Hubby knows something is different.....

by ShayB
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Tomorrow is payday for Hubby.

In the past, the day before payday usually meant we were reeeeeeaaallly stretching things to get to payday.

Leftover nights, soup and sandwich nights, etc. You know what I mean....:rolleyes:

So I asked Hubby if he wanted to go out to dinner tonight, and he just looked at me like I was crazy. :confused: "Tomorrow is payday!" He said.

Then he remembered (he has been seeing my PayPal account)....and a smile crossed his face.

"Oh, yeah!" "Chinese food sounds great!"

It is a small thing, but the smile on his face meant the world to me. It meant that I could treat him to something. It means that money is not an issue anymore.

I love this forum. The help I have gotten on here is worth the world to me. I am so grateful I found this forum.

Newbies - please take the time to read. There is so much info on this forum - FREE! - and so many good people on here willing to help you.

"The best things in life are free...." So true - and this forum is one of them.

Thank you to everyone here!
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  • Profile picture of the author Matt Hoey
    I know exactly what you mean. I can buy presents for Christmas. It feels good to be in control of my own finances for once.
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    • Profile picture of the author ShayB
      Originally Posted by Matt Hoey View Post

      I know exactly what you mean. I can buy presents for Christmas. It feels good to be in control of my own finances for once.

      Matt, I can so relate. This is the first year we are not going to have to skimp on presents for the kids. I totally love it!!!

      We are also going to be able to donate more presents this year. That is awesome, too.
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  • congrats on your success, it's why we do this thing
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  • Profile picture of the author R Hagel
    Way to go, Shay!

    I've been on this forum for a while, and I've always found it fascinating to watch people come and go.

    Some people blast onto this forum, talk big and then fade away (often when they realize their mouth can't keep up with bank account).

    Others come onto this forum as newbies, make excuses as to why they can't be successful... and then either fade away, or spend months and years blaming everyone and everything else for their lack of success.

    Then there are folks like you. You come on, you're serious, you apply the good advice, and you put your head down and get to work. Now look at where you are just a few short months later. That's awesome.

    Cheers,
    Becky
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    • Profile picture of the author ShayB
      Originally Posted by R Hagel View Post

      Way to go, Shay!

      I've been on this forum for a while, and I've always found it fascinating to watch people come and go.

      Some people blast onto this forum, talk big and then fade away (often when they realize their mouth can't keep up with bank account).

      Others come onto this forum as newbies, make excuses as to why they can't be successful... and then either fade away, or spend months and years blaming everyone and everything else for their lack of success.

      Then there are folks like you. You come on, you're serious, you apply the good advice, and you put your head down and get to work. Now look at where you are just a few short months later. That's awesome.

      Cheers,
      Becky
      Becky, that is so sweet! Thank you so much!
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      • Profile picture of the author Mark Brock
        Shay,

        I'm so happy for you. Personally though, I still have sandwich nights etc. Just goes to show how lazy I am when it comes to being bothered to prepare a proper meal for myself.

        I'd also like to echo your sentiments of thanking the members of this forum. A great source of advice and knowledge that we can all leach off of. They really have been a great help.

        Congrats yet again Shay.

        Oh, and have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year as well!

        Mark
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  • Profile picture of the author Anthony Smith
    congrads shay! i feel the same way, if it wasn't for IM i don't know where i would be... probably in debt up to my ears with college loans i'm new to this forum, and have already been meeting a lot of great people!
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  • Profile picture of the author Melody
    Congrats to you BOTH!! You have done a great job - but having a supportive partner is a HUGE part of the battle. I was lucky enough to already be established when I married the second time, but as we all know - many partners are NOT so understanding about the time and effort these "OVERNIGHT" successes can take!

    Recession? We are SO not participating in no stinkin' recession!
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    • Profile picture of the author JohnMcCabe
      ATTAGIRL!

      Just wanted to give you a big "attagirl" the color of money, and this is as big as the editor goes.

      Congratulations on your well-deserved success...
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      • Profile picture of the author steve m
        I'm made up for you shay....! I hope there is many more chinese take aways for you
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    Congrats shay! I know that kind of feeling.. Sometimes I don't have a single penny the day before payday.. Really felt so hopeless..

    But I'm reaching there too.. The day where I'll be in complete control of my finances.
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    • Profile picture of the author Kamran
      I love Chinese too, but I have to pay it from my own pocket, coz i don't have a wife like you
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  • Profile picture of the author puzon23
    Congratulations Shay! I'm new to this forum but I have been a member of some others. I have heard many great things about this place so I decided to join. I'm glad you are doing well and applying the knowledge you've gained here! Hopefully I can do the same.
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  • Profile picture of the author Linda Van Fleet
    thanks, Shay, for your success story!

    and congratulations. Stories like this inspire warriors at every level.

    Merry Christmas,
    Linda
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  • Profile picture of the author Eric Johnson
    That's an awesome story Shay... glad to hear it
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    • Congratulations, Shay!

      Would you mind briefly sharing which method you used to achieve success?
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      • Profile picture of the author ShayB
        Originally Posted by thegoddessofeleven View Post

        Congratulations, Shay!

        Would you mind briefly sharing which method you used to achieve success?
        I started with writing for clients (which I still do - love it!). But now I have started doing more things. I develop info products and use my blogs to sell them. I am also branching out into article marketing and affiliate products.
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  • Profile picture of the author Bev Clement
    Did you miss the turning for your Chinese meal, you didn't arrive in HK for it

    Well done Shay you have worked hard to get where you are.
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    • Profile picture of the author ShayB
      Originally Posted by Bev Clement View Post

      Did you miss the turning for your Chinese meal, you didn't arrive in HK for it

      Well done Shay you have worked hard to get where you are.
      The next time I am in HK, I promise to stop by!

