Do You Take Time Off?

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During this past holiday, I noticed that many people took time away from their internet marketing business, Christmas Eve and Christmas Day to spend time with their family. Now, that I think about it, I've also become aware that many of you take off on weekends as well.

Maybe it's just me, but I feel some sort of guilt if I take even a day off from work. My work ethic probably has to do with the way I was raised... All work and no play.

How many of you actually took a day or two off for the holiday? And, do you take time off on the weekends as well?

I'm hoping your relaxing nature will rub off on me.
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  • Profile picture of the author Bev Clement
    I always take a Sunday off from work. I might check emails, and if something is important will answer it, but not doing work. I took a couple of days off over the holiday. I took time to go shopping and the like so I might have worked just a couple of hours.

    When I worked a job I worked Mon - Fri 9 - 5 so I have no problem taking time off for myself now.
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  • Profile picture of the author pavondunbar
    I took the whole week off from IM because of Xmas shopping and the joy of Christmas...

    I am sooo behind in my "Holiday Campaign" (see sig below) that I am surprised no one "unfollowed" me...LOL

    But on a serious note, Ms. Love...

    You have to take time off. When you work at a regular job you have to take time off to rest and relax.

    I admire your "work ethic" but you also need balance.

    You know the saying...

    ALL WORK AND NO PLAY MAKES CHRISTIE A DULL GIRL...

    Just my 2.05 cents...Have a Prosperous 2009...

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    • Profile picture of the author Jenni Mac
      Hi Christie

      I don't always take time off, simply because I've always worked for myself and if I don't bring home the bacon then it doesn't arrive!

      But that aside, I did take a fair bit of time off this week and I've really done nothing except pop in here and read email - still managed to make some money though, which is great.

      I think it is vital that everyone find a way to take time off because not only do you return bigger, badder, stronger and energized, but it also forces you to remember that we work to live and not the other way around!
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      • Profile picture of the author ExRat
        Hi Christie,

        I make sure to take some 'time off' every day. I'm a bit of a contrarian, so I like to work when the herd is off work, and go shopping and relax when they're all couped up at work.

        It's nice to go for a morning walk on the beach and watch all of the miserable rats catching busses and vexxing in traffic jams - not because I'm a sadist, but because I like to appreciate what I've got and remind myself where I 'came from.'

        Many of the benefits of self-employment can be appreciated just by doing things differently and avoiding crowds - use the gym when it is less crowded, deserted beaches, full shelves in quiet supermarkets, going abroad cheaply during off-peak times and avoiding the holiday herd.

        The other benefit is spontaneity. I suffered from having my life regimented for enough years. Now I have control, there's nothing better than living a totally spontaneous life and doing what I want, when I want. No need for a watch anymore, so the days and weeks don't pass so quickly. And it's possible to extract a little bit more by being flexible - I play sport against people who's timetables are decided by others - therefore I can make myself available to play at short notice and squeeze the maximum benefit out - again.

        Hope this helps.
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        • Profile picture of the author keyaziz
          Originally Posted by ExRat View Post

          Hi Christie,

          I make sure to take some 'time off' every day. I'm a bit of a contrarian, so I like to work when the herd is off work, and go shopping and relax when they're all couped up at work.

          It's nice to go for a morning walk on the beach and watch all of the miserable rats catching busses and vexxing in traffic jams - not because I'm a sadist, but because I like to appreciate what I've got and remind myself where I 'came from.'

          Many of the benefits of self-employment can be appreciated just by doing things differently and avoiding crowds - use the gym when it is less crowded, deserted beaches, full shelves in quiet supermarkets, going abroad cheaply during off-peak times and avoiding the holiday herd.

          The other benefit is spontaneity. I suffered from having my life regimented for enough years. Now I have control, there's nothing better than living a totally spontaneous life and doing what I want, when I want. No need for a watch anymore, so the days and weeks don't pass so quickly. And it's possible to extract a little bit more by being flexible - I play sport against people who's timetables are decided by others - therefore I can make myself available to play at short notice and squeeze the maximum benefit out - again.

          Hope this helps.
          I agree!

          Me and my boyfriend love to go shopping during weekdays, going for walks and relaxing when it isnt busy. It is much nicer and keeps you relaxed. I prefer working in the evening anyway because it means I can spend the day with my son and boyfriend.

          I went shopping on a saturday recently and I am SO GLAD I do not have to do that all the time now....it would be bad enough if I went later in the day when people finish work.

