Who Would Be Willing To Help Me?

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Hey warriors,

I've been on here reading non stop almost 2 to 3 hours daily for the past couple months to the point where I recently had to open an account to be able to post and ask questions. I've searched far and wide for all kinds of IM methods and niches and it seems that I now know which direction i'd like to go. It seems that for me the WP websites that are niche targeted with keywords is the best option. And this is where I would like to take action BUT...

I've read and bought tons of products about SEO and other products from "gurus" that really don't help at all and I just end up disappointed every time. I do retain the little bits and pieces of important material from every product and have tried to stick them all together but nothing really works. I am probably missing the KEY pieces that nobody will tell a rookie in these guides.

I see that some warriors have had a kind heart lately and have been taking on IM rookies to give them a helping hand and help them become successful. With my luck I missed the boat each and every time. This thread is basically to ask if anyone out there reading this if they would have a kind enough heart to maybe want to take me under their wing and show me what I need to know to become successful. I don't mind reaching out for a helping hand if its possible that someone out there just might say yes. My ego is not too big to do it, as all I want to do is learn.

I'm willing to put in the hard work and listen to everything, and put it all into ACTION. I realize that there will be some costs to set things up and I also realize that I will have to put in time. With no time wasting whatsoever! Sometimes we all need a guiding hand by someone that does this for a passion and their living and have been successful themselves.

If anyone thinks I'm crazy or weird for asking you fellow warriors this, that's fine I respect that. But if anyone out there is reading this and would love to help me out I am all yours! PM me if you would like to stay anonymous i'd love to receive all the help that I can! Thanks everyone!
  • Profile picture of the author joseph7384
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    • Profile picture of the author superpayouts
      Originally Posted by joseph7384 View Post

      Just be careful because someone may not be who they appear to be.

      Joseph, what do you mean by that? Do you mean in the terms of someone steering me in the wrong direction perhaps?
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        • Profile picture of the author superpayouts
          Originally Posted by joseph7384 View Post

          Yes when you mention that you understand that costs are involved and you invite someone to pm you, you are opening yourself to vultures that are only interested in themselves.

          Remember that this forum is open for anyone to join so their will be some creeps in here but they don't last to long because they can't help themselves and eventually get banned.

          Joseph,

          When I meant costs, I meant that I know that there will be costs such as hosting, domains, and other costs that will have to come from myself. Definitely not interesting in buying more products anymore i've been disappointed so many times unfortunately.
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          • Profile picture of the author TheSalesBooster
            Originally Posted by superpayouts View Post

            Joseph,

            When I meant costs, I meant that I know that there will be costs such as hosting, domains, and other costs that will have to come from myself. Definitely not interesting in buying more products anymore i've been disappointed so many times unfortunately.
            Anyone who knows what they are doing won't waste their time mentoring someone without getting paid to do it. Unless of course they are feeling charitable.

            In the past I have done coaching both for free and for money. The difference between someone who paid to be coached and someone who didn't is huge.

            The people who were getting coached for free never put in the 110% needed to get their ass in gear and put the teachings to work. I don't know why, but its probably the 'I don't have anything to lose mentality' so most people just sit there and nod their heads and go back to watching TV afterwards.

            People who invest in coaching tend to do 10x better. They do have something to lose. And that's why I don't offer free coaching anymore. Adding a price barrier keeps out the beggars who expect everything for nothing.

            So just a tip... If you plan on finding someone who knows what they are doing, your going to have to fork over some money for their time. Or try and get in one of those mentor threads someone posted above, but don't expect to learn anything that's going to make you rich. Nobody is going to give away their secrets or their methods for free.
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            • Profile picture of the author superpayouts
              Originally Posted by TheSalesBooster View Post

              Anyone who knows what they are doing won't waste their time mentoring someone without getting paid to do it. Unless of course they are feeling charitable.

              In the past I have done coaching both for free and for money. The difference between someone who paid to be coached and someone who didn't is huge.

              The people who were getting coached for free never put in the 110% needed to get their ass in gear and put the teachings to work. I don't know why, but its probably the 'I don't have anything to lose mentality' so most people just sit there and nod their heads and go back to watching TV afterwards.

              People who invest in coaching tend to do 10x better. They do have something to lose. And that's why I don't offer free coaching anymore. Adding a price barrier keeps out the beggars who expect everything for nothing.

              So just a tip... If you plan on finding someone who knows what they are doing, your going to have to fork over some money for their time. Or try and get in one of those mentor threads someone posted above, but don't expect to learn anything that's going to make you rich. Nobody is going to give away their secrets or their methods for free.

              Hey,

              I agree that some folks might adopt that mentality, but to be honest how many of them went out and requested the help? Usually those are the ones that jump in on a thread that was already offered by another member to which they figured hey nothing to lose I might as well try.

              I am not that person. I want to learn, I want to put it into action and I want to become successful at this so I can make a difference for my own family doing this as a full time job. I have a good heart as well and I know for a fact that wether it takes 1 year or 10 years I will eventually return the favor to someone else that needs the help. For me personally, wether I payed or not wont change the amount of effort and time I want to put into it. I'm dedicated to making this work, if I wasn't serious I would of never asked for help because I don't want to waste nobody's time. That's for sure!
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  • Profile picture of the author ShutupAndEarn
    This is pretty much the answer to everything you asked word for word....

    Tony Robbins, Frank Kern and John Reese on the Most Important Skill of Achievers. - YouTube

    I don't know how to embed...

    Stop reading the board for 2-3 hours a day and start taking action. I have something you can start on with low startup cost if you pm me.... Watch that video, seriously it is worth the 40 minutes.
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    • Profile picture of the author superpayouts
      Originally Posted by BarteringBetter View Post

      This is pretty much the answer to everything you asked word for word....

