Why Is Everyone Lying To Themselves? Stop Doing This...

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STOP THINKING IT'S GOING TO BE EASY...IT'S NOT! PERIOD.

One of the major reasons why people give up too early is because they assume that things are going to be easy...When in reality they are hard.

Just because someone else made a million dollars and it seems as if they did it effortlessly...Doesn't mean it will be effortless for you as well.

It's the same concept as looking at someone ride a bike & thinking it's easy when you haven't even tried it yourself. And what happens when you get on one for the first time? Well you fall...And then you tell yourself...Oh this wasn't as easy as it looked.

And the same thing applies to life as well. Things won't be easy when you do them the first time...You will have to take several falls before you get it right.

So in a nutshell...When you do hard things long enough...They get easier. And this is the point most people always ignore.

Therefore you should expect things to be a bit hard when you do them the first few times...It's only a part of how things work in life.
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  • Profile picture of the author acrasial
    But you know some people do make money over night, like they win the lottery or they inherit money.


    BUt what happens if the world is the one who thinks you are failing, not the other way around? Oh, and those who are in denial, shouldn't go telling others to stop lying to themselves! (P.S. I thanked you since you seemed to be jealous of my thanks!)
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    • Profile picture of the author ryanman
      Originally Posted by acrasial View Post

      OO yay! I love your threads! But you know some people do make money over night, like they win the lottery or they inherit money.


      BUt what happens if the world is the one who thinks you are failing, not the other way around? Oh, and those who are in denial, shouldn't go telling others to stop lying to themselves!
      And that's the reason why most of those lotto winners are bankrupt and often in debt after a few years. It's like owning a ferrari without knowing how to drive.

      You are definitely going to crash it and that's exactly what most of these people end up doing. They don't have the skills to manage this sudden influx of money and thus they end up losing it all.
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  • Profile picture of the author acrasial
    You know, I often think that those who are themselves in denial always are the FIRST to point out what exactly is wrong with others in their life, whether it be financially, relationship wise, weight wise etc...

    Oh, and some people just simply never follow through on what they say they are going to do, and do the exact opposite, because they are actually in denial in the first place...


    Like people who say they would win a million dollars, and would donate such and such to charity, put such and such into savings, give some to family/friends etc...but they never end up doing any of that either.


    So either their intentions are not set right, because according to others they are not doing what others want them to do, OR, they are simply in denial and don't realize it, AND that's why they cannot even control their ACTIONS in the first place.
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    • Profile picture of the author autofix
      Originally Posted by acrasial View Post

      You know, I often think that those who are themselves in denial always are the FIRST to point out what exactly is wrong with others in their life, whether it be financially, relationship wise, weight wise etc...

      Oh, and some people just simply never follow through on what they say they are going to do, and do the exact opposite, because they are actually in denial in the first place...


      Like people who say they would win a million dollars, and would donate such and such to charity, put such and such into savings, give some to family/friends etc...but they never end up doing any of that either.


      So either their intentions are not set right, because according to others they are not doing what others want them to do, OR, they are simply in denial and don't realize it, AND that's why they cannot even control their ACTIONS in the first place.
      Wow, that was deep, but oh so true.
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      • Profile picture of the author acrasial
        Originally Posted by autofix View Post

        Wow, that was deep, but oh so true.
        I also often think too that it doesn't matter if someone is right, if the thing that is right is/will never be recognized as such anyways, and will never be useful or valid because it will never be recognized as such.


        The saying that "the truth prevails" is simply only relevant to everyone's own personal realities and perspectives....which means that the wrong things can literally become right, and justifiable in people's world's....And here is a prime example of someone justifying something to be right by using something wrong in the process.


        But as mentioned, it doesn't matter if I am actually right, because at the end of the day, everyone's in denial somewhere in their life, and what I say and do won't change that.
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        • Profile picture of the author ryanman
          Originally Posted by acrasial View Post


          The saying that "the truth prevails" is simply only relevant to everyone's own personal realities and perspectives....which means that the wrong things can literally become right, and justifiable in people's world's....And here is a prime example of someone justifying something to be right by using something wrong in the process.
          But universal truth is universally true. You can tell me the world if flat...And that might be true in your reality...But proof has it that it's oblong/round. There are certain truth's which can not be denied.
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          • Profile picture of the author acrasial
            Originally Posted by ryanman View Post

            But universal truth is universally true. You can tell me the world if flat...And that might be true in your reality...But proof has it that it's oblong/round. There are certain truth's which can not be denied.
            There are CERTAIN truths which can be FABRICATED as well, and made to look as if they are ABSOLUTELY true, and are THE MOST DIFFICULT to prove wrong.


