Should You Always Write About What You Love?

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This is such a conflict for so many people I thought I'd throw in some thoughts I've had about the matter and see what others think.

First - if you don't mind or care about whether it sells, of course, write whatever you like. (J.K. Rowling has said that her ambition when she began writing Harry Potter was to have one person read it. She overstepped the mark there a little!)

Second - if you DO care about whether it sells, remember everyone has the same basic needs as you. Health, wealth and happiness, (which includes relationships) are universal. So ask yourself if there's an angle you could tie in with whichever one of those is foremost for you in your life.

For example, suppose you think you should write about traffic generation because that's going to get you a lot of buyers, but what you care about is the quality of your time with your significant other.

Couldn't you angle your writing to explain how more traffic = more free time = happier relationship?

See what I mean?

Does anyone else see this?
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  • Excellent advice! I think it's the cornerstone to coming up with products, too, which you see and hear being lamented all the time in IM (lack of ideas and "nothing is new"). There really aren't that many new things coming along at any one time. Most of the strategies and "things" are set for pretty long periods of time in Internet Marketing (at least).

    The trick is to come up with a unique approach or perspective. If you can couple that with your own direct experience, you've got a winning formula. Sure, you might essentially be repeating, but so what? One person might learn and actually DO something that improves their situation because of the way you explained or told your story. Maybe that same person already knew the nuts and bolts, but lacked a way to tie it all together or become motivated enough to take action on that knowledge... and you just inspired that in them. How much is THAT worth?

    It's not just about info products. Same holds true for building a blog following, email list loyalty, video channel subscribers, etc. etc.
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    • You hit the nail on the head exactly! Add your OWN voice to an old idea and you spice it up.
  • In my experience combining writing about what you love with a keen understanding of WHO you are writing for and WHY you are writing (what's in it for them) is key. In that sense writing about what you love - OK, writing for yourself about what you love, that's a hobby and isn't likely to earn you very much dough.

    A good formula I have always used is... start with what you love then help others with transformations in that area, they could be transformations you have gone through and can help them with, transformations that you go through together or transformations that you research/get from secondary research and help others with even before you go through them.

    Jeff
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    • I agree. And often what's in it for them will turn out to be whatever was in it for you too.

      The only change any of us ever want is to feel better about something than we do now.

      (E.g. "I want more money" - if you ask someone why, they'll tell you for security, freedom from debt, luxury lifestyle and so on. Then ask them why they want those things ... ultimately they will tell you that having them will FEEL good. It's the basis of all desire).
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  • I think that it is important to be passionate about what you are writing about. I feel it is important for my own self to be passionate about what I write about. But we each are able to make this decision for our own selves, ultimately.
  • Nice idea! But, at the end of the day, the WIIFM - what's in it for me - principle applies. Most people in the make money online niche, or the Internet marketing niche, just Wanna make money and won't be that impressed about an attempt to improve their relationship.

    This is the fact of the matter. Most people online I talk to, at least in the IM niche, are making hardly any money and just want an answer for them to do so. Once they're making more money then they figure they'll sort their relationship out, I guess.

    So, a real nice idea, but my own feedback is I think it's a little bit idealistic.



    Malc
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    • It pretty much goes without saying that writing about things you know, or like, or are passionate about is relatively easy. But like any other skill, writing gets easier with practice.

      I say write as much as you can. Not all of it is going to be good. But it will get better. And creating good copy is one of the cornerstones of any business, not just IM.

      So don't be shy! Fire up that pen and paper and let your creative genius loose!
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    • I think you may have missed his real point there. You're not selling them on the relationship improvement. It's about having more leisure time and all the wonderful lifestyle changes that come from it. The relationship part was just an example of one of the many possible positive outcomes.
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    • How many IM sales pages have you seen with pictures of fast cars & the couple on the beach? Money, like any commodity is useless unless you sell the benefits. I think the WIIFM factor is the relationship, the free time, the luxuries.

      The dream is never having a bank balance with a lot of zeroes for its own sake. (Ebenezer Scrooge had that at the start of A Christmas Carol, remember?) It's what it brings - that's the dream.
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  • I see what you're trying to say but in my experience I need to be real passionate about what I'm writing or I just don't finish/stick to my blog. I've started & stopped at least 10 blogs before I learned this.

    Now I like what I'm writing about and feel I'm somewhat helping people/providing value which is the only reason I continue with it.

    ~ Mateen
  • Not always... sometimes you just have to do what's profitable.

    ...or mull it over at an $8/hr job at the local grocery store.... 80 hours a week.
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    • No.. Although it is an advantage, in most cases your interests/hobbys simply don't fall under the ''profitable things to sell/promote'' category
    • Yes ... and Facebook and Googleplus have made it a cinch to find your in-crowd.

