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seriously, my post had nothing whats-so-ever related to banned material. i was asking why my site keeps falling off the grid and it was deleted only after 1 response.

what gives?
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Oksa
    I have no idea.

    But if you read this page...

    http://www.warriorforum.com/main-int...moderator.html

    You will see more of the rules. One of which is...

    5. If your thread is deleted, do not re-post it. Do not post a thread asking why it was deleted.
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  • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
    http://www.warriorforum.com/main-int...appearing.html

    In your case, it's for the same reason I've deleted a dozen or more threads you've started. And you still don't get it.

    Post in the right section. Questions regarding where you rank in a search engine, or how you get/keep/improve rankings, do not belong in main discussion.

    Next time you post anything about SEO in this section of the forum you get some time off. Maybe that will make the lesson stick.


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    • Profile picture of the author kevinw1
      Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

      http://www.warriorforum.com/main-int...appearing.html

      In your case, it's for the same reason I've deleted a dozen or more threads you've started. And you still don't get it.
      I wonder about this. We have something going on here which to me doesn't add up:

      1. People posting in the wrong forums
      2. Deleting the posts that have been posted in the wrong place
      3. No reason given for deletion

      To me, there is a disconnect between not giving a reason (and yes, I get the reason for not giving a reason ) and expecting someone's behaviour to change. Basic parenting and animal training theory: the consequence has to be directly connected with the behaviour you want to change, otherwise your target will not know what behaviour they are supposed to be changing.

      In this case, if the person does not know their posts are being deleted because they are in the wrong place, they won't be able to change the behaviour. Now obviously the OP has been told, but there are dozens of others posting in the wrong place who may not even realise that this is why their posts are getting deleted.

      How can they not, you may ask, given Paul's recent posts and threads on this subject? Well, this is a busy forum. No-one reads everything. No-one even *sees* everything unless they visit multiple times a day.

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    • Profile picture of the author Joshua Rigley
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      I think the real question is; why isn't THIS thread deleted?
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      • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
        Joshua,
        I think the real question is; why isn't THIS thread deleted?
        Because I chose to use it as an educational opportunity.


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        • Profile picture of the author Joshua Rigley
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          Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

          Joshua,Because I chose to use it as an educational opportunity.


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          That'd be nice. But I wonder if it will educate anyone once it is inevitably locked and drops off the first page?
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          • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
            Joshua,
            That'd be nice. But I wonder if it will educate anyone once it is inevitably locked and drops off the first page?
            Do links to a thread stop working when it drops off the front page?


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            • Profile picture of the author Joshua Rigley
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              Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

              Joshua,Do links to a thread stop working when it drops off the front page?


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              Of course not. There's no need to insult my intelligence. But when the thread linking to it drops off the the front page, who sees the link?
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          • Profile picture of the author Ken Strong
            Originally Posted by Joshua Rigley View Post

            That'd be nice. But I wonder if it will educate anyone once it is inevitably locked and drops off the first page?
            Sometimes even high-quality threads have to be locked eventually. If one person is allowed to keep bumping their thread back to the first page for months at a time, then everyone has to be allowed to do it. It wouldn't take that long for the front page to be dominated by old threads.
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            • Profile picture of the author Joshua Rigley
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              Originally Posted by Ken Strong View Post

              Sometimes even high-quality threads have to be locked eventually. If one person is allowed to keep bumping their thread back to the first page for months at a time, then everyone has to be allowed to do it. It wouldn't take that long for the front page to be dominated by old threads.
              Which is really a pity, because then it makes it impossible for the OP to update the thread, which effectively renders it useless if it depends on being update regularly.

              And what constitutes to someone who "keeps bumping their thread to the first page?". I could understand if they were bumping it on a daily basis without adding any content, but what about the occasional witty comment or acknowledgement of thanks received?

              I'm not questioning the mods decision or right to lock any thread at their sole discretion, but I'd sure appreciate a bit more knowledge into the reasoning so I know what to avoid in the future if one of my threads get locked.
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        • Profile picture of the author lgibbon
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          Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

          Joshua,Because I chose to use it as an educational opportunity.


          Paul
          It doesn't seem to be working very well Paul.
          There have been quite a few of the "why was my thread deleted" posts
          that were turned into "educational" threads.

          The only thing they seem to have learned, is that they get
          a whole lot of attention by starting one.
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      • Profile picture of the author Kay King
        One of my pet peeves online is that every time I see a software or program I use announce "we've upgraded to make this easier"....I cringe...

        ...because the end result 99% of the time is what I did with one click in the original version now requires 2-3 clicks for the same result. Wow - ain't that a great update?

        You could put "read the damned rules" in 36 pt red fonts on every page during a new members first 30 days....and the person reading it would think you are talking to someone else.

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      • Profile picture of the author smartdoctor
        Paul,
        I totally agree with you. When I was new here I kept repeating the mistake until I read the rules and Understood am happy to contribute in all sections and stick to the rules of each section. My opinion is : There is no smooth business if there are no rules. Even In our homes we have unwritten rules
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    Mine also got deleted my posts many times.
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  • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
    I warned him. And yet, he did it again.

    We have to find out who's selling the clue-resistant headwear and ask them to be more selective about their clientele.


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    • Profile picture of the author Will Edwards
      Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

      I warned him. And yet, he did it again.

      We have to find out who's selling the clue-resistant headwear and ask them to be more selective about their clientele.


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      Made me laugh
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    • Profile picture of the author Joe118
      Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

      I warned him. And yet, he did it again.

      We have to find out who's selling the clue-resistant headwear and ask them to be more selective about their clientele.


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    • Profile picture of the author Droopy Dawg
      I lol'd for real!

      I've done it (post in the wrong section) as well, but I don't repost it when I come back and see that its been deleted/moved... that's just crazy.

      Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

      I warned him. And yet, he did it again.

      We have to find out who's selling the clue-resistant headwear and ask them to be more selective about their clientele.


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      • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
        Brett,
        kidding...just trying to bring some levity to the thread
        Nice.

        What we're seeing between Mr Oksa and myself is what happens whenever you explain the rules to someone who doesn't agree with them, or thinks they should be handled a different way. Imagine how much more someone will argue who isn't a contributing member of the group, and who has some personal stake in changing things.

