You Get In Life What You Believe You Deserve 

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You Get In Life What You Believe You Deserve !!!

I truly believe its time for me to unchain the beliefs thats had me stuck on a level. I plan on going to the local score mentoring program for advice.

But for warriors, I plan to outsource fb ad lead generation but how do I increase my confidence level to believe I deserve to acquire my first offline client?
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  • Profile picture of the author GordonJ
    Originally Posted by JeffDC89 View Post

    You Get In Life What You Believe You Deserve !!!

    I truly believe its time for me to unchain the beliefs thats had me stuck on a level. I plan on going to the local score mentoring program for advice.

    But for warriors, I plan to outsource fb ad lead generation but how do I increase my confidence level to believe I deserve to acquire my first offline client?
    What will you be offering?

    I believe I deserve a ton of money for all my WF answers, alas, I haven't gotten what I believe I deserve.

    What service or product do you see yourself offering off line and what do you expect from S.C.O.R.E.?

    And what FB ads do you plan to outsource, why can't you do them?

    GordonJ
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    • Profile picture of the author JeffDC89
      Originally Posted by GordonJ View Post

      What will you be offering?

      I believe I deserve a ton of money for all my WF answers, alas, I haven't gotten what I believe I deserve.

      What service or product do you see yourself offering off line and what do you expect from S.C.O.R.E.?

      And what FB ads do you plan to outsource, why can't you do them?

      GordonJ
      You want to know the truth, I haven't learned everything a to z yet, therefore i haven't taken action. I haven't finished the courses i purchased, I haven't finished the website, to be even more honest I really don't know the first step. Its like i keep going around on this merry go round hoping my first client magically appear,

      I was thinking S.C.O.R.E could help fix some habits holding me back.

      This is why i posted on this mind warrior forum. I've been reading about fb ads for local businesses along time now man. I need to get my piece of the pie before 2018 ends whatever its going to take
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      • Profile picture of the author GordonJ
        Originally Posted by JeffDC89 View Post

        You want to know the truth, I haven't learned everything a to z yet, therefore i haven't taken action. I haven't finished the courses i purchased, I haven't finished the website, to be even more honest I really don't know the first step. Its like i keep going around on this merry go round hoping my first client magically appear,

        I was thinking S.C.O.R.E could help fix some habits holding me back.

        This is why i posted on this mind warrior forum. I've been reading about fb ads for local businesses along time now man. I need to get my piece of the pie before 2018 ends whatever its going to take
        The first step to take is...

        make a map. It can be a literal map from Google, type in your zip code or area, and print out a map of your area. Then put a big red X on it and an arrow which says, "I am here".

        Next to that, right your avg income for the last 3 years, and for the last 3 months. This is where you are AT.

        Now where do you want to go? Are you happy or OK with your LOCATION? Want to be somewhere else? Where?

        Want more income? How much? Knowing you have to exchange value to get it, what do you have to exchange?

        There is never a good launch time, where the stars align and you know A to Z what to do, because SHIT happens along the way, or if your prefer, LIFE happens, and your perfect plan and time are assaulted by reality.

        You appear to want to make some money from Facebook ads by ???? selling them to local businesses, eh? Well you already have the map pulled up, Identify the nearest business and expand out and do some HOMEWORK, see if any are using FACEBOOK or other social media ads. Do they have a Facebook page, you might start there, once you learn how to do something.

        But all of anything you do, has to come after you decide what you WANT, BECAUSE without that, you are destined to spin your wheels, going in circles and a year, two or three from now you'll be exactly at that Big Red X where you are today.

        So first step, know what direction to take that step in. Location, financial, relationships, mental and spiritual area you want to get to. OK?

        GordonJ
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    • Profile picture of the author luciesmazanska
      What works for me is:
      Believe + create the right habits + hard work = success in every aspect of life you will choose!
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      • Profile picture of the author OptedIn
        Originally Posted by luciesmazanska View Post

        What works for me is:
        Believe + create the right habits + hard work = success in every aspect of life you will choose!
        So - you're saying that is your formula for moving through life and by applying it you have never failed at anything?

