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Randy Daugherty
    My opinion is, the customer should not ask for refund and thus your friend should not agree with the refund. As far as I know coaches are just our guide since you take time listening to the coach advice it's up to you to either implement the advice or not....Coach is just a guide and they really can't tell what lies ahead...
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2776473].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author gjabiz
    I DO have a written guarantee. 100% total refund.

    After one year.

    If they drop out at any time during the year, NO refund.
    If they don't follow the instructions. NO refund.
    If they die. NO refund.

    But other than that, 100% total refund after one year of following my instructions.

    They KNOW this before they pay.

    Works for me.

    gjabiz
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2777199].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Ivelin2008
    I think a good coach and teacher has to motivate his students to take action
    but with that said it's ultimately to the student to implement.
    And some students will not try at all once they realize
    there's more work involved on their part than they thought or
    for whatever reason they might decide that's not right for them.

    The hours have been spent already so you can't refund that
    but if the student actually gave his best and implemented all the things
    he learned during the coaching and didn't get the results you promised to deliver
    I think you should give him a refund because you have failed as a coach.

    And you also have to make it very clear upfront what exactly are you offering.
    And what will be expected out of them so they know what are they getting into.

    So no one gets dissappointed.
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2777584].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author mmaeb
    depends on lots of things really;
    what was agreed up front ref refunds
    how long into the course is the person
    what was used to measure the persons ability to successfully complete the course should they sign up. i.e. in a lot of technical courses a prometric test is not un common
    if the course was for say 12 months and they completed 3 months then I would refund 9 months worth of money assuming it was paid up front
    and lastly bad news travels a lot faster and wider than good news
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2777827].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author jhess56
    i think there should be a clause. the person has to actually apply the knowledge before any chance of a refund. and if the product is good, then once applied, a refund becomes moot
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778435].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Michael Mayo
    Paying someone for a job is like paying joe blow to produce an ebook cover for me.
    I pay him for the JOB and it doesn't matter if it takes him 10 minutes or 10 hours
    he still only gets $xx for the task.

    I've hired people on a job type basis. I would hire people to come in and
    remove staples from files before we created negatives. They had to
    complete 20 boxes before they could leave/get paid. Some finished in 5 hours
    and others it took longer but they all received the same amount of pay.

    Have a Great Day!
    Michael
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778776].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author deannatroupe
    No way. Once the coaching session has been done, I can't get that time back.
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778777].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Cataclysm1987
    No, because you can't refund someone's time.

    If I send you a product and it doesn't work, you can just send it back.

    If I give you my time and it doesn't work, can you give me back the time?

    Absolutely no refunds for coaching in my opinion.
    Signature

    No signature here today!

    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778780].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Gary King
    Here's the sad thing in that refund request:

    I gave up trying


    REALLY? OK then, off you go.

    As far as refunds, it would of course depend on what the coach offered. I wouldn't personally offer a full refund with a coaching gig - perhaps a partial for unused time as others have suggested, but if you used it, you pay for it IMHO.

    For those considering a coach - evaluate carefully before you just jump on the next coaching WSO. Realize it's an investment in yourself that will require a LOT from YOU and from your coach.

    For the coaches... well, you probably just need a hug. It's not easy doing any kind of training or mentoring.

    For about 18 months, I taught US Marines how to use computers - the big wig officer sitting right beside the lowly private. Try to balance that act, knowing if you embarrass the officer, he or she can ruin your career.
    Signature

    ===========================
    OFFLINERS! Warning: Unless You Know These Pricing Secrets, You are Leaving THOUSANDS on the Table. Get Your Free Report Now.
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778788].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author Tom B
      Banned
      It depends.

      Did the person understand the scope of the training. I am not interested in article marketing so if I got coaching to find out a great deal will be about article marketing I won't continue.

      How much time has the coach dedicated to the person. If the coach didn't waste any time with the person then why not refund them.

      Was there a refund or a monetary guarantee?

      It sounds like the person isn't interested in the work involved and decided it wasn't for them. If there was considerable time invested, on the coaches part, and no refund guarantee then I would decline the refund.
      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778804].message }}
      • Profile picture of the author JohnMcCabe
        On the rare occasions I've done one on one coaching, I've handled it like Shaun does. Cancel after the first session, full refund. Cancel after that, prorated refund.