      Passion IS profitable, IMHO. Passion makes you feel good and that's contagious. In the end, people will read what YOU have to say because they pick up your love for your topic.

      Writing without passion, however profitable in the short term, is doomed to lead to boredom and burnout in both writer and reader.
  • I was just talking about this with my wife earlier. I read so many books that tell you to do what you love for a business, and I just watched a video by Alan Watts that says the same thing. Its called "What Do You Desire" (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qLD0P372xxQ) - Watch it. Its awesome.... He says the trick to life is to follow your passion....work out what you love and do it... and do it enough and become so good at it that you eventually get paid top dollars for your skill...

    Its a great idea but I also love the "4Hr Workweek" by Tim Ferris and consider this my bible. In this the idea is that you build a muse - just a quick way of making money based on something you know and then go off and do what you love as a hobby...

    I'm torn between the 2 concepts - If you write about what you love then the passion will keep you working into the night enjoying the time, you;ll love talking about the book, you'll love promoting it... and you'll love doing radio and TV interviews... so chances are it will be succesfull...

    Plus if your passion is also your business then you get to put your passion through the books and make it tax deductible... if my passion was boats for example and I wrote books and had a blog then I could maybe make my boat tax deductible.... or at least any equipment I buy to review in the book.

    But.... If you make what you love a profession there's also a chance you'll burn out and no longer enjoy it. I used to do photography as a hobby and then became a wedding photographer - and burnt out and I can no longer pick up a camera for fun...

    I'm kinda on the side of creating a muse that makes money and then doing what I love for fun only. But then you run the risk of not being passionate about the muse and therefore not following through like you should (hands up to that - guilty as charged ha ha)

    Tricky Tricky Choice.
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    • I LOVE Alan Watts! He was my first real teacher. I read all his books when I was still a teenager. Thank you for sharing that video - he puts the point so eloquently.

      Ultimately, people will buy your passion for something, not the content itself. Sure, they want the information, but they will care about who delivers it.

      For example, I once coached a woman who wanted confidence to speak in public. She wrote cookery columns for magazines for a living. One day, she expressed the opinion that people might not find what she had to say interesting.

      I told her that I knew how to cook an omelette. Then I asked her if she thought her editor would buy my recipe if I sent it to her.

      She got the point. Her writing about cookery earned her a living because she wrote with passion. It shone through her words.

      Also, I think if you try writing just for profit, you won't be able to sustain the effort. You might make a quick killing, but in the long term that surely is the road to burnout.

      Doncha think?
  • Great Post!

    Yes I agree. When you write about what you love, the whole process is almost 'effortless' and I find that my hands and fingers take on a life of their own.

    It's like the 'creativity' just pours out of my hands and my results are much better.
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    • I'd say that you must at least be curious about a topic, but you don't need to love it if you are writing for money.

      If the topic leaves you cold, it's best to pass on the job and write on a topic that grabs you,

      My curiosity allows me to get paid well for my work for others. However, the topics about which I have true love, I write and publish for myself.
  • i prefer the 1st option. i dont write for myself /my own passion. i write for the buyers passion (which ultimiately is my passion of making money). with this approach, its not about whats your passion but whats your target markets passion.

    but excellent technique for the opposite approach.
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    • A lot of times when you mix Passion with Business you end up losing the Passion.

      I say work your arse off to make good money and after that go enjoy what your Passionate about.

      To me being Passionate about something is doing it whether you make money or not.

      When you add Money in the equation it can cloudy up things and you can lose that Passion. You start to look at your Passion as a business and to me thats effed up.

      I have never tried to reach self-fulfillment in any job I do or business I start.

      I seek fulfillment in Church, Family,Traveling, friends, Sports, Reading etc.....

      Do not get me wrong as more money will help you participate in these things more often.

      But I do not get fulfillment from making money itself but fulfillment from what that Money can do outside my job or biz..
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    I like writing what I love. But as this is my bread and butter, I have allowed my perception to evolve into:

    I LOVE WHAT I WRITE.

    Whenever I write something someone paid for, I always appreciate the fact that I am learning something new (during research) and I get to exercise my writing skills. The other day I wrote about exotic wood (which I knew absolutely nothing about) and was glad I took on the assignment. When the words in my head start to build into paragraphs, I step back and marvel at the fact that I wrote a good piece that I'd be proud to send back to my client.

    Then I realize, "hey, I got paid to do this, too!" What a bonus!

    After a few days or months, I see my piece published, that sense of pride and fulfillment is doubled.

