Have you ever met a sociopath?
I think my boss is a sociopath. He makes millions and is very successful but I don't think he has any empathy. It makes me uncomfortable. Have you had any experience with someone like this?
Here are the common traits of a sociopath:
• Lack of empathy - Inability to feel sympathy for others or to understand the emotional consequences of their actions
• Cold, calculating nature - The ability and willingness to use others around them to personal gain
• Shallow emotions - Lack of real emotion in response to events, limited capacity to feel love
• Narcissism - A personality disorder in itself in which the individual feels strong love and admiration toward themselves (often a defense mechanism against deep seated low esteem)
• Grandiose self image - They might see themselves as someone who is superior to others and sometimes even experiences delusions. A sociopath might see themselves as a fitting ruler of a country or even the world, but might also have delusional beliefs such as seeing themselves as a God or having super powers
• Charming - While the sociopath is unable to fully understand the emotions of others, they are capable but rather highly adept at mimicking them and might appear to be charming and normal at first
• High IQ - Often sociopaths will exhibit a high IQ which they can use to manipulate and plan
• Manipulative - Sociopaths use their superficial charm and high IQ to manipulate others to get their ends, and their lack of empathy allows them to do this with no sense of guilt or remorse
• Secretive - Has little need for others and is highly secretive in their actions meaning
• Sexually deviant - The lack of remorse, guilt or emotional attachments means that the sociopath is happy to have affairs and to engage in questionable sexual activity without questioning their desires
• Sensitive to criticism - That said, like all narcissists, the sociopath will desire the approval of others and will be highly sensitive to criticisms. They often feel they deserve adulation and admiration of the world and might feel victimized
• Paranoid - Often their lack of understanding of emotion along with their incongruous self view means that they feel a lack of trust and paranoia
• Despotic/Authoritarian - Often the sociopath will see themselves as a necessary authority and will be in favor or totalitarian rule
• Lawfulness - Despite popular belief, a sociopath is not likely to be a problem to the law in later life, but rather will seek to find loopholes, to rise to a position of power, or to move to another area so that their behavior is tolerated
• Low tolerance for boredom - Sociopaths require constant stimulation and get quickly bored
• Impulsive behavior - A lack of regret and empathy means makes sociopaths more likely to make sudden rash decisions based on the current facts
• Compulsive lying - As part of their facade, and as a means to an end, sociopaths are compulsive liars and will rarely speak truthfully making them hard to pin down
Here are the common traits of a sociopath:
• Lack of empathy - Inability to feel sympathy for others or to understand the emotional consequences of their actions
• Cold, calculating nature - The ability and willingness to use others around them to personal gain
• Shallow emotions - Lack of real emotion in response to events, limited capacity to feel love
• Narcissism - A personality disorder in itself in which the individual feels strong love and admiration toward themselves (often a defense mechanism against deep seated low esteem)
• Grandiose self image - They might see themselves as someone who is superior to others and sometimes even experiences delusions. A sociopath might see themselves as a fitting ruler of a country or even the world, but might also have delusional beliefs such as seeing themselves as a God or having super powers
• Charming - While the sociopath is unable to fully understand the emotions of others, they are capable but rather highly adept at mimicking them and might appear to be charming and normal at first
• High IQ - Often sociopaths will exhibit a high IQ which they can use to manipulate and plan
• Manipulative - Sociopaths use their superficial charm and high IQ to manipulate others to get their ends, and their lack of empathy allows them to do this with no sense of guilt or remorse
• Secretive - Has little need for others and is highly secretive in their actions meaning
• Sexually deviant - The lack of remorse, guilt or emotional attachments means that the sociopath is happy to have affairs and to engage in questionable sexual activity without questioning their desires
• Sensitive to criticism - That said, like all narcissists, the sociopath will desire the approval of others and will be highly sensitive to criticisms. They often feel they deserve adulation and admiration of the world and might feel victimized
• Paranoid - Often their lack of understanding of emotion along with their incongruous self view means that they feel a lack of trust and paranoia
• Despotic/Authoritarian - Often the sociopath will see themselves as a necessary authority and will be in favor or totalitarian rule
• Lawfulness - Despite popular belief, a sociopath is not likely to be a problem to the law in later life, but rather will seek to find loopholes, to rise to a position of power, or to move to another area so that their behavior is tolerated
• Low tolerance for boredom - Sociopaths require constant stimulation and get quickly bored
• Impulsive behavior - A lack of regret and empathy means makes sociopaths more likely to make sudden rash decisions based on the current facts
• Compulsive lying - As part of their facade, and as a means to an end, sociopaths are compulsive liars and will rarely speak truthfully making them hard to pin down
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