Is Your Business Attracting LOSERS?

27 replies
When I was growing up I was always told that "the customer is always right". To an extent I still agree with that statement when it comes to physical items you buy in a bricks and mortar store. However, I have also come to the conclusion that a huge number of the people us Internet marketers attempt to flag down to our sites in the vain hope of selling info products are (for want of a better word) losers.

I'm talking about the people who will do anything to get free information, as opposed to paying a nominal fee that could save them a heck of a lot of time. We all know that time is money... so why would you spend hours and hours trying to do anything in your power to get an eBook or training course for free when a few dollars will give you instant satisfaction?

"Losers" exhibit the following qualities:
  • Every one of their Google searches uses the term "free" somewhere
  • They sign up to your list and then unsubscribe as soon as the hook arrives in their inbox
  • They get all shirty when you attempt to sell them something (and then complain that they never get anywhere)
  • They buy and then immediately refund

I think you get the picture. Over the past 12 months I have made a concerted effort to do everything in my power to shut out these "losers" from my sites, my products, and anything to do with my business. Ouch right?! By focusing only on attracting qualified buyers I have been able to relax a lot more in my business approach.

Writing off a big proportion of your traffic as "losers" might seem very mean-spirited, but it has also enabled me to become far more successful than I was before. Try shutting out the freebie chasers (including those leads that never buy anything from your list) and you will streamline your business model greatly.

Basically, I'm encouraging you to focus specifically on the demographic you know will actually spend money.

I'm all ears for the guaranteed abuse that will come my direction :p
#attracting #business #losers
  • Profile picture of the author samjaynz
    I understand that! I'm talking more about trying to take steps to avoid the freebie seekers and others who don't improve your bottom line.
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8370834].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author rmolina88
    "Losers" is a bit of harsh word. By your description, I'm also guilty of being one at times, but I don't do the last thing (Buy and immediately refund).

    I would still call them "Freebie Seekers".
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8370862].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author samjaynz
      Originally Posted by rmolina88 View Post

      "Losers" is a bit of harsh word. By your description, I'm also guilty of being one at times, but I don't do the last thing (Buy and immediately refund).

      I would still call them "Freebie Seekers".
      Buying and immediately refunding is the worst. Especially if it is mere minutes later.

      "Losers" is just the term I like to use... it's not a hate thing, just a moniker.
      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8370905].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author KevinChapman
    Yeah I call them 'Freebie Seekers' too! Occassionally a freebie seeker does turn into a buyer though so you can't really rule them out and if you are offering free stuff you can't blame them!
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8370875].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Will Edwards
    I was speaking to a partner a while back and I commented that I had apparently built a huge list of 'freebie seekers'. His response was that he would be perfectly happy with such a list - he would be sending them to as many CPA freebie offers as he possibly could - it was a good point.

    But I also fully understand the OP's point. What I think is that it really doesn't matter what your prospects do - sign-up unsub etc. In fact, if they are not opening your mails, unsubscribe them yourself. That way you will gradually filter out (by their action and yours) those who don't engage with your mails.

    For those that do engage, keep pulling them back to your site to expose them to your advertising messages and also ask them to do little things for you from time to time ('like' something, retweet something etc). When people do buy something from you, get them off your prospect list and onto your buyers list. If they abuse your offer (unjustified refund requests etc) unsubscribe (or even ban) them from your lists.

    Over the course of time, you will build a responsive prospect list and a loyal buyers list.

    That's roughly how I operate.

    Will
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8370942].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author samjaynz
      Originally Posted by Will Edwards View Post

      I was speaking to a partner a while back and I commented that I had apparently built a huge list of 'freebie seekers'. His response was that he would be perfectly happy with such a list - he would be sending them to as many CPA freebie offers as he possibly could - it was a good point.

      But I also fully understand the OP's point. What I think is that it really doesn't matter what your prospects do - sign-up unsub etc. In fact, if they are not opening your mails, unsubscribe them yourself. That way you will gradually filter out (by their action and yours) those who don't engage with your mails.

      For those that do engage, keep pulling them back to your site to expose them to your advertising messages and also ask them to do little things for you from time to time ('like' something, retweet something etc). When people do buy something from you, get them off your prospect list and onto your buyers list. If they abuse your offer (unjustified refund requests etc) unsubscribe (or even ban) them from your lists.

      Over the course of time, you will build a responsive prospect list and a loyal buyers list.

      That's roughly how I operate.

      Will
      Will absolutely NAILS it here - unless you have the mechanisms in place to convert freebie seekers ("losers" ) using CPA offers or whatever, then you need to try and weed them out if you cannot profit.
      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8370981].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Sarevok
    Lol.

    Is the word "losers" a tad too harsh?

    That's for you guys to decide.

    And this is exactly why I relate marketing to fishing.

    Think of it this way.

    Are guppies, minnows, or sun fish "losers" ?

    Well, not really.

    It's just that.. When I go fishing..

