Before You Create A New Thread Please Do The Following......

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Warriors,

Before you create a new thread please do at least the following few things:

1. Use the "search" function to see if your question has already been asked, chances are it has been and might have the answer you are looking for.

2. Once you've completed step #1 and you still need to make a post, make sure you go to the main page at http://www.warriorforum.com/ and make sure you post your thread in the right forum.

I've been seeing a lot of SEO-type questions in the main forum lately that are getting moved over to the SEO forum.

Of course the following goes without saying, but since I'm on a roll, make sure you've already reviewed the rules (a.k.a. "stickies") which are here:

http://www.warriorforum.com/main-int...ing-forum.html

http://www.warriorforum.com/main-int...bers-read.html

And if you're new to the forum, welcome! This place is a goldmine, especially if you put the time and effort to learn the rules, participate, and build relationships.

Veteran Warriors, feel free to add your two cents, pesos, etc.

RoD
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  • Profile picture of the author Ross Kenny
    Yeah the same questions being asked over and over :rolleyes:

    Forever pointing people to old posts.

    Use the search function as there is a wealth of burried information on this forum!
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    Very timely notice...
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  • Profile picture of the author Brekat23
    I'm a perfect example for the creation of this thread - I apologize for being at all inconvenient with my posts and where I've posted them. I've never intentionally meant to break both your #1 and #2 rules; its just kind've happened on a few occassions. My sincere apologies for that and I've been working on a being a better member here. Thanks for everything from everyone so far!
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  • Profile picture of the author Wonderful Warrior
    I think people have the right to ask anything they want as long as they follow forum rules..

    Sometimes questions have been asked but not answered properly. Or sometimes the answers have changed over time.

    If there is a question that has been asked a thousand times, it is very easy to not open that thread.

    Remember that new people come to this forum all the time and are looking for the most basic questions. Nobody is going to read hundreds of threads back.

    The only reason I am writing this is because people should not be afraid to ask questions. (Unless they are asking stupid questions just to boost their post count).
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    • Profile picture of the author scrofford
      Originally Posted by Wonderful Warrior View Post

      I think people have the right to ask anything they want as long as they follow forum rules..

      Sometimes questions have been asked but not answered properly. Or sometimes the answers have changed over time.

      If there is a question that has been asked a thousand times, it is very easy to not open that thread.

      Remember that new people come to this forum all the time and are looking for the most basic questions. Nobody is going to read hundreds of threads back.

      The only reason I am writing this is because people should not be afraid to ask questions. (Unless they are asking stupid questions just to boost their post count).
      Yeah and that's why there is a SEARCH button here so that people can search out the answer to their question BEFORE posting something new. People who don't want to search for their answers are pretty much just being lazy. Now if they search for an answer and don't find it, then by all means post a new thread.

      Also, you have NO rights here. This is a private forum and you are subject to the owners rules and wishes. If you think you can say whatever you want here and do whatever you want you are very mistaken.

      Yes people can and should ask questions, but why waste others time and energy when the answer could already be here on this forum?
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  • Profile picture of the author jacktackett
    Great point Rod. Folks should also be aware a series of threads was started many moons ago called 'All in one'. Basically one topic threads where folks can discuss flipping, membership sites etc. They post pointers and resources and other items. You can find them here:

    allinone - WarriorForum - Internet Marketing Forums - Threads Tagged with allinone

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  • Profile picture of the author SeanSupplee
    Before this site used to be all about article marketing questions and backlinking. It still is lol and nothing has really changed ...
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    • Profile picture of the author Tina Golden
      Originally Posted by Wonderful Warrior View Post

      I think people have the right to ask anything they want as long as they follow forum rules..
      And your thought would be wrong. There are no "rights" here beyond what the owner grants you. Forum rules do not cover common netiquette issues and shouldn't have to. Being new doesn't excuse a lack of common sense or courtesy.

      Originally Posted by SeanSupplee View Post

      Before this site used to be all about article marketing questions and backlinking. It still is lol and nothing has really changed ...
      I guess you see what you want to see. I see a ton about all sorts of IM areas.
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      • Profile picture of the author IM Ash
        Originally Posted by Tina Golden View Post

        ...Being new doesn't excuse a lack of common sense or courtesy.
        I will venture to say that being new is actually the most valid excuse for a lack of common sense. Afterall, what is common to you as a long-standing forum member is more often than not completely foreign to a new member who hasn't experienced the dynamics of a forum environment.
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        • Profile picture of the author Rod Cortez
          Originally Posted by Wonderful Warrior View Post

          I think people have the right to ask anything they want as long as they follow forum rules..

          Sometimes questions have been asked but not answered properly. Or sometimes the answers have changed over time.

          If there is a question that has been asked a thousand times, it is very easy to not open that thread.

          Remember that new people come to this forum all the time and are looking for the most basic questions. Nobody is going to read hundreds of threads back.

          The only reason I am writing this is because people should not be afraid to ask questions. (Unless they are asking stupid questions just to boost their post count).
          I agree with you 100%, people should not be afraid to ask questions. No where in my post did I suggest otherwise. The point I was driving at was people should at least search and see if their question has been asked and answered in a timely fashion or has the answer they were seeking. I totally get that sometimes a question was asked but may need to be asked again in order to get a more updated answer (since bumping old threads is generally frowned upon).

          Thank you for bringing it up. Questions are one of the many things that keep this forum going.

          Originally Posted by jacktackett View Post

          Great point Rod. Folks should also be aware a series of threads was started many moons ago called 'All in one'. Basically one topic threads where folks can discuss flipping, membership sites etc. They post pointers and resources and other items. You can find them here:

          allinone - WarriorForum - Internet Marketing Forums - Threads Tagged with allinone

          Welcome to all the new comers - this is indeed a great place to hang out.
          --Jack
          Good point Jack, those all-in-one threads are real goldmines. I wish there was an all-in-one sticky that had all of them in one locked thread so people can go to one centralized place to find them. I'm a prime example, I had totally forgotten about them until you brought it up!