            Very cunning and intelligent people make up these sorts of fabrications and 99.9% of the rest of society will never know this, and the ONLY reason someone would make something up to begin with, and take such utmost care to make sure it appears to be true, is because they are trying to prove something to themselves.


            99.9% of the time as well, those involved in the creation of such "facts" don't even realize they are in fact doing this, because they have NO control over it. It is their subconscious mind acting, and trying to protect them, due to various fears. These actions are then moved outward and thus the mind finds ways to convince itself and EVERYONE ELSE that it is in fact right, because after all, the human brain is one of the most powerful supercomputers on the planet.


            It is capable of producing so many things, and it's potential power is enough that it can literally control YOU, if it should choose to, and sometimes the subconscious mind does choose to. Being in denial with the conscious mind sure does not help this.


            Also, you may take the time to notice that the world is now round, or actually oblong, but do you actually take the time to prove this is true? Or do you simply trust that it must be true, because OTHER PEOPLE say so, and other people show videos of "space" and throw in a few scientists who give their opinion...then you have many people convinced of this fact, but few who have actually verified it.

            It's easy to believe something is true, when you see it to be such, and when you can produce seemingly "relevant facts" to back it up....but it's much harder to actually really find the real truth, when few people take the time to really define the facts themselves in the first place.


            So this truth you speak of, so called "universal truth" isn't even common sense, and may not even be a real FACT, it's simply a mass of people agreeing on something which they are too lazy to check out or verify, because they are in denial...and it's much easier to just believe what you are being told (even what you tell yourself), than it is to try and go out there and prove something wrong, or really see what it's all about.


            And people do this FOR PROTECTION. They want to protect themselves. AS YOU KNOW, it's much easier NOT TO KNOW about something sometimes, than to actually spend the time getting to know every little detail about it.

            Why is that much easier? Why is that much safer, and preferred? Why do people AUTOMATICALLY do this by default? Well simply because things are in fact NOT as they appear to be, and are NOT as they are perceived. To find out otherwise, is quite damaging to people, especially if this relates to an actual human being who you may have thought well of, and may have looked up to.


            It's painful and disappointing to actually go and find out the details of things. So people AUTOMATICALLY learn not to ask too much, not to dive into things, and not to seek anything further from certain topics in life....and that's when you get these universal truths, where people agree. They agree, because they are simply trying to protect themselves, and make things as simple as possible.


            They don't want to go out and find out that everything they have ever known was a lie, or that their entire perception of things in life were wrong, or incorrect. They don't want to feel stupid, or feel fooled, or feel as though they simply had everything wrong.

            THUS:
            The universal truth is just a bunch of people in denial. There have been MANY universal truths throughout history...and guess what happened to nearly all of them? THEY ARE NO LONGER VALID, AND ARE NO LONGER CONSIDERED to be a fact.


            Why is that? It's because someone wasn't in denial and took the time to REALLY verify things, and really find out the truth....and that someone could stand the pain of REAL KNOWLEDGE and the REAL TRUTH...
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            • Profile picture of the author ryanman
              Originally Posted by acrasial View Post

              There are CERTAIN truths which can be FABRICATED as well, and made to look as if they are ABSOLUTELY true, and are THE MOST DIFFICULT to prove wrong.

              Ok! So the world isn't round and it's some fabricated truth?
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              • Profile picture of the author acrasial
                Originally Posted by ryanman View Post

                Ok! So the world isn't round and it's some fabricated truth?
                Read my entire post. IT IS NOT round either. The earth spins on it's axis #1. It has been doing this for a LONG time, and since it's unbalanced, over time this has caused the earth to literally form out of shape, and become oblong, which makes more of it's mass/weight centered towards the middle, and less towards the outside...thus the oblong shape.


                IT has to do with a few scientific matters that have caused it to become this shape over millions of years. Gravity has also pulled it out of "proportion", since the sun has the highest gravity in our solar system, every other planet is being pulled towards it constantly, and that is also causing our planet to become malformed with the pressure. Since the earth spins on it's axis anyways, that is also why the proportions are not even anymore, because the earth is being pulled from directions gravitational wise, BUT at an angle. And even these truths are still being tested, argued and many other things, because as humans we don't know everything.

                BUT, people simply believe that and trust that it is in fact round, or oblong now (heck some even think it's flat), because it's easy to just have peace of mind by believing something from people who are generally considered trusted sources (such as scientists, doctors, etc...), because that, once again is less painful.


                Ignorance TRULY IS bliss, and the less people know the better. No one wants to sit there arguing these things, or having to learn about all of this science or theory or anything behind things. And do I need to know all of the above either? Heck no, probably not. It won't make me a million dollars...