        More delusion.
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  • Profile picture of the author ryanbiddulph
    Hi Jeff,

    For me, it's always been a clarity thing. Like I get clear when I feel and release fears in certain areas, then success gradually flows in. I feared selling my flagship eBook for years. But feeling fears associated with selling it cleared the fears, and I began promoting the thing in a billion spots, and sold more.

    Meditation and deep yin yoga are 2 practices that helped expand my awareness, so I could feel the fears and release.
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    • Profile picture of the author JeffDC89
      Originally Posted by ryanbiddulph View Post

      Hi Jeff,

      For me, it's always been a clarity thing. Like I get clear when I feel and release fears in certain areas, then success gradually flows in. I feared selling my flagship eBook for years. But feeling fears associated with selling it cleared the fears, and I began promoting the thing in a billion spots, and sold more.

      Meditation and deep yin yoga are 2 practices that helped expand my awareness, so I could feel the fears and release.
      I know this may sound crazy, but what does feeling the fears do? How does it help overcome a obstacle?
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  • Profile picture of the author OptedIn
    Originally Posted by JeffDC89 View Post

    But for warriors, I plan to outsource fb ad lead generation but how do I increase my confidence level to believe I deserve to acquire my first offline client?
    Seriously? You're looking to other to answer this question for you? Only you know what's standing in your way.

    Stop listening to people who only love to hear themselves talk and try to validate their own sad existence by continuously doing so, but offering absolutely nothing of value.

    These people cannot help you.
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  • Profile picture of the author dana67
    Originally Posted by JeffDC89 View Post

    You Get In Life What You Believe You Deserve !!!
    I don't disagree with this, but you also get out of life what you put into it. Success takes time and effort.
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  • Profile picture of the author Rose Anderson
    Taking action and achieving small successes will build your self-confidence more than mind tricks.

    Do something. Offer something of value and help someone. Work with a local non-profit to gain experience.

    When things don't work out figure out what went wrong and do better the next time.

    This isn't doing magic or living in dreamland. It's the real world where you do something -- see if it works -- then do it better the next time.

    S.C.O.R.E. can be a helpful place to ask questions and learn. Have your questions ready in advance. Don't expect them to tell you step by step what to do. Go in with your plan ready and ask for their suggestions on how to improve on it.

    Why not do some FB lead generation to your own offer?

    You get what you work for more than what you "deserve". IMO

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  • Profile picture of the author Odahh
    Originally Posted by JeffDC89 View Post

    You Get In Life What You Believe You Deserve !!!

    I truly believe its time for me to unchain the beliefs thats had me stuck on a level. I plan on going to the local score mentoring program for advice.

    But for warriors, I plan to outsource fb ad lead generation but how do I increase my confidence level to believe I deserve to acquire my first offline client?
    what does deserving have to do with this .. only time deserving comes into it is after you get the client and deliver the work you promised .. at the point you deserve to get paid ..
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  • Profile picture of the author Frank Donovan
    Originally Posted by JeffDC89 View Post

    You Get In Life What You Believe You Deserve !!!

    entitled
    /ɪnˈtʌɪt(ə)ld/ adjective
    believing oneself to be inherently deserving of privileges or special treatment.

    [https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/entitled]



    Yes, I thought I recognized the definition.
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    • Originally Posted by Frank Donovan View Post

      entitled
      /ɪnˈtʌɪt(ə)ld/ adjective
      believing oneself to be inherently deserving of privileges or special treatment.
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      hoobris
      /ˈhoooooːbrɪss/
      noun
      excessive pride or self-confidence, typically manifesting itself as an OTT pollyanna approach to life that blunt reality would prefer to term IYF assholery.

      Thing is, as a Princess, I am well accustomed to bein' promised so much -- merely for packin' a bling-encrusted tiara.

      So I would wanna figure as an expert in this area.

      Thing that bugs me most 'bout gettin' what I deserve?

      I bought a real neat Egyptian rug for my apartment over the Summer an' it is already buried six inches deep in squished frog corpses.

      Tellya, them metamorphosed prince guys will naht leave me alone!

      Back in the day, I was flattered by alla the regal amphibian attention, but I got so careworn now I don't even hear the massed croaky chorus gowin' Kiss Me! Kiss Me! Kiss Me!

