Need advice!I struggle to make something with my life...

Ok fine what would you need to earn per month in USD terms to have a good life in Romania.

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Hi Paul,

Fear is the problem buddy. Go inside a quiet room. Relax. Allow yourself to feel whatever you fear, but, what you resist. Money problems, pro problems, all problems and struggles, feed on your deep fears that you bury and feel. Once you feel these energies - crying, etc - you release deep fears, feel better, and will attract prospering ideas. From there, acting on prospering ideas feels easier and you will be on the right track to succeed.

First advise is to work between Friday to Saturday; most of us, have to work, hard for up to 10 hours per day to get anywhere online.

And l have tried a lot of things online and overall, failed. Or spent the last 10 years at it and failed. Typically putting up to 10 hours per day on most days at it, with a few hours off every few days to prevent burnout.

If l had just done this one day a week, it would have taken me 50 years to get to where l presently am.

Fiverr is a good place to start if you want to try freelancing again, or not much money, but the potential to make more is there.


And l am presently doing online trading, with promising results so far. And that only takes about 15 minutes during the day and an hour or more during the night, (NYSE, 11.30 pm, AU time).

But that is only because l spent the last year reading several books about online trading, and also tried several different trading platforms, and learned everything l could online....

Wow what a convenient religion.

Ain't no Capital city on the planet squirtin' liquid horseshit ... but most Capital cities got fountains.

Why in hell is that?

Surely you can get water outta your faucet anytime?

Ain't no reason you gotta dance naked in the Superjuicy with a whole buncha othah people jus' bcs friendly aliens landed, or Despotsassernation-4-U trashed a whole buncha evil regimes c/o Third World moms donatin' their shoes, or the signs say THIS IS 100% GUARANTEED NOT ACID .... REPEAT: NOT ACID.

As a Princess, the entitlement of exotica mebbe forbids me from speakin' sooper trooly (though FFS I would wanna quibble on a philosophical level 'bout the meanin' of "dream curtains" if''n they hangin' up in all 607 rooms of the prison says you ain't gowin' noplace sistah till Mom & Dad find you a Prince ain't gonna trash their reputation).

All I know is, all permutations lead to circumstance, but circumstance don't mean ZERO PERMUTATIONS.

*Princess permits self a metaphorical tear, hopin' sumone actschwlly gonna weep. If'n this is a lottery, plz can I move Benedict Cumberbatch steada no business tycoon, cos those guys only wanna feel your boobies till either they sated, or they kill 'emselves bcs JAIL.*

It's entirely possible to run just about any kind of business (online or offline) and be closed on the weekends.

In no way is this keeping you from being a success online.

My advice? Find someone who is in a business, and ask them if they will teach you their business, while you work for them. In a year or so, you'll be able to open a business of your own, and not make most of the mistakes new business owners make.

I respect your views on religion but you can still try making money online even if you won't work Friday-Saturday. You can maximize the other days trying to earn money.

If you're still willing to work as a programmer, there are many "programming for amateurs" online which goes long ways.

I can understand your struggle.

The problem we have in our country, and I say that from experience, is the fact we have a limited view of our possibilities. It's very common here that people are shackled by their own limiting beliefs and they perpetuate the same thing around them.

Your problem doesn't stem from the lack of possibilities, your problem is your mind and how it thinks you can't do anything.

Before you can achieve ANYTHING worthwhile, you need to work on your mind. Your potential is unlimited, but if you don't realize it, you will always live in this mental prison that makes you do nothing, and therefore have nothing.

You have what is called learned helplessness, which is the same horrible psychological thing they use to train animals at Circus. Basically, you think you can't do something, so you don't even try. Not trying it gives zero results, and that makes you believe even stronger that you can't, and the circle goes on and on.

Unless you escape your learned helplessness, there are very small chances to achieve anything. But once you do, you will start gaining momentum and make things happen for you.

Fortunately, you have the power of choice, so escaping learned helplessness is very achievable once you decide to do it.

After you worked on your mind and started expanding it (read some Jim Rohn, Dale Carnegie, Napoleon Hill, Zig Ziglar, and Robert Kiyosaki just to reset your mindset, because what you read is what you become), you need to find a worthwhile goal.

Making more money is not a worthwhile goal. That's not exciting and soul-driving enough, especially if you believe in God. A worthwhile goal will be something that you can offer to the world. Something that will make a difference.

I don't know what your passion is, that is for you to find out. Programming, writing, designing, marketing, and any other skill-trade can be seen as an important role in society.

You help people get something they want, even if that is a software or a good product, and by helping them you get awarded.


"You will get all you want in life, if you help enough other people get what they want." - Zig Ziglar

For example, I help people make real the book of their dreams or drive more sales to their business.

"We get paid for bringing value to the marketplace." - Jim Rohn


Once you find your mission or passion, then you can start practicing that. At that point, you start learning from people that excel on that niche and do what they've done, until you will do it on your unique way.