          However christmas was a bit of a nightmare for shopping - no avoiding that one!

          I agree though...I am much more relaxed and get a lot more work done in a shorter period of time. I love the flexibility because if I am not having a very good day and I just chill out and do work much later or work extra hard the next day.
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  • Profile picture of the author Rachel Incoll
    Hi Christie,

    I took Christmas day off completely , but for most of the last week I haven't done much more than answer emails. Just getting stuck back into things today (Saturday arvo down here).

    I always try to take one day off completely on the weekend...no emails or anything. I usually have Saturday off, then check emails only on Sunday arvo before getting back into things on Monday morning though sometimes I'll switch things around.

    I think though if I didn't have hubby & 2 kids I would probably be on here 7 days a week, 14 hours a day!

    Cheers

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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Silvester
    Hi Christie,

    I've pretty much had the whole of december off! I felt
    guilty until I had my first beer

    Take Care,

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    • Profile picture of the author Alexandre Valois
      Originally Posted by Michael Silvester View Post

      Hi Christie,

      I felt guilty until I had my first beer

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      • Profile picture of the author WritingMadwoman
        I used to be like that too Christie until my health started suffering because of it. Nothing major, just irritating stress-related illnesses. Enough of that!

        You know what worked for me? Getting more efficient during the time I am working so I don't feel guilty taking time off. I also don't hold myself to weekends or holidays only -- if I start feeling run down or like I'm spending too much time staring at this screen I walk away for an hour or two, take a nap, run some errands, do some cleaning, whatever will make me feel refreshed.

        The question to ask yourself is: what do you fear will happen if you take some time for yourself? Change that belief to one that better serves you.

        Hope that helps!

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  • Profile picture of the author dsmpublishing
    I didnt take much time off over xmas this time even though i tend to take it off at other points during the year.
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  • Profile picture of the author severt
    Normally I never take time off.
    I get home from my dayjob at 6pm, turn on the laptop till 1am, and that day in- day out. It's kinda a crazy since I don't give my self much sleep. (Around 6 hours max.) But now with Christmas I just don't have the feeling I need to get work done. Kinda weird feeling. And I can sleep 12 hours non-stop these days
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  • Profile picture of the author Alexandre Valois
    I've been spending the last weeks working more than I like, getting things ready for my new project launch, getting delayed by technical problems and then catching up ... and getting delayed again by tech issues, and catching up again ...

    All in all, I am expecting to be done with this tomorrow, and am planning on taking monday-tuesday off to chillax before getting back on track.

    I usually try to take 2-3 days off per week though.
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  • Profile picture of the author liban
    The whole reason that I'm in internet marketing is so I can take time off as I like. All four of our sons are home for two weeks, and I've only done minimal daily maintenance on my business since they've been here.

    Next year odds are that one of our sons will be deployed (US Navy) next Christmas, so I'm savoring every second we are all together.
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    • Profile picture of the author Heather Bestel
      Hi Christie

      As a stress managment consultant, I work with many business people who find it hard to relax and switch off and they often feel guilty when they do take time for themselves.

      Research has found that we actually work more effctively and efficiently when we take regular breaks. This gives our mind (and body) the time it needs to assimilate all the information we constantly bombard it with.

      So, instead of feeling guilty about taking time away from your business - you could think of it as necesary to your success. It might help to change your perception.

      Best wishes
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  • Profile picture of the author Nspire
    Yes, I take off on Sundays. I have a daughter that i homeschool so i have to work my schedule around her activities. I think it is important to get away from work to get refreshed and renewed. This really helps me to stay focused.
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    • Profile picture of the author ShayB
      I took 2 days off for Christmas, and I normally take Sundays off.

      All work and no play makes you nuts.

      (But I do feel guilty taking days off....)
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  • Profile picture of the author Denise Hall
    Time off? What's that?

    Seriously, every now and then I have to take some time for myself so I don't burn out, but most of the time you can find me here working.

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  • Profile picture of the author oldbook
    You should take time off or you run the risk of going stale in both you business as well as your personal life. The work will still be there when you get back. In the words of Nike/ Just do it.

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  • Profile picture of the author Rachel Rofe
    I used to be the same way... in fact, I remember when one of my good friends used to take off a lot and I'd feel almost as if I were a "harder worker" than them... with a sense of pride.

    Since then, I've seen the light.

    Taking off is awesome for so many reasons.