    So again, I LOVE WHAT I WRITE, and I earn from it, too!
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    • I really like that. It sounds as though you're really in touch with enjoying the flow of creativity itself, regardless of what it's about.

      That's profound, thank you for sharing that.
  • Some people will be able to write about literally anything with no problem and have a great success. Others won't write until they find something that interests them. Not everyone can compartmentalize the writing function so that it's directly tied into the desire or need to make money. For those people, it's essential to blog or write about subjects which they love. Only then, will they find happiness and financial success.
  • Always write about what you love. Chances are, there's a built in crowd of others who want to read about what you love too. When you love what you write about, you'll be more productive and publish more which could lead to an increased chance of selling and earning money. In turn, the financial freedom will create a greater sense of personal pride and accomplishment as well as provide the ability to spend more time with family/loved ones or on leisure activities.
  • If you're writing for clients........ I guess it depends how much work you have. With enough work available, you can pick and choose your projects and get the best of both worlds.

    Otherwise it's a issue of enjoyment vs. money and your checking account balance.
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  • What if writing to help others find what they are seeking is your passion?

    I have come to one major realization in the five or six years I have been studying online marketing, unless you are primarily writing to a specific blog audience, and build a relationship as a result, in many cases... most people (consumers) don't give a rat's ass about YOU!

    You can write under a Pen Name, be a dude pretending to be a chick to reach a female audience, or what not.

    Hell, Ben Franklin did this with the Silence Dogood letters, right?

    At the end of the day, it boils down to YOU knowing what YOUR objectives are with YOUR online business.

    BUT... in order to have an online business, YOU need to realize; the public wants expert advice, guidance, and to find that WIIFM golden nugget at the end of the bread crumb trails you lay out beforehand.

    To me, depending on what it is you are marketing and the audience you are marketing to... the best bet is to remove yourself, your feelings, and your objectives from the equation altogether, and start focusing (and researching of course) on HOW to provide your audience with that which they seek... viable solutions, products, and/or services.

    Anyone who writes successful ad copy, might find things they have experienced or relate to, and add that into the sales copy, but big marketing firms hire guys to write copy to sell tampons, and women to sell mens watches...

    At the end of the day... when it comes down to it, YOU don't matter to your audience, neither do your feelings, nor your passion for writing!

    What matters IS: You can provide viable solutions to resolve that audiences problem or fuel their desires, hunger, or void!

    Now, if you love teddy bears, and French Poodles, and can write about that all day and still make money online... congratulations to you, I can't because I remove myself from the equation and focus solely on the needs of a specific niche group or audience's expectation, and direct them to that which they seek.

    Most of my niches are NOT in topics I share an interest in, or am passionate about, outside the fact that I do concern myself with delivering the highest quality solutions their money can buy, and as such my commissions are actually starting to improve....finally.

    WHY?

    Because I stopped trying to be me, and started researching what they want, not what I want and it works.

    Lastly, like I said; it all boils down to what you are trying to accomplish. I am trying to actually make a living, and like any other job... it requires doing things and writing about things that may not always be what I am personally passionate about. Outside of IM I have no passion for writing about weight loss, relationships & dating, sports betting, and sleep apnea... but guess what, there's a paycheck there!
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    • True. But they DO care how you make them feel. Inference: it matters how YOU feel when you write.

      Point to ponder?
  • Personally, when I write about something that I love to write about I can write with more passion and the reader can really feel the passion behind the article. It helps create a more personalized message.
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    • Exactly! The more I think about this, the more I'm convinced there really isn't another way.

      Now ... you may be able to summon up a little passion for things you don't usually care so much about ... You know, the way politicians can summon up a dose of utter sincerity when they need to ... but you still have to connect with that emotion or your writing will be drivel.
  • Hi,

    Here's my take on this...

    ...Every human being naturally falls in love with something and wants to do
    more of what they're GOOD AT.

    So GET GOOD at something that makes you the most return on your
    investment.

    Whether that be time or money that you invest of course.

    So instead of just going for what you love and not seeing any real results
    from it because that particular niche has no money in it.

    Do something that will make the incomes you really want to see, get good
    at it then have the world as your oyster my friend.

    PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE!

    You are already there, just get in and ride it you have NOTHING TO LOSE...

    ...BUT EVERYTHING TO GAIN!!!

    All the best
    Gavin
  • people do not get this for some reason.....you make money because you do things you do not want to do or because others will not do....
    that is what sets apart from the rest of the population.....i love what someone said, i have a passion for making money...not building websites or being on the net 24 hours a day.
    we are a special breed. none of us like going to work everyday but we do to raise our families, same with im
  • I have a passion for writing.