      I jus' throw on my deadliest heels an' go stomp for 20 minutes.

      It is not too romantic, I know -- but in addition to bein' allurin' beyond compare an' kinda gobshitey, we Princesses're also annoyingly practical.


      Plus also, I got class, an' hate it when anywan pulls tongues too early in the smoochie ...
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  • Profile picture of the author OptedIn
    Originally Posted by JeffDC89

    You Get In Life What You Believe You Deserve !!!


    Really? That's a fact? So, then - I can assume that Santa will be delivering my new Rolls-Royce, my Victoria's Secret supermodel and that $750M winning lottery ticket?

    Good to know. I think I'll take the rest of the month, off.
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  • Profile picture of the author spartan14
    This its the best thing said ,thats way so many people dont succed online because their subconstient mind sop them to achieve succes . Its an inportant word said by someone mindset its everithing
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    • Profile picture of the author OptedIn
      Originally Posted by spartan14 View Post

      mindset its everithing
      Mindset is important. It is far from, 'everything.'
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  • Profile picture of the author Highest And Best
    You asked:

    how do I increase my confidence level to believe I deserve to acquire my first offline client?

    Beliefs are formed through repetition. If you tell yourself something enough times (or if someone else tells you, or if your society tells you), then you will begin to believe it.

    When you wake up in the morning, tell yourself (out loud): "I deserve to acquire my first, of many, offline clients!"
    And say it with conviction.

    Also, write it down and paste it to your mirror. Doing things like this will remind you, and that becomes repetitive.

    -Scott


    PS: Jeff, YOU deserve to acquire many offline clients!
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    • Profile picture of the author Frank Donovan
      Originally Posted by Highest And Best View Post

      Beliefs are formed through repetition.
      Nope. Habits are formed through repetition. Beliefs are formed through experience, indoctrination or wishful thinking.

      Believing you deserve something without first having done something to merit that belief is called entitlement.

      Or self-delusion.
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      • Profile picture of the author OptedIn
        Originally Posted by Frank Donovan View Post

        Nope. Habits are formed through repetition.
        Thank you. I was going to post that, but for once I read the entire thread. It's simply unbelievable the misconceptions that people subscribe to and believe to be fact.
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        • Profile picture of the author Odahh
          Originally Posted by OptedIn View Post

          Thank you. I was going to post that, but for once I read the entire thread. It's simply unbelievable the misconceptions that people subscribe to and believe to be fact.
          well it is a misconception that people chose what to believe based of facts... looking around it seems the more common thing is to catch a belief then search and chose a list of facts that back up that belief.

          that the world we live in ..or if you want i can find a list of fact to back up the belief i just posted .. but really can't do it without mentioning politics . in more detail than i mention anywhere .
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      • Profile picture of the author Highest And Best
        Originally Posted by Frank Donovan View Post

        Nope. Habits are formed through repetition. Beliefs are formed through experience, indoctrination or wishful thinking.

        Believing you deserve something without first having done something to merit that belief is called entitlement.

        Or self-delusion.
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        Yes, beliefs can be formed through experience - but if you are not yet living that experience, then you need to find a different way to develop those beliefs.


        It's true that beliefs can be formed through wishful thinking, but its also true that beliefs can be formed through any thinking. If you think about something enough, you will begin to believe it. Repetition of a thought will lead to a belief. You can control your thoughts, and a belief is just a thought you keep thinking.


        Entitlement is the belief that you deserve something without merit AND that someone else should be providing it to you. I am not talking about entitlement. I am talking about believing you deserve something (whatever it is) and that YOU are responsible for making it happen. You need to believe it first though.
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        • Profile picture of the author Odahh
          Originally Posted by Highest And Best View Post

          Yes, beliefs can be formed through experience - but if you are not yet living that experience, then you need to find a different way to develop those beliefs.


          It's true that beliefs can be formed through wishful thinking, but its also true that beliefs can be formed through any thinking. If you think about something enough, you will begin to believe it. Repetition of a thought will lead to a belief. You can control your thoughts, and a belief is just a thought you keep thinking.