    If just for business purposes, you almost ALWAYS have new, fresh ideas when you're away from the computer for a while.

    Also, I feel like sitting on the computer all the time ends up being a substitute for life. At the end of your life, do you want to think about the money you made, or the incredible memories you had?

    (Side note: This kind of reminds me of the movie Click. If you haven't seen it, I highly recommend it!)

    I know personally, my happiest moments are not when I'm at the computer.

    And really - what good is "work" for? What's the point of "all work no play"? Does it make you a better person to work hard? Why?
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    • Profile picture of the author imon32red
      I took most of the week off. I have owned several businesses in the past and have had it both ways. A couple businesses I worked to much (sometimes in excess of 80 hours a week) or not enough.

      I have a part time job for an airline so I can fly for free and get great discounts on other travel like hotels. That is why I work, so I can vacation. I am new to IM and hope to be able to vacation a lot again in the near future. I am also hoping to be able to fine tune this so that I can work on vacation for a few hours a day and extend my vacation. How great would it be to spend a couple weeks in Costa Rica, and not have to worry about lost income.
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  • Profile picture of the author Derek Pankaew
    I usually take take 0-1 days off a week. Partly depends on my work load, partly depends on how much I'm enjoying my work and partly depends if there's something I'd like to do.

    However, I do treat myself during the week. I might work from 9-5 (or 12-8) during the weekdays, but at night I'll go visit the hot tubs or go to a party with friends.

    It's not all work, but that doesn't mean I can't work 6-7 days a week =)

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  • Profile picture of the author Karen Blundell
    Christie, here's my motto or mantra if you will : I don't live to work, I work to live.

    I work as little as possible. I try to work smart so that I have more time to enjoy life. Too many people work and work, and just don't have fun. Or they feel guilty if they have fun. That's not living!

    Take a break, Christie. Enjoy yourself and be good to yourself. You'll find that you'll be even more focused on your work when you come back refreshed and rested.
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  • Profile picture of the author Joel Gray
    I still work full time and I am regulated to working on my IM ventures when I am off, so essentially I am always working. But I do take days off from the computer around each holiday, as that time is set aside for my family. I will still check my email and the WF along with a couple of other places that I like to visit, but no actual IM work is planned.

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  • Profile picture of the author Debbie Allen
    I took most of Christmas Eve off and all day on Christmas. I usually work at least some everyday - but I believe that is more by choice than anything else. When I am writing I am relaxed so I am not sure that all my work time is actually work time!

    I am planning to give myself shorter hours in the new year, as I hope to work smarter and even outsource some of my tasks. I have a background in psychiatric nursing and I know the benefits associated with a balance in one's life!
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  • Profile picture of the author HeySal
    A strong work ethic is admirable, Christie, but living life a little is too. It's just not healthy to over do it - and it's not good for your creative flow or mental integrity either.

    I'm going to touch on a subject that is going to get flamed because it will mention race and sex and that is all people will see - but you are an intelligent woman and will see what I am saying.

    It wasn't more than a generation ago that people of your race were forced to achieve twice as much just to make it to an equal ground in society. You probably saw your elders killing themselves just to make ends meet. Give you a double whammy - you are female, and females have found it necessary to be able to do absolutely everything just to make it to stable turf - make money, raise children, keep an organized and functional home, and be a loving spouse. That's all one hell of a lot of work. But we had to do it if we were going to cut through some really nasty oppression. Every oppressed population has to really buckle in and storm the walls of freedom. Your elders did that for you so you would not HAVE to.

    The rough days are over now for blacks and they are coming to a rapid end for women, too. People in the 2000's have finally learned (for the most part) to look at people as they are intellectually. There is no more need for someone because of their sex and color to do twice what anyone else is doing just to be considered good enough. Bigots have lost their hold.

    If you are working yourself to death out of guilt, it's time to lighten up. You don't need to prove anything to anyone just to get a fair shake. Look at yourself, you are intelligent, diplomatic, and more than just a tad gorgeous.
    Who do you need to prove what to? Live with freedom. If you have a roof over your head and food on the table you are living better than the vast majority of the world's population - how far do you have to go to be good enough - for others - for yourself?

    If you have a problem cutting work because you love what you are doing, then you will have to learn to force yourself out into the sunshine until you find you can enjoy that too - but if it is guilt driving you - get a new chauffeur.
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    • Profile picture of the author Christie Love
      Originally Posted by HeySal View Post

      A strong work ethic is admirable, Christie, but living life a little is too. It's just not healthy to over do it - and it's not good for your creative flow or mental integrity either.