        Mr Oksa is taking the linear view of things. Perfectly reasonable, for what it does. It just misses things. Like the 3rd and 4th of the two different groups he thinks we're talking about.


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        • Profile picture of the author Michael Oksa
          Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

          Brett,Nice.

          What we're seeing between Mr Oksa and myself is what happens whenever you explain the rules to someone who doesn't agree with them, or thinks they should be handled a different way. Imagine how much more someone will argue who isn't a contributing member of the group, and who has some personal stake in changing things.

          Mr Oksa is taking the linear view of things. Perfectly reasonable, for what it does. It just misses things. Like the 3rd and 4th of the two different groups he thinks we're talking about.


          Paul
          LOL

          "...for what it does." Read: Mike is wrong here.

          Anyway, I'm not sure what you mean by "Like the 3rd and 4th of the two different groups he thinks we're talking about." Could you enlighten me please?

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    • Profile picture of the author Floyd Fisher
      Originally Posted by Paul Myers

      We have to find out who's selling the clue-resistant headwear and ask them to be more selective about their clientele.
      Here's your vendor:

      Aluminum Foil Deflector Beanie

      Go get 'em.
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  • Profile picture of the author nerrutis
    Originally Posted by redstanford View Post

    seriously, my post had nothing whats-so-ever related to banned material. i was asking why my site keeps falling off the grid and it was deleted only after 1 response.

    what gives?
    Many of my posts were also deleted, about 20 of them!
    An many of them were really quality, and in a right place, i think moderators simply dont care about it they just take a bunch of your posts and erase them, if you get reported by someone, and thats it. To many users for moderators to deal with , reading which post is right which is wrong.
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    • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
      Originally Posted by nerrutis View Post

      Many of my posts were also deleted, about 20 of them! An many of them were really quality
      How much "quality" do you think you can fit into a single line of largely irrelevant commentary?

      If you're going to run through the board, piling up post count by adding one-liner after one-liner, you can expect that your posts will start to be deleted en masse. That's nothing new.


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    • Profile picture of the author Will Edwards
      Originally Posted by nerrutis View Post

      Many of my posts were also deleted, about 20 of them!
      An many of them were really quality, and in a right place, i think moderators simply dont care about it they just take a bunch of your posts and erase them, if you get reported by someone, and thats it. To many users for moderators to deal with , reading which post is right which is wrong.
      Hey friend - you are just wrong.

      The Mods do a great job here. You may not be able to see the reason for what they have done, but I can assure you, there is a reason.

      In some forums, you can get banned for doing things that just get your thread deleted here, so let's be thankful for the Mods and the good all round job they do here.

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  • Profile picture of the author Adie
    I just got my post/thread deleted. Although I know there's nothing wrong, I'll let it go....and move on.... I think my thread was okay - only the response was not....
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    • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
      For the benefit of the person who is almost certain to raise a stink soon...

      When you run through the forum, posting general questions and extremely specific tech support questions, one right after another, none of which are likely to generate useful discussion...

      They'll get deleted.

      This section is not intended to provide tech support for some random video game.


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  • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
    Adie,

    That post belonged in offtopic. The problem there is that you'll also get the political commentary, because so many of the folks there can't resist breaking the Prime Directive for that section: No religion or politics.

    Leave out the name of the site, and you might find it lasts longer, but not in this section of the board.


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    • Profile picture of the author bretski
      The first rule of Fight Club is you don't talk about Fight Club... I mean, you don't ask why your post was deleted, right?
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      • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
        Brett,
        The first rule of Fight Club
        Ooooooo.....

        There's an idea. Create a vBulletin plug-in that lets you isolate people in a specific usergroup. Make sure they can only see each other's posts. Have it look like they're posting where they wanted, but it's all off in some extra section that only they can see or post to.

        Let them spam and annoy each other to death.


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        • Profile picture of the author bretski
          Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post


          Let them spam and annoy each other to death.


          Paul
          HAHAHAHAHA!!!

          "good post i learn much from it"

          "You made certain fine points there."

          "I did a search on the subject matter and found a good number of folks will have the same opinion "
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        • Profile picture of the author John Taylor
          Paul,

          Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post


          There's an idea. Create a vBulletin plug-in that lets you isolate people in a specific usergroup. Make sure they can only see each other's posts. Have it look like they're posting where they wanted, but it's all off in some extra section that only they can see or post to.

          Let them spam and annoy each other to death.
          I wish we still had the buy a beer button... I for
          one would buy a beer to sponsor the development
          of that vBulletin plugin! ;-)

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        • Profile picture of the author Capitalist_Pig
          Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

          Brett,Ooooooo.....

          There's an idea. Create a vBulletin plug-in that lets you isolate people in a specific usergroup. Make sure they can only see each other's posts. Have it look like they're posting where they wanted, but it's all off in some extra section that only they can see or post to.

          Let them spam and annoy each other to death.


          Paul
          I'm using SMF on one of my forums, and there is a plugin that makes it so users can post, and everything looks like normal, but no one else can see their posts. They eventually wonder why no one is responding to them and just wander off.

          It's deliciously evil.
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          • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
            Cap,

            There's one like that for vBulletin, too. The problem is the way it's implemented. It might only work when done that way, but it slows things down - a lot, if only for a while - when you put someone in it for a group as big as this.

            As I understand it, it changes the record for every single member of the group.


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            • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
              Joshua,

              Ken just gave you the answer. They accumulate and clog up the front end of the forum. That's a judgment call, but some things should be obvious. Like, "Don't start never-ending threads." "Don't bring threads back to the front page from the depths of 2010 without some significant and timely addition that can't be placed in a new thread." Stuff like that.


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              • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
                Joshua,
                But like I said, what difference does it make when this thread drops off the front page?
                [sigh] Never mind.


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              • Profile picture of the author Joshua Rigley
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                Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

                Joshua,

                Ken just gave you the answer. They accumulate and clog up the front end of the forum. That's a judgment call, but some things should be obvious. Like, "Don't start never-ending threads." "Don't bring threads back to the front page from the depths of 2010 without some significant and timely addition that can't be placed in a new thread." Stuff like that.


