Do I have To Lie To Succeed As A Marketer?

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Do I have to lie to be a good marketer? I have been online for more than 1 year now and I have notice many people ( marketers and non marketers alike) get scared once they know you are Nigerian.

Do you honestly think I have to hide my identify because I am Nigerian? I see no reason why I have to hide but this is getting worst by the day.

I was trying to sell a site to a private buyer the other day and the deal was almost sealed but the guy stopped the payment as soon as he realised I am Nigerian.

Warriors what do you think ?
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  • Profile picture of the author Ron Douglas
    You should be proud of where you're from. However, if it affects your business, not revealing where you're from is not the same as lying about it.
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  • Profile picture of the author Intrepreneur
    Never lie.

    There are many reasons one should not lie.

    I wish I could find a parable for you about people who lie to succeed to answer this question in graphic detail :-)
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    • Profile picture of the author mistyone
      Originally Posted by Intrepreneur View Post

      Never lie.

      There are many reasons one should not lie.

      I wish I could find a parable for you about people who lie to succeed to answer this question in graphic detail :-)
      I don't have a parable but a well known saying goes like this:

      "Oh what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive".

      I used to quote it to my children when they were asked to fess up to something, because once you start a lie unless you are very clever you trip yourself up by not remembering the original version.

      "The truth never lies"

      "Honesty is the best policy"

      and on it goes


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    • Profile picture of the author diger
      No one should be a lyer, - of course.
      But to be "realistic", when we see most online promotions saying, "make $2,000 to $10,000 with our program per week starting today", we must realize that there are tons of lyers in our midst. Obviously they would not hesitate to lye about their own name, etc.. Nothing wrong with Nigeria (I'm not sure about the "Bank of Nigeria........)

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  • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
    Until you have a collection of testimonials, you're going to have that challenge with alert buyers. You may be as honest as anyone, so don't take this as a personal comment, but your country is the source of a ridiculous chunk of scams, and very little legitimate business, relatively speaking.

    Aside from that, there are plenty of people who're going to wonder how you got a PayPal account, since they don't issue them to people in Nigeria.

    It sucks for the honest people there, I know.Just keep in mind that it's not anything but the odds. Doesn't make it easier, but at least you know it's not personal, and you're ready for it.

    If you lie about it, and someone finds out (say, from the IP address in an email), they're going to react badly, and may start making huge amounts of noise and creating much more trouble than simply changing their mind about a deal.


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    • Profile picture of the author yommys01
      Thanks warriors, I really appreciate. I believe the storm will be over, it is just taking too long.

      As for how I got a paypal account, paypal will allow you to create an account even if you are creating it from Nigeria. All you need to do is to buy a USA virtual debit card ( that are many companies that sell virtual cards with USA address here) and use it for paypal.

      Another optin is to open the account in French speaking Benin republic ( I speak French well enough) as paypal accept Benin.


      Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

      Until you have a collection of testimonials, you're going to have that challenge with alert buyers. You may be as honest as anyone, so don't take this as a personal comment, but your country is the source of a ridiculous chunk of scams, and very little legitimate business, relatively speaking.

      Aside from that, there are plenty of people who're going to wonder how you got a PayPal account, since they don't issue them to people in Nigeria.

      It sucks for the honest people there, I know.Just keep in mind that it's not anything but the odds. Doesn't make it easier, but at least you know it's not personal, and you're ready for it.

      If you lie about it, and someone finds out (say, from the IP address in an email), they're going to react badly, and may start making huge amounts of noise and creating much more trouble than simply changing their mind about a deal.


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  • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
    Originally Posted by yommys01 View Post

    Do you honestly think I have to hide my identify because I am Nigerian? I see no reason why I have to hide but this is getting worst by the day.
    Address objections before they are raised. Make some small talk about customers, and slip this bit in:

    "Do you know, there are people who won't buy from me because I am Nigerian? I mean, we are the fastest growing economy in the world - even more than China. We are the shining star of Western Africa. It's almost like saying you won't buy from anyone in San Francisco!"

    What kind of jackass could call off the deal now?
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    • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
      What kind of jackass could call off the deal now?
      Me.

      I don't do business with anyone in Nigeria without a lot more assurance than I'd need almost anywhere else.


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      • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
        Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

        I don't do business with anyone in Nigeria without a lot more assurance than I'd need almost anywhere else.
        So if he were to move to (say) Egypt, you would do business with him?

        It's the same guy, the same deal, just a different country.

        It really matters that much to you?
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  • Profile picture of the author ecoverartist
    It's an unfortunate fact, but based on where you live, you're going to have to put in twice as much effort to make sales as someone not from there. People (rightfully) question Nigeria - through no fault of yours. It would help to have audio testimonials or video testimonials of your customers possibly even addressing this fact directly -

    For example "I realize (your name) is from Nigeria, but after he showed me just how much work and time he put into (your product), I was still hesitant, but I went ahead with the purchase not honestly knowing what I would get. I'm happy to say that this man is working hard to give his business a good name regardless of where he lives. I've never made a better order and I wouldn't hesitate to buy from him again..."

    You get the idea.
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    • Profile picture of the author petevamp
      Originally Posted by ecoverartist View Post

      It's an unfortunate fact, but based on where you live, you're going to have to put in twice as much effort to make sales as someone not from there. People (rightfully) question Nigeria - through no fault of yours. It would help to have audio testimonials or video testimonials of your customers possibly even addressing this fact directly -

      For example "I realize (your name) is from Nigeria, but after he showed me just how much work and time he put into (your product), I was still hesitant, but I went ahead with the purchase not honestly knowing what I would get. I'm happy to say that this man is working hard to give his business a good name regardless of where he lives. I've never made a better order and I wouldn't hesitate to buy from him again..."

      You get the idea.
      As much as I agree with you here. You will see that the scamers that have ruined the name of the people of nigeria also use these tactics. What I would do is show printed copy of the url transfer for. I would also use an universal representitive as a moderator of the transaction and the sales of whatever you may be trying tosell. Try finding a usa law firm then after a few transactions ask them to participate in testmonials. These can be manipulated as well which would put up a flag for me. How ever in most cases it will build trust.

      You need to work alot harder at building this trust then most would. You could also try calling the person and discussing with them. That you are aware of what others are doing and assure them that you are not the same. One thing as always been consitant with the scammers. When they ask if they can talk with you they tell you to call. There for you turn the tables and ask them if you can call them instead.
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    • Profile picture of the author razizainon
      Originally Posted by ecoverartist View Post

      It's an unfortunate fact, but based on where you live, you're going to have to put in twice as much effort to make sales as someone not from there. People (rightfully) question Nigeria - through no fault of yours. It would help to have audio testimonials or video testimonials of your customers possibly even addressing this fact directly -

      For example "I realize (your name) is from Nigeria, but after he showed me just how much work and time he put into (your product), I was still hesitant, but I went ahead with the purchase not honestly knowing what I would get. I'm happy to say that this man is working hard to give his business a good name regardless of where he lives. I've never made a better order and I wouldn't hesitate to buy from him again..."

      You get the idea.
      Not right to lying, i mean bad. However its ok if you never talk aboot that, just to who ever is asking in private.

      just a unfortunate fact that a very tiny rural bad case of others that guve negative impact to a whole!

      I think the smart way just like the ecoverartist suggest.

      Anyway, nothing can stop your flaming desire!

      For me, i just apply accrodingly on my LUCK. L-earn U-nder C-ertain K-nowledge.

      Best of LUCK!
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      • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
        CDarklock,
        How many orders is that, exactly, and how much money was lost as a result?
        One friend had over 50 orders, for $200 each, from Nigeria before she decided not to deal with them again. 100% fraudulent. Another friend was faster. After 15 (I think) fraudulent orders out of 15, he blocked the country. Almost lost his merchant account over the fraud.

        Some of the managers I've spoken with at larger companies tell stories of much bigger amounts of money. I don't know anyone with a small business who's got even a 50% legitimate order rate from there.

        Some may well exist, but they're not the rule based on anything I've seen.

        Let's ignore the personal stories, though, and look at something more telling: Why do so many payment processors refuse to accept account requests from Nigerian citizens if there's nothing to the belief that fraud is a serious problem there?

        This isn't something I made up, and it doesn't matter whether you agree with me or not. Those places have access to a lot more data than I do, and set their policies for a reason.


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        • Profile picture of the author discrat
          Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

          CDarklock,One friend had over 50 orders, for $200 each, from Nigeria before she decided not to deal with them again. 100% fraudulent. Another friend was faster. After 15 (I think) fraudulent orders out of 15, he blocked the country. Almost lost his merchant account over the fraud.

          Some of the managers I've spoken with at larger companies tell stories of much bigger amounts of money. I don't know anyone with a small business who's got even a 50% legitimate order rate from there.

          Some may well exist, but they're not the rule based on anything I've seen.

          Let's ignore the personal stories, though, and look at something more telling: Why do so many payment processors refuse to accept account requests from Nigerian citizens if there's nothing to the belief that fraud is a serious problem there?

          This isn't something I made up, and it doesn't matter whether you agree with me or not. Those places have access to a lot more data than I do, and set their policies for a reason.


          Paul
          Honestly, I really dont think it has to do about whether people agree with your assertions or not. I also think there is probably fraud problems in this Country as there are in many Countries.

          But in all due respect, I have seen you point this fact on this Forum multiple times about the Nigerians. You have mentioned many times saying how you do not trust them and how you will not do any business with them etc..etc..

