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If Your struggling then you need to read this...

by kyhell
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So its a beautiful sunday morning here in Nebraska,
I was sitting on my front deck with my family talking and laughing with my kids and my fiance.

This is an experience I don't take for granted. You see not that very long ago I was working 3 separate jobs 7 days a week 14 to 16 hours a day and I was still barely getting by.

A lot has changed over the years and with my success online the one thing I'm most grateful for is being able to spend all of my time with my kids.

Our family is pretty big. We have two teenagers a 15 year old daughter who is the apple of my eye and a 13 year old son who keeps me on my toes. We also have two 12 year old boys and a 10 year old son and these guys are my three musketeers. And I cant forget the My 6 month old baby Boy.

I am especially excited that because of my success with my business I am going to be able to be there to really raise my son.

There is no worse feeling in the world for a parent than to realize that your kids are being raised in day care and I can not express to you the absolute feeling of relief I have knowing that I will never have to experience that ever again.

So whats the point of this little post?

I wanted to share with you a little about my life and what really matters most to me. For some people being successful means a new house or a new flashy car but for me it means time, time with my family.

Now it took a lot of trial and error over the years with my IM business and a whole lot of failures.

But I never gave up. The thing is that it took me a while to find a method that really worked for me.

All to often I would try something and if I didn't see results right away I would give up or move on.

It wasn't until I realized I was sabotaging my own success that I changed my attitude.

You see it takes 200% to really make it in IM 100% attitude and 100% action. So I decided to find a method and stick with it until it produced results.

Acheiving your dreams is a state of mind and you have only 2 real choices... you can sit by and let life happen or you can get in there and mix it up and make things happen.

Here's to your success!
#read #struggling
  • Profile picture of the author Edwards WOrld
    Great story for newbies you do need 200% in this business of you ain't gonna make a penny

    -EA
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  • Profile picture of the author Fazal Mayar
    You are right... IM is hard because it requires hard work and patience and this is why most people doesn't make money online... good post. Found it really inspiring!
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  • Profile picture of the author Nigel Greaves
    Congratulations on achieving the kind of truly deep success that money simply can't buy Chris.

    Have a wonderful Sunday with your family!

    Nigel
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  • Profile picture of the author Hoodyy
    Great inspirational post!

    I think the one flaw that many people have when they first start, including myself is changing to different things very quickly. I've now finally settled on one method which I actually like working on and hopefully success will come in due time.

    As a young IM'er myself (only 20), it is my dream to earn a monthly income that could support me travelling the world and of course increase it while I'm travelling the world.

    Reading posts like yours helps keep me working on my dream when it gets tough!

    Thanks for the boost in morale

    Hoodyy
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  • Profile picture of the author tobyR
    A terrific post and just so true. Its so easy to try, not get the results and give up - i have several times. Mindset is definately for me where its at - really good - thanks
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    • Profile picture of the author Rohan Anderson
      Good stuff Chris.

      I agree with what you said about finding a method and then sticking to it until you get results. A lot of newbies could save themselves a lot of grief (and money) by following that advice.

      Continued success.
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      • Profile picture of the author SpikeS
        This is refreshing

        Makes a nice change to hear someone on here saying 'I'm successful' for reasons other than money.
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  • Profile picture of the author Jake Gray
    No. Here's to YOUR success.

    I don't say this a lot, but it's amazing to see
    someone whom works as hard as you do. Three
    jobs is a lot, but you did it to keep your family
    afloat. Highly respectable. If you have any questions
    about anything, let me know.

    Jake
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  • Profile picture of the author Ty Neal
    Great story my friend, you are right 200% and it great to here you have the time to raise your son, This industry can change lives but you must put in that 200% 100 in action and 100 in taking action

    Awesome post Chris...
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  • Profile picture of the author theory expert
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    I hate to be the bad guy...but this should be in the "off topic, or, mind-warriors forum section.
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    • Profile picture of the author bretski
      Great story and very motivational. I am sure that when you look at your children and your finace it makes it a lot easier to tell yourself not only "I want to do this" but "I HAVE to do this... I HAVE to succeed!"