                Paul
                I understand that Paul, but that wasn't what I was asking. I guess it's a rhetorical question, because we all know that once a thread is locked, it's doomed to be completely forgotten within a week or so.

                I guess I'll keep that in mind next time I try to add something of value to this forum; make sure it's evergreen content that doesn't need to be updated, or just make a one-shot of it by posting about a hot topic.

                I guess I keep forgetting how busy forums can be.
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                • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
                  Joshua,

                  There is a place here for never-ending threads and "follow me" discussions and continuously growing lists: Your WF blog.


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                  • Profile picture of the author Joshua Rigley
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                    Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

                    Joshua,

                    There is a place here for never-ending threads and "follow me" discussions and continuously growing lists: Your WF blog.


                    Paul
                    Why the heck would I want to put all that time and effort into it if only 5 people ever see it? In my experience, WF blog posts are great for getting indexed in Google, but not so much for actually getting views from WF.

                    Still, it's nice to know that there is a place for such things. I doubt I will try to create another growing list though.

                    Thanks for pointing that out.
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        • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
          Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

          There's an idea. Create a vBulletin plug-in that lets you isolate people in a specific usergroup. Make sure they can only see each other's posts. Have it look like they're posting where they wanted, but it's all off in some extra section that only they can see or post to.
          I like it. That way, they still have an audience, but it's only an audience of people like them... this is a great little added twist on my earlier idea where only the poster can see it, and wonder why nobody is reading or replying.
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        • Profile picture of the author Eric Lorence
          Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

          Brett,Ooooooo.....

          There's an idea. Create a vBulletin plug-in that lets you isolate people in a specific usergroup. Make sure they can only see each other's posts. Have it look like they're posting where they wanted, but it's all off in some extra section that only they can see or post to.

          Let them spam and annoy each other to death.


          Paul
          Or a plugin that just searches the title for "why+post+deleted" ...

          And deletes them automagically?

          Might save you about 20 hours per week ...
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          • Profile picture of the author Michael Mayo
            Originally Posted by Eric Lorence View Post

            Or a plugin that just searches the title for "why+post+deleted" ...

            And deletes them automagically?

            Might save you about 20 hours per week ...
            Eric, Good Idea but I would hate to think what would happen if the plug-in
            some how got corrupted!

            Have a Great Day!
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  • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
    Brett,

    The funny thing is, you could tell them it would happen and they'd still keep doing it. Then when it does, the human spammers will scream bloody murder about the bot spam.

    Stroke city, baaaay-bee.


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    • Profile picture of the author Michael Shook
      Sometimes, I will answer what seems to be a legit question, only to look farther down the page to see there are 15 of these by the same person.

      OK, maybe not 15, but a bunch of them anyway.

      I used to feel dumb afer doing that, but then I thought I would rather answer what appears to be a real question for the benefit of someone else who might be honestly looking for just that answer, so I stopped worrying about doing that.
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      • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
        Michael,

        Sometimes it is exactly 15, with some of them spread through other sections of the board. That's what they need to hit to include URLs in a post.

        If we see that someone has answered a post with something useful, we'll leave the answer and just lock the thread. We don't always see that, but we don't like to let those answers go to waste.

        On the other hand, you may want to avoid answering posts that are in this section but belong elsewhere. I've become rather ruthless about deleting them, so as to discourage everyone involved. If you have an answer for them, suggest they move the question themselves and offer to help them out when it's unlikely to be deleted.


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        • Profile picture of the author Michael Shook
          Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

          Michael,

          Sometimes it is exactly 15, with some of them spread through other sections of the board. That's what they need to hit to include URLs in a post.

          If we see that someone has answered a post with something useful, we'll leave the answer and just lock the thread. We don't always see that, but we don't like to let those answers go to waste.

          On the other hand, you may want to avoid answering posts that are in this section but belong elsewhere. I've become rather ruthless about deleting them, so as to discourage everyone involved. If you have an answer for them, suggest they move the question themselves and offer to help them out when it's unlikely to be deleted.


          Paul
          I am getting a little better at figuring out where they go when I answer something, sometimes it seems to be a tossup, whether a post will stay or go somewhere else. But I am trying to get a handle on this to be better at it.
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  • Profile picture of the author Craig McPherson
    One thing I admire about you Paul is that there are no grey (gray for the US folk) areas with you.

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    • Profile picture of the author bretski
      I am sure that the thrill and the adrenaline rush of nuking a spammer's posts or banishing a troll to Never-Neverland is gone though.
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Oksa
    So...why not just start giving temp bans as soon as people make threads like this? The rule is clear. And maybe that would be a good start.

    That being said...

    I don't blame new people for not knowing all of the rules. Why? Because a lot of them are in the "Being A Better Member Moderator" thread. A new person has NO reason to assume that could contain rules.

    So, I offer another suggestion: take the major rules posted in that thread and ADD them to the "Rules of the Forum" thread.

    That way more people are likely to see it (I know a lot still will never read them, but I bet MORE will), and then there is NO excuse for not knowing the rules. And, yes, I believe having some of the rules in a thread about being a moderator is a valid excuse; at least when I put myself in the shoes of a person new to the forum, or forums in general.

    All the best,
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    p.s. @Craig - Even though I'm from the US, I prefer the spellings of 'grey' and 'doughnut' over 'gray' and 'donut'.
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    • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
      Craig,
      One thing I admire about you Paul is that there are no grey (gray for the US folk) areas with you.
      Thank you, but sure there are. I'm pretty good at knowing the difference, though.

      For instance, this isn't "black/white/grey" stuff. It's just policy and enforcement. I've been moving toward this for weeks, and giving people time to see that it's coming. So far, I think this is only the first or second time someone's gotten a ban for it. Seemed like the obvious response, all things considered.

      Brett,
      I am sure that the thrill and the adrenaline rush of nuking a spammer's posts or banishing a troll to Never-Neverland is gone though.
      That's never been a thrill. Or even very satisfying. Every time, the thought is the same: When are people going to grow up?

      The answer is obvious. They won't all ever grow up.