          Originally Posted by SeanSupplee View Post

          Before this site used to be all about article marketing questions and backlinking. It still is lol and nothing has really changed ...
          Interesting observation since I have observed the complete opposite, I guess it all depends on what you choose to focus on.

          Originally Posted by Eleva8 View Post

          I will venture to say that being new is actually the most valid excuse for a lack of common sense. Afterall, what is common to you as a long-standing forum member is more often than not completely foreign to a new member who hasn't experienced the dynamics of a forum environment.
          That's a valid point. It does take time to get to know one's way around this forum, even after reading the rules. Even after being a member here for years I've had some posts deleted (then again I sometimes post during happy hour, which isn't always the smartest thing to do). And there have been a couple of times when the rules were updated in the WSO forum and I made a couple of boo-boos in there.

          All I'm asking is that people put a little more thought and effort before they start a thread and it will not just benefit the forum, but them as well.

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          • Profile picture of the author Scott Burton
            Originally Posted by Wonderful Warrior View Post

            I think people have the right to ask anything they want as long as they follow forum rules..
            Up to a point I understand what you mean, but as I opened this thread, on the FIRST PAGE of threads, I counted 3 different new or nearly new (but still on the first page) threads asking the same question, and most of them are getting pointed to the thread that was on the first page much of the past 2 days about outsourcing.

            Just because it's not seen on the first page when you load it, doesn't mean you shouldn't at least TRY the search button.

            Using search, for the word "outsourcing" I found 5 differnt threads which were posted to in the main forum alone, within the past 5 hours.

            Of those, only 3 were on the first page of threads as I started this message

            So rather than starting a new thread asking where to outsource... Doesn't it make sense to try the search button first?

            If the question was answered 4 hours ago by 7 different warriors, odds are THEIR answers haven't changed in the last 4 hours, and many of them won't STILL BE ONLINE to see your thread now.

            If a lot of good information is in those threads, but after reading them you still had questions, the logical choice might be to try asking in the most relevant of those threads, because a thread with 7+ replies is more likely to get opened by people because a) it already has info, b) they may have already seen the thread a couple times, and c) if it's back on the top of the forum, something's been added since they lat looked.

            (yikes, I didn't intend for that to be so long, sorry)

            Originally Posted by Wonderful Warrior View Post

            Sometimes questions have been asked but not answered properly. Or sometimes the answers have changed over time.

            If there is a question that has been asked a thousand times, it is very easy to not open that thread.
            I've started a few threads over time, and I've had some sink like stones right off the first page with 3 views and no replies. But a thread that keeps getting interest, that keeps coming back up because people add more to it... Those threads can become goldmines of information. And it there's a goldmine of information that was last updated 6 days ago... Do you think asking the same question today is going to get all that same info?

            Originally Posted by Wonderful Warrior View Post

            Remember that new people come to this forum all the time and are looking for the most basic questions. Nobody is going to read hundreds of threads back.
            They don't have to read hundreds of threads back. That's why SEARCH was mentioned. Using the search for their keyword (like the apparent hot topic of the week "where to outsource"), a visitor could find all the information that was discussed on this topic JUST yesterday even.


            Originally Posted by Wonderful Warrior View Post

            The only reason I am writing this is because people should not be afraid to ask questions. (Unless they are asking stupid questions just to boost their post count).
            The only reason I'm chiming in, is that when you have 3 threads today about a topic that has been discussed repeatedly, a lot of people are less likely to open the three new threads. So the new threads sink without much attention, and the poster feels that the forum isn't helpful, or they come back and re-post their question again in another new thread.

            We are trying to educate newcomers and old warriors both, that the search its there and it's there for a reason. Although I do think it could stand to be more visible... On more than one occasion I had found myself starting to type search terms into the newsletter subscription box, because it just FELT like that box was a search box. (of course I caught myself before I ever submitted a search phrase...)

            Originally Posted by Teravel View Post

            Great suggestion!!

            One extra step would be...

            Use the "Thanks" button instead of posting a "Hey, thanks" comment. This helps keep the forums clean.
            I've seen a number of such posts, and I have to agree. It's really sad to see someone with 11 posts, and if you look up all their posts, they've asked 1 question and posted 10 "hey thanks!" type comments.

            Originally Posted by Rod Cortez View Post

            I agree with you 100%, people should not be afraid to ask questions. No where in my post did I suggest otherwise. The point I was driving at was people should at least search and see if their question has been asked and answered in a timely fashion or has the answer they were seeking. I totally get that sometimes a question was asked but may need to be asked again in order to get a more updated answer (since bumping old threads is generally frowned upon).
            And if someone asks a question about a subject (let's stick with outsourcing, like I said it's a popular topic at the moment), but in their post they refer to other threads on the subject (links or not), it at least shows the reader that the OP in question at least did some research.

            If the poster demonstrates they've tried to find the answer, there are many people who are more willing to help, than if it looks like the poster just came in and asked a question (especially a very generic question) without even trying to find an answer on their own.

            While that may be a misperception, it is still a perception that a lot of people cling to. "This has been asked and answered 17 times this month, and you can't be bothered to look? I've answered in 5 of those 17 threads and I'm tired of repeating myself if no one can be bothered to look it up"


            Originally Posted by tpw View Post

            I suspect that most people asking the questions desire to believe that people are better search tools than the search tools we have available to us.

            Consider this. You can query Google or WF Search, and still not find the answer you want after several minutes , hours or days. But you can ask a human and probably have your answer in a few minutes with less effort involved in the process.