      I'm going to touch on a subject that is going to get flamed because it will mention race and sex and that is all people will see - but you are an intelligent woman and will see what I am saying.

      It wasn't more than a generation ago that people of your race were forced to achieve twice as much just to make it to an equal ground in society. You probably saw your elders killing themselves just to make ends meet. Give you a double whammy - you are female, and females have found it necessary to be able to do absolutely everything just to make it to stable turf - make money, raise children, keep an organized and functional home, and be a loving spouse. That's all one hell of a lot of work. But we had to do it if we were going to cut through some really nasty oppression. Every oppressed population has to really buckle in and storm the walls of freedom. Your elders did that for you so you would not HAVE to.

      The rough days are over now for blacks and they are coming to a rapid end for women, too. People in the 2000's have finally learned (for the most part) to look at people as they are intellectually. There is no more need for someone because of their sex and color to do twice what anyone else is doing just to be considered good enough. Bigots have lost their hold.

      If you are working yourself to death out of guilt, it's time to lighten up. You don't need to prove anything to anyone just to get a fair shake. Look at yourself, you are intelligent, diplomatic, and more than just a tad gorgeous.
      Who do you need to prove what to? Live with freedom. If you have a roof over your head and food on the table you are living better than the vast majority of the world's population - how far do you have to go to be good enough - for others - for yourself?

      If you have a problem cutting work because you love what you are doing, then you will have to learn to force yourself out into the sunshine until you find you can enjoy that too - but if it is guilt driving you - get a new chauffeur.
      Sal, I don't find your comment to be racist or sexist at all. Actually it's very true. Being who I am a female and person of color, I've always had to work twice as hard in the companies to get the same recognition as my inefficient co-workers.

      Nonetheless, now my focus is working for myself where the only person I have to prove my abilities to is... MOI!

      Thank you all for rubbing some of your cool, breeze, relaxed nature off on me and helping me to understand that life is about living. We work to live and should not live to work.

      Going forward, I will review my organization practices to see where I can fit in a day off to sit back, relax, and just... chill.
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  • Profile picture of the author Neil S
    I usually do at least something everyday. I was going to do some work on Christmas but as someone else mentioned, after the first taste of alcohol that was done with.
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  • Profile picture of the author AndyCamden
    I took a couple days offer. Remember in life their has to be a balance between health, wealth, and your relationships. If one fails, it affects the other two negatively. LIkewise, if one succeeds, the other two will be affected positively.

    If you are all about work then you really do become a boring person. Take time to harvest your relationships and feed value into them, or they will crumble to the ground.
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  • Profile picture of the author Alex Sol
    Usually I don't take time off because I am at home and I have nothing better to do

    But I do go on vacation 3-4 times a year - that's when I try to forget all about IM.

    Letting your brain relax, process whatever you have learned in the past few months is a good thing.
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  • Profile picture of the author jrsencio
    I'm such a loser.. didn't take time off... but maybe that's because my office is my bedroom LOL... and I am putting in more work to put up enough money for the my next beach vacation... thinking Bali or Thailand... some exotic Asian destination or any place that is not freezing in the first quarter of 2009.
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  • Profile picture of the author Richard Whyte
    Christie

    I believe that time off is a very important thing. Breaking away from your work allows your mind to free think and form new ideas. Some of my best thinking happens when I am away from my computers and think about other things.

    Each of us has different ways of working. Some of us need some time off every week while others are fine to push on for a month or so and then take a longer break.

    Depending on what I am working on I use both methods.

    I have gone on stinks that I have worked 16 to 18 hours a day, 7 days a week for 5 to 6 months straight, then taken a nice holiday by jumping on a plane and leaving the country for a month or longer while the joices of the last project seep out of me and I build up me reserves for the next assignment.

    Over time, you will have to find what works best for you, but as a suggestion, be careful that you know your limits. If you reach a stage that you are suffering burnout, it can be very difficult to return after that. It is an emotional thing and can hit very hard.

    I know my own limits. I have lived on the edge on some very big projects. You must be able to look inside yourself and ask honest questions of what state you are in and what you need to refuel.

    Hope that helps you out.

    Have A Great Day!
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    • Profile picture of the author OMichael
      I recently came back to the world of IM after an almost 8 month break... I guess I was THAT burnt out and more. And thing is, now that I am back, I am simultaneously working on 2 project ideas that I had during my long break.

