buying products vs not buying products

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so im new and people have been advising me to avoid coaching products, im curious about this because i was involved in the seduction, lifestyle and relationship movement for 3 years, I used forums just like this but only instead of the topic being how to make more money it was about how to improve your love life, it took me 3 years to finally say i am content with that side of my life now so i am focusing on money now

funny thing i have noticed so far is that the basic principles of pick up and attraction seem to be the basic principles of becoming wealthy...ie....dont spend too much time researching, just go out there and try it, dont be afraid of failure, be wary of whos methods you buy in to because those methods work for them and might not work for you etc etc

thing is, in the seduction industry there are also many gurus who claim to have the course to help you achieve your dreams, 99% of them are just in it for the money and while you can learn bits from them, most people feel let down, however....there are 3 guys I have found who had good reviews and i tried their courses and they really did work and it really did help, they are making alot mof money but what they teach is genuine. granted i needed to do more than 1 course to completely understand it all but each one of them helped in their own ways

so im wondering is it the same here? are there some teachers who genuinely are offering rock solid information and teachings? as a newb id be interested to find some one who can help but i wont pay unless im 100% sure they can help

by the way i do have 3 ideas i can work with: DJ coaching course online, online retail store, maybe blogs on relationship advise and seduction, but would be curious to learn about other avenues or how to implement my ideas
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  • Profile picture of the author E. Brian Rose
    Is your shift key broken? Just curious.

    Originally Posted by dreamtunnel View Post


    so im wondering is it the same here? are there some teachers who genuinely are offering rock solid information and teachings?
    A simple search for the info you are seeking will reveal that there are many folks here that genuinely want to help you. The War Room is packed with outstanding help. You may consider investing the one time $37. If not, the main forum also offers a wealth of info.
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  • Profile picture of the author dreamtunnel
    my shift key isnt broken, thanks for the quick lesson in grammar...ooops i didnt use an apostrophe either ooooh no
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    • Profile picture of the author officer_iron
      Originally Posted by dreamtunnel View Post

      my shift key isnt broken, thanks for the quick lesson in grammar...ooops i didnt use an apostrophe either ooooh no
      It was just a joke.....

      Anyway, personally I wouldn't consider paying someone to coach me until I checked out all of the free information available, or even joined the War Room (the fee is extremely minimal).

      If you spend some time doing research on your own and still aren't satisfied, there's plenty of good coaches around here. Just research them and see what other Warriors are saying about them before you give them any of your money.
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  • Profile picture of the author Brendan Vraibel
    The thing with coaching is that even though they can give you step by step guides, you still need a solid foundation to be able to implement everything. Read through the forum and do searches or open a thread when you need help.

    Also should consider joining the War Room. It's a one time fee of $37 but the amount of solid help in there is endless.
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  • Profile picture of the author dwave
    Anyone who says they don't need a coach I would run as far away as possible. I'm in the IM niche doing very well, and I still hire coaches.... I know many multi millionaires that still hire coaches. Yes you have to have a foundation, and know what you love, and desire, but all of us need that push... And thats basically what a good coach will do is push you to make sure you finish what you need finished. That is priceless. There are many launches that I would have not done due to my coach pushing me through them. If you want to make money you need to create a solid foundation, and in that foundation I would include a coach. If you worry about spending money then your alwyas going to worry about it in the poor house. Step up your mindset, and only listen to those that have success.
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  • Profile picture of the author bloomingrose
    I am sure that coaches are helpful, and that probably will be where I go in 2012. But I have also seen others spend thousands of dollars on coaching and it just wasn't that helpful. There are some really helpful warriors here - rob jones, lucas adamski, christine 19 - from newbie to millionaire. I have found the WF to be incredible. I knew nothing about computers when I started out and I am am getting more of a form.
    One thing I have noticed: there are certain actions that bring about cash, or at least have a direct chance of it: posting content, collecting email addresses to build a list, providing services, even listing items on ebay or Amazon. I love to learn but I discipline myself to do some of those activities everyday, even if it is just building a Squidoo lens. And I no longer believe too much in instant riches.
    If you have an interest in relationships, you could start by blogging about that - start with a blogger blog and apply for some adsense, you could do that tonight. Let's see - also there is Wealthy Affiliate's Kyle and Carson, they very often offer free help. There also is the Challenge.co where you will get an amazing amount of free information. The information is out there for not very much, and the Internet is easier to use in some ways - for instance Wordpress is so much easier than some of the other systems, as there is Fiverr and other services to help with what you don't know. You might try being a Magic of Making up affiliate, I haven't promoted his stuff yet (because I have never successfully made up with anyone) but I know that Travis offers the best affiliate support that I have seen. Just choose something and commence- and know that it takes times to build up sites and a business.
    Wordpress conferences are pretty cheap.
    Good luck!
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  • Profile picture of the author tpw
    The big question is "buying products vs not buying products"...

    I have to ask myself that question all of the time myself...

    Sometimes the products I want to buy are so darn expensive, and I have to decide whether it will be worth my investment or not...

    When I am at the gas station, I stand there for up to an hour sometimes trying to figure out if I should buy that gasoline or not... :p

    So I weigh my options:
    • I can sit there and stare at the high price of gasoline for another hour, and bitch moan and groan about those people taking advantage of my needs in life;
    • I can drive home, park my car, and never leave the house or again; or
    • I can bite the bullet, spend this money, and always have the ability to move forward in my life and business.

    No one can answer this question for you. You must decide for yourself...

    Do you want to:
    • Stagnate?
    • Give up? Or,
    • Keep Moving Forward?

    The coaches can never be defined by the schmucks who buy the coaching, then never follow through with what they have learned.

    The best way to judge a particular coach is to look at his successful students, rather than to look at his students who chose failure.
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  • Profile picture of the author serena85
    Why are you folks always called theme "products" and not give us the correct name of what you are buying? That will be more useful then a personal coach.
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