            Like it or not, we can answer questions, but we cannot always teach people to dedicate themselves to a task to acquire the desired answers on their own.
            But if someone doesn't even appear to make the attempt, or worse yet, gives the (correct or not) appearance that they don't even look at the current first page of threads, then it (right or wrong) leads to people feeling like the advice they keep offering is falling on deaf ears and is being discarded or ignored.

            Originally Posted by Sandor Verebi View Post

            Bill, I accept what you write.

            Only, sometimes it can be annoying the repetition. Young people, as you, even have heard fewer reps than I do. But let this be my problem.
            Much more succinct than my post above. Glad to see it and add it to my reply.
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            • Profile picture of the author Sandor Verebi
              Scott,

              You are welcome.

              Cheers,

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          • Profile picture of the author Diane S
            Originally Posted by Rod Cortez View Post

            I wish there was an all-in-one sticky that had all of them in one locked thread so people can go to one centralized place to find them. I'm a prime example, I had totally forgotten about them until you brought it up!
            RoD
            But there is a sticky listing all the threads, it is at the top of the Main Discussion forum.
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        • Profile picture of the author Istvan Horvath
          Originally Posted by Eleva8 View Post

          I will venture to say that being new is actually the most valid excuse for a lack of common sense.
          And I will venture to say one doesn't come here to learn common sense. One should have acquired (developed?) way before, in the real life. There is no WF-specific common sense.

          However, that general common sense seems to be shrinking...
          To quote Murphy: The sum of the intelligence on the planet is a constant; the population is growing.
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          • Profile picture of the author Sandor Verebi
            Originally Posted by Rod Cortez View Post

            ...
            All I'm asking is that people put a little more thought and effort before they start a thread and it will not just benefit the forum, but them as well.

            RoD
            Rod,

            Nice idea, so be it, I support!

            Originally Posted by Istvan Horvath View Post

            ...
            However, that general common sense seems to be shrinking...
            To quote Murphy: The sum of the intelligence on the planet is a constant; the population is growing.
            Istvan,

            Your quote matches to your answer.

            That villain Murphy is versatile as we see, he always hit the nail on its head.

            Best,

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  • Profile picture of the author Teravel
    Great suggestion!!

    One extra step would be...

    Use the "Thanks" button instead of posting a "Hey, thanks" comment. This helps keep the forums clean.
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  • Profile picture of the author tpw
    I suspect that most people asking the questions desire to believe that people are better search tools than the search tools we have available to us.

    Consider this. You can query Google or WF Search, and still not find the answer you want after several minutes , hours or days. But you can ask a human and probably have your answer in a few minutes with less effort involved in the process.

    Like it or not, we can answer questions, but we cannot always teach people to dedicate themselves to a task to acquire the desired answers on their own.
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    • Profile picture of the author Sandor Verebi
      Originally Posted by tpw View Post

      I suspect that most people asking the questions desire to believe that people are better search tools than the search tools we have available to us.

      Consider this. You can query Google or WF Search, and still not find the answer you want after several minutes , hours or days. But you can ask a human and probably have your answer in a few minutes with less effort involved in the process.

      Like it or not, we can answer questions, but we cannot always teach people to dedicate themselves to a task to acquire the desired answers on their own.
      Bill, I accept what you write.

      Only, sometimes it can be annoying the repetition. Young people, as you, even have heard fewer reps than I do. But let this be my problem.

      My suggestion: do not you ages!

      Best,

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      • Profile picture of the author tpw
        Originally Posted by Sandor Verebi View Post

        Bill, I accept what you write.

        Only, sometimes it can be annoying the repetition. Young people, as you, even have heard fewer reps than I do. But let this be my problem.

        My suggestion: do not you ages!

        Best,

        Sandor

        Exactly.

        In about another couple decades, I may feel exactly as you do.
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        • Profile picture of the author Sandor Verebi
          Originally Posted by tpw View Post

          Exactly.

          In about another couple decades, I may feel exactly as you do.
          Bill,

          This is our fate. But... please, do not hurry so much. Enjoy what you can.

          Cheers,

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          • Profile picture of the author premiumplr
            I'm in total agreement about how annoying it can be to read the same question over and over - and I've only been here a month.

            but since I'm still a relative newbie, I haven't become totally jaded to the WF newbie plight.

            Keep in mind that a search is only as good as the search term used to find it. If you aren't familiar with the terminology searching is futile.

            There are also some questions that are never answered properly, like how to embed youtube video. I searched and the only decent answer was the 12th reply down in an obscure thread. The problem was that youtube changed their link code but no one on the threads updated the directions. I figured it out on my own but pointing me to a thread wouldn't have been much help. Just an example of how the "Go find it yourself" isn't always helpful.

            I love it here but I'll be honest, some of you guys are brutal. I know it's a hard job keeping the forum free of trolls and spammers but sometimes the digital lynch mob really gears up to kick a newbie when he's down. I'm not talking about spammers or the 3 word posters. I'm talking about legitimate newbie questions. Sometimes it seems like it's a race to see who can chastise the offender first and once one person wags the "no-no" finger the swarm comes in for the kill.

            Really? Does it take 43 people to tell someone their posting was off?

            This is rather discouraging and these people may never participate and/or may leave all together.

            While some of you may say good riddance keep in mind that it's the newbie dream that fuels IM and every newbie that has been bullied off may be one less subscriber and customer.

            If it's really that bothersome to have those silly newbie questions littering the forum, consider keeping newbies from starting new threads until X number of posts.

