How many times did you have to fail to finally succeed?

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I am notorious for failing over and over and over again. It gets tiring honestly but it got me thinking - how many times does someone have to fail to reach success?

Of course there is no set answer to this question but I wanted to find out from you guys who have been experiencing success - how long has it taken you, how many roads have you had to take, and how many times you had to get up.

I have many big dreams I WILL reach in my life and I know I will never give up and will always get back up everytime I am knocked down.

Please share your stories!

Thank you
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  • Profile picture of the author Rezbi
    Too many.

    In fact, I think I might be able to create a course on how to fail successfully... without fail.
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  • Profile picture of the author JustinDupre
    Yeah way too many to remember. You win some and you lose some, but failing helped me learn more about business and which way to approach to earn more money.
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  • Profile picture of the author DavidTT
    Its gonna takes as many times as it takes in order to succeed, put it that way. Some people think it will take such and such amount of failure in order to succeed etc. Fact of the matter is, there is no written rule.

    I remember when I started to whole IM thing 3 years ago, I screwed up and failed so many times! I had to go to the drawing board so many times in order to see what worked and what didnt. I guess only time will help.
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  • Profile picture of the author Matt Bard
    I break things down into little projects or steps so as not to have the "Big Picture" become too overwhelming.

    As a result, the failures are just minor setbacks. I look at it as more experience.

    Unfortunately, experience is something that you don't get until right after you need it the most
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  • Profile picture of the author ciel
    Originally Posted by giversunite View Post

    I am notorious for failing over and over and over again. It gets tiring honestly but it got me thinking - how many times does someone have to fail to reach success?

    Of course there is no set answer to this question but I wanted to find out from you guys who have been experiencing success - how long has it taken you, how many roads have you had to take, and how many times you had to get up.

    I have many big dreams I WILL reach in my life and I know I will never give up and will always get back up everytime I am knocked down.

    Please share your stories!

    Thank you

    Take failures as a learning step towards success but:

    Follow a proven plan & work consistently, you will get success for sure.

    That's my story

    I wish you all the best.

    Cheers
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  • Profile picture of the author Anthony C
    My early online success was with ebay. I got burnt out with that so tried blogging. I setup a tech blog in Jan 2008 with adsense ads and by Jan 2009 had made $20. In Jul 2009 I started building micro-niche adsense sites. Jan 2010 I had finally made $100 from adsense. Still not too exciting until I saw a post by Chris Gunthrie May 2010 on how he had made 40k in one year promoting amazon products. I took his tips and re-vamped all my micro-niche adsense sites to promote amazon products and slowly (real slow in fact) the sales started coming in. Of course not without an entire year of manual backlinking, writing my own articles cause I couldn't afford to pay any writers and less than 4 hours of sleep every night. Flash forward...I'm finally seeing some real results. My amazon earnings have consistently been about 1k every month since Jan. Its a good feeling until it's time pay the bills. Good luck to you.
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  • Profile picture of the author guitarjosh
    I'm one of the lucky ones.. started late summer last year and the first idea worked... this month will be my first $3000 adsense month.
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    • Profile picture of the author Gail_Curran
      Fifty-seven. Actually, that number is probably too low.

      I only wish I was kidding.
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      • Profile picture of the author Richard Crooke
        Great post - especially for the newbies online. I spent a couple of years learning, experimenting, spending and earning little money.

        I am finally making money, although not were I want to be. However, I would suggest two things: 1) Stop looking at every new product, buying and moving on to the next. Do some research and focus on that task at hand for 90 days. 2) This is key, find a mentor that you can work with to succeed online. There are many coaching programs, but find the one that gives you one-on-one assistance. You will accelerate your success rate by getting a coach.

        To your success,

        Richard
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  • Profile picture of the author arnel1427
    In year 2003 I sell locally made products to ebay and made money, after 2 yrs products from china came and that ended my ebay income. I tried electronic repair shop which also failed. In 2009 I tried PTC, at first it was very promising, I actually earned a few hundreds, now most PTC's are scams, it's only good for 2-3 months.

    Now I'm trying internet marketing and slowly learning. So far this is what I learned:

    1. Make your own own ebook, software or service and promote.
    2. Make article or outsource then submit to article sites.
    3. Affiliate if you dont have a product and promote.
    4. Backlinks to high PR forums, blogs, profiles.
    5. Make a video and submit to video sites.
    6. Social bookmarking
    7. SB, AMR, PGoblin, BLM softwares are the best.
    8. Outsource thru Fiverr. Other gig sites are not okay.