          Like I said I agree with your assertions that there is a small class of thugs that have smeared the whole Country of Nigeria. But it quite alarms me that someone seems to ballhyoo and blatantly focus on a particular group of people like you have in these Forums.

          I felt offended and I am from the US. I can only imagine what some of our Nigerian friends who are Members here have felt when they see some of this diatribe.

          And to be perfectly honest it reminds me of some of the older bigots here in the South where I live who constantly point out that 80% of the violent crimes in the US are commmitted by 20% of the Population ( black men). And that is their reason for NOT trusting this particular group and not having anything to do with this particular group. They also say its just ALL based on facts blah..blah..blah !!
          I have grown up with this type of thinking and it disgusts me. It starts out based on the so called facts but then it evolves into an ugly prejudice that ends in downright hate and elitism.

          That being said I do NOT think you are a bigot. But please be careful because incessant focus on a particular group of people can sometimes flirt with and many times cross that fine line between circumstance(fact) and prejudice.
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  • Profile picture of the author Andyhenry
    If you start growing your business by lying - you're probably growing the wrong type of business.

    I think once you have some successful deals in the bag, the people who have worked with you and trust you will come back for more and tell others about you, but don't lie to get work.
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  • Profile picture of the author petevamp
    There may have been more to it then you are thinking. Although it is some of the ones from your country that have made a bad name for it. Most people will think this is just another nigeria scam. Go through your spam mails and you will see what I mean. I have one I have been holding that claims it is from your I do not know what you callem over there. I will just say your leader or the person that runs your country. Stating that your country has shown from an investigation that I was scammed. From a represenitive of your country. In turn they have an eccess of 1.8mil in funds waiting for me. Then there have been the pirates claiming to be from there too. I hope you see what I mean.

    On the other hand disclosing where you are from is not lyeing in my eyes. Granted if the business dealing at hand the person wanting more information as to where you are from. You may have to stretch the truth a little by saying you are from a border town to nigeria. Sorry your deal went sour. I am also sorry about all the scams that come out of your country making it hard for anyone to do business with it any more.
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  • Profile picture of the author GFox
    I would strongly advise you not to lie. Unfortunately, you are being tossed into the vat of dishonest people who come from your country. I fully agree with CDarlock's advice of confronting the objection head-on, before it even arises, this way there is no room for surprises for the your potential clients in the end. Another thing is to get as many testimonials from people outside of your area, this will help to build your credibility, which results in a feeling of trust amongst your prospects. When people trust you, they are at ease and comfortable, and these are the first steps to entering into a mutually beneficial relationship.

    Much success to you!
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    • Profile picture of the author petevamp
      Originally Posted by GFox View Post

      I would strongly advise you not to lie. Unfortunately, you are being tossed into the vat of dishonest people who come from your country. I fully agree with CDarlock's advice of confronting the objection head-on, before it even arises, this way there is no room for surprises for the your potential clients in the end. Another thing is to get as many testimonials from people outside of your area, this will help to build your credibility, which results in a feeling of trust amongst your prospects. When people trust you, they are at ease and comfortable, and these are the first steps to entering into a mutually beneficial relationship.

      Much success to you!
      I agree testimonials will be a good thing. Yet video testimonials will be that much better.
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  • Profile picture of the author K. Rondo
    How many successful people are there in Nigeria?

    Your country of origin does not matter.

    Spend enough time on this forum and anyone would be able to spot scams and the like;
    be able to spot valuables; and important people.

    We are immersed in Marketing.

    This is an intenet marketing forum.

    Create value for people; build relationships; create trust; create assets for people; CREATE ASSETS FOR YOURSELF; make people rich that follow your lead.

    A few days ago I walked to our library with my neighbor to help him apply for his first library card and set up his first email account. He is one year older than me and I'm far from a kid.

    You can take advantage of the uninformed but.......

    After years of browsing the internet I am finally realizing how powerful it is.

    Take witness of the highly skilled rogue programmers and software developers; talk about black hat.

    Get creative.

    Be honest.

    Make it a Win-Win

    WE live in a very LARGE WORLD
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    • Profile picture of the author DALTECH88
      My advice is that you do not have to lie,be proud of who you`re,where u come from.......scammers `re everywhere all over the world. I parsonally believed integrity is an individual thing and not about race or nationality.
      good luck
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  • Profile picture of the author artwebster
    Although lying as a marketer seems to be a fairly standard modus operandi (stop the squealing girls and boys, you know it is true. Oh, sorry, you 'only gild the lilly slightly, my mistake) you can generate a great deal of credibility for yourself by simply exposing some of the 'Nigerian' scams on a special page linked to your web site.

    It is sad that 'Nigerian letters' has become the generic term for many scams but if anybody cared to look WHERE the scam emails came from, they would find that France, Holland, Italy, Russia and some of the Balkan states figure prominently in the list - and Nigeria, hardly at all!
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    • Profile picture of the author Zack Lim
      I feel that we should not lie as honesty is the best approach to having a long term business.

      Work hard to build a good relationship with customers and I am sure it will pay off.

      Keep on going and don't let this small obstacle obstruct your progress

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    • Profile picture of the author Kim Standerline
      Too true
      Originally Posted by artwebster View Post

      It is sad that 'Nigerian letters' has become the generic term for many scams but if anybody cared to look WHERE the scam emails came from, they would find that France, Holland, Italy, Russia and some of the Balkan states figure prominently in the list - and Nigeria, hardly at all!
      Some of the nicest people I've met have been Nigerian, (and I've been there so I should know).

      One of my dearest friends is Nigerian, he's a doctor and a minister combined and is about as honest as a person can get, so it makes me really angry when all Nigerian people are smeared with the same brush.

      We have Nigerian warriors who have added much to the forum.

      You are fighting an uphil battle and I agree with the majority of the posters here, keep your integrity and don't start lying about where you are from. (You have a lot to be proud of as well)

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    • Profile picture of the author EmpoweredCreator
      Originally Posted by artwebster View Post

      Although lying as a marketer seems to be a fairly standard modus operandi (stop the squealing girls and boys, you know it is true. Oh, sorry, you 'only gild the lilly slightly, my mistake) you can generate a great deal of credibility for yourself by simply exposing some of the 'Nigerian' scams on a special page linked to your web site.
      I definitely agree with artwebster. A lot of marketers are starting out their career with lies and sooner or later it's going to catch up to them. I even bought a monthly product from, well, I won't mention his name here but in the last cd I got from him, one of his guests actually said, if you don't have a story to tell people, simply make one up thats interesting and would appeal to the audience.

      After hearing this I turned the cd off and cancelled my subscription. Now I would have a truly hard time ever buying anything from this marketer.

      Creating a page that addresses the root problem head on and even informs them of some of the scams would be a great way to build credibility. Also, go to some of the scam website online and try and get a review from them as this will give you excellent credibility!

      Hope this helps. Never Lie! Keep on, Keepin' on! You'll get there.
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  • Profile picture of the author Anna Johnson
    I can think of two ways you might approach this depending on the kind of business you're in.

    Firstly, you could just not emphasize your country of origin. If you're a fairly anonymous affiliate marketer anyway, there may be no need to highlight your country.

    If, however, you want/need to bring yourself to the fore - e.g. you are selling your own products or the reputation of your business is otherwise intertwined with your own - then it's probably best to address the perceptions/miconceptions of Nigeria head on.

    Think of all the objections, misconceptions people might have and address them right there in your sales letter and other materials. You would need to do this anyway (i.e. as everyone in a selling situation does) so just add 'I come from Nigeria' to the list of objections you need to address.

    As for 'should I lie?' - no, never, ever lie. You probably don't want to get me started on this topic, but I believe that lying is very, very damaging. To others and to you.
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  • Profile picture of the author anton343
    Is saying "This is the only time you will be able to get this product at this price" on a OTO page lying. When I know I can bookmark the page and go back in two months and still buy at that price.

    If so there is a lot of marketeers building their business on lies
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    • Profile picture of the author yommys01
      Originally Posted by anton343 View Post

      Is saying "This is the only time you will be able to get this product at this price" on a OTO page lying. When I know I can bookmark the page and go back in two months and still buy at that price.

      If so there is a lot of marketeers building their business on lies
      You are right but I Personal don't do it, I always tell people upfront where I come from. It is killing me but lying is lying and I hate the way I one feel after a lie.
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      • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
        Originally Posted by yommys01 View Post

        You are right but I Personal don't do it, I always tell people upfront where I come from. It is killing me but lying is lying and I hate the way I one feel after a lie.
        I have been wrestling with the OTO thing, and I've actually come to the conclusion that I'm simply not going to do them. If an OTO actually worked, I'd want to do it again, but that would put the lie to my original campaign - because it won't be one-time anymore.

        I am mightily offended by people who are put off by doing business internationally with Africans. I spent a little time in Kenya as a child, and it changed my life; when I went on to work for a family from Ghana, they were just fantastic. The African people in general are some of the most delightful human beings on the planet, and more deserving of trust than most of the people I meet on the street in America.
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        • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
          CDarklock,
          I am mightily offended by people who are put off by doing business internationally with Africans. I spent a little time in Kenya as a child, and it changed my life; when I went on to work for a family from Ghana, they were just fantastic. The African people in general are some of the most delightful human beings on the planet, and more deserving of trust than most of the people I meet on the street in America.
          Be as offended as you want. You're imagining things if you believe that I, or anyone else in this discussion, is saying anything about Africans - or even Nigerians - in general.