            My two and one half cents. Descending from my virtual soapbox now.
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            • Profile picture of the author Black Hat Cat
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              Warriors,

              Before you create a new thread please do at least the following few things:

              1. Use the "search" function to see if your question has already been asked, chances are it has been and might have the answer you are looking for.
              Ummm.....aren't there already several threads on this subject? Pot, meet kettle.
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              • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
                Originally Posted by Black Hat Cat View Post

                Ummm.....aren't there already several threads on this subject? Pot, meet kettle.
                10 to 1 that if I ever saw an actual photo of your face, it would not have a
                smile on it.

                Do you EVER have anything nice to say?

                In the 5 years I've been here, I've yet to see evidence of it.
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                • Profile picture of the author Wonderful Warrior
                  Originally Posted by Steven Wagenheim View Post

                  10 to 1 that if I ever saw an actual photo of your face, it would not have a
                  smile on it.

                  Do you EVER have anything nice to say?

                  In the 5 years I've been here, I've yet to see evidence of it.

                  I think he is the nice one here... what he said is true

                  The original poster was acting like a bully and needed to be called out on it.

                  I'm sure if the moderators have problems with posts they will lock them and not call on Mr. Rod Cortez
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                  • Profile picture of the author Tina Golden
                    Originally Posted by Wonderful Warrior View Post

                    I think he is the nice one here... what he said is true

                    The original poster was acting like a bully and needed to be called out on it.

                    I'm sure if the moderators have problems with posts they will lock them and not call on Mr. Rod Cortez
                    Seeing as Mr. Rod Cortez is one of the said moderators, I'm somehow doubting that.

                    How is asking people to search first and use the correct forum being a bully?

                    The first is just common sense on a very active forum - the same question getting posted multiple times in a day is a waste of resources.

                    The second is actually part of the rules of the forum. There are so many separate sections for a reason, after all.

                    As to Rod posting what's been said before, yes, that's true. However, that advice is quickly lost and therefore is useful to post again on occasion in order that more people see it.

                    I would think it is more kind to newbies to make them aware of the rules and etiquette of the forum, than it is to let them try to figure out why their posts are being deleted or why people are either ignoring their questions or responding with annoyance.
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                    • Profile picture of the author Kay King
                      I'm sure if the moderators have problems with posts they will lock them and not call on Mr. Rod Cortez
                      Like Tina said - sometimes it's good to know who you are dissing before you diss too far.

                      There are also some questions that are never answered properly, like how to embed youtube video.
                      May not be instructions here - but there are Youtube videos showing how to do it. A forum isn't always a step by step instructional site on technical issues.

                      All Rod is saying is use common sense and be polite. Don't be demanding - look before you jump in. If you think this place is brutal - you haven't been around big forums much. Many of replies here are restrained and many of the corrections to members are given with good humor.

                      If you notice a thread where someone is being bashed or questioned by long term members - there may be more to the story than you are aware of.

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                      • Profile picture of the author Wonderful Warrior
                        I am sorry Rod

                        I didn't realize you were a moderator.

                        So you absolutely do have a right to say what you did....
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                      • Profile picture of the author premiumplr
                        Originally Posted by Kay King View Post


                        May not be instructions here - but there are Youtube videos showing how to do it. A forum isn't always a step by step instructional site on technical issues.

                        All Rod is saying is use common sense and be polite. Don't be demanding - look before you jump in. If you think this place is brutal - you haven't been around big forums much. Many of replies here are restrained and many of the corrections to members are given with good humor.

                        If you notice a thread where someone is being bashed or questioned by long term members - there may be more to the story than you are aware of.

                        kay
                        We have a failure to communicate.

                        What I see as newbie bashing you may see as herd maintenance.

                        This can never be a zero sum exchange because we are viewing events from very different perspectives. As a long term member you are not able to speak to my impressions as a newbie anymore than I can speak to yours as a long term member.

                        There are some unnecessarily nasty people here, just because you're not one of them doesn't mean they don't exist. I agree that most people are fun and full of humor but my point is that it only takes one to activate the digital mob.
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                        • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
                          Originally Posted by premiumplr View Post

                          There are some unnecessarily nasty people here
                          It's worth noting that when someone doesn't know the answer to a simple question, chances are they've never heard it asked before - because since it's a simple question, they would almost certainly have heard the answer as well.

                          Sure, you and I have seen this question eight thousand times. But the person asking it has never seen it before, and may even think this is the first time it's ever been asked anywhere.
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                        • Profile picture of the author Tina Golden
                          Originally Posted by premiumplr View Post

                          There are some unnecessarily nasty people here, just because you're not one of them doesn't mean they don't exist.
                          That is unfortunately true about any forum but as someone who has participated in hundreds of forums (I used to be a paid forum poster), I can attest to the fact that the WF is mild compared to most.

                          Thankfully, most aren't trying to be nasty. With this many people, it's inevitable that a few will have a bad day or PMS or just plain be stressed out, so we may tend to be sharper toned than intended at times.

                          Those that are just plain nasty all the time, as evidenced in most of their posts... well, I hear the ignore feature works quite well if they tend to rile you up. I try my best to just feel bad for those people because I figure they must lead very sad lives to be that bitter about everything... LOL.
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                  • Profile picture of the author Rod Cortez
                    Originally Posted by Wonderful Warrior View Post

                    I think he is the nice one here... what he said is true

                    The original poster was acting like a bully and needed to be called out on it.

                    I'm sure if the moderators have problems with posts they will lock them and not call on Mr. Rod Cortez
                    Woah,

                    How is my original post being interpreted as being a "bully?" <scratches head>. I was merely suggesting people take an extra couple steps before making a new thread. If being helpful is being a bully then that's the oddest definition of one I've ever seen.

                    Secondly, I am not a moderator. I used to be moderator in the War Room, but am no longer, so I want to be clear about that point. I was just trying to do my part in being helpful.

                    Yes, I'm aware that my post might seem ironic to some of you, but really, if that's how you see it then you're missing the entire context of my original post.

