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What Drives You?

If you are attempting to build your own web-based or home-based business for the first time or, maybe you have been struggling for quite some time and cannot figure out why things just don't seem to be coming together, you need to be clear about what drives you.

We are driven by our motivations and aspirations. Sometimes our motivation is something that we are running from (fear), like being able to quit our job or pay off debts. Other times our motivations are something we are running to (hope), like leaving a legacy, being financially independent or time freedom.

Generally speaking, acheiving a hopeful goal will be more fulfilling in the long term. Accomplishing a fearful goal will make you happy at that moment in time but, sooner or later, the fear becomes a distant memory and the motivation loses it's luster. Quite often it is fear that motivates us to consider change, and the hope is what ultimately pulls us through.

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This is an excerpt from one of my recent blog posts.
You can view the full post here:
http://themlmexpediter.com/blog/what-drives-you/

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  • Profile picture of the author Danielle_B
    That's a great article and I wholeheartedly concur. Thank you for sharing!

    ~D.
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  • Profile picture of the author Norma Holt
    First of all welcome to the forum.

    My driving force is my knowledge that I share with others who have less information about things than I do. Building websites and getting online was a side effect of this, consequently I am driven by a force beyond my control. It is called PASSION.

    Sometimes it wakes me up during the night with ideas flooding my head and the urge to get going desperately trying to get me up at some ungodly hour to work on the computer. It used to work until reality taught me that sleep and rest is more important to completing my tasks than rushing in and belting out anything that comes to mind.

    Thoughts need to be ponded over before they are put down on paper. Over the years you learn that what turns you on may be a put off to others. So what are those you are trying to reach requiring of you? That's my present motivation as I try to put my thoughts into the heads of others with the least amount of friction and argument possible.

    Not everyone thinks as I do and those who have opposing views are entitled to them, although I often can't think of a good reason why? Harmony, honesty and forthright action is the way to go in any walk of life and especially over something as powerful as the Internet.

    The end result is that a lot of time is spent now thinking about why people do the things they do and what are they hoping to achieve. I guess that drove me into looking at Internet marketing as an extension of my experience. It is, however, not the bee all and the end all of my being alive as other things have priority.

    Hope this makes sense and answers your quesiton.
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  • Profile picture of the author tush
    Exploiting my potential to the fullest. I believe I have a potential to achieve many things.. but owning my own business intrigues me. That is what drives me, to own a real bsuiness and show my family what I can do with my life..

    And my passion is in helping people. Every day, I am thinking what I can do to make my team happy.
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    • Profile picture of the author creative
      What drives me?
      Well, making money, having fun, the hope that I can make a living online even through this ecnomical crisis, knowing that someone will benefit from the information I provide in my articles and the products I promote, feeling supported by a community of internet marketers....
      A bit of everything.
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      • Profile picture of the author The MLM Expediter
        Thanks for the thoughtful responses.

        It seems as though we have uncovered a theme here.

        I hope that others will discover this thread and give their own insights.

        The introspective journey can bring either joy or frustration. I suppose it really depends on where you find yourself in relation to where you want to be as opposed to where you are. This idea came to my attention as I studied the underlying principles of Mazlow's Hierarchy Of Needs.

        The basis of Maslow's theory is that human beings are motivated by unsatisfied needs, and that certain lower needs need to be satisfied before higher needs can be satisfied. Per the teaching's of Abraham Maslow, there are general needs (physiological, safety, love, and esteem) which have to be fulfilled before a person is able to act unselfishly. These needs were dubbed "deficiency needs." While a person is motivated to fulfill these basal desires, they continue to move toward growth, and eventually self-actualization. The satisfactions of needs is quite healthy. while preventing their gratification makes us ill or act evilly.
        > Abraham Mazlow - Father Of Modern ManagementÃ"
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        • Profile picture of the author VMac
          It's an interesting question and I suspect for some including me there are two parts to the question.

          The first concerns what drives someone within the context of the society and situation they live in, while the second concerns what drives them as a human being.