          The fact exists that business online that's done or attempted by Nigerians is far more likely to be scam than legit. That is not the result of Nigerians as a group being dishonest. It's the result of an extremely active criminal class in Nigeria. Cote d'Ivoire is just as bad, and Benin is becoming known as a center for this activity in recent years as well, although not yet as bad as the other two.

          Figures from http://www.internetworldstats.com:

          Only 6.8% of Nigerians currently have Internet access of any kind. Roughly 10 million people. (In the US, by the way, the numbers are 74.7% with access, at 227 million people.) Nigeria holds 18.5% of the African Internet population, with only two other countries being even close, in terms of percentage of Africans online. Egypt (19.4%) and Morocco (12.2%). Egypt has rules concerning cash going out of the country which makes doing business with them problematic.

          Here's where it gets interesting. Nigeria had approximately 500 broadband subscribers in 9/07, which means primarily Internet cafes. At the same time, Morocco had 390,800 broadband subscribers, and Egypt had 427,100. The island of Mauritius, at 1% of the population of Nigeria, had 21,900 broadband subscribers at that time.

          (I couldn't find stats on dial-up access for Africa.)

          Consider who tends to get the lion's share of any limited resource in a country with a lot of very poor people: The rich, government officials, and the criminal class.

          This isn't about African. It's about economics - and math.


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          • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
            Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

            You're imagining things if you believe that I, or anyone else in this discussion, is saying anything about Africans - or even Nigerians - in general.

            The fact exists that business online that's done or attempted by Nigerians is far more likely to be scam than legit.
            That seems to be about Nigerians in general. How is it not?

            And I find your argument of "there are lots of poor people in Nigeria" less than compelling.

            To paraphrase, there are lots of poor people; so the lions share of people with internet tend to be rich, government, or criminal; so online business there is far more likely to be a scam.

            Let's take "lion's share". That means something over 50%, so let's call it 75%.

            Then let's move on to the fact that they "tend to be". That sounds like "something over 50%" again, doesn't it? Let's call that 75%, too.

            So even by your fuzzy and unsupported logic, with very high estimates of the actual percentages involved, only 56.25% of the people with internet access in Nigeria are rich, government, or criminal.

            That is not "far more likely". It is barely more likely than flipping a coin, and some of those people are either rich or in government. If more than 10% of those people are rich or in government, your odds are better than flipping a coin.

            And let's not forget that poor people turn to crime when legitimate avenues are closed to them. If a Nigerian cannot do legitimate and honest business, what choice does he have?

            When you do business with someone in Nigeria, keep in mind that you are not doing business with some statistical data point. You are doing business with a person. Don't concern yourself with his national origin or country of residence. Concern yourself with the business you are doing. If the business looks like a scam, it probably is - regardless of where it's located.
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            • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
              CDarklock,
              That seems to be about Nigerians in general. How is it not?
              You're kidding me, right?

              I find it interesting that the thing that answers your question was included in the same paragraph, but conveniently not quoted: "It's the result of an extremely active criminal class in Nigeria."

              Are you suggesting that the criminal class is representative of Nigerians in general?
              To paraphrase, there are lots of poor people; so the lions share of people with internet tend to be rich, government, or criminal; so online business there is far more likely to be a scam.
              You ought to be a cable news host.

              That an extraordinarily high percentage of online business done by Nigerians is scam is the known fact. The statistics were presented to partially illustrate why that's the case. I left out the social factors, like the belief among a small segment of Nigerian society that it's morally okay, even laudable, to steal from white westerners.

              The existence of that belief was explained to me by a number of people with experience in the country, including several Nigerians. You can dismiss it if you like, but I'm going on what has been told to me by people who live there and are part of the culture.

              We have our share of white westerners who believe it's morally okay to steal from black Africans, too, and they're just as ignorant and wrong. Most groups contain some percentage of people who think it's okay to abuse folks from other groups, so this isn't a particularly difficult concept to believe.

              There's actually a fairly complex history behind the dynamic that leads to the prevalence of fraud originating in Nigeria. That's all irrelevant when faced with the decision of whether or not to trust someone you don't know when the odds are stacked heavily against you winning that bet.
              And let's not forget that poor people turn to crime when legitimate avenues are closed to them. If a Nigerian cannot do legitimate and honest business, what choice does he have?
              That was part of the point, sir. It doesn't in any way contradict the only assertion I've made about the situation: Most business originating from Nigeria online is fraudulent.
              Don't concern yourself with his national origin or country of residence. Concern yourself with the business you are doing. If the business looks like a scam, it probably is - regardless of where it's located.
              That's a lovely sentiment, but it ignores a simple fact: The scammers sound just like the honest folk, in most cases. They make an art of it.


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              • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
                Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

                Are you suggesting that the criminal class is representative of Nigerians in general?
                No, you are. If the vast majority of business done in Nigeria is a scam because of the criminal class, then criminal business is representative of Nigerian business in general, and therefore in a business context the criminal is representative of Nigerians in general.

                I assert that your premise - "the vast majority of business done in Nigeria is a scam" - has not been properly supported, and suggest that it is not true at all. I suggest that the proportion of fraudulent business in Nigeria is no worse than in other developing countries, and that the vast majority of it is committed on private individuals... not business-to-business.

                Keep in mind that the major documented "hook" of fraudulent Nigerian business is a classic con game that doesn't work on businesses, and which dominates Nigerian scam attempts precisely because it works so well on individuals.
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                • Profile picture of the author ExRat
                  Hi CDarklock,

                  Help me out, can you point me to where Paul presented his 'premise' of -

                  "the vast majority of business done in Nigeria is a scam"
                  ...because all that I can see is where he said -

                  The fact exists that business online that's done or attempted by Nigerians is far more likely to be scam than legit
                  ...which is an entirely different statement. and I would also go as far to say that your accusation -

                  has not been properly supported, and suggest that it is not true at all.
                  Hi Jason,

                  Find a hot blonde in California, marry her
                  I'm having issues with the advice you're dishing out in this thread mate ;-) 'Frying pan' and 'fire' spring to mind.

                  But I'm going to leave that one alone for my own safety - Nigerian scammers might be bad, but I'd sooner face that than the wrath of women.
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                  • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
                    Originally Posted by ExRat View Post

                    Help me out, can you point me to where Paul presented his 'premise'
                    No, because I was paraphrasing. It was not intended to be a direct quote, and I apologise if that was unclear.

                    However, I am unable to see the material difference between "X is far more likely to be Y" and "the vast majority of X is Y". The words are different, but they represent a similar statistical imbalance.

                    Imagine that you have a bag of marbles "X", and some quantity of those marbles are green marbles "Y".

                    Given that a random marble selected from this bag is far more likely to be green, is it irrational to suggest that the vast majority of marbles in this bag are green?

                    Given that the vast majority of marbles in this bag are green, is it irrational to suggest that a random marble selected from this bag is far more likely to be green?

                    Is there any other rational statement that can be made, in either case, which would contradict the proposed response?

                    Because I don't see one. I'm unsure what you think the difference between the statements is.
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                    • Profile picture of the author JohnMcCabe
                      Before everyone loses their marbles, there's a very pragmatic solution to Yommis01's predicament which hasn't been mentioned yet...

                      Use an escrow service. Takes the whole 'country of origin' factor out of the equation.

                      The buyer gives his money to the escrow service. Once notified of the payment, Yommis does his thing transferring the web site. The buyer indicates his satisfaction with the deal, or whatever prescribed length of time goes by, and the escrow agent releases the money.

                      Simple, clean...

                      Mubarak, you got one out of three right. I did think 'Muslim". Believe it or not, there's a fairly sizable chunk of the US population that thinks President Barak Obama is Muslim, purely because of his name. (Read a news profile that said he went through high school as 'Barry Obama'...) Whether it was true or not would make no difference in whether we might do business. Now, if you show up for a meeting with fuses sticking out of your shoes...

                      As for the folks screaming "bigot", for this discussion it doesn't matter if that's true or not either. In some situations, the perception of the truth is a greater factor than the actual truth. This is one of those times.
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                      • Profile picture of the author ExRat
                        Hi CDarklock,

                        I'm unsure what you think the difference between the statements is
                        Let's leave marble analogies out of it, there's no need to muddy waters that (to me) are crystal clear. Let's just remind ourselves of the two statements.

                        Your paraphrased version -

                        the vast majority of business done in Nigeria is a scam
                        The original version -

                        The fact exists that business online that's done or attempted by Nigerians is far more likely to be scam than legit
                        For starters, you seem to have conveniently missed the word 'online' in the original. That makes quite a difference.

                        Secondly, you missed out 'done or attempted' and changed this to 'done' in your paraphrase.

                        You can choose to ignore these things and suggest that they are irrelevant if you like, but by doing so you are completely missing Paul's point and therefore making your point based on inaccuracies - so again, to use your own words -

                        has not been properly supported, and suggest that it is not true at all.
                        If you're going to make statements like that, don't paraphrase people (IE change their words) in order to try and prop up your point. Just quote, comment on, and use, the actual words that they said.
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                        • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
                          Roger,

                          Thanks. Nice to know there's someone who can restate a position while keeping to the intent and spirit of the original. Seems a rare capability these days.

                          CDarklock,

                          I don't think you're "getting" my point, but that may be a result of how I'm making it. Thank you for understanding, despite that breakdown of communication, that it's statistical, not some sort of prejudice.

                          Let's try to make this a bit clearer.

                          Suppose, for the purposes of example, that any large group of people has the same percentage of criminal types in it. (That's not true, but it makes a good starting point.)

                          Let's go with 1%, again for example purposes.