                    In any event, I stilll loves ya'll.

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                    • Profile picture of the author Wonderful Warrior
                      Originally Posted by Rod Cortez View Post

                      Woah,

                      How is my original post being interpreted as being a "bully?" <scratches head>. I was merely suggesting people take an extra couple steps before making a new thread. If being helpful is being a bully then I guess I am one.

                      Secondly, I am not a moderator. I used to moderator the War Room, but no longer. I was just trying to do my part in being helpful.

                      Yes, I'm aware that my post might seem ironic to some of you, but really, if that's how you see it then you're missing the entire context of my original post.

                      In any event, I stilll love's ya'll.

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            • Profile picture of the author Lisa RRB
              Originally Posted by premiumplr View Post

              If it's really that bothersome to have those silly newbie questions littering the forum, consider keeping newbies from starting new threads until X number of posts.
              I agree with the rest of your post except for this part. Essentially all this will do is make people post pointless things to try to get that post count up.

              Still I agree that this forum seems somewhat brutal. I've always attributed this to the subject matter of this forum. This is a forum about internet marketing and making money. Making money is always a brutal thing... at least it has been for me. If this forum was about lets say, cats it would probably have more of a fluffy and happy-go-lucky feel.

              Now really I have lurked around here too much. I've got a website design that needs to be finished.

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    • Profile picture of the author Kay King
      I wish the all in one threads were in their own "read only" section on the forum. I think they'd get wider exposure - but people would probably then start threads about the all-in-one threads in other sections.:rolleyes:
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        Originally Posted by Eleva8 View Post

        I will venture to say that being new is actually the most valid excuse for a lack of common sense. Afterall, what is common to you as a long-standing forum member is more often than not completely foreign to a new member who hasn't experienced the dynamics of a forum environment.
        I completely understand someone who is perhaps new to a forum environment. That wasn't what I was referring to at all. I was meaning common sense in that some things should be innate, such as being polite or not coming into a new place and expecting that everyone should bend to your will.
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    Originally Posted by Rod Cortez View Post

    Warriors,

    Before you create a new thread please do at least the following few things:

    1. Use the "search" function to see if your question has already been asked, chances are it has been and might have the answer you are looking for.

    ....

    RoD
    Ironically your post also breaks it's own rule because I've seen this
    exact advise before.

    Every now and then there is an appeal to use the search button before
    posting.

    To always ask new questions will cripple any forum. Questions are
    really limited and most new people don't know how to search.

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      Originally Posted by Raydal View Post

      Ironically your post also breaks it's own rule because I've seen this
      exact advise before.

      Every now and then there is an appeal to use the search button before
      posting.

      To always ask new questions will cripple any forum. Questions are
      really limited and most new people don't know how to search.

      -Ray Edwards
      Ray, you said what you did in jest, I'm sure, but the truth is, there are really
      only so many things to talk about here. If we limited new threads to just
      new topics, we might as well just all go home because there won't be
      much going on.

      I can pull up any thread on page one right now and find a related thread
      somewhere in the archives if I looked hard enough.

      I don't personally mind questions being asked that have been asked before.

      What I do mind is questions being asked that have been asked before and
      then when given the answers, the same arguments taking place that took
      place the last time the same question was asked.

      THAT gets to be a little tiresome after a while.
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  • Profile picture of the author Matt Woityra
    You would figure everyone would do research before posting a question. They call that research 101. But sometimes people forget. At least give them 1 or 2 strikes then kick them off of this forum. Just a food for thought.
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  • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
    Originally Posted by Rod Cortez View Post

    1. Use the "search" function to see if your question has already been asked, chances are it has been and might have the answer you are looking for.


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    • Profile picture of the author paulie888
      Originally Posted by CDarklock View Post



      CD, I've found the forum search function to be absolutely abysmal in delivering fruitful results. Google is actually far more efficient at pulling up the threads you want to find, and this is a quick tip for newbies out there - if you're struggling to find what you want with the forum search function, try switching over to Google instead.
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      • Profile picture of the author Rod Cortez
        Originally Posted by paulie888 View Post

        CD, I've found the forum search function to be absolutely abysmal in delivering fruitful results. Google is actually far more efficient at pulling up the threads you want to find, and this is a quick tip for newbies out there - if you're struggling to find what you want with the forum search function, try switching over to Google instead.
        Paulie,

        I'm glad you brought this up. Personally, I prefer using the "advanced" search option and doing keyword searches in specific forums, that has worked a lot better for me. But you're right, Google works well too.

        RoD "Grinding-my-coffee-beans" CorteZ

        Originally Posted by Diane S View Post

        But there is a sticky listing all the threads, it is at the top of the Main Discussion forum.
        Just more proof that I've had way too much caffeine this morning and was typing faster than I could think! I totally forgot about that one too!

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      • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
        Originally Posted by paulie888 View Post

        if you're struggling to find what you want with the forum search function, try switching over to Google instead.
        When I'm struggling to find what I want with the forum search function, I just start a new thread. It's faster and easier and already open in my browser.

        Those who have a problem with that are welcome to ponder the fact that they are asking me to waste my time instead of theirs, because they think theirs is more valuable.

        Is it so surprising that I think mine is more valuable?
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  • Profile picture of the author Charlotte Jay
    Word.

    If you've ever participated in a forum, you know the basics of good netiquette. Search first, then ask if you don't find the answer. I've counted at least 5 posts of the same question this week all on the first page. No one is being harsh here, just honest. You want to play on the internet and voice your opinion, then you better have a thick skin. I've been flamed before, did it deter me? Nope. Next.
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    • Profile picture of the author Wonderful Warrior
      Originally Posted by Charlotte Jay View Post

      Word.

