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That's very hard to figure out. I read your post in the first thread you posted about your marketing. SteveB and the guy above him wrote you a decent reply to your question. I don't know if they are logged on or if you sent them a pm. Maybe ask a follow up question in that thread and maybe they will chime in or some one else can help you.

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I would pay money for someone to look over my site and tell me what to improve regarding social media. But I want to do most of it myself to not be dependent. But how do I find someone being competent(and not just claiming to be) in my niche "business directories"? How do I verify his expertise?

PS: Person needs to understand german as my platform is in german.

How to proceed with what? I've been reading this thread and looked at a few of the threads you mentioned in your original post.

This is an internet marketing forum. You won't find a business coach or consultant with a specialty in business directories or in German here... or at least I don't think you will. Your best option is to search Google for a consultant who works with people like you, check their references and then hire them.

You may be using the wrong forum to find the information you need.

Bonnie

I think this question sums up the reason you and others feel ignored.

1. Too much time has elapsed since the first post. Many of us have reasons to not still be following this thread closely such as we've moved on emotionally, helped others in other threads, went on vacation, got sick, think this is boring, think you are ungrateful for the help you've already received, etc. People just can't monitor a thread for days and weeks on end waiting to help you or me or anyone else.

2. This thread has had 438 views and 29 responses. It's not like thousands of people are ignoring you. This is actually a pretty good ratio I think considering many other complaint type threads.

3. Several people here HAVE helped you whether you realize it or not. The question now is have you acted on what has been taught? Have you searched the forums and the internet for your own answer? Have you given value in any way, shape, or form to others these last couple days while you are waiting for people to answer your complaints about others not helping you? Have you reached out to start building relationships with people that can help you? My guess is that you've done none of these or very little of it but still expect people to help you out and solve your business problems.

4. If you had a brick and mortar business and had a question about something, was willing to pay for help but didn't know who in your town to trust how would you go about finding out? I submit that the same process works online. Have you done that?

5. You say "I would pay money for someone to look over my site and tell me what to improve regarding social media. But I want to do most of it myself to not be dependent." What have you done to find out yourself how to fix your site if you truly want to be dependent? There are many products and services that are available. If you don't trust WSOs or online products then go to your bookstore and buy a hardcopy of a book by someone that seems more trustworthy.

Mark

Well, your best bet is to post a thread in the section Wanted - Members Looking To Hire You. Costs a few dollars but usually you'll get more than enough replies.

Now, as far as your requirement with German: Das it nicht ganz einfach. Die meisten Leute hier sprechen kein Deutsch.

But you can give it a try. Whip up a nice post, pay your 5 bucks and see what happens.

Since when did it become the forum's responsibility to feed you? :rolleyes:

hey Hitler - relax, NOBODY here owes you anything - let alone for free. What makes YOU "oh so entitled" and special?

What is this, deja freakin' vous?

Interesting how I was on a thread (mine own) about, among other things, ungrateful warriors. It resonated with a lot of folks because it's just true.

(But that does not take away at all from the warriors, sellers and customers who do outstanding work and really do care. And they show some gratitude. I'd like to say "thank you" for all the time, help, and guidance I've gotten over the years, and to all those warriors that I might have had a small part in helping. I love being a part of the solution, whatever small way I can.)

Boss, I gotta say that I really stand in awe of you. How you can go all frigid in the face of all the helpful advice (and helpful critiques) you've been given so far during your term as warrior is an amazing testimony to the power of an arrogant mind.

If someone were to teach you exactly how to fish, as you say you want, you would complain that they did not come back later and give you some more teaching, or that you did not want crappie when you would rather have swordfish. Then you would complain that more warriors were not chartering the boat for you. Or that they did not give you some information about fishing books and courses. Your attitude is probably not redeemable at this point.

I guess my comment is not worth your time, since I'm "trolling" and because I did not throw in a tackle box or deep sea rod. Nobody here is obligated to teach you squat about fishing. Instead of cursing the darkness, accept, with gratitude, the light others are trying to shine your way. Learn humility first, then come back for fishing basics.

Gotta run. Since my little company consumes so much of my time, I'm entitled.

Ron

Karen Blundell,

"treat others the way you want to be treated"
Sorry, I don't think that would work.
He already did it and badly.
Maybe reading " How to win friends and influence people" may help him.

Meharis