Most people live in a level of "comfort" where they get paid just enough to live in a nice house and drive a nice car around. I'm talking about people earning a salary and they have no reason to want to go after something better. Than there are people from the opposite world that isn't comfort, some of these people include Oprah, Jay Z (rapper), motivational speakers like Les Brown or Eric Thomas and people who came from absolutely NOTHING! The difference between some people that came from nothing and became something is because they have the HUNGER for success, they do NOT want to be living in hell there whole lives, they want better!
What I am talking about is HUNGER, if you know what it's like to not eat an entire day, you are hungry. It's the same with success, if you are comfortable at some job that pays you salary and just enough to be what is considered middle class you probably won't have HUNGER as compared to somebody that is coming from much worse circumstances. That hunger will develop into a BURNING DESIRE as mentioned by Napoleon Hill. And with your circumstances you facing today, you do what is necessary for CHANGE not because you want to but because you have no other choice, and when you have that hunger for success, where ALL you want to do is be successful, you WILL succeed. It all starts with a BURNING DESIRE if you don't have it, you will never be able to succeed at any change. You can't "kind of " want it, you go to REALLY want it.
If it takes you changes your lifestyle habits, if it takes you cutting off all your friends, and negative family, if it takes you changing your mindset 120% than do it!. If it takes you going to the gym everyday to get motivated, than do it! Do whatever you can with what you are given each and everyday. Without a HUNGER however you won't be willing to go the EXTRA mile to be successful , you'll be just like everybody else, full of excuses. If you've ever been rock bottom during life, you know how much it sucks. Do you want to live your world full of excuses or do you want to take responsibility? Do you feel you deserve better? If so, the good news it is possible to change your life, but in order for that to happen you must first make the decision you want to CHANGE your life every single day you wake up. Go the extra mile , take that extra step, and NEVER GIVE UP no matter how hard!
Do NOT , I repeat, DO NOT sit and wait for anybody to do anything for you because it won't ever happen! Nothing will fall on your lap! You've got to go and build your own dream. You're desire for success must be bigger than any obstacles you are facing. You have got to be so sick and tired of how things are going for you!
How bad do you want it?