                          Let's further assume (again, not true, but useful for example) that the spread of criminal activity is similar in various cultures and locales. X% to violent crime, Y% corporate crime, Z% some other type, etc.

                          We're talking about online crime, a specific type. Assume the same percentage in each of a number of countries, but that the criminals in one country are many times more active in that area than those in others. Let's further assume that they use methods to significantly scale up their activities.

                          Happens all the time. The majority of spam on the net is originated by people living in the US, for example. A tiny percentage of the population, with a devastatingly out-of-proportion impact on the rest of the world.

                          Because of the indirect nature of most spams - go here and order - and the fact that the invitation must be acted on, it's a smaller harm per unit. MUCH smaller. Except in cases of identity theft, the act of ordering is no more harmful on an individual basis than buying something at a store and finding out it's junk. We're not talking large amounts of money per order.

                          In Nigeria, the scams are smaller in absolute number, because of the smaller number of people online. The approaches taken, however, are more direct, and usually involve larger sums of money. Thus, they tend to have more of an immediate and noticeable impact.

                          For the sake of this discussion, let's throw the 419 scams into the category of spam, and ignore it. It works, and scams people out of big chunks of money, but it requires the active involvement of the scammed. (See Advance-fee fraud - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia for more on this type of fraud.)

                          Nigerian fraud frequently reverses the approach. They will order expensive products, or large batches of inexpensive products, using fake bank checks and stolen credit cards. They've even developed cons that end up with sellers sending the merchandise AND cash to the fraudster.

                          I've spoken with many owners of small businesses and the managers of a few larger ones, and been told consistently that all, or virtually all, of the orders they've received from Nigeria were fraudulent. If you start asking around, you'll find this out for yourself. It's why so many payment processors won't take orders or allow accounts from within Nigeria.

                          This is where the stats come in. Only a small percentage of people within the country have Internet access. Most of those people haven't the ability to order internationally, even if they were disposed to do so. The crooks, on the other hand, have ready access and systems in place. One recent sting caught a Nigerian operation with a huge amount in fake bank checks, for example. I forget if it was hundreds of millions or over a billion dollars worth. For one group. There are many of these organizations.

                          That's aside from stolen credit card numbers, mind you.

                          Remember, we have very little business originating online from the vast majority of honest citizens of the country.

                          Now we get back to the 1% assumption. Let's consider what happens when that 1% uses means to expand the number of these fraudulent orders, so that they're placing fraudulent orders at a rate that's some significant multiple of the average.

                          We see a constant stream of activity from the crooks, and a heavier focus on online crime. The percentages are thus wildly skewed in favor of fraud.

                          That's the situation with regard to orders originating in Nigeria.

                          There are other factors, but that gives the broad outline.

                          For fun, do a Google search on "fraudulent orders originating in Nigeria" (leave off the quotes). Look especially for the shipping clerk scam. Also search on the phrase "Nigerian money mules" - again, without the quotes.

                          I have no reason to want to dismiss doing business with a country of more than 140 million people, other than that the business I would encounter from that country is VERY high risk.


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                          • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
                            CDarklock,

                            Just as an added clarification, consider this: The bag of marbles you're talking about seems to include everyone in Nigeria. The bag of marbles I'm talking about is the subset of Nigerians who are placing orders online. A much smaller and more focused group.


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                          • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
                            Originally Posted by ExRat View Post

                            If you're going to make statements like that, don't paraphrase people (IE change their words) in order to try and prop up your point.
                            I did use the original words, specifically "lions share", "tend to be", and "far more likely". Review my original reply. The paraphrase was a rhetorical convenience.

                            Which makes your rebuttal a straw man. Thank you, drive through.

                            Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

                            I don't think you're "getting" my point, but that may be a result of how I'm making it.
                            Oh, I get your point. I just don't agree with it. This is the major flaw I see in your analysis:

                            all, or virtually all, of the orders they've received from Nigeria were fraudulent.
                            How many orders is that, exactly, and how much money was lost as a result?

                            I haven't seen a lot of Nigerian transactions (in eighteen years), but they've fallen into two categories:

                            1. Legitimate orders that were filled successfully.

                            2. Suspicious orders that attracted added scrutiny and were never filled due to existing anti-fraud policy - which had nothing to do with country of origin.

                            I have never - repeat, never - seen anyone lose money due to a fraudulent Nigerian order. So I find it tremendously unlikely that people are having some kind of massive problem with this.

                            Furthermore, if you decline to fill an apparently-fraudulent order, you do not know whether it is actually fraudulent. It's just speculation. All the evidence is purely circumstantial.

                            So to the best of my ability to determine, any apparently-legitimate business that comes from Nigeria is indeed legitimate. Being from Nigeria is incidental, whether it looks fraudulent or not, and it is simply unnecessary to take it into consideration. If you're observing due diligence on your orders, the fraudulent Nigerian orders will be weeded out along with the rest of the fraudulent orders that aren't Nigerian.
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  • Profile picture of the author IMcruiser
    Mate Nigerians have bad press, comes to something when a whole scam is named after the country. You should be proud of where you come from and if anyone asks you can tell the truth.

    It's probably best for your own means, if you don't divulge your location. Just neglect to mention it. In my experience Nigerians have a very good grasp of English so if you don't mention it people would think you are from the US, there is nothing wrong with this whatsoever
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  • Profile picture of the author sbucciarel
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    It's a battle not worth fighting. You say Nigeria ... people think scam. There's no getting around it. I wouldn't mention where I was from if I was from Nigeria.
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  • Profile picture of the author Brad Gosse
    All the testimonials and referrals in the world would still have me nervous about sending money to someone in Nigeria. Same thing happened to Russians in the internets early years.

    I am not one to condone telling lies but your situation demands some kind of action.

    Maybe you could set up an offshore corp in the UK or Cayman Islands. Use that as your business entity and banking setup.
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    • Profile picture of the author Intrepreneur
      Paul your stats mean nothing, unless another person were to use Nigeria against someone via using them. Where this is not true, it's very few are going to go check those stats and come to that conclusion.

      So to put them in this thread and then state that it's all about facts and figures is wrong, unless you have the facts and figures of the people who check those stats before coming to a conclusion.
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    • Profile picture of the author yommys01
      Originally Posted by Brad Gosse View Post

      Maybe you could set up an offshore corp in the UK or Cayman Islands. Use that as your business entity and banking setup.
      You got me interested on this one, can you please explain further?
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      • Profile picture of the author Brad Gosse
        Originally Posted by yommys01 View Post

        You got me interested on this one, can you please explain further?
        Well I am no attorney so I can't tell you the steps required but you should find a lawyer in your area that can help you make this a reality. You can bank from anywhere and draw a salary to yourself in Nigeria.

        All you need is a corporation in a more friendly sounding country.
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      • Profile picture of the author bbgandanghari
        Nigerians have bad press, a large number of scams originate from your country. At any rate, you should be proud of your country and your race. And if anyone asks, you can tell the truth.
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  • Profile picture of the author kswr123
    @Intrepreneur - I use a nickname for my products: Mike Rogers

    Why? Look at my name. What comes to your mind? Muslim? Terrorist? Bomber?

    These things are NOT true, but why should you believe Mubarak? You could, of course, go with Mike the American...
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    • Profile picture of the author Intrepreneur
      Originally Posted by Mubarak Waseem View Post

      @Intrepreneur - I use a nickname for my products: Mike Rogers

      Why? Look at my name. What comes to your mind? Muslim? Terrorist? Bomber?

      These things are NOT true, but why should you believe Mubarak? You could, of course, go with Mike the American...
      Yes that's good to use that name, although your name should be no problem when selling to the higher end of the internet market, for example graphics etc, I've bought plenty from plenty of crazy names.

      I'm sorta starting to become more suspicious over standard names, like just today I'm arguing with someone called "Anne" whom I have no doubt has completely different name.. because she sold me Illegal downloaded books bt Wiley Publishing.

      What a bitch.

      Anyhow, I was referring to Pauls stats, he told them as if they were the cause of people thinking of nigerians as scammers, when it's highly unlikely anyone goes to look at those before making the decision to name them a scammer.

      :-)
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      • Profile picture of the author kswr123
        Originally Posted by Intrepreneur View Post

        Yes that's good to use that name, although your name should be no problem when selling to the higher end of the internet market, for example graphics etc, I've bought plenty from plenty of crazy names.

        I'm sorta starting to become more suspicious over standard names, like just today I'm arguing with someone called "Anne" whom I have no doubt has completely different name.. because she sold me Illegal downloaded books bt Wiley Publishing.

        What a bitch.

        Anyhow, I was referring to Pauls stats, he told them as if they were the cause of people thinking of nigerians as scammers, when it's highly unlikely anyone goes to look at those before making the decision to name them a scammer.

        :-)
        hmm - I am going to split test anyway, just to check!

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  • Profile picture of the author Stephen Root
    If your product truly works then you have nothing to worry about. If you have liabilities like your country has a bad rep, you just have to compensate with spending more time establishing your credibility. Also real testimonials will help.

    What about dodging the problem completely and selling something to your own country first to get your feet wet?

    And about payment issues.. Just make US PayPal account. If you don't scam, you have nothing to worry about. If somebody questions your US PayPal account, there's a lot of reasons to have US PayPal account like if you own US based company.
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  • Profile picture of the author AgencyScripts
    You could always use this in your copy for your salesletter. Contravacy is good for selling, but you gotta spin it into a way so that it benefits you.

    If you were selling a killer offer that I wanted. I would buy from you. No MATTER where you lived. Period.