    What else guys? Any suggestion?

    Thanks,
    Arnel
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  • Profile picture of the author Zeus66
    You mean some people stop failing? Not me. I fail probably 3 times a week, easily. The trick is learning how to take the lesson from the failures without letting them affect your self-esteem or your drive to succeed. Much easier said than done, but it can be learned. Never let anyone tell you this working for yourself gig is easy. It's freaking HARD most of the time. Takes determination, self-discipline, and psychological armor. Not nearly as many people are up to the challenge as like to think they are.
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    • Profile picture of the author Brian Clark
      Originally Posted by Zeus66 View Post

      You mean some people stop failing? Not me. I fail probably 3 times a week, easily. The trick is learning how to take the lesson from the failures without letting them affect your self-esteem or your drive to succeed. Much easier said than done, but it can be learned. Never let anyone tell you this working for yourself gig is easy. It's freaking HARD most of the time. Takes determination, self-discipline, and psychological armor. Not nearly as many people are up to the challenge as like to think they are.
      Thanks for this. It reminds me that you have to continue working hard - no matter how much you know or what results you've gotten in the past.
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    A lot of times, but I glad I did, learn from mistakes
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  • Profile picture of the author tekman
    I have been reading one of rich dads books called before you quit your job. He mentions failing and I was just reading about this last night before I went to bed. Basically one learns faster the more they fail. He got a sales job and was the worst salesman at Xerox so he worked after his day job in the evenings and learned about rejection. Eventually he got good at sales and was the top sales person. He went through a period of 6 months with great income which is what I did with ad sense. Just reading this book is motivational and combined with some psychology classes I have taken I have a plan and the determination to stick to it this time.

    I'm just getting back into internet marketing, but this time I am going to hire a virtual assistant to build back links. In the past I have done well with adsense ($2000-$3000 a month), bulk emailing, and adult back in the early days. Now I realized the swings is just part of what entrepreneurs go through. Being self employed is not a steady flat paycheck.

    I'm going to look at everything in an optimistic way this time. If I'm not making money right away with my assistant than I will look at it as a good deed to employ someone and eventually know sales and income will come.
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  • Profile picture of the author alex jones
    I failed and failed all the time, i never ever got ahead despite of my trying hard but still i am hoping that some day i may succeed.
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  • Profile picture of the author 36burrows
    I've made too many to count, still make them every single day.
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  • Profile picture of the author hashbury
    I failed for about three years straight. Then all at once everything just seemed to fall in place. So anyone that is tired of failing just keep going and eventually it will pay off.
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  • Profile picture of the author nthmarketing
    As soon as I succeed I'll let you know!
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  • Profile picture of the author Brian John
    Perseverance - Abraham Lincoln
    He failed in business in '31. He was defeated for state legislator in '32. He tried another business in '33...it failed. His fiancée died in '35. He had a nervous breakdown in '36. In '43 he ran for congress and was defeated. He tried again in '48 and was defeated again. He tried running for the Senate in '55...he lost. The next year he ran for Vice President and lost. In '59 he ran for the Senate again and was defeated. In 1860, the man who signed his name A. Lincoln was elected the 16th President of the United States. The difference between history's boldest accomplishments and its most staggering failures is often, simply, the diligent will to persevere.
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    • Profile picture of the author Jamie Charles
      Originally Posted by B.J. Johns View Post

      Perseverance - Abraham Lincoln
      He failed in business in '31. He was defeated for state legislator in '32. He tried another business in '33...it failed. His fiancée died in '35. He had a nervous breakdown in '36. In '43 he ran for congress and was defeated. He tried again in '48 and was defeated again. He tried running for the Senate in '55...he lost. The next year he ran for Vice President and lost. In '59 he ran for the Senate again and was defeated. In 1860, the man who signed his name A. Lincoln was elected the 16th President of the United States. The difference between history's boldest accomplishments and its most staggering failures is often, simply, the diligent will to persevere.
      Awesome Post!

      Nothing wrong with failing, as long as you gain something and learn something from the experience.