          In these days of rush and hurry, I get the feeling that many never really get to contemplate the latter due to an over occupation in dealing with the former.

          In many societies especially westernised ones, personal value often derives from third party validations, which lead people to strive for things which cause other people to view them "positively". While they may achieve this particular kind of "success" which they seek, once it has been achieved, it often may not bring the long-term happiness that many would like to have (re: filmstars, popstars, lotto winners etc)

          I suspect balance is the key but equally perhaps, the hardest thing of all to achieve.
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  • Profile picture of the author TashylaB
    I've been researching IM and affiliate marketing since I was 17. Now 5 years later, I think im ready to get things started and be on my way. My motivation is my daughter. She will be here March 25th 2009 and I want her to have a wonderful life.
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    • Profile picture of the author JSchell
      I was thinking about the drive the other day, and like you eluded to, it is really divided into 2 camps: Camp Fear and Camp Ambition

      My thoughts are that when we are driven by fear we will work very hard, but only hard enough to get away from danger. The results of this hard work are short lived and it is likely tht the same thing may happen again.

      In sharp contrast, when I think about those who are driven by ambition, I almost shutter inside at the thought of how much I know they will accomplish, because they don't have a goal to stop at- theydon't have rules(or very few)- there is nothing to stop them and their hunger will only grow more with each success.

      So I think that if at all possible, when you are feeling motivated by fear, try and shift your focus towards something that really gets you going- your personal passion(s) for instance. I guess these are my thoughts
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      • Profile picture of the author Alethia
        Originally Posted by JSchell View Post

        I was thinking about the drive the other day, and like you eluded to, it is really divided into 2 camps: Camp Fear and Camp Ambition

        My thoughts are that when we are driven by fear we will work very hard, but only hard enough to get away from danger. The results of this hard work are short lived and it is likely tht the same thing may happen again.

        In sharp contrast, when I think about those who are driven by ambition, I almost shutter inside at the thought of how much I know they will accomplish, because they don't have a goal to stop at- theydon't have rules(or very few)- there is nothing to stop them and their hunger will only grow more with each success.

        So I think that if at all possible, when you are feeling motivated by fear, try and shift your focus towards something that really gets you going- your personal passion(s) for instance. I guess these are my thoughts
        I have to agree with the personal passion part, if you don't enjoy what you are doing you will never be successful.I costume, I started out dancing inwhich my daughter now teaches but I absolutely love making costumes and when you see someone on stage wearing things that you made it is absolutely rewarding.
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        • Profile picture of the author alvien
          Hi everyone: First a bit of info on me. I am 81 yrs old. opinionated.could be a red neck as I see it ,but my daughter sees me as an old softy with a caring streak the width of my back. I have been driven through out life by Love,Fear,Compassion, Hope,Caring,Giving, and all the other emotions each and everyone of you have experienced . I think we are driven by our Wants,Desires,Dislikes,Hatred's,yes Hatred's,need to give,and also a great need --to receive. I have experienced all of these and some stark abject terror . Each motivates in its own way just as each person is unique in their own way.I believe my life has been given over to doing what ever I could to Help,Aid,Teach and console whom ever I could. Many things in your past life shape what and how you live. Hopefully I have been a Lover and not a Fighter. Alvien
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          • Profile picture of the author Norma Holt
            Originally Posted by alvien View Post

            Hi everyone: First a bit of info on me. I am 81 yrs old. opinionated.could be a red neck as I see it ,but my daughter sees me as an old softy with a caring streak the width of my back. I have been driven through out life by Love,Fear,Compassion, Hope,Caring,Giving, and all the other emotions each and everyone of you have experienced . I think we are driven by our Wants,Desires,Dislikes,Hatred's,yes Hatred's,need to give,and also a great need --to receive. I have experienced all of these and some stark abject terror . Each motivates in its own way just as each person is unique in their own way.I believe my life has been given over to doing what ever I could to Help,Aid,Teach and console whom ever I could. Many things in your past life shape what and how you live. Hopefully I have been a Lover and not a Fighter. Alvien
            Welcome to the forum, Alvien. This is a great post. Your experience is one of giving in order to receive. As an opinionated senior, however, I think you probably have been a fighter but maybe not a stirer.