      Thank you!!!

      (PS - Hubby chose a steak dinner instead of Chinese. Go figure. Once we got in the car, he took a detour. LOL)
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      • Profile picture of the author elliot
        That's great news!!, and yes this forum is amazing!, just so much information it can get overwhelming at times for me, but i'll get there too.
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      • Profile picture of the author tiger325
        congratulations...doesnt it feel good to reep the rewards of your work?
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        • Profile picture of the author ShayB
          Originally Posted by tiger325 View Post

          congratulations...doesnt it feel good to reep the rewards of your work?

          YES!!!! It does!

          Thank you for your kind words.
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      • Profile picture of the author blakekr
        Originally Posted by Shay60654 View Post

        (PS - Hubby chose a steak dinner instead of Chinese. Go figure. Once we got in the car, he took a detour. LOL)
        Ha, you are so in good with him now.
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        • Profile picture of the author ShayB
          Originally Posted by blakekr View Post

          Ha, you are so in good with him now.
          Oh, heck yeah!
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    Originally Posted by Shay60654 View Post

    Tomorrow is payday for Hubby.

    In the past, the day before payday usually meant we were reeeeeeaaallly stretching things to get to payday.

    Leftover nights, soup and sandwich nights, etc. You know what I mean....:rolleyes:

    So I asked Hubby if he wanted to go out to dinner tonight, and he just looked at me like I was crazy. :confused: "Tomorrow is payday!" He said.

    Then he remembered (he has been seeing my PayPal account)....and a smile crossed his face.

    "Oh, yeah!" "Chinese food sounds great!"

    It is a small thing, but the smile on his face meant the world to me. It meant that I could treat him to something. It means that money is not an issue anymore.

    I love this forum. The help I have gotten on here is worth the world to me. I am so grateful I found this forum.

    Newbies - please take the time to read. There is so much info on this forum - FREE! - and so many good people on here willing to help you.

    "The best things in life are free...." So true - and this forum is one of them.

    Thank you to everyone here!
    You can thank us by taking us 'all' out to dinner
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    • Profile picture of the author ShayB
      Originally Posted by innocent07 View Post

      You can thank us by taking us 'all' out to dinner
      Hey, next time you are in Charleston, look me up! Dinner is on me!
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  • Profile picture of the author Lindsay Brynn
    Shay - that's a great story. good inspiration.
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    Shay

    You've been a real inspiration on this forum since you arrived

    Well done girl, proud of ya

    Kim
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    • Profile picture of the author Monetize
      Shay, you are such a blessing. I can certainly relate to your joy
      as I was able to purchase my husband's dream car for him a few
      months ago - and Praise the Lord I was able to pay cash for it.
      This Christmas is going to be the best ever not only because of
      all of the special gifts that my online income allows us to obtain,
      but more importantly because all of our close family members will
      be together to celebrate these special holidays
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    Originally Posted by Shay60654 View Post


    It is a small thing, but the smile on his face meant the world to me.
    That is pure poetry Shay. Thanks for the post
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  • Profile picture of the author Jonathan 2.0
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    Great post, Shay. Money is either numbers on a computer or pecies of paper. It's what you do with that stuff which counts. If I wasn't poor I'd love to treat people and make them smile because I have the money to do that.
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    Congrats to you and your husband! I love the success stories!
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    • Profile picture of the author melanied
      That's an awesome story! Even after you "make it big" stories like that, from the beginning, will still probably be the most dear to your heart.
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    Hey good stuff! Wish a very prosperous year in 2009.
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  • Profile picture of the author Charann Miller
    That's lovely Shay, a glimpse of great things to come. Imagine a year from now, instead of Chinese it'll be lobster thermadore.
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    I'm a newbie and yours is the first post I've read and thanks for the advice. I will stick around and get some ideas. We are really excited about the extra help I've been bringing in too. We have 4 children, one with autism and we have refused to take the government's money to help us out. Well....anybody with a special needs child knows that's almost impossible, but hopefully it's not all that impossible. But we do have a lot of bills to pay that most would never dream of.

    So glad I found this forum to give me a boost and in the process, help others out too. Thanks!
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    Congrats on your success, keep pressing on, lovin this forum.
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    • Profile picture of the author ShayB
      Originally Posted by famous2313 View Post

      ShayRockhold every man wants a woman like you girl

      I had one question for you

      Do you have a sister? LOL

      LOL No, I am afraid not. I have a step sister, but she is married, too. :rolleyes:
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  • Profile picture of the author Chris Carr
    Happy New Year! Shay,
    I am so happy that I found your post. I really needed to read a success story. Sometimes when you are a newbie you wonder if anyone is really making any money online and reading your post puts the fire back in my sprit. I am new to this forum and have enjoyed all the information so far. It would be nice to hear some other success stories. Make it a great day!
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    • Profile picture of the author ShayB
      Originally Posted by Chris Carr View Post

      Happy New Year! Shay,
      I am so happy that I found your post. I really needed to read a success story. Sometimes when you are a newbie you wonder if anyone is really making any money online and reading your post puts the fire back in my sprit. I am new to this forum and have enjoyed all the information so far. It would be nice to hear some other success stories. Make it a great day!
      I am glad you enjoyed it!

      As a side note - this weekend we are going out of town, and the hotel, etc. will be paid for by my online efforts, not Hubby's check - he is totally excited!!!
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    Shay, Bev is preparing some deep fried rats for you when you arrive at her house to eat
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