    Sometimes I get to write about subjects I love; but often I write for clients on topics that I'm not passionate about. But I try to think of the reader and why they would be passionate about the subject. I build on that to tell stories and find little known facts or explain "how-to" do something that will ultimately help the reader in some way. By focusing on them and their interest in the topic I can write from their view of the subject; not my own.

    This has helped me tackle a lot of topics that were not my personal passion.
    Rose
  • Well if you have a true calling, I believe you need to be writing about it and not just writing to make money because there is a demand.

    You can try to squelch a calling, but it will rear up and make you miserable until you listen to it and obey. If you just "love" football say, but its not your really passion/calling then maybe you can live with that.

    If you think you have a choice to write about stuff you don't love, then try it and see how bored you get and how you wish you were doing something else.

    So you will only really know until you try it and listen to yourself and what make your feel "in sync" with yourself.

    When I am writing as part of my business, even here, right now, I feel in my bones that it is exactly what I should be and want to be doing. So you need to ask yourself that.

    So whats interesting is that I am not writing exactly about music right now, but I am writing as part of that business... so for me that feels right. But to others maybe not. You will only know when you do it.
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    • Another point to consider, when you write about things you don't love and couldn't care less about, this creates a rushed style of writing, which is flimsy and only covers surface. While there are some people that write a variety of topics for pay on behalf of clients, those who publish blogs for a living should strive for writing content about which they are well informed and care about.
  • I think it can bet tricky at times. The 4 hour work week and the eMyth Revisited (I think) talk about the pitfalls of passion. Someone may adore making quilts by hand (or baking pies, as in one of the book examples) but as soon as you start trying to sell them on Etsy or in a shop, you're often in for a rude awakening. Hand quilting can take two or three months to complete one project, yet it's extremely unlikely the craftsman can sell it for the equivalent amount of wages/profit. Or you may find yourself so swamped with orders or related work that you begin hating what you were once passionate about.

    Sure you can write about the thing and sell your knowledge, but that doesn't always work quite the same.

    Photography and gardening are two of my biggest passions. Photography can be a lucrative writing topic, particularly if you write about software and gear. That, for me at least, is drudge work that takes time away from the photography itself. I personally prefer the actual creative act of making images in the camera. My compromise is to make commercial images that sell to other businesses.

    Gardening is less lucrative but has a huge audience. Writing on that topic works best when you're more personal and intimate with the audience, unless you've made a name for yourself as the go to person for given techniques.

    Being passionate about something definitely shows through in your writing. Just be sure writing about it is as enjoyable as doing it before you commit too far.
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    • Michael Gerber, in "E-Myth Revisited" spoke about the woman who loved baking but ended up hating her bakery business. But that wasn't because she lost the passion for baking. It was because as a business woman she'd become accountant, CEO, clerk to herself etc.

      When he coached her to return to her first love - and the reason she'd opened the bakery in the first place, her passion blossomed again, and that was reflected in the success of her business.

      I'm not personally qualified to comment on how lucrative the gardening market is compared to others, but I do know that there are gardeners who've become celebrities as gardeners because of their passion for what they do.

      Their passion - along with the gorgeous gardens that manifest as a result of it - make people FEEL GOOD - which I still say is at the heart of all human interaction, not least of which is marketing.
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  • If you're in for the money then you'll have to make some compromises and go out of your comfort zone. Simple as that.
  • I don't think it is necessary, but it is nice to love what you write about. As a freelance writer, I write on any topic under the sun (almost) and my clients are very happy with the results.

    For my own projects, however, I try to focus on areas where I have at least some passion.
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    • I'd agree it's not necessary. It's the difference, I guess, between writing as a job and writing as creative expression.

      All arts have this dichotomy I think. Many of the great composers (and what we now consider great musical compositions), were commissioned.

      The question then becomes, (if writing for a living), whether the act of writing itself becomes jaded. Does the passion fade?
  • I see what you did there. Well, sometimes it's possible to combine them, but sometimes you won't be so lucky. And, unfortunately, your favorite topic won't always pay the bills.
    I don't think that's such a tragedy though. You can have a personal blog where you can write only about what you love in your spare time.
  • "Almost anyone can be an author; the business is to collect money and fame from this state of being."

    - A. A. Milne
  • It depends on what you want to do. If you want to write for the sake of writing then go ahead and write about what you love. If you want to create a business around writing about your passions then you need to enter a market where people are spending money.

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    This is such a conflict for so many people I thought I'd throw in some thoughts I've had about the matter and see what others think. First - if you don't mind or care about whether it sells, of course, write whatever you like. (J.K. Rowling has said that her ambition when she began writing Harry Potter was to have one person read it. She overstepped the mark there a little!)