      <iframe width="560" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/sUmooRyU0Bg" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>

      BartendingBetter,

      Nice video. Just from watching the first few minutes I know this is about taking action. But i've done that my friend. I am not the type of person to buy a product and not try to implement it immediately. I want to be successful, but so far what i've tried has not worked for me personally. Again, I am thinking I'm missing pieces to the puzzle because its not as easy as the guides would say it is.
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      • Profile picture of the author Tony Humble
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        Originally Posted by superpayouts View Post

        BartendingBetter,

        Nice video. Just from watching the first few minutes I know this is about taking action. But i've done that my friend. I am not the type of person to buy a product and not try to implement it immediately. I want to be successful, but so far what i've tried has not worked for me personally. Again, I am thinking I'm missing pieces to the puzzle because its not as easy as the guides would say it is.
        Perhaps you've just had bad luck so far.. what have you tried doing?
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        • Profile picture of the author superpayouts
          Originally Posted by Tony Humble View Post

          Perhaps you've just had bad luck so far.. what have you tried doing?

          Hello Tony,

          Thanks for your interest. I am not sure if you are familiar with target sites, or WP review sites/amazon review sites. I have done the sites, done the keyword researching and have tried to do everything listed in the guides I've read but none of this has worked for me. Someone told me a few days ago that sometimes in these guides the steps to take are properly explained, but they are not explained in very fine detail. Such as I learned the hard way like knowing how to choose "buying keywords". These types of things can make the world of a difference to someone just starting out. But that is just one small example of many that can make the outcome of everything be a positive or negative experience.
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  • Profile picture of the author icoachu
    I do free coaching but I am not available at all times. I only coach when I have time. I never charge money. I never upsell.

    The only thing I ask is for those I helped to help others.

    I only coach people re blogging and getting traffic and building lists.
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    • Profile picture of the author superpayouts
      Originally Posted by icoachu View Post

      I do free coaching but I am not available at all times. I only coach when I have time. I never charge money. I never upsell.

      The only thing I ask is for those I helped to help others.

      I only coach people re blogging and getting traffic and building lists.

      Hey icoachu,

      Have you ever done any WP review sites, or amazon sites? Would love any help I can get and would truly appreciate it. Thanks for the reply!
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  • Profile picture of the author ShutupAndEarn
    Stop reading the board for 2-3 hours a day and start taking action. Join a cpa network, get a few websites, use market samurai or something like that to find a niche.

    I have something you can start on if you pm me....
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  • Profile picture of the author theory expert
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    Tread carefully and fiddle around in the thread and section below:
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  • Profile picture of the author nasuryono
    Hey superpayouts,

    I'd be glad to lend you a helping hand. PM me with your goal and I'll answer any questions that you might have.

    I do WP and Amazon affiliate review sites as part of my IM venture.
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  • Profile picture of the author ShutupAndEarn
    Super, I can't respond to PM my post count is to low. JBrokaw99@gmail.com shoot me an email.
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  • Profile picture of the author TheSalesBooster
    Yes I understand that and a lot of mentors understand that. They hear that same message you just wrote 10x a day.

    I'm gonna give it to you straight.

    Mentoring people sucks 90% of the time.

    It's like trying to teach someone a new language.

    Most of the people looking for coaching know very little about internet marketing and how it works. So you have to hold their hands. It can be frustrating and people who charge for mentoring aren't doing it to make a bunch of money. Most of the mentors just want to be paid for the time they are spending to hold your hand.

    This isn't all about you and your passion. You're not only taking up your own time, but your taking up someone else's time to teach you when they could be spending it making money.

    If you want quality coaching you're going to need to pay. Your words don't mean anything to a mentor who knows what hes worth. He's taking time out of his life to teach you how to be successful and to ask him to do it for free is to me downright disrespectful.

    That's like walking into mechanics shop and asking him to teach you how to fix cars for free. A skill he spent years to master and here you come asking for something for free just because you will give it your all and you want to make it work to feed your family.. Well tough shit, everyone has to feed their families. Either sweat it out and learn the trade yourself or fork up some cash to pay for your mentoring.

    I'm not directing this rant at you and I have nothing personal against you, but I just have a problem with this whole 'mentor me for free' mentality that goes on online. Either work your ass off and learn like everyone else or pay your dues to get the shortcut.

    /rant over.
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  • Profile picture of the author JoeyElmore
    I would like to share a free training video that teaches some on page SEO strategies. I used these to rank several keywords on page 1 of Google within a few days. PM me and I'll send you the link.
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    • Profile picture of the author superpayouts
      Originally Posted by JoeyElmore View Post

      I would like to share a free training video that teaches some on page SEO strategies. I used these to rank several keywords on page 1 of Google within a few days. PM me and I'll send you the link.

      Joey,

      I dont know if you will be able to PM me back since you don't have the dreaded 50 post count yet. But I have PMed you. If you cant PM me let me know here and i'll re-PM you with my email address!

      Thanks for being so kind and offering some help! Every bit counts!
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  • Profile picture of the author RoadCEO
    I am only 7 mins into the vid and I have thank BarteringBetter for sharing it ... thanks so much .. high 5

    Joey would you mind sharing that free seo video series with me to? I would really appreciate it!
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  • Profile picture of the author nicholasb
    the best advice anyone can give you is to stop reading and buying books, and actually do the stuff in them. Take note of what works, take note of what doesn't, do more of what works and stop doing what doesn't work.

    you time is best spent if you are acting and taking action, and not just reading.
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    I can give you tips on building your social media if you would like.... NP
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  • Profile picture of the author braincandy7
    I'm more than happy to give you some time. It will have to be skype text or voice though as anything else takes too long to get anywhere and time is not something i have much spare these days

    Skype: braincandy7 or gurutrainingacademy
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