          Entitlement is the belief that you deserve something without merit AND that someone else should be providing it to you. I am not talking about entitlement. I am talking about believing you deserve something (whatever it is) and that YOU are responsible for making it happen. You need to believe it first though.
          the great part of being crazy .. or willing to admit i am crazy .. is when the discussion of beliefs comes up.. in my crazy mind .. i wonder why do es every leave out the role marketing has in the bulk of belief formation .. if you want better belief expose yourself to marketing or design the marketing that gives you better beliefs .. and be on guard when other marketing tries to install crappy beliefs
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          • Profile picture of the author Jeffery
            Originally Posted by Odahh View Post

            the great part of being crazy .. or willing to admit i am crazy .. is when the discussion of beliefs comes up.. in my crazy mind .. i wonder why do es every leave out the role marketing has in the bulk of belief formation .. if you want better belief expose yourself to marketing or design the marketing that gives you better beliefs .. and be on guard when other marketing tries to install crappy beliefs

            Some of us refer to it as "Do your due diligence."
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        • Profile picture of the author Frank Donovan
          Originally Posted by Highest And Best View Post

          Entitlement is the belief that you deserve something without merit AND that someone else should be providing it to you. I am not talking about entitlement. I am talking about believing you deserve something (whatever it is) and that YOU are responsible for making it happen. You need to believe it first though.
          Check out the definition of entitlement again - nothing in there about someone else providing it for you. This isn't to do with personal responsibility - it's the use of the term "deserve" simply because one happens to exist on the planet that reeks of entitlement.

          "You deserve" is a staple doctrine of the false-hope-peddlers that populate the self-help industry because its pseudo-egalitarian undertones suggest that everyone's "rightful" rewards are out there waiting for them to claim if only they'd believe. And, of course, invest in this book/course/seminar.
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          • Profile picture of the author Claude Whitacre
            Originally Posted by Frank Donovan View Post

            "You deserve" is a staple doctrine of the false-hope-peddlers that populate the self-help industry
            Hey...........HEY!

            As a false hope peddler myself, I take offence at your remarks.

            I hit them with the Power Towers of false hope..

            "You deserve success, just the way you are"
            "It's not your fault. Nothing about you has to change".
            "I have identified the one problem that is holding you back"
            "Only I can fix it"

            I cry myself to sleep every night because I know the real damage I'm causing to my minion's chances at success....

            But I refuse to let anyone in The Caravan take my False Hope Peddler job.
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          • Profile picture of the author Jeffery
            Originally Posted by Frank Donovan View Post

            Check out the definition of entitlement again - nothing in there about someone else providing it for you. This isn't to do with personal responsibility - it's the use of the term "deserve" simply because one happens to exist on the planet that reeks of entitlement.

            "You deserve" is a staple doctrine of the false-hope-peddlers that populate the self-help industry because its pseudo-egalitarian undertones suggest that everyone's "rightful" rewards are out there waiting for them to claim if only they'd believe. And, of course, invest in this book/course/seminar.
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            Never has a truer word been spoken.


            In one of my lines of business (customer service) we run into it daily. Late this past year I monitored 100 customer service calls daily for 5 days. 65% of the calls were callers that expressed "entitlement" issues. I use the term "issues" because there were different people with different issues.


            The greater majority of the issues was not able to pay their bill. The issues were mainly loss of employment or simply unseen financial constraints. The greater majority of the callers expressed they were entitled to an arrangement (solution) because they were a paying member and if an arrangement could not be reached they would take their business elsewhere.


            Long story short, I ad-hocked the data up the chain and later discovered "self-entitlement" was the #1 reason for the greater majority of all customer support issues.


            And this is a Fortune 500 company that maintains a lot of data.


            And this company is getting out of the business.
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            • Profile picture of the author Claude Whitacre
              Originally Posted by Jeffery View Post

              The greater majority of the callers expressed they were entitled to an arrangement (solution) because they were a paying member and if an arrangement could not be reached they would take their business elsewhere.

              The ultimate threat...

              "I can't pay you what I owe you. If you don't allow me to keep getting your service without paying you...I'll take my "I won't pay you" business to someone who doesn't expect me to pay".