                As mentioned, people like to be able to trust certain things as a truth, so they can go about their day doing what they think is important, and they may even fabricate things to be the truth, through their subconscious, so that they can have less pain and more pleasure in life.


                OH, and have I personally verified all of the above myself? No as well. But that doesn't make any of the above true either, because I have not actually checked into it. Why would I sit there doing that? That's a lot of work, where does it get me etc etc etc...


                So it could VERY WELL be false now, or be found to be false in the future. BUT, I am willing to trust others there, and ASSUME it's true for now. This is what I am talking about. Fabricating truth in my mind, so that my life becomes easier. I am fabriciating a truth, when I leave my beliefs UP to others to determine, whether that is a scientist or a doctor, or even a guru.


                I am fabricating things, because I am simply accepting it to be what it appears to be, without verifying it, and the whole idea of the word fabrication itself is this: " formed or conceived by the imagination". I am imagining things to be true, so that my LIFE becomes easier.


                And that is the mindset of human beings. Simple and easy, and don't get too deep into things, unless it benefits you.


                Thus the truth is SUBJECTIVE to your own MIND, and the reason there are UNIVERSAL TRUTHS, is because the majority have come to a consensus that it would be too time consuming and simply too difficult to actually try and find out otherwise.


                "Universal Truths"....HA!...doesn't exist, the truth is what any human being wants to make it out to be, and SHOULD THEY CHOOSE TO, they could fabricate any sort of evidence they pleased to make it right in their mind, and sometimes these fabrications are agreed upon by others, and that's when you have "universal truths".
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                • Profile picture of the author ryanman
                  Originally Posted by acrasial View Post



                  "Universal Truths"....HA!...doesn't exist, the truth is what any human being wants to make it out to be, and SHOULD THEY CHOOSE TO, they could fabricate any sort of evidence they pleased to make it right in their mind, and sometimes these fabrications are agreed upon by others, and that's when you have "universal truths".
                  Ok so the world isn't round...Gravity doesn't exist...The grass is yellow and the sky is cherry colour.

                  You are missing a huge point here...It's not about WHO'S right...It's about WHAT'S right. And what's right will always stay right regardless of whether you agree with it or not.

                  So the world will be round...The grass green and the sky blue.
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                  • Profile picture of the author acrasial
                    Originally Posted by ryanman View Post

                    Ok so the world isn't round...Gravity doesn't exist...The grass is yellow and the sky is cherry colour.

                    You are missing a huge point here...It's not about WHO'S right...It's about WHAT'S right. And what's right will always stay right regardless of whether you agree with it or not.

                    So the world will be round...The grass green and the sky blue.

                    Alright, so what happened to "hard things get easy when you do them long enough".


                    You said to stop thinking it's easy. Yet at the same time it does become easy. So what is it really? Is it really hard, or easy, or is it simply shades of grey?


                    Oh and it's still relative to your own perspective here...as to "what's right". I can disagree for sure, and some can disagree with you, BUT NEITHER MY DISAGREEMENT NOR ANYONE ELSE'S AGREEMENT HERE, makes it right, or even makes it the "what's right" either... because at the end of the day people will still do what they want, and many people don't even have control over that.


                    You are sure crafty however, at trying to get the approval of others on matters which concern you on a deeper level.


                    You are sitting here telling people to stop thinking things are easy, but hey, if you really want to talk BIGGER PICTURES HERE, they have NO CHOICE but to want that. It's their subconscious working, to try and MINIMIZE the pain of things AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE, and until these people come out of denial and really realize the kind of shell they are stepping into, the "bigger picture" will NEVER EVEN be known to them....even if they agree to it on a conscious level.


                    Their subconscious will later come in and challenge it once again, with crafty come backs, ideas, proofs and many other things. Because that is what is COMFORTABLE for people, and people WANT COMFORT. The bigger picture here isn't even "what's right" anymore, but rather WHAT FEEDS THE SUBCONSCIOUS MIND COMFORT.


                    The subconscious mind also only does what it's told to begin with. So ever since we are born, we are programming it to seek comfort, because we program it with thoughts about how it's bad to be outside of the comfort zone, every time we are criticized or shot down for something, because we get hurt.


                    BUT, people don't realize that they are telling it what to do, and they don't realize that it's in control of them, and they also don't realize that although they can sit here agreeing with everything, they aren't TRULY agreeing with it.


                    So the truth can be a truth, but it's ABSOLUTELY USELESS if a person can't even do anything with that truth to help themselves in the end.