That's about it. Good luck, and go work hard if you want to see results!

What you program your mind with is the results you'll have.

I cut ties with my former despicable self and now i gaze to a new horizon of the promise land.

Many People try to make money online however the ones that succeed keep trying.

Sometimes that means learning something from "failure." You actually have more time than you realize. For example something I learned from John Assaraf is the value of an hour. Bascially: If you invest just one hour each day working at IM (etc.) ... You will accumlate the equivalent of 9 40-hour weeks over the course of a year. That can be some good time invested.

And like King Manu said consider working on "The Inner Game" of success.

HTH.

P.S.
On the "Religion" note, I think your Creator would love you to make the most of yourself ... Because when you do that, you can help more People. (Just my opinion.)

After struggle what happens? More struggle.

You've slithered into a loop and like most a labyrinth.

To get out of the loop (endless continuum), get directions.

The answers are found within and hidden in plain sight.

In life you have to read between the lines and listen
when opportunity pounds on your door. Just choose your
story-line. I recommend that you implement guided imagery,
a priceless technique that trains the mind how to think
optimally and counter-attack the matrix.

Blake.

Today must be an off day for me as I understand and mostly agree with what you wrote .

People struggle and suffer not solely because of their attachments to what they desire . But but because they are attached to proving themselves worthy for what they desire .. with struggle and suffering .

Let's say the op need only to make 1000 euros or somewhere around 1200 USD a month to have the lifestyle he wants in Romania .

Finds a way to earn that in two days of work a month and chooses to work 4 days a month so he actually can have a far better lifestyle than he planned on at the start.

Oh real life example the 16 year old who earned 3 million dollars winning the fortnight world cup a few weeks ago. Who doesn't get out of bed untill noontime on weekends and non school days .

There are many people horrified and outraged .

And there are probbaly many others telling to use 400,000 of that to go to school and get a good degree to get a good job . Making 75,000 a year working 60 hours a week

There are first times for everything.

These two things that Gordon and Jess said...if you hold yourself back from succeeding based on a weekly 24-48hr period of time of not being able to work (an EXCUSE), then you're right, you won't succeed.

You have skills that you don't realize you have that you could be applying in the other 120-144 hours of the week that you have at your disposal.

Don't make excuses. Find a way around them because there are many people who are dreaming to be in a position like yours and cannot be for other reasons.

We all have our own unique obstacles to overcome. Anyone can learn the technical aspects of any skill. It's the other 1000 unique circumstances that make or break us.

Something else I would add is that it's important that you don't view yourself as someone who "fails" and "struggles". In the past I thought of myself as a "failure" (etc.) ... And so that's how I would intepret events in my Life.
Decide to see yourself as someone who takes action ― like you have been doing ― and that succeeds.

As I've said before:
"You can learn something from everything that happens to you".

Analyse your "failures" and learn something from them. Usually People don't succeed at IM on their first attempt: They have to keep learning and taking action. Which actually makes their success even greater. A book you may find helpful is "Psycho-Cybernetics" (By Maxwell Maltz). Essentially it's about creating a strong/successful self-image.

Seems like a consistent pattern here, or me also. I was friends with the highest person in primary, and that was friends one week, enemy's the next, but friends overall.

Then after that High School, or the first few years where fine, then the older girls gang started, picking on me, for reasons unknown.

And they said l couldn't report it, or they would ramp it up.

So l put up with trolling, bitchy women, (which where substantially bigger or taller than me) for about three years, (picking on me, throwing my school bag down the hall, etc) til l snapped, and didn't give a s***t about the consequences and went to the principal.

Thankfully on this day they were in trouble about something else, so the principal gave them two doses of reality, or they would be thrown out if they went after me or the other thing, (smoking on school grounds l think).

Unfortunately they started to pick on one of my best friends, and he couldn't take that and left that school, unfortunately.

I tended to spent more and more time at lunchtime in the computer room to get away from any more of this crap.

Then spent two years after high school, in art and design colleges, which didn't have this nonsense.

So what did l learn, mainly not to tolerate bullying anymore!

Bullying wasn't the worst thing about school. Classroom style education is not the way I learn all that well . I had high inteligence .not genius . But still .

So I had learning disabilities that where not diagnosed . Couldn't play sports because I was just uncoridinated . And so much of the crap that has gone on in my life . Was because I was not able to unlock and apply my intellect .

And it has only been in the last few years the tools I need to learn best have been available.

Knowing my learning process I can cut out much of the extra crap . That is added in tosliw learning down

Bro, just never give up and keep going! The ones who work hard and smart always get what they want, just do not stop!

Failure is always the ladder for success. Even Thomas Edison successfully invented the light bulb after 1000 failures. Keep going.

Agreed someone should only take so much crap before they fight back, regardless of whether it is a disability or an individual.

And eventhough l currently have the flu, l can still help out here and clean out spammers when needed.

True, but it was also a financial risk, or he was doing it to make a profit. That is something Tesla, (his friend) didn't get til later on.