      John,

      I'll bet we could get a lot of people to contribute to the development of that plug-in. And then have the forum sell it to other VB users, so they could join in the fun.

      Michael,

      If they don't read all the stickies, they shouldn't be posting.

      Your point is valid, certainly. I just have the very old school notion that when you join a community, you make the effort to know the rules and mores of that community.


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      • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
        Kevin,

        Yep. That's true. And that's why I haven't been banning anyone for it, barring one or two cases where people had been explicitly warned. It's not like we've pulled out mighty Mjolnir and hammered every new person who goofed.


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      • Profile picture of the author Michael Oksa
        Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

        Michael,

        If they don't read all the stickies, they shouldn't be posting.

        Your point is valid, certainly. I just have the very old school notion that when you join a community, you make the effort to know the rules and mores of that community.


        Paul
        I agree with the part about knowing the rules. Not necessarily about reading all of the stickies. But, what harm would there be in copying the rules you so eloquently laid out in the "Be a better member moderator" thread and adding them to the "Forum Rules"...where more people would EXPECT to find the rules.

        I think it's a fair assumption that a lot of people WILL read a "Rules" thread before posting, then come back and read other stickies later. I see nothing wrong with that.

        But, if you have rules listed in what appears to be a thread about moderation, then I do not think it's entirely fair to assume people should know THOSE rules. However, ignorance of the rules is no excuse, so any rule breaking should be dealt with accordingly.

        Again, how hard would it be to copy the rules in the moderation thread (remember, somebody new to forums may have no idea what that even means and may assume it's safe to skip such a thread), and place them in a thread titled "Forum Rules".

        I'm sure you can see the merits of placing all of the written forum rules in one thread; why not one labeled as such?

        All the best,
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    • Profile picture of the author DrLegend
      Originally Posted by Michael Oksa View Post


      I don't blame new people for not knowing all of the rules. Why? Because a lot of them are in the "Being A Better Member Moderator" thread. A new person has NO reason to assume that could contain rules.

      So, I offer another suggestion: take the major rules posted in that thread and ADD them to the "Rules of the Forum" thread.
      This is correct. I read the forum rules TWO times and there was nothing I could get from there that gave me the reason why my post got deleted. I think this is a good suggestion. Or at least refer to the otehr thread in the rules thread.
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      • Profile picture of the author Michael Oksa
        Originally Posted by DrLegend View Post

        This is correct. I read the forum rules TWO times and there was nothing I could get from there that gave me the reason why my post got deleted. I think this is a good suggestion. Or at least refer to the otehr thread in the rules thread.
        That would work, too.

        A simple sentence that said "Read more of the rules here", along with a link. Seems it would solve at least a few problems.

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  • Profile picture of the author GarrieWilson
    Wouldn't forum life be much easier if the new people only had access to one section, say a newbie section and then graduated to the others? Or atleast not let them start posts w/out moderation?

    Most of the big forums do something along those lines.

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    • Profile picture of the author Michael Oksa
      Originally Posted by GarrieWilson View Post

      Wouldn't forum life be much easier if the new people only had access to one section, say a newbie section and then graduated to the others? Or atleast not let them start posts w/out moderation?

      Most of the big forums do something along those lines.

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      Garrie,

      I started a thread many moons ago about this ide. I thought it was a good one, but the arguments against it were pretty strong. So, while I still think the idea has plenty of merit, I also have a hunch it just ain't gonna happen.

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  • Profile picture of the author ChrisGreen
    I'm a newbie. I may not know everything how Warrior Forum works, but I didn't think there was anything wrong with my post either.

    My question was whether Google Bomb 2.0 strategies still apply today since Google has changed so much in 2 1/2 years. I didn't want to go through those videos and waste my time if the strategies didn't apply today. That's all I need to know. I'll get to know the Warrior Forum better though.
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Mayo
    Paul, I'll almost bet that there is a VB mod that would redirect new members to the rules
    before entering other sections of the forum. Heck, it could be modified so that they had to
    click a check box next to each rule before they get access to any other forums...

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  • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
    Chris,

    The only thing wrong with your post was the location. That could have gone in SEO or product reviews. Most likely place to get a useful answer for a product that old on that subject is the SEO section.


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    Michael,

    Maybe. If there is, they'd just keep checking boxes until they got past the things unread.

    Come on, dude. The guy who started this thread was told, in no uncertain terms, not to repeat the behavior. He did it again within an hour or so. That's not even surprising. Given that this is the norm, what would make any of us expect that making people check boxes would get them to actually read the rules?


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    • Profile picture of the author Michael Mayo
      Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

      Michael,

      Maybe. If there is, they'd just keep checking boxes until they got past the things unread.
      Agreed although when they get Banned for breaking the rules they would have no excuse because they confirmed that they had read them prior.
      Come on, dude. The guy who started this thread was told, in no uncertain terms, not to repeat the behavior. He did it again within an hour or so. That's not even surprising. Given that this is the norm, what would make any of us expect that making people check boxes would get them to actually read the rules?
      I wasn't questing your decision. I was actually agreeing with you.

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      • Profile picture of the author bretski
        Maybe one way to look at it would be to think of what would happen if you got in the wrong line at the DMV (Department of Motor Vehicles for EU members)? There would be no argument. There would be no explaination. There would be no "I'm sorry". There would be no making a scene because there would be armed officers waiting to taze, pepper spray, shackle, beat or shoot your azz! You would be told that you were in the wrong line.

        Asking a mod to move your thread or somehow making it the responsibility of the owner of the forum to educate the members on how a forum works just isn't their responsibity. No more than it is their responsibility to correct the spelling on thread titles when they are misspelled. That drives me NUTS, by the way!
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  • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
    Here's a simpler thought: Maybe we should make it a rule that you read all the stickies in any section before posting in it.


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    • Profile picture of the author Michael Oksa
      Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

      Here's a simpler thought: Maybe we should make it a rule that you read all the stickies in any section before posting in it.


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      Come on, Paul. How is that simpler than putting all the rules in one place? You want somebody to read 147 posts vs. 2?

      Besides, is it really necessary to have everybody read "Warrior Forum Videos" and all of the "All In One" threads in the main section? Or all of the stickies in the WSO section, for example?