        Even athletic coaches who get fired don't give refunds - in fact many of them get paid to go away.
        {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2779300].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author phpnetpro
    This is kinda like going to college. You can't start college, pay them for a semester and then decide halfway through the semester that you don't want to do it anymore. I mean, you're welcome to make that decision, but a college isn't going to give you a refund. I feel like internet coaching is in the same boat because it is ultimately the same thing. If you don't think you will have the will power to complete a program, don't sign up for it. If you do and still want to quit, you should be willing to eat your losses and not put the coach out of their time and money - because they did their job.
    Signature
    Need more organic search traffic? SideBacon SEO Experts

    My free, step-by-step training course: Build a WordPress Website
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2778802].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author paulie888
      Originally Posted by phpnetpro View Post

      This is kinda like going to college. You can't start college, pay them for a semester and then decide halfway through the semester that you don't want to do it anymore. I mean, you're welcome to make that decision, but a college isn't going to give you a refund. I feel like internet coaching is in the same boat because it is ultimately the same thing. If you don't think you will have the will power to complete a program, don't sign up for it. If you do and still want to quit, you should be willing to eat your losses and not put the coach out of their time and money - because they did their job.
      I totally agree. Time and resources/advice given during coaching are not refundable, since you cannot take them back (even if you wanted to, it'd be impossible). Once you have put forth the effort and time to impart knowledge to someone during the course of coaching, how could you possibly offer a refund?

      It's not like an ebook or some information product where the product is automatically delivered to the customer. With coaching, YOU have to personally deliver the product to the customer in the form of consulting and guiding them, and there's no way that can be refunded.

      Paul
      Signature
      >>> Features Jason Fladlien, John S. Rhodes, Justin Brooke, Sean I. Mitchell, Reed Floren and Brad Gosse! <<<
      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2780535].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author jonathan8
      Have a refund policy dude, out serve everybody, people will love you. But have conditions in refund policy
      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2866100].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Michael Oksa
    Dear [NAME],

    Thank you for participating in my coaching program up to this point. I truly hope you were able to learn something of value, and that you will experience much success in all of your future endeavors.

    As a token of goodwill, I am including one final coaching lesson at no additional cost to you.

    Final Lesson: Don't assume you can get refunds because you choose to quit.

    Now, I'm sure you will agree that is a very valuable lesson, indeed. Due to its incredible value, I believe we can call it even.

    Sincerley,
    [COACH NAME]
    Signature

    "Ich bin en fuego!"
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2801624].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Stephen Bray
    . . . doesn't it depend upon what the
    coach guaranteed in his sales-copy?

    I'm not thinking about if he wrote that
    he would refund a student's fees for
    any specific reason, but rather did the
    coach make a firm promise to improve
    his students' businesses?


    When you enrol in a college no-one
    guarantees you will become a doctor
    at the conclusion of your study.

    If the college fails to deliver the material
    in the prospectus, however, you have
    several ways to seek redress.

    Some on-line make pretty substantial
    claims for their services.

    For example suppose a coach decided
    to 'blind-sell' their service but claimed that
    the techniques they were offering were
    original and new.

    Subsequently the students discovered
    these 'new' topics were about how to
    set up an AWeber account, create a
    youTube Channel, or a Facebook Fan
    Page?

    Isn't the buyer entitled to a refund because
    they've been deceived, even if they 'fell'
    for the coach's sales hook?

    It seems to me quite simple. If someone
    signs up for coaching, takes part in the
    first session and dissatisfied then s/he
    should be able to contact the coach and
    work something out.

    On the other hand if the person waits until
    several modules have been delivered before
    asking questions then the coach really
    has every right to refuse to refund them.