      Also, you need to learn to leave you loses in the rear view, know when to stop chasing a losing proposition. That was a major break through for me early on.
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      • Profile picture of the author Brian John
        Originally Posted by Jamie Charles View Post

        Awesome Post!
        thnx. here's one i like even better. it's a quote by calvin coolidge i believe. have it hanging on the wall next to my desk. my med school dean slipped a copy of it behind our diplomas. at the time didn't think much of it. today however i realize it's one of the most profound things i've ever read.

        Press on: Nothing in the world can take the place of perseverance. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.
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    • Profile picture of the author RentItNow
      Originally Posted by B.J. Johns View Post

      Perseverance – Abraham Lincoln
      He failed in business in '31. He was defeated for state legislator in '32. He tried another business in '33…it failed. His fiancée died in '35. He had a nervous breakdown in '36. In '43 he ran for congress and was defeated. He tried again in '48 and was defeated again. He tried running for the Senate in '55…he lost. The next year he ran for Vice President and lost. In '59 he ran for the Senate again and was defeated. In 1860, the man who signed his name A. Lincoln was elected the 16th President of the United States. The difference between history's boldest accomplishments and its most staggering failures is often, simply, the diligent will to persevere.
      Just saw these facts on I think American Experience on PBS. Was absolutely astounded by how a great a man this was and he was pretty much a Bi-polar Manicly depressed guy. He was on suicide watch MANY times in his life. Very very fascinating story to any entrepreneur.

      As far as failure, I would say the nation stat of small business is accurate in that it is 9 of 10 businesses fail. It's the ultimate learning curve.
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      • Profile picture of the author Matt D.
        I never fail i just get challenges or situations and then get through them and in the end I'm always a winner since I learn something, which in reality is what I'm after. Because when you learn something real and true and you use it, you get the exact results you want and you can predict.
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  • Profile picture of the author cydia54621
    they say if you fail you ______ again . and also if its easy for you its easy for everyone
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  • Profile picture of the author Calculons
    Failures is part of life.

    But what people usually forget is to do a "lessons learned" session afterwards.
    Well that applies for success also.

    Doing the same failure twice is like epic fail

    Anyway remember when I bought my second domain name, which was to be used to generating some pure inet cash.

    Couldn't get the .com name I wanted, so got a .cc instead (Like 3 times the annual cost)
    It took me 3 years to make anything good out of that stupid domain name.
    But its generating lotsa cash now though. ;-)

    So out of failures comes success, if you keep trying..
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  • Profile picture of the author amin-lelieveld
    Originally Posted by giversunite View Post

    I am notorious for failing over and over and over again. It gets tiring honestly but it got me thinking - how many times does someone have to fail to reach success?

    Of course there is no set answer to this question but I wanted to find out from you guys who have been experiencing success - how long has it taken you, how many roads have you had to take, and how many times you had to get up.

    I have many big dreams I WILL reach in my life and I know I will never give up and will always get back up everytime I am knocked down.

    Please share your stories!

    Thank you
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    Hi,

    I am sure that there are thousands of people who have "failed''.

    What is failing?

    What is the specific problem that you have right now?

    Making money is difficult. Keep it simple and don't make the mistake to start ten's of projects. Focus on 1 and just start.

    Let me know what the problem is and I will try to help you.

    Kind Regards,

    Amin
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  • Profile picture of the author Hawkzer
    Great idea for a thread!

    I would like to ask though, what if success in any professional realm means sacrificing part of your personality? For me this is the most immediate concern as I feel that I have a personality that is not naturally suited to compromise and in business this is one of the most important attributes it seems.

    At the moment I work in construction as an assistant quantity surveyor and seem to have real trouble accepting criticism. I don't feel I'm paid nearly enough to warrant the kind of treatment I get and I've known for a long time now the type of person my boss is and is never going to be and how this all might end for me if I can't just accept the abuse (as I see it). I've lasted over a year so far in part-time work, now it's full-time; spending 9-5 with the boss right next to me is meaning we both get under each others feet. I suppose this is a rant of sorts and I know I should grit and bare it until I finally reach a stage where I have accumulated enough experience to apply for a better job but whilst I'm here right now it's agony. Plus I've already failed at plenty of physical jobs in the past and found those even worse.
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    • Originally Posted by Hawkzer View Post

      Great idea for a thread!

      I would like to ask though, what if success in any professional realm means sacrificing part of your personality? For me this is the most immediate concern as I feel that I have a personality that is not naturally suited to compromise and in business this is one of the most important attributes it seems.
      You sound as if you were born to be an entrepreneur.