      Still, I don't see what the problem with the suggestion is. It seems like it would easy to do, and quite logical, and could save a bit of unnecessary hassle.

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      • Profile picture of the author Roaddog
        How about a one week or couple of days part of the forum where you have to read and acknowledge reading all the rules. Before you get out.

        Like the military does, before you get to go 'interact' (lol) with your fellow man.

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      • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
        Michael,

        It wouldn't be hard to specify the stickies for them to read. The real question I have is: Why should we try to make things simpler than can possibly be expected to work?

        I've already been working on another way to handle this. I just love watching people trying to solve the problem of lazy members by making more work for Allen and the moderators.

        Note: The problem here isn't that people don't/can't understand the rules. Most of this stuff should be blindingly obvious to anyone with 3 working synapses and 3 months social experience beyond high school. The problem is that too many people are too damned lazy to bother paying attention.

        I am not their parent, and they are not my pets. My function is to educate, not to train adult human beings as though they were dogs, expected to do tricks when I snap my fingers.

        Even if that kind of thing were effective and appropriate, which it clearly isn't, it wouldn't do them any good at all outside this forum. Would it?

        I want people to think for themselves.


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        • Profile picture of the author Michael Oksa
          Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

          Michael,

          It wouldn't be hard to specify the stickies for them to read. The real question I have is: Why should we try to make things simpler than can possibly be expected to work?

          I've already been working on another way to handle this. I just love watching people trying to solve the problem of lazy members by making more work for Allen and the moderators.

          Note: The problem here isn't that people don't/can't understand the rules. Most of this stuff should be blindingly obvious to anyone with 3 working synapses and 3 months social experience beyond high school. The problem is that too many people are too damned lazy to bother paying attention.

          I am not their parent, and they are not my pets. My function is to educate, not to train adult human beings as though they were dogs, expected to do tricks when I snap my fingers.

          Even if that kind of thing were effective and appropriate, which it clearly isn't, it wouldn't do them any good at all outside this forum. Would it?

          I want people to think for themselves.


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          So, putting all of the rules in one place is too much work? LOL

          Maybe it would take all of two minutes, but could save hours and hours down the road.

          Of course, I don't see what goes on behind the scenes, but for the life of me, I can't see why you're fighting this simple idea so hard.

          The rules would still stay in the moderator thread, but being RULES they would be right at home in the Rules thread too.

          How doesn't that make sense?

          If I were new and wanted to know the rules, I wouldn't go to a thread that appears to be about moderating. Sure, you want people to think for themselves, but they aren't stupid for not knowing there might be rules in a thread that isn't labeled as such.

          And, yes, some people are too lazy, BUT there are also people who really want to know the rules, and have read the Rules thread, BUT have no idea about the Moderator thread.

          Seriously, take two minutes to cut and paste the rules into the Rules thread. Anybody with 3 working synapses could see how this quick investment of time could pay off.



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          • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
            Mr Oksa,
            Seriously, take two minutes to cut and paste the rules into the Rules thread. Anybody with 3 working synapses could see how this quick investment of time could pay off.
            I know exactly why I'm doing what I'm doing. What I am doing will take much more than 2 minutes of copying and pasting, and will yield a much longer-term answer to the problem.

            For the near-term, there are very useful reasons for leaving some things in the "Being a better member moderator" thread, but you have convinced yourself that your reasons are better than ours. That's your choice. You know the role so much better than we do, after all.

            No, you don't know why I am replying to you the way I am. That's a fair comment. Still, smilies or no, I am quite done arguing with someone whose mind is made up.


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            • Profile picture of the author Michael Oksa
              Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

              Mr Oksa,I know exactly why I'm doing what I'm doing. What I am doing will take much more than 2 minutes of copying and pasting, and will yield a much longer-term answer to the problem.

              For the near-term, there are very useful reasons for leaving some things in the "Being a better member moderator" thread, but you have convinced yourself that your reasons are better than ours. That's your choice. You know the role so much better than we do, after all.

              No, you don't know why I am replying to you the way I am. That's a fair comment. Still, smilies or no, I am quite done arguing with someone whose mind is made up.


              Paul
              My mind isn't made up. And you're not a psychic.

              Anyway, I just don't see why combining all of the rules in one place is a bad idea.

              I didn't say anything should be REMOVED from the Moderator thread, just that some of it would be right at home in the RULES thread TOO. Too. As in ALSO. Not exclusive.

              Part of the problem here is that I think we're referring to two different types of new people. I'm talking about those who read the Rules thread, and care about the rules, but don't think of themselves as moderators yet (again, why should they if they're new?).

              One gentleman has already said that's exactly what happened to him, and I'm sure he's not alone.

              As far as the "2 minutes": I'm only saying it would take less than 2 minutes to copy and paste (not cut and paste) some of the rules into the Rules thread. I have no idea what you're cooking up, and I wasn't refering to whatever it is.

              All of that being said, as I said earlier, those who break the rules should still be dealt with accordingly. Regardless of where the rules are or aren't posted. Also, I hope the solution you're working on really does yield long-term results, I really do.

              Finally, your last comment tells me that I'm more right than I thought.

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              • Profile picture of the author bretski
                Originally Posted by Michael Oksa View Post

                As far as the "2 minutes": I'm only saying it would take less than 2 minutes to copy and paste (not cut and paste) some of the rules into the Rules thread.
                Wouldn't that invoke Google horrible "duplicate content penalty" and sandbox the WF???!!!! (kidding...just trying to bring some levity to the thread)
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      • Profile picture of the author Bill Farnham
        Hi Paul,

        It looks like you're pretty busy today, so I'm just stopping by to say keep up the good work...

        Ya, I know...I'll consider myself told...


        On a serious note...For those of you complaining about their posts getting deleted, understand that ALL of us here with post counts in the thousands have also had hundreds and hundreds of posts deleted.

        If you are just starting out here and can't get past the fact that a few of your posts have been shown the door, wait for it... it's going to become an ordinary experince for you here.

        That's right, occasionally, your over the top super insightful posts are going to be placed in threads that for one reason or another don't make the cut.