              Humans.
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              • Profile picture of the author Jeffery
                Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

                The ultimate threat...

                "I can't pay you what I owe you. If you don't allow me to keep getting your service without paying you...I'll take my "I won't pay you" business to someone who doesn't expect me to pay".

                Humans.

                Exactly. Since that was one of the most common I implemented policy wherein customer support specialists transferred the customer to a higher team that politely informed the customer that after x amount of negative payment arrangement transactions account cancellation process would systematically proceed and no company manager could stop it and pointed the customer to the T&C.


                There was an immediate decrease of entitlement issues when spouses realized "You have to pay your bill." LOL


                I always give another person kudos for trying to do the right thing and will bend over backwards. Unless the companies kindness is taken for weakness.


                Now that this Mega Company is getting out of the business and the existing customers will have to either stay at a higher cost or leave at a higher cost.. well I don't know what will happen. I do know my services will be in higher demand though.
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              • Profile picture of the author OptedIn
                Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

                The ultimate threat...

                "I can't pay you what I owe you. If you don't allow me to keep getting your service without paying you...I'll take my "I won't pay you" business to someone who doesn't expect me to pay".

                Low-lifes.
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    • Originally Posted by Highest And Best View Post

      Beliefs are formed through repetition.
      Like plenty other real srs contributors said so far ... what you proposin' here is SLAVERY.

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      till whatevah is gowin' down don't mean nuthin' bcs we all forgot what we frickin' dowin'.
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  • Profile picture of the author KIORTY
    It`s only left for me to hope for my deserving a cool car for Xmas )
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  • Profile picture of the author Kay King
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    I think you read the fairy tale upside down again.

    it is already buried six inches deep in squished frog corpses.
    The story says 'kiss' the frog - not 'kill' the frog. As we know it takes a LOT of frogs....no need to decimate frog colonies looking for your transitional froggy.
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  • Profile picture of the author Daniel Evans
    Originally Posted by JeffDC89 View Post

    You Get In Life What You Believe You Deserve !!!

    I think, if this were true, a lot of people would be living in castles and palaces.


    The fundamental error in peoples thinking is assuming that we deserve more than the next person, who is ultimately no different from ourselves. The only true difference is drive.


    I think the best philosophy is; we get in life what we are initially served...and then we get out of life the dividends of what we put in.
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    • Profile picture of the author tagiscom
      Originally Posted by Daniel Evans View Post

      I think, if this were true, a lot of people would be living in castles and palaces.

      The fundamental error in peoples thinking is assuming that we deserve more than the next person, who is ultimately no different from ourselves. The only true difference is drive.

      I think the best philosophy is; we get in life what we are initially served...and then we get out of life the dividends of what we put in.
      True, we are all the same, although we put a movie star on a soapbox, (just an unnecessarily side affect of seeing them in movies, and seeing their next luxury home, and how much they paid for it).

      Some pay out excessive sums of money to touch the hem, and find out that there is no hem, and talking to a wealthy person, who seemed to get lucky was a waste of cash.

      There are a lot of false misconceptions around success, and wealth in general and the ones who are, they are not demogods, just highly driven individuals who knew what they wanted and wouldn't stop for anything.

      Most people wouldn't or won't risk everything for a shot at success, and you could argue that the ones that do, and succeed had dump luck on their side, although having a better understanding about life and their place in it, is more likely.

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    • Profile picture of the author Odahh
      Originally Posted by Daniel Evans View Post

      I think, if this were true, a lot of people would be living in castles and palaces.


      The fundamental error in peoples thinking is assuming that we deserve more than the next person, who is ultimately no different from ourselves. The only true difference is drive.


