Is your forum screen name hurting your business?

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A very simple question for all: is you screen name hurting your business
relationships or networking wise?

Here's why I ask this it's because I see so many weird looking name
on the forum and if i see someone with a screen name like kf4qhk
or maxi_soft, you know what I mean I tend to avoid reading their
threads or try to get to know them.

To me it looks like spammers. What do you guys think?

Does your screen name affects your business relationships on the forum?

--David
#business #forum #hurting #screen
  • Profile picture of the author Steven Carl Kelly
    Originally Posted by David_Thompson View Post

    What do you guys think?
    Personally, to me screen names, avatars, and the like don't have any impact on how I view anyone else on the forums. Screen names wouldn't sway me either toward or away from a person.

    Post count and longevity are more significant when I look at a poster and try to size them up.
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    • Profile picture of the author David_Thompson
      Originally Posted by faxinator View Post

      Personally, to me screen names, avatars, and the like don't have any impact on how I view anyone else on the forums. Screen names wouldn't sway me either toward or away from a person.

      Post count and longevity are more significant when I look at a poster and try to size them up.
      I've been on here since 2003 and it's only the last 2 or 3 years that I've
      really started posting on a regular bases. I first came onto this forum
      back in 2002 because of a buddy of mine and didn't register till 2003.

      With the rate of spam the forum was getting awhile back when you
      see names like the ones I mention about, it does make a difference
      on whether you get involve with them or not.

      --David
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      • Profile picture of the author Andy Money
        Hasn't hurt mine, at least I don't think. I don't really have anything to compare it to. Most online communities don't function where your user name is your real name and your avatar is your real picture and that doesn't seem to ruin anyone else's credibility regarding any other hobby/niche.
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        • Profile picture of the author Steven Carl Kelly
          Originally Posted by mrsleep99 View Post

          Hasn't hurt mine, at least I don't think. I don't really have anything to compare it to. Most online communities don't function where your user name is your real name and your avatar is your real picture and that doesn't seem to ruin anyone else's credibility regarding any other hobby/niche.
          In my case, I'm not worried about forging business relationships here in the forums. I have had one long-term business relationship come out of posting here, but I'm not actively seeking it. Whether or not people find me credible or not based on my screen name is neither here nor there to me.

          I post here because I enjoy posting here, and I hope to pick up a tip or two that I haven't thought of, and maybe to help someone else with my own years of online marketing experience.

          In fact, who even knows if the names and photos people use are their actual identities in the first place?
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    • Profile picture of the author jacstone193
      Originally Posted by faxinator View Post

      Personally, to me screen names, avatars, and the like don't have any impact on how I view anyone else on the forums. Screen names wouldn't sway me either toward or away from a person.

      Post count and longevity are more significant when I look at a poster and try to size them up.
      yes I agree with you here
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      • Profile picture of the author learnmore
        What's wrong with using a pen name? If people need to know your real name, you can tell them.

        A good case can be made for some really difficult names (some folks from non-English speaking countries), wouldn't it help them if they picked Jack instead of their real name. If they used their real name, nobody will be able to pronounce or remember it. Just me two cents. As you can see I use my real name
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      • Profile picture of the author Kay King
        I'd think you should use the HELP DESK if you want to request a name change.

        The old forum had moderators - that is no longer the case so there's no one to make a change if you start a thread about it. If you have just a few posts since joining - just rejoin with your real name. If you want to keep your post count - ask for the change at the help desk.

        Using a forum name is a personal choice and some prefer to remain anonymous. The problem arises when someone is giving advice to others and there is no way to know WHO is giving the advice - no name, no site or blog listed.

        The "who are you" is important if you try to sell to members here through WSO's or the Classifieds due to the credibility factor.

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        • Profile picture of the author Richard Tunnah
          Originally Posted by Kay King View Post

          I'd think you should use the HELP DESK if you want to request a name change.

          The old forum had moderators - that is no longer the case so there's no one to make a change if you start a thread about it. If you have just a few posts since joining - just rejoin with your real name. If you want to keep your post count - ask for the change at the help desk.

          Using a forum name is a personal choice and some prefer to remain anonymous. The problem arises when someone is giving advice to others and there is no way to know WHO is giving the advice - no name, no site or blog listed.

          The "who are you" is important if you try to sell to members here through WSO's or the Classifieds due to the credibility factor.

          kay
          Kay...is absolutely correct. I requested my username change last night and today golly I'm revealed in all my 'naked' glory! []

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          • Profile picture of the author Chris Lagarde
            I just joined this forum, and initially when I registered I flippantly picked my user name. Well, gosh darn it, I like this forum and I will be creating a new identity (since I have so few posts I really don't plan on bothering a mod to change my user name). I'll pick a less wacky user name but it still won't be my birth name.