      You best believe that an occasional break mos def does you a lot of good.
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      • Profile picture of the author Hesaidblissfully
        I work Monday - Friday. I don't work ALL day every day, but I do work every day.

        My ideal schedule would be to work 4 days a week, taking weekends and either Fridays or Mondays off.
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        • Profile picture of the author sylviad
          Hi Christie,

          If you enjoy your work, then it's fine to take all the time at it that you want. Usually, if you enjoy something, there's little stress involved. If you do get stressed because it's your business and work needs to get done, then you certainly should take time off every week to refresh.

          I work 7 days a week - but not all day. I start around 9 a.m. and finish around 2 p.m. with 1 hour for lunch (M-Sat). My dog wants his walk at 2, and by the time we're done and I settle down after that walk, it's hardly worth getting back to work because it's almost dinner time. I usually leave the computer on, though, and take a bit of time to check email and do a few other things that don't require a huge time commitment, like check the Forum for any PMs and to keep tabs on sales to see if anyone who has ordered needs anything from me.

          After dinner, if none of my shows are on, I'll do more work until 9-10 p.m.

          All together, I guess I work about 6 hours a day on average. But as I said, I do get lots of breaks.

          I worked right through the holidays, taking my usual breaks, and will do the same for New Years.


          Sylvia

          PS: Christie, I noticed you started this thread at 12-27-2008, 02:00 AM but you're on the West coast, so since I'm in the east (3 hours ahead of you) - does that mean you were still working at 11 p.m.?
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          • Profile picture of the author Christie Love
            Originally Posted by sylviad View Post

            Hi Christie,

            If you enjoy your work, then it's fine to take all the time at it that you want. Usually, if you enjoy something, there's little stress involved. If you do get stressed because it's your business and work needs to get done, then you certainly should take time off every week to refresh.

            I work 7 days a week - but not all day. I start around 9 a.m. and finish around 2 p.m. with 1 hour for lunch (M-Sat). My dog wants his walk at 2, and by the time we're done and I settle down after that walk, it's hardly worth getting back to work because it's almost dinner time. I usually leave the computer on, though, and take a bit of time to check email and do a few other things that don't require a huge time commitment, like check the Forum for any PMs and to keep tabs on sales to see if anyone who has ordered needs anything from me.

            After dinner, if none of my shows are on, I'll do more work until 9-10 p.m.

            All together, I guess I work about 6 hours a day on average. But as I said, I do get lots of breaks.

            I worked right through the holidays, taking my usual breaks, and will do the same for New Years.


            Sylvia

            PS: Christie, I noticed you started this thread at 12-27-2008, 02:00 AM but you're on the West coast, so since I'm in the east (3 hours ahead of you) - does that mean you were still working at 11 p.m.?
            Thanks Sylvia. You're right. I do love my work. That's why I'm usually working until 2:00 AM when I make myself go to bed.

            Yes, things have got to change. But... what if you work so much because you love your what you do? Is this wrong?
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            • Profile picture of the author sylviad
              Christie,

              I don't believe there is a right or wrong in this as long as you are aware of yourself in the process. By that, I mean that you recognize when you get stressed. Whether you know it or not, you most likely do. Understand that your body needs change - it needs to move around, get exercise and fresh air to stay healthy. That's really the main issue here.

              Sitting in front of the computer 18+ hours a day is just not healthy, regardless of how much you enjoy what you do. Your spine gets set from sitting too long and over time, you most surely will develop problems in your joints and your spine from lack of movement. All those "connections" throughout the body need to be stretched and twisted to keep them flexible and healthy.

              I know what you mean about enjoying your work. I love doing anything that involves working with graphics - designing-type stuff. I can spend hours and always hate it when the project ends (unless it was especially problematic). I've worked until all hours because I've been so absorbed in my work. But to do that every single day? Not for 18 hours, no.

              Your body will tell you when you need to get away from the computer for awhile. You will notice yourself shifting in your seat, sliding into bad positions, perhaps a few aches in different parts of your body - your mouse wrist is prone to pain after awhile, as are neck aches and stiffness. You might not notice them now, but over time, they will develop.

              And then there are your internal organs. Your heart is a muscle - it needs exercise just like other muscles in your body. Many people don't think of that. Stomach muscles help the elimination process. If they are weak, everything slows down and becomes less efficient.