            What brought you to this forum. Are you into Internet Marketing or just looking around the Internet? Would love to know.

            God bless.
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  • Profile picture of the author LeannaLuck
    I, like many of the individuals that have posted here, consider my family my greatest motivators.
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  • Profile picture of the author The MLM Expediter
    more and more great replies...

    I have to tell you, I just recently started dabbling around with forums
    and blogs. This is definitely the most response I have received from any
    post. Thanks to all of you for your contributions.

    One interesting thing that Motivates me is the negative stuff that
    happens at work. When my truck breaks down an hour away from
    delivery, the thought of getting home and working on my business
    helps to relieve the stress. What Drives me in this situation is the
    goal of Independence - knowing that I can have control of my own
    destiny.
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  • I've learned that being driven is not so pleasurable and fulfilling as doing the driving.

    I've mastered the ability to no longer be pulled or pushed by any thought, but to forge my own decision without undue influence from a conditioned response or belief.

    In short, I've developed my Will.

    For me personally, the benefit is that I do not have to remember (resurrect a thought and its attending emotions) in order to move along. Rather, I move along simply because I've the power and freedom to do so, and there is no thought standing in my way as either obstacle or taskmaster.

    Some might say, "Well, how do you stay motivated?"

    My answer, "Motivation is not necessary when one operates by Power of Will."

    It's about enjoyment of each moment.
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  • Same as the rest of you guys - providing a good life for my family.
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  • Profile picture of the author WorksForWeb
    what a nice thread even if I hadn't ideas about my motivation I can find them here! Thank you!
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    • Profile picture of the author DENNYBOY
      That's a nice information dude.

      Thanks for sharing.

      I agree with The Digital Paper Company as that is just my thought
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  • Profile picture of the author linda.robe
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    Nice thread.. Thanks for sharing..
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    • I have to agree that PASSION is what drives me (and most people) -- the kind of work that makes you get excited, eager, want to work, and happy is what you should be doing for a living. Imagine that? Doing something everyday from 9-5 (or longer) that makes you a happy person PLUS getting paid for it. I have to admit, I have been trying to do that for about 5 years now since my writing and work product has gotten some recognition. But to actually be able to do that for 24/7 is something I dream of. But I will keep going and trying to make it my ALL because I believe doing what you love IS LIVING to your fullest extent.
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  • Profile picture of the author ~kev~
    My motivation comes from a passion for what I do.

    My targeted nitch is something that I enjoy doing, and that is hiking, camping, fishing and spending time with my family. I took those interest, rolled them into a forum and things have been rocking and rolling ever since. Its the people that start fad sites, or spur of the moments sites that are most likely to lose interest later.
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  • Profile picture of the author rbjc7080
    My motivation comes to me through family, friends and the people whom I've not encountered yet in my life. I have found that to be successful one has to be true to self.

    I entered the internet marketing niche after spending time developing a website and learning that the support provided only goes so far. People say "okay now that you have built it go market it" but the even with the "tools" there if you don't have "skill" and the "knowledge of how to use them" then they are just tools kinda like the carpenter tool set you got for for Christmas, but you don't know how to be a user of those tools be it demographics, gender or age. We all need to start some where and to have a teacher that will teach and provide information to go with the tools. Helping others achieve is invaluable.
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  • Profile picture of the author jireh
    What drives me most is the development of the tremendous power that man is endowed with. I like to be the master of my life not a slave to it
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    • Profile picture of the author dsanchez
      Giving my family a better life... especially now that I'm a mother. I have always been motivated but being a mother has made everything more important.

      Dagmar
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  • Profile picture of the author Canei Group
    Interesting Question because the strength of what is driving you will ultimately determine your success or failure in business. What drives me is creating a strong enough residual income so I never have to work for someone else again or be dependent on a paycheck.

    Creating true financial security so that I can Own the rights to myself and have real personal freedom! You can't have personal freedom until you have financial freedom!
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