            There are reasons why someone would not want to use their real name, and I'm not thinking criminal. Rather, someone, let's say an accountant, is just entering the IM world and doesn't want to mix up their offline identity with their online IM identity. Prospective clients can easily google your name. Why would you want to blur your personal brand, and the services you provide under that brand, by advertising two different "jobs" you do? Most clients want to believe they are working with an expert who works full time at their one chosen profession.
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            • Profile picture of the author ~kev~
              Originally Posted by tomw View Post

              With respect, ~kev~, why not practice the stern words that you are preaching?

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              Originally Posted by MaskedMarketer View Post


              Maybe hes not a professional, that's why?
              Your right, I do not think of myself as a "professional." I am not your "suit and tie" type of person.

              My real name is Kevin, but everyone calls me Kev. On a lot of websites I use the "~" for decoration. Kinda like how some people have a fancy signature, drive a nice car, or dress nice - I like how the "~" compliments my name.
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            • Profile picture of the author richdirtygirl
              Hi

              thanks goodness I AM using my real name and avatar or someone could think I'm not serious? lololololololololol

              For me... username and avatar are there for the first look... you know... you see a girl/boy and decide it worth to drink something and see what happens...

              From there... you have to bring it. :p

              Usually those that want to brand their name, will use it. It is a clever move if you have something else to bring to the table besides the name. If not, you are toasted...

              Then you have some really cool guys with girls avatars...

              And some mysterious ones who want to fight the system from the shadows...

              Me? I just want to have fun...

              RDG :p
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  • Profile picture of the author Eric Stanley
    This is actually a good point. *IF* I could change my screen name on warrior I would change it to my actual name. When I first signed up, I didn't know what to expect or what the community was like. Looking on it now, I wish I could change it.
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    • Profile picture of the author Andy Money
      Originally Posted by newyorktrader View Post

      This is actually a good point. *IF* I could change my screen name on warrior I would change it to my actual name. When I first signed up, I didn't know what to expect or what the community was like. Looking on it now, I wish I could change it.
      Same really, I actually have my name registered on another email but I lost the password and can't get it now. vBulletin lets you change the username from the backend though.
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      • Profile picture of the author David_Thompson
        Originally Posted by mrsleep99 View Post

        Same really, I actually have my name registered on another email but I lost the password and can't get it now. vBulletin lets you change the username from the backend though.
        Guys here's what to do start a thread asking Allen to change your
        screen names to your real name or business name.

        We have had a couple threads like that b4 and they have worked
        great, I think people on the forum are more open when reading
        and responding to names...

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      • Profile picture of the author Kat Bartone
        newyorktrader,

        Back when we had mods, we used to be able to have our screen name changed. I had mine changed oh, maybe a year ago. Not sure how it works now, but you could try to contact Allen and ask him about how you can change it.

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        • Profile picture of the author Eric Stanley
          Originally Posted by Kat Bartone View Post

          newyorktrader,

          Back when we had mods, we used to be able to have our screen name changed. I had mine changed oh, maybe a year ago. Not sure how it works now, but you could try to contact Allen and ask him about how you can change it.

          - Kat

          Thanks for the tip. I will try to submit a ticket or something on the matter.
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    • Profile picture of the author Dan Ambrose
      Originally Posted by newyorktrader View Post

      This is actually a good point. *IF* I could change my screen name on warrior I would change it to my actual name. When I first signed up, I didn't know what to expect or what the community was like. Looking on it now, I wish I could change it.
      I agree with Eric.

      In hindsight, I wish I used my real name. However as it stands, it's not affecting my business.

      I also agree with faxinator, that post count and longevity mean more to me than the name itself.

      Sometimes it works the other way... scammer can give a full name (doesn't have to be their own) and give off the impression thay are some hot shot... but in actual fact they aren't.
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  • Profile picture of the author James Schramko
    I notice the non-personal names seem prolific in negative threads. It provides
    them a little cover.
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  • Profile picture of the author HeySal
    People call me the same thing whether it's my screen name or not - Hey..Sal.
    I think it's pretty appropriate. My partners, members of my site, general public, and clients all know me as Sal and I am rarely known as anything else. It's a bit informal - but that is me to a tee anyway.
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  • Profile picture of the author Simon_Sezs
    I think it really depends on what you are doing in the forum. If you are looking to network, then I imagine that a real name should be your user name.

    If you are 'branding' yourself to become the next big thing, then you should probably try to become as credible as possible and that would require your real name somewhere down the road as well.

    Most of the warrior "lords" and "queens" of the warrior forum won't deal with you unless they can do a background check on you. That would require your name so they can "google" you and find out more about you.

    So, obviously, if you want to use the forum to make money and gain credibility with your name AND network, then a username is suggested.....