      Natural entrepreneurs do not suffer fools gladly.

      Don't compromise your nature -- find the type of work that suits it. It will probably be a job you'll invent for yourself. You'll work three times as hard as you ever have, and you'll love every minute of it.

      As far as your present boss is concerned, let me give you a tip that may be of use until you can get out from under him: Consciously change the way you react to his criticism. If you've been trying to defend yourself, clam up and say nothing. Think of the day you'll be on your own without having this moron lording over you and smile a little. That'll unnerve him and eventually he will treat you with more respect, because he'll think you know something he doesn't. (And you will!)

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      • Profile picture of the author Hawkzer
        Originally Posted by fluffythewondercat View Post

        You sound as if you were born to be an entrepreneur.

        Natural entrepreneurs do not suffer fools gladly.

        Don't compromise your nature -- find the type of work that suits it. It will probably be a job you'll invent for yourself. You'll work three times as hard as you ever have, and you'll love every minute of it.

        As far as your present boss is concerned, let me give you a tip that may be of use until you can get out from under him: Consciously change the way you react to his criticism. If you've been trying to defend yourself, clam up and say nothing. Think of the day you'll be on your own without having this moron lording over you and smile a little. That'll unnerve him and eventually he will treat you with more respect, because he'll think you know something he doesn't. (And you will!)

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  • Profile picture of the author sscot
    Fortunately, I didn't count it. As I guess, more than 100 times.
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  • Profile picture of the author AndrewCollinson
    still failing now,but you gotta fail your way to success.

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  • Profile picture of the author beatlechan
    I've been trying to succeed in internet marketing since 2006. I've had ups and downs but mostly downs.

    There's that famous quote by thomas edison:
    "I have not failed 10,000 times. I have successfully found 10,000 ways that will not work."

    I think if you fail on your own terms and learn from it can only make you a better person. I used to find myself getting discouraged when I read about someone making ten times what I make each month and they only started six months ago.

    After awhile I start laughing at every failure and keep on keeping on. Just don't give up.
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  • Profile picture of the author JJ Gallagher
    To many to count, it took me 7 months to make a dime, but it was all worth it!

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  • Profile picture of the author epandusa
    Heck, I'm failing even as I type this post!
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  • Profile picture of the author Steven Miranda
    failing is part of success so don't ever get discouraged about failing over and over and over. The next time might just be your success.
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  • Profile picture of the author janzco
    nice question, it reminds me about the quote " Failure is the secret of success"
    and that inspired me in IM.
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    • Profile picture of the author Jill Carpenter
      I fail at several things every week.

      There is no "end success" and you are done failing.
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  • Originally Posted by giversunite View Post

    I am notorious for failing over and over and over again. It gets tiring honestly but it got me thinking - how many times does someone have to fail to reach success?

    Of course there is no set answer to this question but I wanted to find out from you guys who have been experiencing success - how long has it taken you, how many roads have you had to take, and how many times you had to get up.

    I have many big dreams I WILL reach in my life and I know I will never give up and will always get back up everytime I am knocked down.

    Please share your stories!

    Thank you
    What a great post! In my opinion this is the most important thing in IM that separates those that make it and those that dont. You just have to keep sticking at it. Look at some of the guys making a solid 6 figure income on this forum. They have been members here since 2003, 2004, 2005 etc. That tells you that if you just hang in there you will crack it.

    I honestly believe that if you hang out here for the next 5 years, and take massive action, you have to make money.
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  • Profile picture of the author Richard Tunnah
    Too many times. I am always trying things. Some simply don't work. However things that have worked for me usually work very well or can be scaled to work very well and cover any failures many times over.
    I'm sure a wise man once said those afraid of failing can never succeed!

    Rich
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    • Profile picture of the author Fafa
      I fail everyday, but when I first started I failed for months and months until I started seeing a little bit of money. When I started helping people is when more success was coming my way! Just never give up!
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  • Profile picture of the author Claire Sharp
    I used to often failed in everything i did. But i never lost hope. I kept on trying until i finally had my first hit (small business) offline.
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  • Profile picture of the author jbeachum
    WOW, that is definitely true we may fail, but the success comes from getting back up Being persistent and tunnel vision focused on the end result ~ that being attaining your dream until it has become a reality!!!!
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  • Profile picture of the author jgant
    I'm constantly messing things up. My biggest failure to date is building a huge list ... and not for lack of trying. I keep plugging away because I'm sold on the fact a list is an integral part of a long term business. Soon I'll get it.