                    And in a nutshell, you are telling people to do something which is VIRTUALLY impossible for them anyways, because you are telling the WRONG version of the person. If you really want a person to get the message, and for them to get the bigger picture: target their subconscious, not their conscious.
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            • Profile picture of the author tylerdrun
              Originally Posted by acrasial View Post

              There are CERTAIN truths which can be FABRICATED as well, and made to look as if they are ABSOLUTELY true, and are THE MOST DIFFICULT to prove wrong.


              Very cunning and intelligent people make up these sorts of fabrications and 99.9% of the rest of society will never know this, and the ONLY reason someone would make something up to begin with, and take such utmost care to make sure it appears to be true, is because they are trying to prove something to themselves.


              99.9% of the time as well, those involved in the creation of such "facts" don't even realize they are in fact doing this, because they have NO control over it. It is their subconscious mind acting, and trying to protect them, due to various fears. These actions are then moved outward and thus the mind finds ways to convince itself and EVERYONE ELSE that it is in fact right, because after all, the human brain is one of the most powerful supercomputers on the planet.


              It is capable of producing so many things, and it's potential power is enough that it can literally control YOU, if it should choose to, and sometimes the subconscious mind does choose to. Being in denial with the conscious mind sure does not help this.


              Also, you may take the time to notice that the world is now round, or actually oblong, but do you actually take the time to prove this is true? Or do you simply trust that it must be true, because OTHER PEOPLE say so, and other people show videos of "space" and throw in a few scientists who give their opinion...then you have many people convinced of this fact, but few who have actually verified it.

              It's easy to believe something is true, when you see it to be such, and when you can produce seemingly "relevant facts" to back it up....but it's much harder to actually really find the real truth, when few people take the time to really define the facts themselves in the first place.


              So this truth you speak of, so called "universal truth" isn't even common sense, and may not even be a real FACT, it's simply a mass of people agreeing on something which they are too lazy to check out or verify, because they are in denial...and it's much easier to just believe what you are being told (even what you tell yourself), than it is to try and go out there and prove something wrong, or really see what it's all about.


              And people do this FOR PROTECTION. They want to protect themselves. AS YOU KNOW, it's much easier NOT TO KNOW about something sometimes, than to actually spend the time getting to know every little detail about it.

              Why is that much easier? Why is that much safer, and preferred? Why do people AUTOMATICALLY do this by default? Well simply because things are in fact NOT as they appear to be, and are NOT as they are perceived. To find out otherwise, is quite damaging to people, especially if this relates to an actual human being who you may have thought well of, and may have looked up to.


              It's painful and disappointing to actually go and find out the details of things. So people AUTOMATICALLY learn not to ask too much, not to dive into things, and not to seek anything further from certain topics in life....and that's when you get these universal truths, where people agree. They agree, because they are simply trying to protect themselves, and make things as simple as possible.


              They don't want to go out and find out that everything they have ever known was a lie, or that their entire perception of things in life were wrong, or incorrect. They don't want to feel stupid, or feel fooled, or feel as though they simply had everything wrong.

              THUS:
              The universal truth is just a bunch of people in denial. There have been MANY universal truths throughout history...and guess what happened to nearly all of them? THEY ARE NO LONGER VALID, AND ARE NO LONGER CONSIDERED to be a fact.


              Why is that? It's because someone wasn't in denial and took the time to REALLY verify things, and really find out the truth....and that someone could stand the pain of REAL KNOWLEDGE and the REAL TRUTH...
              Well you're right... External appearance doesn't really tell who the real person is. And you are right about the denial too. People who are insecure tend to force that insecurities on those who don't. It's true.
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    It's true if things were too easy it would be boring everyone being millionaires etc!
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    • Profile picture of the author acrasial
      Originally Posted by winsoar View Post

      It's true if things were too easy it would be boring everyone being millionaires etc!
      NO, people WANT THINGS to be easy anyways. The reason everyone is NOT billionaires, is because in their world, it's TOO PAINFUL to try and become a billionaire.

      They are in denial, and are afraid that they will fail. The denial they are in is the denial that they can in fact succeed or that it is possible...so they sit there fabricating reasons NOT TO do it, and thus make themselves in denial.

      They even produce PROOF as to why it's bad to be a billionaire, and why they would fail, giving themselves examples, and statistics, and even setting themselves up to fail.


      AND, they don't even have ANY control over this WHATSOEVER, because the DENIAL aspect is coming from their subconscious, not their conscious mind, and it would take CAREFUL and very strategic efforts from a person to overcome the subconscious mind on that kind of a level.


