How to Add Facebook Like Button to Static Pages - Help Needed

Hello,

I'm somewhat confused about adding the facebook like button to my static site's pages and need some help. Plz bare with me:

As I understand, the XFBML version allows for more options than the iframe one. That is why I'd prefer to use it. However, here are my questions:

1- What is the exact correct xfbml code to insert into pages?

2- Should I add the xfbml code to each page of my site and put a diff url for each code (page's url)? Or if I left the url field empty, it will resort to the default url which is the page in which the code is embeded?

I hope the later is true, since I have a lot of pages and I'd like to simply insert one code automatically without manually editing every code.

3- I heard the xfbml version requires the site to be added to the facebook open graph protocol, through inserting facebook's own meta tags or so, in this format:

<meta property="og:title" content="YOUR TITLE" />
<meta property="og:type" content="SITE TYPE" />
<meta property="og:url" content="SITE URL" />
<meta property="og:image" content="IMG URL" />
<meta property="og:site_name" content="SITE NAME" />
<meta property="fb:admins" content="FB ADMIN ID" />

Questions:

3a- Now is that all that is required to make the xfbml code work for the like button? And should I add the above open graph protocol meta codes to all of my pages and edit each one manually?

3b- I have lots of pages. There isn't a way to automate this or make the meta codes automatically grab the content from the original meta tags of the page??

Finally:

I did the steps above to one of my pages and thought everything was fine. Got the xfbml code from facebook itself I think. Added facebook metas or whatever they are called. But the button didn't show up.

4- Is there someone I can outsource this work to who knows what they are doing? I mean, good with facebook stuff and won't mess-up my pages.

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