      If you've ever participated in a forum, you know the basics of good netiquette. Search first, then ask if you don't find the answer. I've counted at least 5 posts of the same question this week all on the first page. No one is being harsh here, just honest. You want to play on the internet and voice your opinion, then you better have a thick skin. I've been flamed before, did it deter me? Nope. Next.
      If repeated posts were that bothersome then nobody would respond to them and that post would just vanish.

      How many WSO's promise the SAME thing.. Should we only allow one WSO on any subject?
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    • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
      Originally Posted by Charlotte Jay View Post

      Search first, then ask if you don't find the answer.
      Why?

      Seriously. Because here's how I see it.

      Right now, on this forum, there are several thousand people reading threads.

      Chances are really good that one of them knows the answer to my question, and can type it out in thirty seconds or less.

      Once they do that, the answer is up here in public where everyone can get to it.

      So if I spend thirty seconds starting a new thread, I get to go do something else, and come back in a couple hours to find the answer to my question.

      But you seem to think the right thing for me to do is to go spend twenty minutes searching for the answer FIRST.

      And if I can't find the answer, guess what? I do the same damn thing I was going to do in the first place.

      So now, instead of splitting a minute of effort with one other person, I spend twenty minutes of effort all by myself and THEN split that same minute of effort with one other person.

      Of course, I may find the answer to my question in five or ten minutes, right?

      THAT'S STILL MORE THAN THE MINUTE I WOULD HAVE SPLIT WITH SOMEONE ELSE.

      Plus, the community doesn't benefit from it until I come post it here.

      So I still have to come start a new thread!

      Your solution basically involves me spending extra time on something I don't want to do.

      So why should I? After all, I don't want to do it!
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      • Profile picture of the author premiumplr
        Originally Posted by CDarklock View Post

        Why?

        Seriously. Because here's how I see it.

        Right now, on this forum, there are several thousand people reading threads.

        Chances are really good that one of them knows the answer to my question, and can type it out in thirty seconds or less...
        So why should I? After all, I don't want to do it!
        I think CDarklock is being facetious...wait are you?

        But the point is valid IMHO. The purpose of community is to have help from real live people. If searching were the end all be all then we wouldn't even need the community for help. I think the occasional repeat and annoying question may just be the price of enjoying the forum.

        Like thorns on a rose or baby vomit. Somethings we just tolerate for the greater good.
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      • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
        WW,
        The original poster was acting like a bully and needed to be called out on it.
        The "Slayer of Trolls" seems to have mistargeted.

        The Cat is out there sometimes, but that's okay. He's got a challenge with anything or anyone he sees as representing an authority figure here. The difference between him and the whackos is that he just makes his point. He doesn't go batspit crazy in the process.

        The occasional poke in the ribs does us all good.
        I'm sure if the moderators have problems with posts they will lock them and not call on Mr. Rod Cortez
        It's not unusual for a moderator, or an ex-moderator, to post something as a reminder from time to time. It helps new folks, and it serves as a notice to more experienced posters who may have forgotten that the rules and proper etiquette apply to them as much as anyone else.
        If repeated posts were that bothersome then nobody would respond to them and that post would just vanish.
        Doesn't work that way. Some people get an idea and charge in posting, with nary a thought for the notion that the same high-profile subject might have attracted the attention of at least one of the thousands of other people who visit here in any given day.

        They keep an eye on their own threads, while the other duplicates do the same. Each responds to those who answer their posts, and the dupes rotate around the top of the page, each collecting a few extra answers and perpetuating the cycle until a moderator notices and locks a few of them.

        Dynamic environment. Simplistic analysis doesn't yield useful results here. Or in many other forums (if any).

        Caliban,
        Those who have a problem with that are welcome to ponder the fact that they are asking me to waste my time instead of theirs, because they think theirs is more valuable.

        Is it so surprising that I think mine is more valuable?
        Here's the official answer: The moderators don't consider it in those terms. We tend to look at things from the "total amount of time wasted" perspective. You think your time is more valuable, but we might not place it at such a premium when weighed against the time of dozens, or even hundreds, of other members.

        Get over it.

        I might buy the "Search is difficult" thing from someone with less computer savvy. You, on the other hand, are not going to be given that sort of slack.

        Similarly, if I find an SEO question in main discussion, I look at the OP before I decide to move it or delete it. If the poster has been here long enough, I'm more prone to delete the thread - no matter how many responses it's gotten - than to move it.

        Don't think that's fair? Don't reply to threads in the wrong sections.


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        • Profile picture of the author Ross Kenny
          Sometimes the search function on the forum doesn't always return targetted results so I've found Google works better sometimes.

          Use this code to do a Google search

          how to ______________ site:warriorforum.com

          eg. how to outsource using fiverr site:warriorforum.com

          This will just return results from the Warrior forum

          Go give it a try
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          • Profile picture of the author davezan
            Before the thread gets any hotter than it is now, would it hurt to start or end
            a question with something like this?

            "Sorry if this has been asked before since I can't seem to find the answer via
            the search function."

            And that's after making a sincere effort to make a search for answers. But by
            golly, the things people here passionately (?) argue about.

            Admittedly, I sometimes personally get irked when I see the same question is
            asked time and again. I've since decided to just reply if I feel like it or if some
            further answers are needed, and just suggest to search for it in the future.

            Back to work now...
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        • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
          Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

          You think your time is more valuable, but we might not place it at such a premium when weighed against the time of dozens, or even hundreds, of other members.
          But you're not weighing it, Paul. I am.

          The only person who decides whether I post a new thread or go search is me.

          The entire point of posting the thread is that I can't be arsed to search right now, so I'm going to post the thread and check back until I either get the answer or feel like searching.

          So what happens if you lock or delete my thread?

          Nothing.

          The thread doesn't get an answer and I have to go search.

