Sharpen your instincts

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In another thread, a poster made the comment:
trust me. My hunches are always correct.
Some people thought that was over the top. It's really not, although it's also not likely to be strictly true.

Now, it's entirely possible that his internal editor has him believing he's right all the time. It's easy for vague feelings to be explained afterward, when there's data to fit into the equation.

It's very common, actually. A normal function of the way the brain processes information. (For an explanation of the process, in the event that you find these things even remotely interesting, see Daniel C. Dennett's "Consciousness Explained.")

This post isn't about the technical stuff. Most people don't care about that, and they don't really need to. On the other hand, improving one's intuition and the accuracy of one's judgment is always a good thing.

Here's a way to do that.

Every time you have a feeling about how something will turn out, or a hunch, or a flash of intuition, write it down. Be as specific as you can about what the hunch is, and why you believe it will work out that way.

By writing them down, you circumvent your internal editor, which can actually change how you remember things that happened in the past. As in, completely change them, so that the original no longer ever "happened," as far as you're able to tell.

Then, when the situation is resolved, go back and check your hunches against what really happened. You'll get a much clearer idea of how accurate your instincts are.

You will also find them improving over time. Often, in not much time at all.

This works. I was once in a business where a 65-70% accuracy rate on one judgment call was considered excellent. A friend suggested I do the exercise I just described for three weeks. I did and, from the end of those 3 weeks until I left the business, my accuracy rate was better than 95%.

That's not bragging. Quite the contrary, in fact. In every process where I've applied that, I've had significant improvements - but so has every other person I know who's done it honestly. And it is almost always a matter of focusing the brain on the real causes of results, which generally lie in doing the basics right.

It makes you stop kidding yourself, and it rewards you for recognizing reality.

Try it for a while. I think you'll find it helps.


Paul
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  • Profile picture of the author indexphp
    Writing stuff down (and keeping notes) is probably one of the most beneficial things I've ever decided to do in my life. True story.
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  • Profile picture of the author Daniel Deegan
    Intuition is a fascinating topic for discussion and examination. I'm very keen on making use of my instincts, but have learned I must examine them closely to make sure they were not triggered by fear or greed, etc. Certain emotions and ideas we have can pollute what I consider true intuition. When my intuition is strong it's clear, decisive and objective as if the feeling while within me is also outside of me...
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  • Profile picture of the author John Taylor
    Paul,

    That's an elegant process for using the left
    brain to validate a right brain function.

    Consider it "Suh-wiped" ;-)

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    • Profile picture of the author Martin Luxton
      I've got a hunch this'll work for me.

      When I was younger I had quite a few instances of precognition that scared the hell out of me. Maybe it was better at the time that I didn't write them down because I was too immature to handle it and I wanted to forget about them.

      Now I am seeing the same thing in my son and I really pay heed to it.

      Martin
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  • Profile picture of the author lakshaybehl
    Thank You Paul, it's the kind of posts I really enjoy from you....

    Here's a technique I use myself so as to intuitively know the right choice... before going to bed, I listen to this MP3 thorugh my headphones which I recorded myself... Which reminds me of the powers of my subconscious brain...

    It starts with a little bit of relaxation suggestions and then goes on to the main sentence...

    I say this over and over... And I said it in my own voice, coz your subconscious is highly open to suggestions from your own voice...

    "I know the right answers to all problems"

    That's it... I listen to it everyday before I go to bed with these modifications...

    1. A Background music... Waterfall LOOP... That keeps repeating itself over and over..

    2. ECHO... Very important... If you use a simple music editor and create echo from your own voice, it'd be very nice... And MUCH MORE POWERFUL... ECHO attracts the subconscious mind as a child.

    3. MODULATION: This might be difficult for the technically challenged... nevertheless I'll just say this... If you could set up the music in such a way that the sound track (BG MUSIC) flows out predominantly from LEFT channel and the VOICE track from the right channel for the first five seconds and then the balance gradually changes sides and keeps doing it... It'd be TEN TIMES MORE EFFECTIVE... You'd be in the so-called ALPHA state where the sub - mind is much more receptive....

    And listen to it everuynight before going to bed, I've found it works really well for me and many other coaching clients I've recommended it to as well.

    HINT: treat your subconscious mind as a VERY POWEFRUL 1 year old kid... Your wish needs to made its desire cuz once it gets what you want, it'll attract it with ease and grace.

    Hope this helps the readers
    -Lakshay
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  • Profile picture of the author lakshaybehl
    And yes, you don't really have to use my words... you can just say whatever you want from life... Just say it a few times and your audio is ready. Another tip is to use headphones to listen to it, because the modulation effect just seems to work the best if and only if you listen to it through a stereo sound module... Headphones/earphones work the best!
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  • Profile picture of the author JayXtreme
    oooooohhh..

    Interesting reading here folks...

    Thank you kindly..

    I just popped over to amazon to order consciousness explained.. thanks for the rec. Paul

    Peace

    Jay
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    • Profile picture of the author kumar
      I strongly suggest the book, Blink by Malcolm Gladwell, which explores the power of intuition.
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      • Profile picture of the author Diana Lane
        Originally Posted by Martin Luxton View Post

        Now I am seeing the same thing in my son and I really pay heed to it.

        Martin
        Interesting. Such things have often happened to me too. Your post made me think of way back when my boys were two and three, and their sisters weren't yet thought of. I was a single parent then and it was just the three of us, but I don't think we were any closer than any other family in the same situation.

        Over a period of a few months, I lost count of the times when they would interrupt a thought of mine by finishing it themselves out loud before changing the subject to one they were more interested in. This seemed perfectly normal to me at the time, and almost as soon as it crossed my mind that it wasn't, it stopped happening.

        I think we do let our minds and instincts decide their own limitations, and these limitations are usually well within the boundaries of what we're all really capable of.

        Thanks for the thread, Paul.
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        • Profile picture of the author Martin Luxton
          Diane,

          I had an interesting talk with my brother a couple of years back.

          He was very in tune with nature and his environment but, because what he experienced what outside the norm of what other people thought was reality he suppressed his talent.

          It's one of the reasons that "Field of Dreams" is among my favourite films. I think too many of us stop listening to our wonderful inner voice too young and never get it back.

          In one sense, I have never stopped believing in the notion of Santa Claus. We all have the ability to create magic in our lives if we have enough faith in our abilities.

          Martin
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