    But I can understand your concern with selling via the WF with WSO's because your location says Nigeria, and there is alot of people who see that and say "scam". But those people are NOT your best customers anyways.

    Yes, you gotta try and get over that objection in your copy. (a better guarantee perhaps?) but for the most part when your selling out in the wild internet. You don't need to put where you live on your sales letters, so it wont matter as much as it does selling via the WF.

    Just keep goin' man! Don't stop, and don't spend one second of your time thinking you can't make a great living online because your from Nigeria.

    Use it as a positive, be proud, and rock on man!

    Godspeed!

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    • Profile picture of the author yommys01
      Originally Posted by Dylan Jones View Post

      You could always use this in your copy for your salesletter. Contravacy is good for selling, but you gotta spin it into a way so that it benefits you.

      If you were selling a killer offer that I wanted. I would buy from you. No MATTER where you lived. Period.

      But I can understand your concern with selling via the WF with WSO's because your location says Nigeria, and there is alot of people who see that and say "scam". But those people are NOT your best customers anyways.

      Yes, you gotta try and get over that objection in your copy. (a better guarantee perhaps?) but for the most part when your selling out in the wild internet. You don't need to put where you live on your sales letters, so it wont matter as much as it does selling via the WF.

      Just keep goin' man! Don't stop, and don't spend one second of your time thinking you can't make a great living online because your from Nigeria.

      Use it as a positive, be proud, and rock on man!

      Godspeed!

      - Dylan
      Thanks man for your word of encouragement, it is well appreciated.

      @Brad Gosse I got this link ( Offshore Banking and offshore company formation helps financial privacy and asset protection for your offshore bank account ) while searching for offshore banking. I have tried email them but the contact form they have is not working. I want to ask if the $1495 they are requesting for will be credited back into my account as it is done with a normal bank account and if no, will the $1495 payment be one time payment or annually.
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    if your identity really makes it worth, you can use a pen name...
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  • Profile picture of the author Peter Adamson
    1) Is there a business model where this would not affect you as much? I can't see it being an issue in CPA, PPC or affiliate sales.
    2) If you have big ticket items, can you deal with a reputable agent who would hold funds escrow?

    I personally don't understand the attitude of someone who backs out when they find you are Nigerian. Either the deal is safe (escrow, trustworthy 3rd party etc...) or it is not (deal direct with unknown person). In the latter case, I would not do the deal with anyone. In the former case I would not care where they came from.
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    • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
      Anyhow, I was referring to Pauls stats, he told them as if they were the cause of people thinking of nigerians as scammers
      Sometimes I despair at the reading comprehension levels I see among people with access to a global audience.

      That business online originating in Nigeria is mostly scam is a known fact. The stats were to show part of the reason why, and that it's not somehow a judgement of the majority of Nigerians.

      If the problem is known, most people aren't going to look at those stats at all. They don't care WHY one group is known to be full of scammers. They only care THAT it is.


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      • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
        Jay,
        where you are from is an accident of birth and not particularly relevant to anyone except bigots.
        You really need to look up that word, son. I don't think it means what you think it means.

        While you're pondering the meaning of the word, consider: PayPal does not have the same restrictions regarding Kenya, South Africa, Benin, Niger, or many of the other countries in Africa. But, of course, their rules against Nigeria must be some kind of irrational bigotry, right?

        It could not possibly be that the percentage of business originating in Nigeria that results in chargebacks, refunds and other hassles is high enough to make handling that business unprofitable. Companies NEVER make decisions based on profitability...


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        • Profile picture of the author Stephen Crooks
          Got to agree with Paul here. It is nothing to do with bigotry or anything like that it is just cold, hard business thats all. Nigeria is a growing economy that is probably untapped as a market on the whole but it does suffer with a bad reputation for scams eminating from there, that is a fact. It is silly to just call it bigotry in some sort of politically correct manner, it is there and yommys01 is a man who has to some how try and deal with that situation.
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          • Profile picture of the author Jay Greathouse
            bigot

            from wikipedia:
            "Bigot is often used as a pejorative term to describe a person who is obstinately devoted to prejudices, especially when these views are either challenged, or proven to be false or not universally applicable or acceptable."

            from Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary
            "a person obstinately or intolerantly devoted to his or her own opinions and prejudices ; especially : one who regards or treats the members of a group (as a racial or ethnic group) with hatred and intolerance"

            from urban dictionary:
            "One who is narrrowly or intolerantly devoted to his or her opinions and prejudices. This word is a general term that applies to everyone (racists, anti-Semites, misogynists, homophobes and xenophobes)."

            "A bigot is a prejudiced person who is intolerant of any opinions differing from their own."

            "1) n. bigot: A bigot is someone who holds predefined negative views about a class of people. Examples include anti-semites, homophobics, racists, religious extremists of any religion.
            2) adj. bigoted: A bigoted person is one who is a bigot. Can also be used to describe an opinion."

            Paul Myers, thanks for the tip old man, I did look it up and that is exactly what I meant. Anyone who prejudges an individual due to nationality is a bigot regardless of commercial rationalizations.
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            • Profile picture of the author Jason Moffatt
              Originally Posted by Jay Greathouse View Post

              bigot

              from wikipedia:
              "Bigot is often used as a pejorative term to describe a person who is obstinately devoted to prejudices, especially when these views are either challenged, or proven to be false or not universally applicable or acceptable."

              from Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary
              "a person obstinately or intolerantly devoted to his or her own opinions and prejudices ; especially : one who regards or treats the members of a group (as a racial or ethnic group) with hatred and intolerance"

              from urban dictionary:
              "One who is narrrowly or intolerantly devoted to his or her opinions and prejudices. This word is a general term that applies to everyone (racists, anti-Semites, misogynists, homophobes and xenophobes)."

              "A bigot is a prejudiced person who is intolerant of any opinions differing from their own."

              "1) n. bigot: A bigot is someone who holds predefined negative views about a class of people. Examples include anti-semites, homophobics, racists, religious extremists of any religion.
              2) adj. bigoted: A bigoted person is one who is a bigot. Can also be used to describe an opinion."

              Paul Myers, thanks for the tip old man, I did look it up and that is exactly what I meant. Anyone who prejudges an individual due to nationality is a bigot regardless of commercial rationalizations.
              Well I'm glad I'm a rich bigot instead of a poor one.
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            • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
              Jay,
              Paul Myers, thanks for the tip old man, I did look it up and that is exactly what I meant. Anyone who prejudges an individual due to nationality is a bigot regardless of commercial rationalizations.
              Read what I've said in this thread. I did not judge, or pre-judge, any individual, based on anything. I have always been very careful to avoid even the appearance that I think Nigerians are crooked as a people.

              Look through my comments and you'll see the reference to an extremely active criminal class there, which is not representative of the population of the country.

              But, if you want to think I'm a bigot, have fun with that belief. If it makes you feel warm and fuzzy and superior, cherish it.

              Some people have nothing but their illusions. I'm happy to let them cling to those fantasies.


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              • Profile picture of the author CDarklock
                Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

                Jay, Read what I've said in this thread. I did not judge, or pre-judge, any individual, based on anything.
                No matter how much I disagree with your position, I have to stand up and support that statement - there's no bigotry here. Your reasoning is based on a perception which, in my opinion, is flawed... but it is not a perception of human nature. It is a perception of statistical prevalence of activity.

                I believe that perception is flawed, but if it were true, you would have no choice but to believe as you do - to do otherwise would be irrational, and guided by emotion rather than reality. That's the death knell for any business.
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          • Profile picture of the author onetag
            It's true that right now Nigeria has somewhat of a bad reputation overall, but that doesn't mean that you do. I think that so long as you personally have a good reputation online, gather lots of testimonials, and show that you are an honest person to do business with, you'll gain people's trust.

            It might take some time, but you'll get there!
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          • Profile picture of the author dljmktg1
            One of my best friends was born and raised in Nigeria. He is one of the most sincere, honest, and helpful people I know. I suspect it is a common trait - as it is among most people of the world.

            Unfortunately, Nigeria has a different reputation because of a small group of people.

            Even more unfortunate is that good people like you have to pay the price for it.

            My advice is to be proud of where you are from. You are the true representation of your country - not them.

            In the meantime, keep a list of satisfied customers who are willing to give personal references for you. Not online testimonials, but people willing to be contacted by customers who have reservations about your "guilt by association."

            In line with a few previous suggestions, flaunt the fact you are from Nigeria. Put an "about Nigeria" page or section on your website. Educate people about the country. Highlight famous Nigerians, and every good thing about the country that you can.

            And finally, realize that no matter what you do, there will always be people who don't trust you. It's their loss. You've only been at it a year. Eventually, your good work will stand out over all else. If you are making sales, you are already off to a good start.


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          • Profile picture of the author Achilles1963
            I think in sales and marketing you are always trying to create a persona for yourself that makes your customers comfortable, isn't it true that many internet marketers will take on an alter ego of the opposite sex to aid in marketing products that would be harder to sell if it were known that they were a man/woman, and what sucessful offline businessman goes around publically espousing political,religeous or sociological issues that could cost them a customer (that stuff is for the privacy of your home, friends, and family), i'me not saying you should hide who you are, you are a businessman period. Thats just my $.02
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          • Profile picture of the author summerm
            I suggest you avoid the issue and just say you are from Africa. A large proportion of Americans wouldn't even know to ask what country... because they think Africa is a country.

            If someone is concerned and asks for more details, go ahead and admit Nigeria (don't lie to a business partner!), but reassure them with details on how they can't possibly be scammed from the transaction with you, and provide links to paypal protection policies or whatever. Definitely never propose payment through Western Union or anything else shady.
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            • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
              Does that sound like a scammer?