          That's what was going to happen anyway.

          I might buy the "Search is difficult" thing from someone with less computer savvy.
          Search isn't difficult. It's time consuming. When something is time consuming, most of us recommend to outsource it.

          I can effectively outsource to the forum by posting a new thread.

          If you don't do a good job, I'll outsource elsewhere.

          If nobody does a good job, I'll just do it myself.

          That's what was going to happen anyway.
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          • Profile picture of the author Tina Golden
            Caliban,

            That will probably work fine for a bit but if someone follows your advice too frequently, they could very easily find that it's no longer just a matter of having their threads deleted or locked. I would imagine that if you aggravate a mod often enough, just because you're too lazy to search, then they could easily give you a vacation.
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            • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
              Caliban,
              So what happens if you lock or delete my thread?

              Nothing.
              Do it too much, and something else might happen. And it doesn't matter if you're saying this stuff to make a point or if you mean it for you personally. Suggesting that people think this way is an excellent path to that something else.

              Respect for the property of others lies very near the base of a civil society. I think it was Heinlein who once said that you could measure the state of a society by the way its members treated public rest rooms. What you're promoting is the equivalent of pissing all over the seats.

              You will understand, I hope, that those of us who use and maintain the place take exception to this behavior.


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              • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
                Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

                Suggesting that people think this way is an excellent path to that something else.
                You're not hearing what I am actually saying.

                If you have a legitimate question, and the people around you are likely to know the answer, there is no more efficient way to get the answer than to JUST ASK THEM.

                It is an insanely stupid waste of time and energy to wander around trying to find the answer yourself when you know damn well one of the people in the room could give you the answer.

                That is not a misuse of public resources. That is an efficient and courteous use of community. You still have to be polite. You still have to respect other people's time.

                I do not MAKE people read my threads. I do not PM them and ask them to answer my questions. I do not FORCE them to respond to my posts.

                If they do not want to do it, they do not have to do it.

                So if I do not want to search first, I should not have to search first.

                That is called "fair."

                When you don't want to read my thread or answer my question, I will not make you. Kindly provide me the same courtesy when I don't want to go around searching for the answer before I post a question.

                Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

                The fact that things aren't done exactly the way you prefer does not mean there's a villain in the game.
                And this is precisely what I am saying.

                When I don't search before I post a question, I AM NOT DOING ANYTHING WRONG.

                I am being efficient. I am managing my time. I am leveraging the community.

                These are good things. We recommend these things.

                But Rod has a problem with it in this instance. And if Rod doesn't like it, Rod doesn't have to do it.

                But when he tells me that I should search first, I don't like that. I shouldn't have to do it.

                Can this be abused? Sure! So can "search first." You can waste a lot of time getting nothing done by spending all your time on Google, just like you can by spending all your time on the Warrior Forum.

                Just because he doesn't like it doesn't make me the villain.
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                • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
                  Caliban, and everybody else...here is the way I look at it.

                  If I have a question, being that I'm supposed to be a fricken know it all, the
                  last thing I want to do is let people here know that I don't know something.
                  As an experienced marketer, this is important for me and my image. So you
                  better damn be sure I'm going to search until my eyes are bloodshot.

                  If I still can't find the answer (and in most cases it involves technical things
                  of which most people here KNOW I'm a technical idiot) I'll then come and
                  ask.

                  And the irony is, because it IS of a technical nature (kind of related to
                  making money but not really) unless I ask it in OT, it gets deleted. And by
                  all rights, it should because it really doesn't belong anywhere else. We don't
                  have a technical sub forum.

                  So in most cases, I'm pretty much screwed unless somebody in OT is up
                  on tech stuff and cares enough about me to answer.

                  Guess what?

                  That's life. It's NOT my forum. I don't make the rules. I don't get to decide
                  how the place is run. That's done by the man in charge and the people he
                  puts in here to run this place for him.

                  I have 2 choices.

                  1. I can accept the way things are.

                  2. I can go someplace else.

                  Because of all the value I get here, I choose to accept things the way
                  they are.

                  And since they're not likely to change, going against them is sort of like
                  banging your head against a brick wall.

                  The only thing you end up doing is hurting your head.

                  I'm smart enough (at least I think I am) to know that I don't want to hurt
                  my head.

                  Lord knows it's been brain damaged enough already from having to deal
                  with serial refunders and content thieves for 8 plus years.

                  Let this at least be ONE place where I can have some peace and quiet.

                  And that peace and quiet starts with me and accepting the things that
                  I cannot change.
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                • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
                  Caliban,
                  You're not hearing what I am actually saying.
                  Yes. I am. I've heard it many times before. And I'm responding as a caretaker of the place.

                  You usually don't push this sort of thing this far. I somehow don't think you "get" quite how serious I am about not promoting such carelessness.

                  I'm not saying everyone should have to do exhaustive searches before ever asking a question. I am saying that a bit of courtesy to the group as a whole is in order. You are suggesting that your personal convenience trumps that courtesy.

                  It would be difficult to express my reaction to that suggestion in civil language.


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                  • Profile picture of the author drmani
                    Having read Caliban's point, I believe there's ONE tiny tweak that
                    makes it all make sense.

                    And it is this - WHO built the community around oneself?

                    On Twitter, which is an opt-in network, where YOU choose whether or
                    not you want to follow ME, even if Ev and Biz created the platform,
                    I (and I mean the singular I) built MY network... by being the kind
                    of person whom you want to follow.

                    In such a situation, I can leverage MY network by asking them a
                    question - since I know that NO ONE ELSE on Twitter will ever see
                    it.

                    On the Warrior Forum, YOU did not choose to follow ME, but joined
                    the GROUP.

                    Therefore, the subtle shift in emphasis makes the creator/assembler/
                    manager of the group's preferences/guidelines/rules the ONLY ones
                    that matter.