    I want Trout, and Salmon.

    I don't want Bass, Kibbies, Minnows, or anything else.

    No offense to the bass and minnows, but I'm a Trout & Salmon type of guy.



    No need to negatively notate the different types of fish out there.

    My advice?

    Know what type of fish you want.

    And; know what type of bait to offer that desirable fish.

    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8370994].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author WillR
    I can confidently say from my own experience that the lower you charge for something the less likely it is people will use it and the more likely it is those who do use it are going to take up a lot of your time.

    It's the people who buy your premium priced products that you never hear from. They are the great customers!

    Obviously I'm generalizing a bit but that's just been my own experience.
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8371042].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author samjaynz
      Originally Posted by WillR View Post

      I can confidently say from my own experience that the lower you charge for something the less likely it is people will use it and the more likely it is those who do use it are going to take up a lot of your time.

      It's the people who buy your premium priced products that you never hear from. They are the great customers!

      Obviously I'm generalizing a bit but that's just been my own experience.
      Apart from the fact that I do a lot of Kindle sales these days (which are about as low ticket as they come) I would tend to agree with you. Someone spending $1000 knows what they want and how to use it, whereas someone who bought an eBook for $20 might have done so on a whim and then immediately regretted it.
      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8371172].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author PazG
      I'm a recent product creator and I have noticed the exact same trend. My product is also selling many more units at the higher price.
      Originally Posted by WillR View Post

      I can confidently say from my own experience that the lower you charge for something the less likely it is people will use it and the more likely it is those who do use it are going to take up a lot of your time.

      It's the people who buy your premium priced products that you never hear from. They are the great customers!

      Obviously I'm generalizing a bit but that's just been my own experience.
      Signature

      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8371368].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author Rob Maggs
      Originally Posted by WillR View Post

      I can confidently say from my own experience that the lower you charge for something the less likely it is people will use it and the more likely it is those who do use it are going to take up a lot of your time.

      It's the people who buy your premium priced products that you never hear from. They are the great customers!

      Obviously I'm generalizing a bit but that's just been my own experience.
      I agree with what Will says..I think it's the dimesale culture has devalued products, opened the market up to the instant refunders and people expecting loads of support. I've noticed whenever I have sold a $97 product refunds have been non existent, the quality of the buyer at the higher end is much better IMO.
      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8379001].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author goindeep
    I have worked in customer service for a looooooong time and can tell you the customer is not always right. IN fact i'd go so far as to say the most of the time the customer is always wrong.

    Doesnt mean they ar stupid or that they dont deserve your respect...

    I also agree with your approach.

    Its nothing new.

    You are just classifying your customers. All good companies do this.
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8371422].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author samjaynz
      Originally Posted by goindeep View Post

      I have worked in customer service for a looooooong time and can tell you the customer is not always right. IN fact i'd go so far as to say the most of the time the customer is always wrong.

      Doesnt mean they ar stupid or that they dont deserve your respect...

      I also agree with your approach.

      Its nothing new.

      You are just classifying your customers. All good companies do this.
      If only I had a better grounding in customer service eh...
      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8371513].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author ashloren
    I'm going to have to disagree with much of the OP on this one.

    First of all, I do not believe that unethical refunds fall into the same category as people who simply look for freebies. Two very different things, even if some freebie seekers may ask for refunds here and there. That doesn't make them interchangeable and one does not necessarily indicate both.

    People all have their own priorities. They also have their own amount of resources with which to tend to whatever those priorities are. Depending on what is most important to them at any given point in their lives, they will spend their money first on those things and then do their best to save in the areas where that is possible. Certainly can't blame them for that.

    What I'm getting at is that not everyone has the same amount of resources and not everyone can afford the price tag on some products or services.

    I'm glad someone else pointed out that many freebie seekers turn into buyers, because this is very true. I know because I used to be exclusively a freebie seeker (never asked for a refund immediately unless the product was truly awful and I can count on one hand the number of times this has happened) and now I am more often a buyer because I'm in a different position now and can afford to invest more in the products I need and which will help me the most.

    And hey, being a loser has its perks. I find it a little difficult not to sympathize with freebie seekers because of my own roots and for the simple fact that I know what it is like to be in their position. I actually try to give back as much as I possibly can to the web in general, in terms of free help, advice, resources and even products. Why? Because without some of the free tools I used in the beginning, I wouldn't be where I am today and that matters to me.

    So I guess send the losers my way and you can have buyers only. I'm chill with that.
    Signature
    -Ashly Lorenzana
    AshlyLorenzana@gmail.com
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8371775].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Alexa Smith
    Banned
    Originally Posted by ashloren View Post

    I'm going to have to disagree with much of the OP on this one.
    Same here. With some of it, anyway. I suspect that much of my disagreement actually relates to assumptions the OP has made which I happen not to share at all.