        It happens.

        Get over it.

        If the only reason you are here is to pile up posts then do yourself a favor and find somewhere else to hang out. One of the main reasons this place rocks the way it does is because of one overriding factor...

        We have the best house cleaning crew in the business here.

        And most of us wouldn't have it any other way.

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        • Profile picture of the author bretski
          Sorry, I think that everything is fine the way that it is. You can't teach common sense. Most forums also suggest that you look around first before posting or doing a search before posting about something that has been asked 100 times before. To me, that is just common sense.

          I did like the dog training analogy although there are dogs out there that are stubborn and refuse to be trained. (I had terriers for years)

          There are also many different forms of training and the pleasure vs pain method is the most effective and speedy. It is used in training guard dogs and hunting dogs. A hunting dog goes and runs off or starts chasing deer you fit him or her with an electronic training collar and "light 'em up".

          If you have pointed out once or twice to the dog that they needed to come when called (or not post in the wrong forum, spam the forum etc...) they will come around. At least they should unless they are stubborn and refuse to learn.
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    Bill,
    Ya, I know...I'll consider myself told...
    See, folks? Bill has been paying attention!


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    Joshua,

    I wasn't being insulting. I was giving you a hint. Look at the second and third posts in this thread.


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    • Profile picture of the author myob
      Well, the way I see it, having posts deleted or locked is not really much different than being kicked out of a bar. Whenever I get kicked out of bars, asking "why?" just seems only to stir up rounds of laughter.
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    • Profile picture of the author Joshua Rigley
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      Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

      Joshua,

      I wasn't being insulting. I was giving you a hint. Look at the second and third posts in this thread.


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      Saw them. I actually made a thread linking to the very same thread you linked to. I was striving to create another reminder thread, but maybe I was too snarky about it, because it was deleted.

      But like I said, what difference does it make when this thread drops off the front page? A couple of people may learn, but after that, it may as well not be there at all for all the people who actually see it (once it's off the grid that is).
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  • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
    Joshua,

    Look at WarriorForum - Internet Marketing Forums - Paul Myers and check the views on "Stupid Forum Tricks." It's a lot more than 5 people. Even recent stuff that I've never mentioned to anyone has more views than that.

    The number of eyeballs something will get if it's on the main forum's front page is the reason for all sorts of things that are done. Many of them are not helpful to the group as a whole. And that's our standard when making those decisions.


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    • Profile picture of the author Joshua Rigley
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      Well, you're Paul Myers. I'm not. And that blog post was made nearly two and a half years ago. When you do the math, that amounts to only about 6 views per day.

      Compare that with the hundreds of daily views some threads here get, and it's a wonder why anyone bothers with the blogs at all.

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      Joshua,

      Look at WarriorForum - Internet Marketing Forums - Paul Myers and check the views on "Stupid Forum Tricks." It's a lot more than 5 people. Even recent stuff that I've never mentioned to anyone has more views than that.

      The number of eyeballs something will get if it's on the main forum's front page is the reason for all sorts of things that are done. Many of them are not helpful to the group as a whole. And that's our standard when making those decisions.


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      • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
        Joshua,
        Compare that with the hundreds of daily views some threads here get, and it's a wonder why anyone bothers with the blogs at all.
        There will have been very few people who went to that thing twice. A thread like this, with 642 views, has probably only actually been looked at by 60 or so people.

        Yes. Really.

        I'll bet you between 50 and 60 times as many people read that blog entry as have read even one post in this thread. And I'll bet it would have gotten the same number of views, maybe more, from some other members of this group.

        If you want to think in terms of quick bursts of traffic, go for it. Or you can think longer term. Your decision, dude.


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        • Profile picture of the author Joshua Rigley
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          Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

          If you want to think in terms of quick bursts of traffic, go for it. Or you can think longer term. Your decision, dude.

          Paul
          I did. I tried to think longer term, but the mods didn't share my vision.

          At any rate, if I were to go for the long run in small residual traffic, I'd post in the articles forum, not my blog.
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          • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
            Joshua,
            I did. I tried to think longer term, but the mods didn't share my vision.
            That's because we have a different goal.


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              Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

              Joshua,That's because we have a different goal.


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              My goal was simply to contribute something of lasting, growing value. Seeing as I have no idea what the goals of the mods are, I guess I'll just have to take your word for it.

              I have no problem if a Mod feels a post I made needs to be deleted or locked. That's their choice. I don't like it though, so I guess the only solution is to not make threads that I really care about or invest a great deal of time into.
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              • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
                Joshua,
                My goal was simply to contribute something of lasting, growing value.
                And have a way to keep it on the front page, where it would get all that attention.
                Seeing as I have no idea what the goals of the mods are, I guess I'll just have to take your word for it.
                [sigh] I say it, he ignores it. I already told you, on this page of this thread, I believe, what the goals of the moderators are. The good of the membership as a whole.

                Between the 6 of us who handle anything in this section we've only got 60+ years of experience in this forum. I suspect we may have accumulated a small smattering of Clue over that time.
                I have no problem if a Mod feels a post I made needs to be deleted or locked. That's their choice. I don't like it though, so I guess the only solution is to not make threads that I really care about or invest a great deal of time into.
                [splorf]

                The pity card? Really?!?

                Come back and read that comment in a week, Joshua.


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    • Profile picture of the author Ken Strong
      This thread is proving the point Paul has made many times -- that when the mods offer explanations for their actions, people argue those decisions persistently.

      Even when the arguments are courteous and rational, you get an idea of how much time that would take up when multiplied by the dozens of threads that are nuked every day.
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      • Profile picture of the author Michael Oksa
        Originally Posted by Ken Strong View Post

        This thread is proving the point Paul has made many times -- that when the mods offer explanations for their actions, people argue those decisions persistently.

        Even when the arguments are courteous and rational, you get an idea of how much time that would take up when multiplied by the dozens of threads that are nuked every day.
        Yep!

        That's why my very first response was to quote the rule about not asking why threads are deleted.

        I would also add that it proves some points people make about mods as well. Points that I used to doubt highly.