    I personally handle most of my networking relationships at linkedin and this forum is more of a form of entertainment for me. I drop in when I am bored, basically. Sometimes there is good information. Sometimes there isn't.

    I am basically into SEM and since this field doesn't require networking in the same dimension as say...selling an ebook or software would, I visit for different reasons. So, to answer the OP's original question, no, my screen name isn't hurting my business because I am not using the WF for monetary gain or networking.....just using it for a fleeting moment of entertainment.
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  • Profile picture of the author Zubair Zm
    David,
    Thanks for this post. I had an opportunity to change my screen name when a long time ago someone had started a thread to change their screen name to their real name.

    I have started a thread at http://www.warriorforum.com/main-int...reen-name.html to request admin to change screen name to real name if requested.
    Good luck
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  • Profile picture of the author Anthony Smith
    Yeah I'm happy I used my real name instead of an aim name or myspace or what have you. Makes me feel more professional, reminds me I'm here working, maybe having a little fun as well, but the main idea, is to WORK.
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    • Profile picture of the author David_Thompson
      You guys are most welcome the whole thread
      came about when someone asked a question
      in another thread that I could have answered
      but I couldn't find the persons name to reply to
      them so I just didn't make a reply...

      Which is a shame because they could have learnt
      something new or someone could...

      --David
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  • Profile picture of the author Ben_Curtis
    Some avatars scare me............
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    • Profile picture of the author Jenni Mac
      Originally Posted by Ben_Curtis View Post

      Some avatars scare me............
      I know the feeling, I can think of at 3 where I either have to scroll past their avatars or just click out and not read what they've said.
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  • Profile picture of the author esr
    I honestly hardly EVER look at the usernames. I recognize posters by their pictures or avatars.

    For some reason, they're much easier to remember and recognize.
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    • Profile picture of the author melanied
      I may get my screen name changed to my real name, but my last name is kind of complicated, that's why I never used it before.

      Interesting story, though...

      When I realized that I wanted to start a personal blog where I blogged about pop culture, tech, music, web 2.0, life, etc...I thought long and hard about what to name it, and finally settled on my real name. I mean, hey, it's who I am, right? Why not embrace it?

      Luckily, I had already had my full name registered and online since 2002 as a simple five page website - a professional portfolio. So I just moved that elsewhere, installed wordpress, imported a bunch of old posts from blurty and myspace blogs and then started making new posts pretty much every day.

      Well, as it turns out, Google kinda LOVES old sites. haha. Who knew? (just kidding...I know everyone knows). At any rate, only a couple of months later, it's already getting a few hundred uniques a day with zero promotion.

      The point of this story?

      IT PAYS TO EMBRACE WHO YOU ARE!
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  • Profile picture of the author barrytan
    A real name will give others more confidence in your work.

    Cheers !
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    Hi

    Because of my first name, I've lost count of the times that people have taken me for a "bloke"! Don't know if it's good or bad :p

    I've now changed my sig and the custom user title just to give a bit of a hint!!

    As for an avatar - well - no, we'll not go into that! Let's say I have a face for radio!

    All the best,
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  • Profile picture of the author David_Thompson
    Have you guys notice the name change of most of the top
    players in our industry that are members here most use
    their own name...

    Frank Kern, John Reese, Mike Filsiame, Paul Myers and sorry
    for all the other people that I haven't mention but you guys
    see the point I'm making, how powerful you brand can be
    whether it's your name or company name...

    --David
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  • Profile picture of the author ~kev~
    If you are a professional, then act like it. That includes your avatar, domain name, screen name and email address.
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    • Profile picture of the author tomw
      Originally Posted by ~kev~ View Post

      If you are a professional, then act like it. That includes your avatar, domain name, screen name and email address.
      With respect, ~kev~, why not practice the stern words that you are preaching?

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    Somehow, yes. But for me, their posts matter to me more than anything. If I could get some good advice out of them, then it's worth checking their profile.
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    very interesting question.
    I think the answer's are going to be really relative in nature.
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    • Profile picture of the author MaskedMarketer
      Originally Posted by James Schramko View Post

      I notice the non-personal names seem prolific in negative threads. It provides
      them a little cover.
      Or people use pen names and/or false pictures.

      Its actually very easy to fake identity online.


      Originally Posted by tomw View Post

      With respect, ~kev~, why not practice the stern words that you are preaching?

      Thomas
      Maybe hes not a professional, that's why?
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  • Profile picture of the author Richard Tunnah
    Thanks David. I kept meaning to get my Username changed to 'me'. Now done this. I'm fully revealed! lol


    Rich
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  • Profile picture of the author Josef_Benjamin
    I could careless.

    2 much controversy about status quo and what's right or wrong about mundane things.

    screen names should not be the top on anybody's rader list, and if it is, you need to be focusing on something more productive like...your business
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