Anyway this person ended up calling me a loser, which I have been called before and have heard others called before. After hearing it used as an attack so many times I have come to realize the term loser has different meanings.
Meaning 1: You are a person of undesirability either in character, appearance, or accomplishment and have no value of any kind to others or society as a whole.
Meaning 2: You are not engaged in things that society has approved of and thus fore you will be looked down on. This is even if you are doing better than other people.
Meaning 3: You are a person who poses a social risk to others because they will not be able to properly sell you to others.
I figured when I was called a loser I fell into the second category. In this case I am happy to be a loser. And any time someone calls you the same refer to the above. I have finally seen that getting called a loser in some cases is a good thing. It means you are doing something right.