              I don't want to take this personal but what you have said shows you are one of those stereotyped idiots who regards all Nigerians as scammers.
              Here's the problem: There's no way to tell. The scammers do their best to sound like honest people, and you often don't know for sure until after you've been scammed - or not.

              In cases where the probability is high, you look at the odds and what's at risk and you make a decision. That doesn't make you an idiot. Just shows you're thinking.


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              • Profile picture of the author yommys01
                Originally Posted by Paul Myers View Post

                Here's the problem: There's no way to tell. The scammers do their best to sound like honest people, and you often don't know for sure until after you've been scammed - or not.

                In cases where the probability is high, you look at the odds and what's at risk and you make a decision. That doesn't make you an idiot. Just shows you're thinking.


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                I am not sure why you said this but I sincerely hope it is not because you think I am a scammer. I am not if you are thinking I am and I am not even asking warriors to send anythin to me.
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                • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
                  I am not sure why you said this but I sincerely hope it is not because you think I am a scammer.
                  I have no opinion on you personally either way. I don't know enough about you.

                  I'm talking about the odds. Not any one individual.


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                  • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
                    discrat,
                    That being said I do NOT think you are a bigot. But please be careful because incessant focus on a particular group of people can sometimes flirt with and many times cross that fine line between circumstance(fact) and prejudice.
                    There is no prejudice here, except for not betting against long odds. If you read what I've said in this thread, you'll note that I have repeatedly stated my belief that the vast majority of Nigerians are as honest and decent as the people in any other group.

                    That doesn't change the numbers as they relate to online commerce. And yes, I have seen exceptions to that set of probabilities.

                    As far as this constant use of the word 'bigot,' you will note that I'm talking about a small segment of the population of a single country, not a racial, religious or ethnic group.

                    A country that is so rife with fraud that, for a long time, when you called to wire money using Western Union, they warned you about sending it to Nigeria unless you personally knew the recipient. A country whose citizens many payment processors refuse to give accounts to or take orders from.

                    It's interesting that no-one seems to have an answer to or rebuttal for that last fact.

                    I have no beef with Yommy. None. I'm responding to his question and comments which have followed it.


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          • Profile picture of the author AndrewCavanagh
            I'd be inclined to use it a unique selling proposition.

            Always do EVERYTHING in a scrupolously honest way...in fact go way beyond the call of duty to be honest and make sure everyone you deal with is thrilled they did business with you.

            Get as many testimonials as you can...especially from people who are respected in the industry you're working in.

            And then you can call yourself something cool like:

            "The one genuinely honest Nigerian" and tell them why you're honest, you're history etc, referrals and how you hate and despise dishonest scammers.

            I wouldn't be trying to hide the fact you're Nigerian...I'd be using it as a way to brand yourself.

            As soon as people hear you're from Nigeria they're going to think...scammer.

            What you immediately want them to do is think and say "yeh there are scammers in Nigeria but this guy is 100% honest".

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          • Profile picture of the author Danii Of Oz
            Lying pretty much always comes back and bites you in one way or another so it really isn't worth it. Believe in yourself and what you are doing 100% as there is no room for any doubt. The only way to ever fail is by giving up!
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          • Profile picture of the author AGSniper
            As a marketer, you are entering the business world and there are numerous things with the business world that you must take notice.

            There are countless number of liars, scammers, frauds, and people who cheat other and are disrespectful.

            My only advice to you honest people out there are stay true to yourself, continue being yourself because in the long run you will rise above the rest thanks to your honesty and because you did it without cheating.
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          • Profile picture of the author TelegramSam
            Originally Posted by yommys01 View Post


            Another optin is to open the account in French speaking Benin republic ( I speak French well enough) as paypal accept Benin.
            Originally Posted by yommys01 View Post

            You are right but I Personal don't do it, I always tell people upfront where I come from. It is killing me but lying is lying and I hate the way I one feel after a lie.

            Setting up a company could be the way forward for you.

            The identity people see is the Company.

            You could set it up in another country.

            Perhaps even Benin, if this is better than having one from Nigeria, which is probable.

            Long term you should research setting up a company either in the USA, Europe or any other more "respectable" nation.

            It is possible legally to do this.

            It will cost you about $1,000 to $2,000 to set up with some advice thrown in too.

            If your business ideas can justify this expenditure then it is something to consider.

            If you are serious about this idea then by spending a day on google you will soon be able to read about and research the various possibilities.

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            • Profile picture of the author jerryjots
              As I think others have suggested, the very worst thing you can do is lie!

              Always tell the truth, but don't necessarily tell everyone everything. the fact is, you can always keep some stuff quiet without resorting to untruths, so don't go there,

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          • Profile picture of the author John Durham
            There is a vast amount of bad bad phishing scams and different things coming from Nigeria. I personally was ripped for 12k and told that the authorities could do nothing about it because Nigeria is exempt from the laws that protect buyers everywhere else...

            Sorry man. I don't think I would lie, but I would definitely hide it. Yeah I'm pissed about that $12,000.00!!

            I am sure you are legit, but others from your country have unfortunately made it hard for you. There's no saying you have to tell where you are from.
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  • Profile picture of the author IanFranklin
    You should be proud of were you are from but.... people do naturally tend to be more comfortable dealing with who and what they know. I'm not saying that is right -- but it does tend to be our nature. "Birds of a feather, flock together".

    many, many companies set up corporations in Nevada USA for this reason (and others)

    Good luck -- whatever you do!
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    • Profile picture of the author Jay Greathouse
      Be honest about who you are, where you are from is an accident of birth and not particularly relevant to anyone except bigots.

      The same type of people who discriminate against you also created the reputation of the "Ugly American" and usurping colonizers in general. Seek thoughtful, open minded and intelligent individuals to associate/do business with and your life and business will avoid many hidden problems.

      It may seem like a hardship to be rejected by assholes but they are actually doing you a favor by forcing you to find a genuine human being (who deserves that designation) with whom to establish a business relationship.
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    • Profile picture of the author Stephen Crooks
      First of all, don't lie as it would be the start of a slippery slope for you from there. Unfortunately Nigeria does have a bad reputation for scams and that is a sad fact that can't be disputed. I hope one day that this changes but for now, you have to deal with that difficult situation.

      I think you could go a long way with a bit of branding, rather than try to cover up and not mention where you come from maybe a bit of reverse psychology is the answer. Name your business something along the lines of "Nigerian Marketing Services" and brand your business with a real Nigerian theme.

      I am not a PR specialist and branding isn't my strong point but I hope you get the idea. Rather than brush it under the carpet, make it your 'Unique Selling Point'.. This is where you have to get creative. You have to try and convince people through your marketing that you are a great person to do business with and how being in Nigeria with it's fast economic growth is a great reason to do business here.
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  • Profile picture of the author Sunnybeach7
    I think it is sad that this is happening to you.

    Because of the bad things people do in your area, this makes it so much harder for you.

    NO....you certainly should not lie! It may take you a while longer to build a good reputation, but just try to get yourself out there.

    Has this happened a lot with canceled sales or was it just one guy? I would think the website would speak for itself.

    Have you tried building your own website for this and other services you offer? Maybe with a few testimonials from people from different areas of the world?

    You may want to try promoting a discount for your work, in exchange for a testimonial, with a link to the website you sold them (you can tell them that when they give their testimonial you will put it on your page with a link to their website...to bring them more traffic).

    You may have to sell for less than you want to at first...but build up a good reputation and you should have no problem.

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    • Profile picture of the author yommys01
      Originally Posted by Sunnybeach7 View Post


      Has this happened a lot with canceled sales or was it just one guy? I would think the website would speak for itself.

      Sunny
      This has been happening for some time now. I have tried to sell 2 sites on to 2 private buyers from site point. The first stop emailing as soon as I told him I was Nigerian ( I don't need to lie, right?) The other one was already making the payment on paypal when he checked the whois of the domain name and found Nigeria which made him stop the payment.

      Another example is the wso ( my first) I just did, something I am very sure is worth the price but has only got 1 ( yes, one annoying sale that does not even cover my cost) so far.

      I am getting frustrating but I know for sure I will get to where I want to, it will only take some time, I am certain I will be there.
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      • Profile picture of the author Sunnybeach7
        Originally Posted by yommys01 View Post

        This has been happening for some time now. I have tried to sell 2 sites on to 2 private buyers from site point. The first stop emailing as soon as I told him I was Nigerian ( I don't need to lie, right?) The other one was already making the payment on paypal when he checked the whois of the domain name and found Nigeria which made him stop the payment.

        Another example is the wso ( my first) I just did, something I am very sure is worth the price but has only got 1 ( yes, one annoying sale that does not even cover my cost) so far.

        I am getting frustrating but I know for sure I will get to where I want to, it will only take some time, I am certain I will be there.
        I just took a glimpse at your wso... yeah...definitely worth the price. Your problem may be that you have priced them too low, even for a wso.

        Have you researched to see what others here have had success with in selling articles? You would want to make yours around the same price or just a little lower.

        People may be suspicious wondering why you are selling them so cheap. I could be wrong though.

        I can understand about being frustrated over this. It looks like you have gotten some good testimonials though...and I'm sure more will follow.

        Trust doesn't always come easy...just keep at it and you will get where you want to be.

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        • Profile picture of the author yommys01
          Thanks warriors, I draw motivation from your replies, I can't wait for my testimonies ( not testimony, many of them).

          It is tough and annoying when you are doing your best but not getting the desired result but I am sure I will get there provided I don't give up.