      For me, it was an impending foreclosure, the possibility of being homeless (again) and my children that motivated me to do what needed to be done in order to push past the doubt and find success.

      Thank you for reminding me of what this is all about. Honestly, thank you, my friend.
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  • Profile picture of the author Manuelcrc
    Yeah, 200% for success online is quite true. It's not just all talk, but talk coupled with the RIGHT action.
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  • Profile picture of the author Janice Sperry
    Great post and congrats on putting your family first. All the money in the world won't raise children right or give them love. As far as the business part of your post my favorite part was...

    You see it takes 200% to really make it in IM 100% attitude and 100% action. So I decided to find a method and stick with it until it produced results.
    That should be the first to sentences in every ebook or report for newbies.
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  • Profile picture of the author kyhell
    thank you for all of your kind words

    I think the first place failure starts is in the attitude. The thing About this buisness is that almost anyone can do it once they overcome self doubt.
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  • Profile picture of the author Ridgway
    Thanks for sharing. Love to hear these stories. Helps remind me not to take it for granted, and enjoy the fruits of my labors.
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  • Profile picture of the author dejoliet31
    Very uplifting motivational post. Congratulations!

    Your tenacity is a testament to the power of the choices we make. At any time, you could have chosen to quit. Instead you chose to stay committed to the outcome. Often we are closer to success than we realize.

    Thanks for sharing your hard-won victory.
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  • Profile picture of the author NicolaTewhare
    What a wonderful lifestyle. I admire your tenacity and determination. Now you can enjoy your precious time with family. Well Done
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  • Profile picture of the author kayo1234
    Very inspiring Kyhell thank you for sharing. It's always good to hear a true "cinderella" story. I wish you and your family all the best and I wish the same for myself. ;-)
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  • Profile picture of the author wpxo
    This is such a motivating story. It's good to read about people making it in this industry and how this industry has enabled people to live a more stress-free, quality lifestyle. Don't get me wrong, making great money online is great. However, I feel that the true reward comes in being able to live a rewarding, fulfilling lifestyle. Thanks for this inspiring story.
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  • Profile picture of the author Sheryl Polomka
    Always like to read a good inspirational story and you are so correct - work work work is what you need to be successful.

    I too am guilty of giving up before really giving something the chance to work.

    Thanks for sharing your story Chris

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  • Profile picture of the author edricwage
    Originally Posted by kyhell View Post

    So its a beautiful sunday morning here in Nebraska,
    I was sitting on my front deck with my family talking and laughing with my kids and my fiance.

    This is an experience I don't take for granted. You see not that very long ago I was working 3 separate jobs 7 days a week 14 to 16 hours a day and I was still barely getting by.

    A lot has changed over the years and with my success online the one thing I'm most grateful for is being able to spend all of my time with my kids.

    Our family is pretty big. We have two teenagers a 15 year old daughter who is the apple of my eye and a 13 year old son who keeps me on my toes. We also have two 12 year old boys and a 10 year old son and these guys are my three musketeers. And I cant forget the My 6 month old baby Boy.

    I am especially excited that because of my success with my business I am going to be able to be there to really raise my son.

    There is no worse feeling in the world for a parent than to realize that your kids are being raised in day care and I can not express to you the absolute feeling of relief I have knowing that I will never have to experience that ever again.

    So whats the point of this little post?

    I wanted to share with you a little about my life and what really matters most to me. For some people being successful means a new house or a new flashy car but for me it means time, time with my family.

    Now it took a lot of trial and error over the years with my IM business and a whole lot of failures.

    But I never gave up. The thing is that it took me a while to find a method that really worked for me.

    All to often I would try something and if I didn't see results right away I would give up or move on.

    It wasn't until I realized I was sabotaging my own success that I changed my attitude.

    You see it takes 200% to really make it in IM 100% attitude and 100% action. So I decided to find a method and stick with it until it produced results.

    Acheiving your dreams is a state of mind and you have only 2 real choices... you can sit by and let life happen or you can get in there and mix it up and make things happen.

    Here's to your success!
    This is such a great story, thank you for sharing it. Now it serves as a motivation to all of us.
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