    IM is like buying stocks. Read Peter Lynch who says you only need 3 home runs in your life as long as you bet the farm each time. Easier said than done.

    In IM, you need only a few or even one successful model and then build on it ... rinse and repeat as warriors say. In other words you don't need to hit the ball out of the park with every effort. On the contrary, you need only succeed a few times and run with those successes.
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  • Profile picture of the author Chri5123
    Originally Posted by giversunite View Post

    I am notorious for failing over and over and over again. It gets tiring honestly but it got me thinking - how many times does someone have to fail to reach success?

    Of course there is no set answer to this question but I wanted to find out from you guys who have been experiencing success - how long has it taken you, how many roads have you had to take, and how many times you had to get up.

    I have many big dreams I WILL reach in my life and I know I will never give up and will always get back up everytime I am knocked down.

    Please share your stories!

    Thank you
    Awesome post!

    To answer your question I would say:

    how many times does someone have to fail to reach success?

    As many times as it takes.

    I have far more failures than successes - learn from them and move on and don't make the same mistakes again.

    I like the quote that about 2000 years ago Confucius said: "The more you know, the more luck you will have."

    It is ALL an element of luck but just like Poker you can manipulate the odds the better you play.

    Chris
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  • Profile picture of the author satrap
    Waaaaay to many to remember. But, I think we could all agree that what you learn from any failure is another piece of puzzle that will eventually lead you to success.
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    • Profile picture of the author EZRosenblum
      If you have succeeded at the end, you didn't FAIL even once! you just learned.
      great post.
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  • Profile picture of the author NealWalters
    Saw a profound statement a few weeks ago that if you haven't created over a hundred websites, you are still a novice.

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  • Profile picture of the author Shannon Herod
    "I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game-winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that's why I succeed." - Michael Jordan

    Yep... that is about right
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  • Profile picture of the author celente
    I failed exactly 864 times. But on the 865th time, I struck gold.

    Maybe you want to read my sig link.

    Try and try and try again.... failure is the quickest way to success.

    Thanks mr Thomas Edison, you are one smart persistent man.
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  • Profile picture of the author IMWinner
    I couldn't recall how many times I failed since there are too many to try to recall, but those times that I failed, I keep on thinking and asking the question if I would have the possibility to succeed with all those times that I failed. I mean, could I possibly reach success if all the time I end up short or a failure. But friends always told me not to be discouraged with these failures since we are given lessons by these experiences to help us improve for the next time.
    As what Michael Jordan has stated as posted by fellow warrior Shannon, despite all those misses and failures, one should not give up and continue what he should be doing. That what makes Michael Jordan successful and attained championships, facing the pressure and challenging one's self, in the end he became one of Basketball's most influential and popular figure.
    Never be discourage when experiencing failures, take it as a challenge to improve the next time.
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    • Profile picture of the author VinnyBock
      I won't mention school, but this is my second go-round with IM, I'm 0 -1 so far...
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    • Profile picture of the author myob
      Without any apparent exception, all of the greats throughout history have experienced multiple failures, and were able to rise above them.

      "Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure... than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much, because they live in a gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."

      - Theodore Roosevelt
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  • Profile picture of the author Clara H
    Oh gosh, let's see... I still have folders with my old IM endeavors and it's interesting to look back at them to see how much I've learnt.

    Put it this way... for children to learn how to walk, they need to fall down. Imagine if a child was too afraid of falling down... they would never learn to walk! To succeed, you first need to fail. Failure teaches you *a lot* and the key is to jump right back up and keep persisting.

    And to answer your question... my failures/attempts. As you will see, much of my failures were the result of me not finishing things and hopping from one thing to another (bad), while others I tried really hard at and got nowhere:
    1. Discovered Internet Marketing in 2007 (went to a free 3 day seminar in Melbourne). Set up a website that sells you a copy of the website for $7. Zero sales.

    2. Decided to get into Adsense. Never launched the site.

    3. Started writing my own eBook in a niche I'm sure no one would have bought from. Didn't finish the book.

    4. Spent months writing an eBook in the health niche... it was 11 pages long, yeh, I hate writing. Priced it at $7. Made a couple of sales but gave up since I had such a difficult time getting traffic.

