Question about selling

hello,

I have just released my membership site The Affiliate Marketing Lab and wow, I can tell you - I'm so proud to be done with the content, it was a lot of fun but at the same time exhausting.
In any way, I collected email addresses already and I send 10 guest posts to different people and got - 2 answers and both obviously do not want to publish my posts
This is pretty frustrating though. Guest posting seems to be not so convincing although I guess it's me, I just need to keep working...

Beside that, Clickbank is really hard before they list products. I finally got mine approved but I cannot find it in the market place.

So I have several questions:

1. how can i find my product on clickbank?
2. how do i find JV partners and/or affiliates who would like to promote my product?
3. what else can I do to get more targeted visitors?

if you have some ideas - I'm more than happy. Also, if you have experience in product launch - please let me know.

i´m thankful for any answer - i put 5 months of work into this and now i feel a bit desperated because I'm not sure how to get people join me.

i know a lot about affiliate marketing and niche site building but membership sites are new for me.

thanks again!