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  • Profile picture of the author Robert Puddy
    i dont see the problem i dont post much but i read the forum every day, yet over the last 3 or 4 months there have been plenty of threads and post mentioning (not to mention clues with thread moved signs every where)

    That posting in the wrong foum is a no no...Just need to pay a little attention to get the message

    Its there for everyone to see...Time to take it to the next level deletions and bans

    Pretty simple really doesnt need explanations

    PS: there are 4 moved threads on the first page at the time of typing this. Doesnt take many brain cells to work this out me thinks...no need to check the rules just pay attention
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  • Profile picture of the author Joshua Rigley
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    Paul, now you are being unkind. I was trying to be sincere. I'm not the person I was a couple of years ago.

    You've obviously come to some conclusions about my intentions that are not only untrue, but also hurtful as I was really simply trying to be a valuable member to this forum.

    I see no point in continuing this discussion, so I'll leave now and let you get on with your lesson.
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    • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
      Joshua,
      I'm not the person I was a couple of years ago.
      No, you're not. Razer would have said something to get himself banned for a week or two. You don't even get close to that person any more.

      I haven't come to the conclusions you may think. Ask Bob Puddy if there isn't occasionally a longer term purpose to my sometimes uncomfortable commentary.


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      • Profile picture of the author sanssecret
        Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

        Joshua,No, you're not. Razer would have said something to get himself banned for a week or two. You don't even get close to that person any more.

        I haven't come to the conclusions you may think. Ask Bob Puddy if there isn't occasionally a longer term purpose to my sometimes uncomfortable commentary.


        Paul
        Ok, I've asked him. But in the meantime, I'm asking you too.

        I confess I'm baffled Paul. Not at your 'uncomfortable commentary', (we call it a 'difficult conversation'), seen that lots of times and never had a problem with it. But this thread is obviously a lesson that is going over my head.
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        • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
          San,
          this thread is obviously a lesson that is going over my head.
          The merely obvious lesson isn't, I'd wager. That I'm willing to call people out publicly for this if they overdo it, and ban them for a while if they don't stop posting in the wrong sections after enough time.

          The other lesson is so obvious that, of all the people who've posted in this thread, I'd bet only Bob Puddy and Ken Strong get it. Allen would know, if he was reading this. Or Brian and Kenneth. Or Roger (ExRat).

          That's all the hint you should need. Or will get.


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          • Profile picture of the author sanssecret
            Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

            San,The merely obvious lesson isn't, I'd wager. That I'm willing to call people out publicly for this if they overdo it, and ban them for a while if they don't stop posting in the wrong sections after enough time.

            The other lesson is so obvious that, of all the people who've posted in this thread, I'd bet only Bob Puddy and Ken Strong get it. Allen would know, if he was reading this. Or Brian and Kenneth. Or Roger (ExRat).

            That's all the hint you should need. Or will get.


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            No, I get the 'obvious'. I'm not that old.

            Might just have to go read it all again if Mr Puddy doesn't dish the dirt. :p
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            • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
              San,
              Might just have to go read it all again if Mr Puddy doesn't dish the dirt.
              Bob may not even think of that one, given the way the hint was phrased. I'm betting he'll come up with something else that's "merely obvious."

              The best way to make something invisible is to make sure it's always in the center of the table.


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            • Profile picture of the author Carson Hill
              Ok. Guess I'm forced to look at this thread n join the club momentarily..


              Today was the first day I've ever had a thread deleted.. Since it was the first time it's happened in a years time, I thought maybe I was mistakin or didn't publish it properly..

              My thread asked about headers for wordpress. I'm not sure how talking about this is means to delete my post but I'd like to stay in the good graces of warriarforum.

              Can anyone tell me what I did wrong??
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          • Profile picture of the author Ken Strong
            Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

            The other lesson is so obvious that, of all the people who've posted in this thread, I'd bet only Bob Puddy and Ken Strong get it. Allen would know, if he was reading this. Or Brian and Kenneth. Or Roger (ExRat).
            The other lesson -- let's see... ah! "Always keep a good supply of quality Scotch on hand."

            Close enough.
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  • Profile picture of the author TheAnnoyingOrange
    I think it would be a good idea to 'force' people to read and agree to the rules before they can post on any boards.

    To stop people just aimlessly hitting the 'I Agree' button, you should have text boxes where they have to type in the answer to each question or re-write the rules.... something that will hopefully make the rules memorable.
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  • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
    Carson,

    It didn't get deleted. Look harder. As in, where it should have been posted in the first place.


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    • Profile picture of the author Carson Hill
      Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

      Carson,

      It didn't get deleted. Look harder. As in, where it should have been posted in the first place.


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      oh I found it. thanks. I'll have to admit I had not realized there was a worpress creation forum. I'll work to improve my categorizing properly.

      thanks paul.
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      • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
        Carson,

        It's not for WP. It's for web design. And if you make the effort, I'll be quite happy I didn't delete that one.


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        • Profile picture of the author mindmarketing
          Just want to chime in and apologize for a half dozen or so threads/posts you've had to delete from me Paul.

          I did read (scan??) the rules when I joined. Having read this thread I feel I have a better understanding of what is expected.

          I'll try harder boss.
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          • Profile picture of the author Tom B
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            Now I can start building my best of "why this was deleted" thread.

            I don't know what category to put it in so I will put it in all categories. I wouldn't want anyone to miss it.

            If Paul uses my last name then I know I did something bad. hehe
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            • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
              Thomas,
              If Paul uses my last name then I know I did something bad. hehe
              "Belknap?" That's some sort of adult diaper, isn't it?


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              • Profile picture of the author Tom B
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                Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

                Thomas,"Belknap?" That's some sort of adult diaper, isn't it?


                Paul

                It "Depends". Tank ya vary much.
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  • Profile picture of the author Mike Baker
    The problem is that the mods are trying to find a cure instead of preventing the problems in the first place.

    When you have a visitor to your house, do you let them in the door and and let them find their own way around the house or do you give them a quick tour and show them where the important parts of the house are, the house/family rules, etc?

    If you instruct new members on the important parts of the forum before they make a new post, you will find there will be a lot less threads/posts to cure in the long run.