    5. Spent months writing a second eBook... this one 20 pages long. Zero sales.

    6. Tried the product Easy Licensing Pro. Made $80 with one partner, zero sales with the others. Decided it wasn't for me and gave up.

    7. Tried Google Adwords with affiliate marketing. Zero sales. Later got my Adwords account permanently banned even though I wasn't even using it and had nothing running.

    7. Made a couple of authority wiki sites with ads (both affiliate and Adsense). Zero sales.

    8. Tried dropshipping on eBay. Sold a few thousand dollars worth of stuff a month, yay! Too bad the eBay fees, returns, etc, actually meant I was making well into the negatives every month.

    9. Researched and researched another way to approach dropshipping on eBay. Did all the keyword research, found a good supplier, did everything by the book and spent months preparing it. Finally launched! Zero sales.

    10. Now we are into 2011. Remember that 11 page health niche book I wrote near the start of my trying out IM, failure number 4? This time I expanded on it and in a short amount of time had a 200 word eBook that I hardly wrote a word of, plus all the bonuses. A full package. My first site with Clickbank. Made a sale within 2 days! Immediate refund. Made another sale a few months later. That's it, hopped onto something else.

    11. Tried getting into affiliate marketing, making Google sniper-like sites. Couldn't even get onto the first page of Google, let alone any sales.

    12. Throughout these different things, I tried various different ways of getting traffic. These included:
    * SEO. Fail.

    13. * Adwords. Fail.

    14. * Microsoft Adcenter. Fail.

    15. * Twitter. Fail.

    16. * Writing articles. Fail.

    17. * Forum marketing. Fail.

    18. * Video marketing. Fail. Probably more but can't think of them right now.

    19. Tried selling gigs on Fiverr. Zero sales.


    20. IM attempt number 20 is quite recent but is seeing success! By now I had learnt a lot about Internet Marketing and what works for me personally, as well as what works for other people. I went back to that health niche system I created. This time researched PPC some more and tried it again (Microsoft Adcenter since I'm now banned from Adwords).

    I have been making consistent sales and spending far less (both time and money) than what I was spending on free methods, quite ironically. I am now expanding this by creating more websites (more digital, and trying ecommerce), increasing my conversions and am about to try other PPC methods such as Facebook PPC.

    As you can see, a lot of my failures were probably avoidable and that was my fault. I've gone back to what I was pretty much originally doing and could have seen success a lot sooner. Oh well, it's happening now. NOT ONCE did I ever think I could not do this, every time I jumped back up and tried again.
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  • Profile picture of the author JennySweets
    I'm still failing, and loving every minute of it. Because each small failure is a victory- I've learned something! Actual success is getting closer with every mistake!

    Then again.. I don't really see any of my ups and downs as failures. When I am making a decent income I will look back and say i never failed. I simply learned the hard way hehe
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  • Profile picture of the author absolutelee
    I failed a bunch. I still fail every day. Failing is not really failing, though. It's more like taking a journey. If you're driving form here (Atlanta) to San Francisco, and you get to Saint Louis, that's not a failure. That's progress. The issue is this. You don't want to do the equivalent of driving around in circles. Goals help keep us from doing that.
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  • Profile picture of the author Aviator Joe
    opportunity lies within every failure, don't be scared to fail! it's part of the process, and an essential one as paradoxical as it sounds.
    On topic, i lost count. Successes outweigh the failures by many times
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  • Profile picture of the author robchapman
    I just recently had my first success. I made $120.00 writing a few articles. There isn't anything automated about it, but it felt good to make some money online instead of losing it.
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  • Profile picture of the author M A Kay
    Failures always there so can't blame if we don't succeed to something we aimed to reach...but we become strong because of failures. Its life after all no one is perfect, thus failures really are possible
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  • Profile picture of the author art72
    Not to be too philosophical here, but IMHO after many, many failures...and with the silent expectation to encounter at least a few more failures in the future, it's my belief:

    "Humility Is a Powerful Teacher, and Failure is a Powerful Tool as BOTH Demand Our Attention!"

    Another words, I no longer ignore the lessons learned from either!

    In fact, they are strong attributes to reaching success once one acknowledges & accepts his/her own fears (i.e. ignorance's, weaknesses, limitations, etc...)

    *For it is then, knowledge can be acquired to supersede and prevail over them!!!
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