Be Real And Set Up Realistic Goals!

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I just want to share my mindset with you guys.

When I entered the IM world, I was getting slapped from left to right with products claiming they will make me $500/day without doing anything. And I must admint like learning how to play poker I paid my share of learning fees. But then I sat down and asked myself what I wanted from IM and I came to this conclusion.

IM is fun it's something that always changes and there are new ways to making money all the time what you need to do is being realistic and not get ahead of yourself and only wanting those $500/days. Heck when I made $50/day I was walking on clouths because I reached a goal I had set for myself.

My goal was to make to make $4500 a month and it still is every month, if I reach that number I know this month was a succes.

Why $4500?

Being rich for me doesn't mean being able to buy fast card, designer clothes and all that it's a plus I won't deny that but it's not what drives me to make money. You know what the greatest luxury is being able to pay your bills on time without having to worry, going to the grocery story and not having to count everything you buy in advance that's what being rich to me means.

I made a list:
$1500 for my apartment
$1000 other expenses (car, medical, internet,phone bill)
$1000 on food (I know this is a bit much)
$1000 on the rest (clothes, going out, vacation, having a girlfriend isn't cheap you know)

As you can see some parts don't need that amount of money I really don't need $1000 for food but it's my buffer just in case. To reach this goal I had to be making $150/days and it took hard work with ups and downs. Did I stop when I reached that goal? No I did not when I reached that with the things that I had learned I had some extra funds to start learning about others aspects of IM. For example at the moment I'm learning how to find my way in eBay, I'm a newbie all over again but it's just another goal that I want to conquer.

I just want to say to the newbies don't look at the big numbers, if someone knows a way to make $5$10$20/day just go for it scale it up you never know what might happen.


Kristof
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  • Profile picture of the author David Lamb
    The big claims of internet marketers can really be damaging to newbies.

    They get these big numbers in their heads and then feel like failures when they can't come close.

    Once you make enough to pay your expenses, you're successful. After that, you just have to decide whether free time or money is more important to you.
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    • Originally Posted by David Lamb View Post

      The big claims of internet marketers can really be damaging to newbies.

      They get these big numbers in their heads and then feel like failures when they can't come close.

      Once you make enough to pay your expenses, you're successful. After that, you just have to decide whether free time or money is more important to you.
      Spot on.



      Kristof
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  • Profile picture of the author theory expert
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    What is realistic is all relative.
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  • Profile picture of the author uleesgold
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    If you're just starting out with something you don't have experience, it really is hard to know what's realistic at times.

    Lack of realistic goals has held me back and wasted my own time in the past.

    So, its important to separate wants from needs and have plan B and C.
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  • Profile picture of the author J R Salem
    You make great points. Why does everyone think you have to make "$67483,4867675 an hour" to be successful at IM?

    It's kinda like the people who only play the lotto when its above $50 million.

    What, is $5million not good enough for you??

    Same with IM. If you are making $37,500 in your day job, and you can make $34,000 in IM, while working for home -- isn't the salary reduction worth it to do what you want?

    Or if you can make $45,000 -- what's wrong with that??

    Don't worry about getting rich. Worry about making a living.
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  • Profile picture of the author bonk12
    Setting goals is important, but you also have to know how to set goals. Setting ridiculously high goals and never achieving close to what you want can be rough if you don't have the mind set to deal with it.

    Personally, I set ridiculous goals for myself. I don' become discouraged when I don't reach my goal, but I also find I'm motivated to work harder. I try to treat my goal as if it was a request from my boss. That way when I look at my daily schedule and see that I could spend the night out drinking or inside working towards my goal, I end up not wanting to let my goal get out of reach and stay inside to work.

    It seems a little bit depressing at first but in order to live a comfortable life it's important to put in all the work now so that later, things will be easier for you to the point where week long vacations every month are not out of your reach because you have the steady income to do it.

    Just my thoughts.

    Cheers,

    Steve
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  • Profile picture of the author dadamson
    Great post, thanks a lot! Mindset really is the way to success and personal goals are the best way to manage this.

    Keep on setting personal goals in small increments and think 'what will the extra money get me?' - This will help you get inspired to reach these small personal goals.
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  • Profile picture of the author Peter Clark
    I disagree. Being "realistic" is not an attitude of the majorly successful. What most people consider realistic is a life of mediocrity, scraping out enough of a living to put food in their mouths, knock out the rent, and keep their cable on.

    Since I have bigger goals than that, I much prefer to simply decide exactly what I want, make an action plan, and then go after it, no matter how "realistic" it isn't.
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