The main reason marketers fail is because they are focused on themselves. We are by nature selfish. (As hard as that may hurt) So we tend to focus on what we want. What we want to earn. What we want to drive. What we want to sell. What we,we,we,we etc.
It took me a long time to figure this out. When you focus on people, and helping people get what THEY want, the things you want naturally follow. Think of it as the law of gravity. Whatever you through up, will come right back to you. If all you focus on is money, money, money- you will get people in your life who all THEY think about is money, money, money. They see you and see dollar signs.
Focus on people. This is network marketing. It is a people business. Let's help each other out and not try and make a dollar off of everyone we come in contact with. Take this approach for a few months and if it makes no difference in your business you can find me and punch me in the face for giving you such crappy advice!