    Stephen
    Signature
    Send me a DM, or visit my support desk to contact me: http://support.stephenbray.com
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2866158].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author dayanthan
    Originally Posted by LD Carter View Post

    That's a hard question. There's a lot of BS coaching out here. To my surprised, I've found that most people who offer coaching don't know much or anything about the business. Coaching is their way of making money in whatever business they're offering coaching in. So you have to be careful on who you pay to coach you. Ask to see some background results that they've actually had success in the field. If they can't provide that, don't consider them.
    Well said my friend. I am sure the guys on here who give coaching have a lot of integrity and do their best to do the right thing by their students.
    I have a different experience and not a good one with coaching. I won't mention their name as I think they will delete it so I will say it was a coaching company based in Utah. I paid US$4,500 for a course. I signed a contract and they promised me that they would help me make back my investment in 6-12 months. I was all excited and motivated and thought I was in for a really good experience. Having no clue about web design, traffic etc, I thought everything was gonna be sorted. When I started I found out I was only going to have 12 thirty minute sessions. After that I was left on my own and told to email them if I needed to ask a question. I also had access to some web tutorials but that involves just watching a video. I can get that other places for free. I was rather frustrated and angry as this kind of program is not worth $4,500 from any fair minded person's point of view and to be honest I haven't made the money I spent back. I barely got through a bit of web design and I found out later how crap my website has been looking. I didn't even get to learn about traffic from them. I learnt most of my traffic knowledge from forums and blogs. Basically I am giving my account of why in some cases a refund should be given, especially when what was promised and what was delivered are vastly far apart. I plan to pursue the matter further and see what I can do to get my money back. They are palying harball but I am not going to let them off. I will publish review articles everywhere if I have to.
    I learnt a lesson to be very careful and not to trust anyone lightly. I should have vetted them more but when you have some conversations with them and they have a contract you think everything is gonna be ok. Especially when they are based in the US, a country I respect a lot. The funny thing is the contract was stored online and now it has disappeared and they won't let me look at it LOL.
    I am sure some of you may not believe me but that is ok. It is still the truth.
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2866247].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author dayanthan
      Originally Posted by LD Carter View Post

      Seems like a lot of those scam companies are in Utah. A few years ago, I had a similar experience with a company in Utah as well. Fortunately, I was able to see through them before I paid them any money. I ordered a product from an infomercial, and after I'd received it, they called and offered me coaching. My "assigned" coach called me and offered me the service. I was interested at first. But I told the guy that I would have to wait for my income tax return before I could spend the money. He said he was fine with that.

      Shortly after that conversation, I lost my job. So when I did get my tax return, I had to use that plus my savings and unemployment to live off of. I called the "coach" back and told him what happened. This guy got pissed. He told me that I should sell my car, house (or have a family member put their house up), sell my possessions, etc. to get the money for his coaching program. After I told him I wasn't gonna do those things, he proceeded to tell me how I'll never be successful -- blah blah blah. And then hung up in my face....
      Thanks for sharing that LD. I am pleased for you that you didn't go through with it. Your situation at the time was in some way a blessing in disguise. You were better off for not going with their program as you would have been treated similar to how I was. I wish I had more brains 10 months ago but I was really keen to get somewhere and try to make my way in an online business. I knew I could do it with the right training and support. When they didn't deliver I felt cheated and it set me back. If they had done their job properly and did what they promised I may be further ahead now making a trickle of revenue per month at least. It is a bitter experience but I am hoping it has made me tougher and more determined to succeed. If I had my time over I wouldn't have gone with them and I would have chosen a different niche. Oh well I have to press on.
      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2866316].message }}
      • Profile picture of the author JohnMcCabe
        In an earlier post, I explained the refund policy I used to use (full refund after first session, pro rata after). My coaching method was so hands-on and involved, I couldn't afford to spend time on people who didn't fit my methods.

        I followed essentially the same methods we used to teach production tasks in the factory.

        1. Go over the process instructions.
        2. Demonstrate the process.
        3. Have trainee try the process, with guidance, until they seemed to 'get it'.
        4. Have trainee do the process on their own.
        5. Have periodic reviews to correct flaws, bad habits, etc.

        In the factory, we had to get it right. If people didn't learn the process the right way, we didn't just get scrapped products. We got missing fingers, toes, eyesight, severe burns, etc.

        In business coaching, the coachee lost time and money.

        So after the first session, it was their call - cancel or continue. If our styles didn't mesh, the student got their money back. No harm, no foul, we go our separate ways with no hard feelings.

        The whole key was that prospective coaching students had a clear understanding of the deal going in.
        {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[2866512].message }}

Trending Topics