          @Sunnybeach7 thanks for the comment, I have also thought about redoing the wso with a higher price but then, this my first wso, it is got to be cheap besides even at that rate I will still cover my price and make some gains.

          I want to make it a win/win situation since I am Nigerian who needs to convice people he is not one of those *******.

          Originally Posted by Sunnybeach7 View Post

          I just took a glimpse at your wso... yeah...definitely worth the price. Your problem may be that you have priced them too low, even for a wso.

          Have you researched to see what others here have had success with in selling articles? You would want to make yours around the same price or just a little lower.

          People may be suspicious wondering why you are selling them so cheap. I could be wrong though.

          I can understand about being frustrated over this. It looks like you have gotten some good testimonials though...and I'm sure more will follow.

          Trust doesn't always come easy...just keep at it and you will get where you want to be.

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  • Profile picture of the author Jason Moffatt
    You could use this as a positive.

    I'd make a viral video attacking all Nigerian scammers and curse them out with all your abilities. Then position yourself as the Anti-Scam Nigerian dude and make fun of all those scam artists in your area.

    This is the only thing you can do. Use it to your advantage, or set up a business in another country.

    Personally, I wouldn't do business with 99% of Nigerians I came across. It would take a whole lot to convince me that you are legit.

    And if anyone thinks I'm a bigot because of that, well then I think you are an irresponsible idiot.
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  • Profile picture of the author J Bold
    Yes, you should lie and say you're from Somalia. Mmm, wait, that may be worse?
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  • Profile picture of the author zulfnore
    What an unfortunate and sad situation this is - from being Nigerian and being labled a scamer even though your legit and being an Arab or someone who is muslim and being labled a terrorist.

    Here is a simple solution for you: As you are a genuin marketer consider going to JV with marketers say in the USA, UK or South Asia and establish your business. Once your are well known in the IM marketplace you can break away and go your own way. The WWW is boundaryless as is the marketplace - Use Clickbank and paydotcom and above all use a pseudo name and only give your real name if asked for.

    And btw, try not operate on private sales - use the facilities available and let the system work for you

    Good luck!
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  • Profile picture of the author ExRat
    Hi Jason,

    Bearing in mind this -

    (Paul)
    the belief among a small segment of Nigerian society that it's morally okay, even laudable, to steal from white westerners.
    ...which I believe to be true, then regarding this bit of advice -

    (J-mo)
    I'd make a viral video attacking all Nigerian scammers and curse them out with all your abilities. Then position yourself as the Anti-Scam Nigerian dude and make fun of all those scam artists in your area.
    I don't think that's a particularly good idea in the circumstances. I think the OP might be a little 'safer' to avoid that course of action :rolleyes:

    Hi yommys01,

    There are tons of people doing business online mostly anonymously - it's ideal for that. And because many of the business dealings are purely electronic, it really doesn't make that much difference.

    If it's good for us non-Nigerians to keep our heads down and fly under the radar, then I see no reason why a Nigerian can't do the same without worrying about it.

    In my opinion, being proud of your nationality and doing business mostly anonymously are two totally seperate things and there is no point in putting the two things together. If it's getting in the way of business, then it's obvious what you have to do in order to get on with business.

    If anyone ever discovers that you weren't up front about your nationality and has a problem with it, you can say in all honesty that you tried being up front about it, but due to the stereotype problem created by your brethren and the fact that the general online world public are afraid to do business in general with Nigerians, you were forced to take a different approach - IE - you did your best, but were forced to take a different approach.

    I can sympathise with you that it's frustrating, but so are many other aspects of business/customer dealings. Regardless, we still have to get the job done and put food on the table.
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    • Profile picture of the author Jason Moffatt
      Originally Posted by ExRat View Post

      Hi Jason,

      Bearing in mind this -

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      ...which I believe to be true, then regarding this bit of advice -

      (J-mo)
      I don't think that's a particularly good idea in the circumstances. I think the OP might be a little 'safer' to avoid that course of action :rolleyes:

      Hi yommys01,

      There are tons of people doing business online mostly anonymously - it's ideal for that. And because many of the business dealings are purely electronic, it really doesn't make that much difference.

      If it's good for us non-Nigerians to keep our heads down and fly under the radar, then I see no reason why a Nigerian can't do the same without worrying about it.

      In my opinion, being proud of your nationality and doing business mostly anonymously are two totally seperate things and there is no point in putting the two things together. Be proud, but get on with your business and don't worry about it.

      Exactly why I think it's a great idea Roger. It's a "small segment" of the population. F%$# those guys.

      Divide and Conquer.

      Go Dan Kennedy on them and piss them off.

      It's a perfect opportunity in my mind. I piss off small segments of my population all the time, and sometimes enjoy doing so
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      • Profile picture of the author ExRat
        Hi Jason,

        I realised that that was what you were getting at, but -

        I piss off small segments of my population all the time
        ...being careful so as not to sound as if I am saying anything against Nigerians in general, do you not think that there are small, subtle, but very important differences between your population and Yommy01's and differences between you pissing your lot off (I'm sure you're not referring to yourself outing scammers - you still haven't told us which well-known vendors didn't pay you), and Yommy01 siding with the westerners and making himself Nigerian scammer enemy number 1?

        With respect, I think there's a huge difference.
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  • Profile picture of the author Tyrus Antas
    Even testimonials would probably not be enough as people would still not trust them(fake testimonials in their minds).

    It's difficult out there. My opinion? Try as hard as possible to hide where you're from. Not lie, hide.

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    • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
      Jason,
      It's a perfect opportunity in my mind. I piss off small segments of my population all the time, and sometimes enjoy doing so
      If by "population" you mean "potential market," you've got it backwards. Nigerian scammers aren't part of his market. Skeptical westerners are.

      What you're suggesting seems a bit like "Methinks he doth protest too much."


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      • Profile picture of the author Jason Moffatt
        Okay point taken guys.

        I'm sure there is some ruthless militia's that wouldn't take too kindly to that exact strategy. However, toned down it could be the method needed.

        He could address the problem and take a stance in a sophisticated manner. He could pioneer a movement for legitimate Nigerian marketers. I'm sure he'd have the support of hundreds of thousands of people from his own country.

        Surely legitimate Nigerian business folks are more pissed about this then most of us.

        My point is, by taking a direct stance against the scam artists, you'd win a lot of credibility with guys like myself and other potential buyers.
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        • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
          Jason,
          He could address the problem and take a stance in a sophisticated manner. He could pioneer a movement for legitimate Nigerian marketers. I'm sure he'd have the support of hundreds of thousands of people from his own country.
          THAT could work. Especially if he focused, as you suggest, on helping the honest ones, without getting into the scammers' way.

          I don't think many people in the US understand just how ... vicious ... the Nigerian criminal gangs can be.


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          • Profile picture of the author Jay Greathouse
            Who on this thread has been scammed by Nigerians? In my experience I've been exclusively scammed, cheated, bullied and robbed by rich white male U.S.citizens.

            If I exercised my experience and knowledge as a prejudiced bigoted bias it would have kept me from Gary Halbert and Jeff Walker, although I did give Jeff money based on advice from an Australian.

            Personally, I wouldn't do business with 99% of rich white male U.S. citizens I came across. It would take a whole lot to convince me that you are legit.

            If I did not exercise due diligence in my dealings and evaluate people individually on their own merits, well then I think I would be an irresponsible idiot.

            Bigotry wrongs the innocent.

            William Shakespeare wrote: "Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none."

            Works for me.
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  • Profile picture of the author Private
    You're not alone my friend. I live in the Middle East, a couple of weeks ago I got the most disrespectful reply when I tried to subscribe to one of those guaranteedsignups companies who don't deal overseas. I'm still recovering from their reply
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    • Profile picture of the author ExRat
      Hi Paul,

      I don't think many people in the US understand just how ... vicious ... the Nigerian criminal gangs can be.
      Precisely.

      I'm sure he'd have the support of hundreds of thousands of people from his own country.
      Jason, history is littered with proof that having the support of the general populace does not protect you in any way from the underworld, or the government or any other group with the power 'to enforce'.

      In fact most of the time, particularly if it's the government who's side you are a thorn in, then history suggests that having the support of the general populace only hasten's one's demise. The most dangerous thing you can do in this world is become famous as a peacemaker and suggest that everyone should love each other
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      • Profile picture of the author Jason Moffatt
        Originally Posted by ExRat View Post

        Hi Paul,

        Precisely.

        Jason, history is littered with proof that having the support of the general populace does not protect you in any way from the underworld, or the government or any other group with the power 'to enforce'.

        In fact most of the time, particularly if it's the government who's side you are a thorn in, then history suggests that having the support of the general populace only hasten's one's demise. The most dangerous thing you can do in this world is become famous as a peacemaker and suggest that everyone should love each other
        Well then my advice would be... SCREW NIGERIA.

        Find a hot blonde in California, marry her, and get US citizenship. That would surely be my plan.
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        • Profile picture of the author BrianMcLeod
          Originally Posted by Jason Moffatt View Post

          Find a hot blonde in California, marry her, and get US citizenship. That would surely be my plan.
          J-Mo, that sounds an awful lot like your EXISTING plan, except for the US citizen thing...

          : )
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  • Profile picture of the author karendavison
    Unfortunately I agree with the other posters - Nigeria has gotten a bad name because of the spam. However, lying isn't the answer.
    I don't know how you're receiving payment but perhaps a paypal account would make a difference. It might cost to convert the currency but if it means more sales it will make up the difference.
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    • Profile picture of the author ExRat
      Hi Jay,

      Who on this thread has been scammed by Nigerians?
      I recieve a constant barrage of spam emails from them attempting to scam me, but I haven't been scammed by them.