      I think the best philosophy is; we get in life what we are initially served...and then we get out of life the dividends of what we put in.
      oh the are so many more differences than drive.. the fundamental problem is we compare ourselves to others using a very small list of variables .. that usually leaves out the factors that really matter.. or inadequacy measures what other have ..

      it is with these horrible comparison that we come up with the false ideas of fair or unfair .. or who deserves what .

      this is the root of unhappiness in the majority of people.. people who have more than 99.99 percent of all humans that have ever lived .. and comparing themselves with a handful of others who look like they have more..

      so you have 23 year old angry because 60+ year old are so much richer than them.. and the world is unfair and they deserve more ..when they have yet to do anything
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  • Profile picture of the author visimedia
    maybe you can gradually work on bigger things, by starting small, stack on successes,, you'll know then that you can do it, with proof
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  • Profile picture of the author Zachary S
    You dont deserve shit, you earn it through your efforts.
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  • Profile picture of the author chuckholmes
    I agree with you to some point. You do have to get your thinking right, but lots of people think they deserve astronomical things, even though they won't change or put in the work. I think success really boils down to having clearly defined goals, a solid game-plan and a relentless hustle. Without those three things, not much else really matters. Just my two cents.
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    • Profile picture of the author Jeffery
      Originally Posted by chuckholmes View Post

      I agree with you to some point. You do have to get your thinking right, but lots of people think they deserve astronomical things, even though they won't change or put in the work. I think success really boils down to having clearly defined goals, a solid game-plan and a relentless hustle. Without those three things, not much else really matters. Just my two cents.

      I'll add a fourth.. Focus. Stick to and stay with what works before any thoughts of moving onto the next big thing, otherwise success may not be continuous.
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  • Profile picture of the author hardraysnight
    dear santa

    i deserve a slot car for xmas

    i have been very good
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  • Profile picture of the author digital55
    You can increase your confidence by taking action and learning as you go. The better you develop your skills, the more comfortable you will be and the more confidence you will have.
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  • Profile picture of the author surfer30
    I agree with ryanbiddulph

    Fear kills dreams, fear stops you from selling more. If you invest in your mind and get a mentor to show you the way you deserve you achieve More. Tony Robbins says. What stops you from achivement. I thin the answers in " money master the game" Its a Good book.

    Read a lot everyday to program your mind.
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    • Profile picture of the author OptedIn
      Originally Posted by surfer30 View Post

      Tony Robbins says.
      Nothing worth paying any attention to. He's a huckster.
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      "He not busy being born, is busy dying." - Bob Dylan • "I vibe with the light-dark point. Heavy." - Words that Bob Dylan wishes he had written.

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    • Profile picture of the author Daniel Evans
      Originally Posted by surfer30 View Post

      Tony Robbins says. What stops you from achivement. I thin the answers in " money master the game" Its a Good book.

      I've always been inspired by an anon quote:

      'What prevents one from prosthetically projecting, feeling the compulsion to verbally abuse people and assault women, is refraining from indulging in anabolic steroids which one and one's thyroid gland cannot handle. By doing so, true confidence, person and voice is established.'


      I think it's Confucius...
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      • Profile picture of the author OptedIn
        Originally Posted by Daniel Evans View Post

        I think it's Confucius...
        I think it's confusing!
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        "He not busy being born, is busy dying." - Bob Dylan • "I vibe with the light-dark point. Heavy." - Words that Bob Dylan wishes he had written.

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      • Profile picture of the author GordonJ
        Originally Posted by Daniel Evans View Post

        I've always been inspired by an anon quote:

        'What prevents one from prosthetically projecting, feeling the compulsion to verbally abuse people and assault women, is refraining from indulging in anabolic steroids which one and one's thyroid gland cannot handle. By doing so, true confidence, person and voice is established.'


        I think it's Confucius...
        Another inspirational quote;

        "The luminous gas lit up the exit on the information superhighway within the matrix of the ones and zeroes, and many weary travelers escaped from the speeding to nowhere...and saw the path, a brick illusion through the infested swamp, and followed it, only to be consumed by the quicksand of the blind warriors,

        leading the blind through

        the TWILITE ZONE". Rod Sterling.
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    Yes, you are right.
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  • Profile picture of the author Jamel Hassell
    You have to put the time and effort in day in day out.The habit is the action so therfore i urge you to get into the habit of prioritizing your goals.Action breeds results regardless of if you fail or succeed.So the key take away here is to suit you words into action because doubt and procrastination hinders growth.Get into the habit of manifesting .
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  • Profile picture of the author hardraysnight
    Re: You Get In Life What You Believe You Deserve 

    so i can now explain climate change
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