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Blame Yourself

by brianboyer
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I have seen "Blame Newbies", "Blame Gurus", and others but I have not seen what is actually the TRUTH and that is to blame YOURSELF.

You are the only one who makes the final decisions and choices in your life. This applies to marketing and making money online as well. You can only be successful if you truly want to be. Just keep a positive mindset and you will be fine, but to blame others for your own mistakes is just wrong and far from reality.

So for those of you who blame the newbies, gurus, or others....start blaming yourself and start learning from your mistakes.
#blame #gurus #newbies #rant #truth
  • Profile picture of the author tpw
    LOL

    "Don't Blame the Newbies" started it all.

    Then "Don't Blame the Gurus" was based on the first.

    "Don't Blame Me" was based on the previous two.

    And now you suggest people should Blame Themselves.

    LOL

    And yes, your points where also covered in the other threads as well.

    Great minds think alike, don't they?
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  • Profile picture of the author lotsofsnow
    The best is not to blame anybody.

    Blaming does not work.

    If something works: be happy and pat yourself on the back.
    If it does not work (or does not seem to work): find out why and fix it.
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    • Profile picture of the author webcare
      Originally Posted by hpgoodboy View Post

      The best is not to blame anybody.

      Blaming does not work.

      If something works: be happy and pat yourself on the back.
      If it does not work (or does not seem to work): find out why and fix it.
      Totally agree. I think its about taking responsibility for what you can control (or do) and then for actually DOING (or implementing) what will make a difference.
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  • Profile picture of the author John Romaine
    If you have the right mindset, there is no such thing as blame.

    You just get on with it.
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    • Profile picture of the author tpw
      Originally Posted by ramone_johnny View Post

      there is no such thing as blame.

      Success resides in accepting responsibility for failure and for success.
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      • Profile picture of the author John Romaine
        Originally Posted by tpw View Post

        Success resides in accepting responsibility for failure and for success.
        My success is not your fault.
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        • Profile picture of the author tpw
          Originally Posted by ramone_johnny View Post

          My success is not your fault.

          Exactly!!
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        • Profile picture of the author Story
          Originally Posted by ramone_johnny View Post

          My success is not your fault.
          Only my failure is.

          I do blame myself at times, but that is more like an encouragement for me to do more next round.
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  • Profile picture of the author brianboyer
    The word blame still sounds like a good choice. I say we roll with that.
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  • Profile picture of the author J Bold
    Darn tootin

    Did I really just type "darn tootin"?

    The problem is too many of us are dreamers, and when the dream becomes reality, which is always much less rosy and full of obstacles, we want to blame everyone else except the person who holds the most responsiblity in our lives, ourselves!
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  • Profile picture of the author Bballer1
    Failure is just a state of mind. If you consider yourself a failure, then you are....
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  • Profile picture of the author World Marketing
    Good point!
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  • Profile picture of the author melltonroper
    Acceptance is the best virtue, do not blame others but blame yourself becuase your success is in your hand.
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  • Profile picture of the author Mr Bill
    I blame everything on everyone every morning. Then I have coffee.
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    • Profile picture of the author Brandon Bell
      Blame is a result of denial. Some people hate to accept responsibility for their failures, so they blame someone else instead. This creates a cycle of failure, because you can't learn from your mistakes until you accept the fact that you made them.
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  • Profile picture of the author DIGITALCHAMELEON
    If you blame others then you are not a good player..
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    • Profile picture of the author Don Luis
      Banned
      What's next? Blame the government?
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