    Originally Posted by samjaynz View Post

    We all know that time is money... so why would you spend hours and hours trying to do anything in your power to get an eBook or training course for free when a few dollars will give you instant satisfaction?
    It seems to me that you're perhaps assuming that people who find a marketer's site and download something like a "free report", because it's offered there, are necessarily "freebie-seekers". It's not an assumption I share.

    Originally Posted by samjaynz View Post

    They buy and then immediately refund
    As Ashly explains, just above, that's a completely different phenomenon and a completely different demographic. I don't mean it impolitely at all, but I can't help wondering whether you might have confused the two, to some extent? Targeting keywords which include "free" is clearly asking for trouble, but I don't really imagine you were actually doing that? Certainly one should focus on attracting qualified buyers: I can't see anyone arguing with you there.

    Originally Posted by samjaynz View Post

    Writing off a big proportion of your traffic as "losers" might seem very mean-spirited
    I don't know that it's necessarily mean-spirited, but I hope you'll excuse the observation that it does seem consistent, in a sense, with your rather strange expectation of "guaranteed abuse", in response to your post. I see some agreement and some disagreement (as one expects, in a forum), and no abuse at all.
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8372171].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author carlamae
    I like your description! These are also the same people that flip the bird to people when they drive and it's always somebody else's fault that they are not successful in live, etc. Oh how I could go on! lol Well said!
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8372201].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author samjaynz
      Originally Posted by carlamae View Post

      I like your description! These are also the same people that flip the bird to people when they drive and it's always somebody else's fault that they are not successful in live, etc. Oh how I could go on! lol Well said!
      There's always someone looking to bludge of the success of others, right?
      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8373396].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author clever7
    I guess it depends on your niche. I didn't have the negative experiences you have mentioned with my products.

    But I once had a problem with someone who didn't pay me for my services as much as they should, and since then I don't work before being paid, without exceptions.

    There are many dishonest people online and offline. This is a known truth.








    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8373502].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Gambino
    Searching for free (or cheaper) alternatives is a sign of an intelligent shopper. Most don't get wealthy, and sustain their wealth by giving away their money.
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8373633].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author samjaynz
      Originally Posted by Gambino View Post

      Searching for free (or cheaper) alternatives is a sign of an intelligent shopper. Most don't get wealthy, and sustain their wealth by giving away their money.
      I agree with that statement when it comes to physical products... but when it comes to conveniently packaged information I would rather pay a few dollars and get what I need immediately.
      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8374308].message }}
      • Profile picture of the author Alexa Smith
        Banned
        Originally Posted by samjaynz View Post

        when it comes to conveniently packaged information I would rather pay a few dollars and get what I need immediately.
        So would I, but we're not the customers, are we? We're the marketers.
        {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8375274].message }}
        • Profile picture of the author samjaynz
          Originally Posted by Alexa Smith View Post

          So would I, but we're not the customers, are we? We're the marketers.
          When you spend all your time marketing it's hard to put the consumer hat back on!
          {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8375305].message }}
          • Profile picture of the author Alexa Smith
            Banned
            Originally Posted by samjaynz View Post

            When you spend all your time marketing it's hard to put the consumer hat back on!
            I hear you there.

            This is how my parents help me. They're not marketers at all - they're just customers. They subscribe to all my lists and look at all my sites, pretending that they're interested in whatever the specific niche is, and their feedback's really useful for me. I do think that being able - somehow - to put the consumer hat back on is a valuable, income-related skill for marketers, otherwise it's very easy to be out-of-synch with your audience. Regularly inviting feedback about various aspects of your marketing-process can be very helpful, too.
            {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8375619].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author visimedia
    Some people are really losers but I believe most people just want to build trust first just before they find the hook to buy stuff from us. That's it.
    Free stuff in most of the time works well to build trust for the first time, just to let people know that we are real and good people that are cool enough to solve their problem. It's all about TRUST..

    Higher trust rank in google = higher and easier ranking
    High trust rate in customer = higher conversion and profit
    Signature

    For best hostel in malang https://bedpackers.com & mold inspectors orlando : https://waterdamagerestorationorland...d-inspections/

    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8374414].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author JimDucharme
    The frustration is understandable but, be careful about thinking of any customer as a loser or stupid. That kind of cynicism can creep up around you and cloud your perspective on all your customers. This can happen a lot easier and faster than you might realize.

    Regards,
    jim
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8375817].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author RestlessBlaze
    I think the spectrum has gone wider. I have been pitched $1 product to $20k product. They all sell. It all comes down to what is your offer and how you are presenting it. But, if i have to buy $500 product, i got to be 100% sure, if i really need it or not. $10 products are more or less impulse buys.
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8379189].message }}
  • I guess it depends on what your business model is, and how effectively you can convert your free prospects up your funnel ladder, but I've never been successful when marketing to the low-end of the spectrum. Bottom feeding always proved painful, prone to customer support nightmares, high refunds, low EPCs, etc.

    I feel far more comfortable when marketing products from $197+ , and the return on my efforts have always been better.
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[8379628].message }}

Trending Topics