    What's wrong with having each new member when they register receive a PM that welcomes them to the forum with links to the rules and other important threads that you think they should read before doing anything else? I know there is a modification for IPB to do this, so I can't see why there wouldn't be one for VB. There's nothing wrong with implementing it and trying it out for a few weeks to see the difference!
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    • Profile picture of the author Roaddog
      Originally Posted by mikescos View Post

      The problem is that the mods are trying to find a cure instead of preventing the problems in the first place.

      When you have a visitor to your house, do you let them in the door and and let them find their own way around the house or do you give them a quick tour and show them where the important parts of the house are, the house/family rules, etc?

      If you instruct new members on the important parts of the forum before they make a new post, you will find there will be a lot less threads/posts to cure in the long run.

      What's wrong with having each new member when they register receive a PM that welcomes them to the forum with links to the rules and other important threads that you think they should read before doing anything else? I know there is a modification for IPB to do this, so I can't see why there wouldn't be one for VB. There's nothing wrong with implementing it and trying it out for a few weeks to see the difference!

      I agree, that's why I like my idea of having a 'minuscule'...boot camp, with a restricted area to begin with.

      One day? Two days?

      Any thing that's really important....in any culture of the world...has a rite of passage.

      And as far as tough goes, that's a pinprick...it's the psychology, and always is.

      And before it's asked if I would do it, your duuurn right.

      You know why? because it simply gives a sense of pride at belonging.



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      • Profile picture of the author paulie888
        Originally Posted by Roaddog View Post

        I agree, that's why I like my idea of having a 'minuscule'...boot camp, with a restricted area to begin with.

        One day? Two days?

        Any thing that's really important....in any culture of the world...has a rite of passage.

        And as far as tough goes, that's a pinprick...it's the psychology, and always is.

        And before it's asked if I would do it, your duuurn right.

        You know why? because it simply gives a sense of pride at belonging.



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        Jim, this sounds like an idea that might be feasible. It'd help to have some control mechanism like this in place, given the alarming frequency that we see newbies whining and ranting about their posts disappearing. Many seem to have this disconcerting sense of entitlement where they think they can do anything that they please, and either refuse or are too lazy to read some of the more important sticky threads right on top of this forum.
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        • Profile picture of the author rosetrees
          Booh Hooh. Why was MY post deleted? It was valuable - honest. Paul acted on it, so it must have been.

          I want my post back now, else I'll sue you.


          (disclaimer - that was all A JOKE)

          Sorrrrrrrry - couldn't resist. I'm in a facetious mood this morning.
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  • Profile picture of the author Tsnyder
    I swear to the internet gods that I have no idea why
    all the whining, pissing and moaning takes place when
    someone's thread/post gets banned.

    I've been around this forum a while... as well as 2 other
    forums that I visit on a regular basis. I've NEVER read the
    rules at any of them... I've also NEVER had a thread/post
    deleted from any of them.

    Can anyone say common sense? How about common courtesy?

    I don't really think you have to be a rocket surgeon to know
    the difference between right and wrong. I think those whose
    posts/threads are deleted on a regular basis are people who
    have a highly developed sense of entitlement. I'm pretty sure
    they BELIEVE my day will not be the same without clicking their
    links or reading their spam.

    CLUE: This forum was not created to be your free personal marketing vehicle.

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    • Profile picture of the author Alexa Smith
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      Originally Posted by Tsnyder View Post

      I swear to the internet gods that I have no idea why all the whining, pissing and moaning takes place when someone's thread/post gets banned.
      The pissing, I think, is usually down to polydipsia, osmotic diuresis and/or other causes of urinary hypersynthesis. The whining and moaning I don't know about, either ... :p

      Originally Posted by Tsnyder View Post

      Can anyone say common sense? How about common courtesy?
      Virtues that are "common" are supposed to be in very widespread supply ... but I'm not sure those two are, really. :confused:
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  • Profile picture of the author TheAnnoyingOrange
    So.... when do we start the Why was my "why was my post deleted" post deleted thread?
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    • Profile picture of the author Tina Golden
      Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

      Thomas,"Belknap?" That's some sort of adult diaper, isn't it?


      Paul
      Paul,

      Your thinking of Belknappies.



      As to the other topic of the thread, do we really need a rule that says post in the correct forum? Those of you who are saying that should be added to the official sticky that so few read, don't you really think that people should have the common sense to read the list of sections when they join?

      That's one of those rules that should be just a minimal amount common sense and two working brain cells. If it was in the rules, I would be willing to bet that it wouldn't do a thing to stem the tide because most of the people who do this don't care. They're entitled to post wherever they want because it's just too hard to go actually read the forum descriptions.
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  • Profile picture of the author askmrgramson
    I have to admit it takes some getting used to to post in this forum. But I'm learning now. I don't promote in a thread (or mention other "gurus" names too much in an advertisey sorta way).

    but at the end of the day Warrior is well worth it.
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  • Profile picture of the author Mike Baker
    I think something needs to be done soon as I just did a quick search and I found that the question "why was my thread deleted" has been asked more than 6,500 times.
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    • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
      Mike,
      I think something needs to be done soon as I just did a quick search and I found that the question "why was my thread deleted" has been asked more than 6,500 times.
      And 100+ of those are in this thread alone. Doesn't take many of those over a 9 year period to look like a lot more than it is.

      This isn't exactly the highest priority item on the agenda. There will always be people who demand things change when they don't go their way. Part of the game.

      My only concern at the moment with this issue is making sure the members who want to do things in a way that works and makes sense understand the process we use. The "I'm gonna get what I want or I'll throw a fit and make you sorry" crowd are not high on my list. Even if we were foolish enough to accommodate them, that'd just create a different crowd with different demands.

      One of the forgotten corollaries of "You can't please everyone" is "Someone will always be unhappy with you." Just one of life's rough edges.


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  • Profile picture of the author samuelarnold
    No matter how many times your posts deleted. you can re-participate the forum. but the main thing is your posts must be relevant.
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  • Profile picture of the author Mike Baker
    I understand that you and the other moderators have more pressing issues than this, but I feel that if something isn't done about it, the problem is just going to become worse. I hate seeing these threads popping up all the time just as much as the next person.
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