                    Contrary to what Caliban mentioned about NOT forcing any single person
                    to address/answer a question by PM or personal 'poke', I believe that
                    is the ONLY appropriate way to short-circuit the 'search' function on
                    a public forum - by tapping into YOUR network (which are the people
                    who 'friend' you on the network, or you have a PERSONAL relationship
                    with, and can contact PRIVATELY without affecting the time/attention
                    of the general audience in the community.

                    Does this subtle distinction make any sense?

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                  • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
                    And this is precisely what I am saying.
                    Hogwash. Utter nonsense.

                    You said:
                    Trying to make me spend my time the way YOU think I should spend it is a really, really good way to make me think you are not worth knowing.
                    No-one is making you do anything. They are asking that you not do something that experienced forum users consider to be impolite.

                    You are defending your "right" to waste the time of who knows how many other members, because it's more convenient than using your own.

                    More to the point, you're trying to teach this to newer members, who may not "get" that your argument is based in trying to prove your point, rather than looking at the whole picture. Consider where that sort of thinking leads, and how it manifests in other behaviors in a group setting.

                    You are no longer worth my time, sir.


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                    • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
                      Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

                      You are no longer worth my time, sir.
                      I'm not really talking to you anymore.

                      I'm publicly responding to your accusations, because you're being unfair.

                      I don't believe you should dictate that people MUST search before posting a question, because it's disrespectful of their time.

                      And if you don't respect theirs, I don't think they should have to respect yours. Respect is a two-way street. You want me to respect your time? Respect mine.

                      If I decide I will get better use of my time by posting my question without searching, respect my right to make that decision. Understand that I know more about my situation than you do, and can probably make a better decision about it than you can.

                      And if you won't do that, then I don't care about the time I've wasted of yours by posting my question. Once you start complaining that you know better than I do how I should spend my time, you've crossed a line, and I don't have to accommodate you anymore.
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                  • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
                    Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

                    I'm not saying everyone should have to do exhaustive searches before ever asking a question.
                    Other people are, which I consider rather the opposite of...

                    I am saying that a bit of courtesy to the group as a whole is in order.
                    Precisely.

                    "You have wasted half a second of my time. I would prefer you wasted twenty minutes of yours, instead."

                    That is not a request for courtesy. It is a complete lack of respect for my time. It is an outright statement that my time is worth over two thousand times less than yours.

                    It is every bit as valid to say "I will ask first, then search if I do not get an answer" as it is to say "I will search first, then ask if I do not find an answer." Both are a decision to try a particular approach first, and the other one if the first fails. Both approaches may or may not succeed.

                    Neither approach is more or less courteous than the other. Both may be done politely; both may be done rudely. Both may be done in moderation, or beyond the bounds of reason.

                    Your objection does not actually seem to be about the things that are done, but the manner and degree in which they are done. Both are just as susceptible to the same problems, and just as capable of the same courtesy.

                    You are suggesting that your personal convenience trumps that courtesy.
                    I am saying that the level of disrespect inherent in the demand that I search first makes that request unworthy of attention.

                    When you lead off a request by saying what amounts to "my time is extremely valuable, but yours is effectively worthless," I am no longer interested in being polite or courteous to you. I am indignant and offended, and I think I have every right to be.

                    I have a perfectly legitimate and rational reason to ask first and search later. If that is not good enough for somebody, that's too bad - my obligation to be courteous ends when they say "I don't care why you want to do it your way, do it my way."
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            • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
              Originally Posted by Tina Golden View Post

              I would imagine that if you aggravate a mod often enough, just because you're too lazy to search, then they could easily give you a vacation.
              And I would imagine that if the mods here get that aggravated by legitimate questions because they think I should spend more time searching, I might not come back from it.

              Trying to make me spend my time the way YOU think I should spend it is a really, really good way to make me think you are not worth knowing.
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              • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
                Caliban,
                Trying to make me spend my time the way YOU think I should spend it is a really, really good way to make me think you are not worth knowing.
                You might want to consider not going to a fight with a knife that's got a blade for a handle.

                I'm going to tell you something I ought to have mentioned to a lot of other people here recently: The fact that things aren't done exactly the way you prefer does not mean there's a villain in the game.


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  • Profile picture of the author Charlotte Jay
    Wow, this thread got heated. Simple strategy that I found that works for me.

    "hey, I don't know how to peel a banana, I wonder if other people know?"

    Enter search terms (3 seconds later), one of two things.

    1. Other people know how to peel a banana.
    2. No results, so I ask the question in a new thread.

    Both take 30 seconds, but only one takes up less clutter in the forum. I would call that being considerate of other people by not asking the same question over and over again by using the search function. And if the forum search function is no bueno, then I use Google as per the others on here. I don't understand why this is such a hot button TBH.
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  • Profile picture of the author athanne
    I am really learning new things every time i visit the forum
    Keep it Up
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  • Profile picture of the author James Campbell
    Stupid arguments are stupid.

    Ask or search?

    Who cares?

    If you search first good for you, if you ask first good for you.

    If I see your thread and don't want to answer or decide I do want to answer, that is me deciding how to use my time.

    Arguing on the interwebs is a waste of time.

    OP thanks for taking the time to put gas on the fire. Truth is, your like or dislike of the topic at hand doesn't matter. People are still going to do it in a way you dislike and others are going to do it in a way you like.

    Hell, there have been plenty of threads I have seen where the poster asks a question. People tell them, "You know there is a search box right?" or something to that message, and they respond with. "I did search for it, but I couldn't find what I was looking for."

    Pie on your face for suggesting they search first when they already did search.
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  • Profile picture of the author Charlotte Jay
    "Opinions are like arseholes, everyone has one."

    The End.
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