              Listen to your body and take a break. It's best if you take regular breaks frequently throughout the day, rather than just one long break. Even your mind needs to rest at some point.

              I agree with Roger, too. Getting out into the fresh air is a great way to refresh yourself.

              When I worked in an office, I always went outside during breaks because I just love the outdoors. In fact, it was extremely painful for me to stay locked indoors 5 days a week - 8 hours a day. I was absolutely beside myself when I switched to Journalism and got to come and go as I pleased - much of it covering outside events (running after parades and climbing up and down a huge flight of stairs to the news office 15 or more times a day). I was probably one of the healthiest 54-year-olds.

              Since I switched to internet marketing, all that workout ended. I noticed a significant difference in my fitness level after about 8 years. And then I got my dog - a Shepherd that likes long walks. It took me 6 months to get back in shape and now I feel much better.

              You say you force yourself to go to bed at 2 a.m. It wouldn't surprise me if you get a good sleep going to bed directly after shutting down your computer. Your mind needs time to unwind in preparation for sleep. If I work late, regardless of how late, I need to take about an hour (30 min. minimum) before I can go to bed. Otherwise, I just won't sleep as well.

              The best I can offer is that you would do well to listen to your body and treat it like your best friend.

              Sylvia


              Originally Posted by Christie Love View Post

              Thanks Sylvia. You're right. I do love my work. That's why I'm usually working until 2:00 AM when I make myself go to bed.

              Yes, things have got to change. But... what if you work so much because you love your what you do? Is this wrong?
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  • Profile picture of the author Spike SpiegelIM
    I usually take my time off during Sundays, I usually just check a couple of emails, but there are unfortunate times that even that allocated time gets consumed with work. Although this December I got like 2 weeks off with the holidays and stuff, with a few email checking and the works.
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  • Profile picture of the author milamber
    I spend my sunday on my family and during holidays.. Just checking mails and log off.
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  • Profile picture of the author jhongren
    Originally Posted by Christie Love View Post

    During this past holiday, I noticed that many people took time away from their internet marketing business, Christmas Eve and Christmas Day to spend time with their family. Now, that I think about it, I've also become aware that many of you take off on weekends as well.

    Maybe it's just me, but I feel some sort of guilt if I take even a day off from work. My work ethic probably has to do with the way I was raised... All work and no play.

    How many of you actually took a day or two off for the holiday? And, do you take time off on the weekends as well?

    I'm hoping your relaxing nature will rub off on me.
    Hi Christie,

    I took 2 weeks off and enjoyed our second honeymoon with my wife.

    My sense is we have worked really hard and to sustain our business, we have to stay healthy.

    And I feel it is important to take intermittent breaks.

    Like what Tim Ferris taught, a break every 3 months of project work.

    So now I am already planning my getaway for March 09.

    Cheers,
    John
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  • Profile picture of the author BlogBoom
    For years I did not take time off, but that changed last year and will change even more in 2009 for two reasons. One, I've become more efficient with my time and can get more done in less time. And two, I've learned that I need time off to re-charge. I love what I do but I notice if I work too long without some time off, some of that love begins to wear off a bit. That's when I know it's time to step away for some time off. Then I come back completely re-energized and ready to go, which goes a long way towards that improved efficiency.
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  • Profile picture of the author Ken Leatherman
    Hey Christie,

    Take it from the Old Geezer himself, when you love what you do (as you and I do) it doesn't seem like work. But it is. Most of the time I take breaks because my wife threatens me with bodily harm if I don't.

    However she does it because she loves me (I think :p) She knows what happens when I don't and it's harder on her than it is on me. The stress kicks my butt and then I have to veg and no good to anyone, much less the love of my life.

    I use walks during the day and stretching exercise for my daily break. As others have said keep a balance. You will live longer.

    Ken
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    P.S. Yes I did take some time off during Christmas Eve and Christmas, but went into computer withdrawal. Pure agony! Had to turn the computer back on. WuHaHa
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    • Profile picture of the author ExRat
      Hi Christie,
      But... what if you work so much because you love your what you do? Is this wrong?
      I know you weren't asking me but....

      It's not 'wrong' as such. But it's a great way to demonstrate to yourself the downside - because most people will hit a wall. And then, you will probably be more clearer about it and remember the lessons.

      Ask yourself if you really 'love it' the same as you would 'love' something else, like a stray dog that you took in for example. Or for a better answer, ask yourself if when you say 'you love it', do you really mean something else?