      "Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none."

      Works for me.
      You realise that it's entirely possible to refuse to do business with Nigerians on the grounds of fear of being scammed while still sticking to Shakespeare's principle presented above?

      You can love all, trust a few, do wrong to none and still refuse to do business with Nigerians. Just because I love someone, doesn't mean I have to do business with them
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  • Profile picture of the author yonaswedo
    It's all about stereotype thing. I can feel it's so hard for people to fight out the situation like it. It need totally effort and will be a lot of time to prove to the world that prejudice is wrong because it has changed.

    The same thing as me here in Indonesia. We have experience where we known as a carder heaven. We already feel how we exiled from the international business community. At this time we have solved this fundamental problem together. Now we have the law of information technology. We also collaborate extensively with Interpol for internet crimes.

    The result... at this time we feel comfortable. All parties can trust us again. We can trade with anyone in the world. Now, the stereotype has lost its charge.
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    • Profile picture of the author eCovers4uGfx
      Hmmmmm this will no doubt offend a few ppl,
      Nigerians rave on about how they have been hard done by blah blah all because of scammers from their own country whom have scammed innocent people out of their personal $$$$$, Yet your opening line shows the train of thought one would expect from a scammer!

      No offence intended!
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      • Profile picture of the author yommys01
        Originally Posted by eCovers4uGfx View Post

        Hmmmmm this will no doubt offend a few ppl,
        Nigerians rave on about how they have been hard done by blah blah all because of scammers from their own country whom have scammed innocent people out of their personal $$$$$, Yet your opening line shows the train of thought one would expect from a scammer!

        No offence intended!
        Sounds stupid, judgemental and annoying. Did I ask warriors to send me money or something?

        My opening line
        Do I have to lie to be a good marketer? I have been online for more than 1 year now and I have notice many people ( marketers and non marketers alike) get scared once they know you are Nigerian.
        Does that sound like a scammer?

        I don't want to take this personal but what you have said shows you are one of those stereotyped idiots who regards all Nigerians as scammers.
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  • Profile picture of the author goodmast3r
    Same here. I want to sell diamond online, but am afraid people don't trust me. I'm from indonesia
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  • Profile picture of the author Brian Robinson
    Originally Posted by yommys01 View Post

    Do I have to lie to be a good marketer? I have been online for more than 1 year now and I have notice many people (marketers and non marketers alike) get scared once they know you are Nigerian.
    Great question.

    People are scared of used car dealers because they are scared of being taken advantage of... but this implies that they are ready to buy... a buyer worries, a shopper could care less.

    So can you turn this to your advantage?

    Like TheHonestNigerian.com (I'll give this to you if you PM me), can you change this up and turn your disadvantage into an advantage?

    I mean, make your online persona a direct attack on people's perceptions.
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  • Profile picture of the author manish_11
    I know your story is absolutely true and it is getting worsren day by day.But you should not hide your identity;because it takes a lot of time for one to bulid a reputation on internet marketing. It is also because of few all has to suffer. you must do such a kind of job,that one must be admiring and forced to do the deal.
    I think your websites must speak who you are not your personal identity.
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  • Profile picture of the author yommys01
    Some good news here guys, one of those who ran away because I am Nigerian just chatted with me on google chat.

    He claimed to have done a background check on me ( using my name and my email address ;D) and is now certain I am not a scammer and wants us to "deal" again.

    Opportunity to make cheap $200, not much but the fact that he now trusts me make me happy and it is an opportunity to get REAL testimonial which I am extremely happy about.

    Couple of days I was frustrated, now I am happy, Glory to God.
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    • Profile picture of the author sevenish
      Originally Posted by yommys01 View Post

      Some good news here guys, one of those who ran away because I am Nigerian just chatted with me on google chat.

      He claimed to have done a background check on me ( using my name and my email address ;D) and is now certain I am not a scammer and wants us to "deal" again.

      Opportunity to make cheap $200, not much but the fact that he now trusts me make me happy and it is an opportunity to get REAL testimonial which I am extremely happy about.

      Couple of days I was frustrated, now I am happy, Glory to God.
      Great news Yommy! Congratulations! Get that testimonial; it's yours free and clear.

      You've got a tougher road as a citizen of Nigeria; no question. But I don't see why you should be tarred with the same brush as the 419 scammers simply because of your country of origin.

      Has anyone really looked at the WSO section lately? Or at Jason's advice? Crikey!

      Go for it Yommy.

      Edit: Due diligence is necessary in all business dealings, IMO. But I've seen more pirated stuff in the WSO section here than I've seen anywhere else. Caveat emptor in all dealings, be the vendor Nigerian or Nebraskan.
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  • Profile picture of the author Peter Ramos
    I always say, internet marketers should never lie, and thats why
    the Disclaimer Page is there.

    Now, if you tell me that i can make $50k in a month using your
    system, and there is no disclaimer page, then you are a walking lie!



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  • Best of luck, yommys. More power to you for being upfront with a difficult truth.

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  • Profile picture of the author yommys01
    Thanks Kim, many make the mistake of thinking ALL Nigerians are scammers but I am sure I am not and will never be.
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    • Profile picture of the author sarafina
      No need to lie but don't disclose unless you have to. Unless you're applying for cpa programs etc where you must tell the truth, it isn't necessary to know.
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  • Profile picture of the author Daniel Scott
    Yommy,

    This is a personal decision... but here's some food for thought based on what I'd do.

    First of all, how does your nationality come up? I don't think I've ever actually had a client or customer ask me that (well, one)... and it's not something I just "volunteer".

    Personally... I would just use a pen name if you forsee it being a problem. I do it in all of my niches (for both "branding" and privacy purposes) and it works fine for me.

    My guess is people see your name and wonder where you're from... and you're right, when people say Nigeria you RUN.

    Andrew's idea is awesome too... but obviously somewhat of a more long-term strategy.

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  • Profile picture of the author rbthanders
    I would provide as many (much?) "Results in Advance" as possible. If you're selling a product, let people see that there actually IS a product.

    And I'd leave out the Nigeria part.
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  • Profile picture of the author jlxsolutions
    Well due to the fact i get 60+ scam e-mails from nigeria in my pvt e-mails weekly. lol
    i would not either and if i was from nigeria i would definetly not tell where i am from.
    i have nothing against a lie that is for mutual benefit.
    Lets say if you honestly think your product is good for the customer Well then just leave the info out or say your from france or something.
    If you don't think your product is good for the customer Well bad mind hello.
    But honestly i dont care about if someone is dishonest whit me as long i get what i want LOL.
    Now this post might seem discrediting towards me.
    Now again as you see i would never lie in a way that would be bad towards another person.
    But if i "feel" know the other person needs a lie instead of the truth i dont hesitate to provide it.
    Like if someones dear person is lost and Well even its been years you keep saying he/she is fine somewhere.
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  • Profile picture of the author MavisAA
    You don't have to lie if you intend to build your business longterm. On the other hand the reason why people use the internet is beause they can remain annonymous. There is no reason to say your nationality.

    Just deliver quality solutions via a business name through paypal or clickbank and it won't make any difference where you come from.
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  • Profile picture of the author Brian Robinson
    Hmmm. Seems that my last post (that took me 20 minutes to write) was deleted.
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  • Profile picture of the author John Durham
    A report called "A Nigerien reveals the truth behind Nigerien scams" that would make you a millionaire. There you go.You are a warrior, and if you were scamming you wouldn't have made it far here, so this is not a slam against you personally. I'm serious though. There's your money right there!

    I would help you sell it personally, I know a huge market place where people get scammed all the time and would love that information. PM me if you wanna do it. We could build the product together. That's a good idea now!!!

    Originally Posted by JohnMcCabe View Post

    Before everyone loses their marbles, there's a very pragmatic solution to Yommis01's predicament which hasn't been mentioned yet...

    Use an escrow service. Takes the whole 'country of origin' factor out of the equation.
    The prob with this is that these scammers are so sophisticated at what they do that most people would believe they could even figure out a way to scam the escrow service...it's really a huge thing, and the truth is they ARE very sophisticated about this stuff and I personally wouldn't put it past some of the smarter ones.

    It goes way beyond "Dear Sir, I am a bank president..."

    This isn't about racism or anything like that. It's about a sector of the Nigerien population who literally facilitate hundreds of employees in office buildings, where people go to work everyday just like a job, and the sole purpose is to scam defenseless business men from other countries, who have no hope of recourse whatsoever.

    It's sad for guys like this who want to do the right thing...
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  • Profile picture of the author Steve_Brown
    It's just business - no one is going to buy if they have ANY reason not to. Being from Nigeria is just a negative you can't overcome right now, so you DO need to keep it out of your sales process.
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  • Profile picture of the author Harry Behrens
    I'm of the mind to never lie about it (and I also faced this question with my own country of residence, although I'm sure nowhere to the degree that you did, Yommy).

    However, most of the times when I buy a product from an IM'er I have no idea what their country of residence/origin is... and continue not to until they themselves mention it or I see, say, an address at the bottom of an Aweber email. I remember being slightly shocked at watching a video from a great marketer's product I had followed for a long while and realizing the guy had a heavy Russian accent.

    Of course that doesn't solve the Paypal thing, in which you definitely have a challenge, but I think you'd be well to not lie, but not advertise it either - or if you DO advertise it, then make it a selling point somehow as suggested by posters above.
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