I need a Mentor - if anyone is brave enough

I don't really know where to start and if anyone needs a warning - this could be a long post, so don't waste your time reading it unless, like me, you are completely and utterly at a loss as to what to do next.

You have been warned

Many moons ago I bought into an SFI program (which I only found out the other day is still going very strong). I did what I thought was right at the time (we are talking about 7-8 years ago) but I never made a single penny out of it. Having read an awful lot of info on here recently about SFI (or related programs) I think that I maybe just didn't "get it" at the time so missed a big opportunity.

I have recently bought into two programs, Guru Assasin and Money Syphon and I (personally) love the way that Jonny Andrews delivers the info (maybe waffles a bit at times, but I can cope with that). Anyway, as much as I take on board what he is saying, think I am understanding it, want to implement it etc. etc. one thing gets in the way - ME.

I think I have exceeded my download limit for this month (it's never happened before and shows just how much info of Jonny's I have downloaded - I am on a Virgin Dongle here in Menorca - and it is the best thing I have found to date).

I think I have listened and watched/read, virtually everything in these two programs but it never seems to stop, there are always more links to go and read about this, and then that, and then more links within this and that, to go and watch even more info or this and then that - aghhhh. And then this forum (which I love, but am now hooked on the backlink thread).

Please, Jonny, if you are reading this, don't think this is a criticism - it isn't - I love your stuff it just seems that I am incapable of deciding on a course of action and then working through it, without getting diverted by yet more things I could be doing.

I thought I was getting the jist of it and decided on a niche market, one which I was interested in and which I could identify with, and then BOOM, out of nowhere came the realisation that I already had 3 websites and that I should possibly be doing something to utilise what I already had.

The three websites I have are completely different to each other - more by cirumstance then anything. One is a site which advertises local businesses, within a local area in the UK and brings in a monthly income, one is just a "nice site" (it's a long story but I love doing it) and which brings in money now and then but unfortantely doesn't always cover the hosting fees, and the last one is related to what we are doing here in Menorca (pool, garden and property maintenance)- and doesn't bring in anything.

My initial thoughts were to go down the route of affiliate marketing with party accessories (already bought a domain name) which could link in with the "nice" site I currently own and then I started doing keyword searching on East Yorkshire (my paying site) and Menorca (our non-paying site) and then I went and filled up my glass with more wine - thank God it's cheap over here

Then I started really getting into the thread about backlinks and article writing and then BOOM - overload.

I have always worked really hard, at whatever job I have been given, and won't give up - I always believe there is a solution to a problem, and usually I find it, which is what is frustrating me so much at the moment - I need to make some money, is the bottom line, and I seem (in my mind) to have arrived at Spaghetti Junction).

If anyone has managed to get this far and can offer anything in the way of support, advice, ideas, suggestions - you name it. I think that what I really need is someone to provide me with a very clear plan of step by step things to do - will anyone do that?

Is there anyone out there brave enough to mentor me?