      For example, you might be 'on a mission' to achieve something. You might not have been on a similar mission just previously, you might not have had such a positive and productive goal. When you compare the two periods of time, you might 'love' the feeling of the current one more, in comparison to the last one.

      But if this were the case, you might summize that you only 'love' it because it's much better (more noble) than the last one. It doesn't mean that everything is perfect and that you shouldn't consider tweaking your current work-rate.

      Does that make sense?

      The main reason that I have found for not working online for too long is that it is a virtual world, where the interactions between people are different to offline, where the outcome of interactions often end in a negative experience, and it is too easily used as a substitute for real-life interactions. It can be a 'hiding place'. And if you have to interact closely with others who never go online, (a spouse for example) you may find that you end up living in different worlds where the language and experience cannot interconnect.

      For myself, to maintain a balance, I view my online experiences simply as a tool to enhance all of my offline experiences. The end goal is enhancement of life in the real world.

      If you ever have bad experiences in the offline world and go online to repair the damage, it becomes very clear that it is not the right place and the repair work needs to be done offline. With really important stuff, humans need to be able to physically see the person and look them in the eye and use the myriad of other real world sensory indicators in order to have really important and beneficial communication.

      The virtual world is far too virtual and new. People take advantage of the disguise that it offers them. If you spend too long 'inside' it, the danger is that you get a warped view of humanity, and end up losing all faith in human nature - because the majority of people are only here to take (to enhance their offline life). If they acted the same way offline, they would be universally shunned.

      Lots of generalisations made above, in order to try and make what I feel is a valid point - I hope it succeeds!

      In short, to answer this question for myself, I only need to go and marvel at nature for a while. EG - go to a beach, feel the sand and the sun, watch and hear the ocean and observe the gulls.

      Can I replicate anything like that experience online? No.

      So the internet, with all of it's technological wonders, is simply a workplace and a tool for me to learn and earn more money to enjoy more of the real world and all of it's wonders. The longer I spend in front of the PC, the less time I have for the good stuff.
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  • Profile picture of the author JOhnny Depth
    I took 2 days off on Christmas and after it since it is my birthday. I don't feel like working since I'm trying to relax.
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  • Profile picture of the author nicholasb
    I am taking a break until after the first, but I always take every sunday off, most of the time saturday to
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  • Profile picture of the author Julia Andersson
    At the moment I don't earn enough from marketing to be able to afford to leave my day job (which is one of the reasons why I am here).

    Consequently, whenever I'm at my computer I see it as a chance to do some marketing work because I want to build up my income till I can tell the boss to shove the job LOL.

    I guess if marketing was my only job then I probably would take 'time off' because there is nothing worse than working 24 hours a day seven days a week. But I guess as long as you enjoy the work it really doesn't matter.

    I have to admit that at the moment it's a little tedious because I feel that I am constantly working... but once I can leave the day job it will be a completely different matter.
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  • Profile picture of the author flashgordon
    I take time off all the time. Why? Because if I didn't I would go insane. The entire reason I got into IM is so that I don't have to have a schedule or a boss. However, if I let myself get too carried away, then I might as well get a regular job that has benefits or something. Sure, there is always more I could do, but the entire reason I'm in this is so that I can spend more time doing what I want and if I forget that "as my business grows" how will I remember it when I actually have the time or money?
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  • Profile picture of the author Charann Miller
    I kicked back with the family on Christmas day and checked back on the Warrior forum during the evening. The thing that amazed me about this place is that it's like rust, it never sleeps. Although activity subsided there was still alot going on.
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    • Profile picture of the author strategic
      I dont 'take time off' simply because I play full time on my computer from my home office, and I never 'work' - so why do I need time off from my fun stuff?

      I have to admit that I am a workaholic and always was, and after the past 5 years of being a total computer / webmaster ADDICT, it is just never a question for me.... I can't wait to get to the computer first thing when I wake.. I'm often so engrossed in my website building that I work two days and sleep a few hours and repeat this cycle for a couple of weeks before I crash and sleep like a log for 16 hours!!

      But I'm loving my life so much, and the fact that I get paid to do this fascinating and challenging stuff never ceases to amaze me - wooo hooo!

      So, its New Year's Eve here right now, and I'm banging away at the computer, working on the last 7 squidoos someone ordered - having a ball taking a few minutes to cruise here - what could be better??

      I hope you all have a totally brilliant new year!

      All the best to you and your loved ones, from me and mine

      - Helene
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