      Few people actually accomplish this kind of task: taking back control of your own mind...because the subconscious literally controls your actions as well...and since the subconscious is so convincing, few people are ever able to PROVE themselves wrong in that aspect.


      Now why is the subconscious so convincing? Well it has EVERY BIT OF INFORMATION about you, ON EVERY LEVEL. Just like google keeps all the information about what you search, what you hate, what you like, what you need right now....and also what you DON'T search for....your subconscious does the same thing.


      So it literally has WAYS of making you believe anything it wants to, since it knows literally everything about you, including things you don't know about yourself. So it can also MAKE YOU do anything it wants, and MAKE YOU believe anything it wants, and you wouldn't even realize it, because it knows exactly how to do this so that you "buy" it every single time.


      Billionaires have taken the time to REALLY assess their mental aptitude and other aspects of their mind, so that they take back control on a conscious level, and so that they KNOW what their subconscious mind is doing. These people are rarely ever in denial as well, and you would find it difficult to ever win an argument with them, because they are the MASTERS at producing proof and fabricating things, since they themselves have taken the time to find out how the subconscious does that in the first place.

      OH and here's something interesting:

      There were 793 officially known billionaires in the world as of 2009.

      So let's say there are about 800 billionaires, on the entire planet. So there were only 800 people (fewer than the amount of people that went to my high school!), who actually took the time to assess everything so well, about human nature, that they were able to make sales in excess of a billion dollars.
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  • Profile picture of the author tyroneshum
    Every person is different and thus even if this person has already revealed his little less known "dirty but true" secret, still, it's how you implement the ideas which will make you successful with it or not -- sometimes adding an extra flavor like adding your own concepts into this successful person's concepts might do the right job or probably making your own concept will make you a lot successful.

    It's always in different ways at different time and what's important is you learn from them but you take action to what you think is the best way to start.
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    • Profile picture of the author EvanBlack
      Originally Posted by tyroneshum View Post

      Every person is different and thus even if this person has already revealed his little less known "dirty but true" secret, still, it's how you implement the ideas which will make you successful with it or not -- sometimes adding an extra flavor like adding your own concepts into this successful person's concepts might do the right job or probably making your own concept will make you a lot successful.

      It's always in different ways at different time and what's important is you learn from them but you take action to what you think is the best way to start.
      This guy knows what hes talking about but the problem with this is your not doing anything new your just putting paint on it and calling it new.

      The thing is people are so stupid that they will be like, "OMG ITS NEW I MUST HAVE IT!" or "OMG! ITS THE SAME BUT ITS MY FAVORITE COLOR I MUST HAVE IT!"

      People are easy to manipulate into giving you their money. But its people who don't want money and want change, those are the people who end up in the history books but are often poorer then dirt.
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  • Profile picture of the author stephan231
    I also add from my past experience that you should never chase something becasue you read somewhere that some people used a special techniques, that was one of the biggest mistakes for me, it doesn't mean that those techniques will still be working even when it appeals very logic and excellent to do.
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    • Profile picture of the author luckystepho
      I suppose that people see someone else's success and perceive it to have been gained easily whereas the don't see the 80+ hour weeks, and years of thought and effort that may have gone into achieving that success.

      As soon as things look like being hard work, a lot of people just give up and claim it 'didn't work for them'...
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      • Profile picture of the author EvanBlack
        Reading all this, you're all damn idiots.

        The world is flat, the sky is purple, grass doesn't exist.


        Now that should start some more idiots who won't read the rest to believe that was my point.

        No, the truth is. There are universal facts that cannot be changed. Such as the constant of gravity which will always remains CONSTANT!

        Round means having no sides. Or have a Uni-side. (Fact, even though it can be described in 2 different ways doesn't mean either isn't absolutely true.)

        1 is a number. (Fact, because it already exists as a perception of singularity)

        There are facts in life that are all around us. They are difficult to discover because we live in a world with a society that only chooses to believe anything.

        Now, You're all right and you're all wrong.

        Everything is easy. EVERYTHING IS ABSOLUTELY EASY! THIS IS A FACT!

        Now, getting to the point where it is constantly easy can be hard. Because it takes energy to move you from one position to another. If your position is not relative to what you're trying to accomplish it will be hard.

        What... ANOTHER FACT!

        Yeah, the reason we perceive such things as difficulty is because in life we have these things called PATHS. You can take one but if you want to switch to a new one then you it requires an amount of energy to transfer to that position. Now this energy amount is irrelevant because the energy amount is proportional to your position from the new position.

        Example for those who cannot follow. I will even use OP example about the bike.

        Person A, lives in a life of athleticism. Person A loves to climb, run, jump, swing, and be physically active. Person A will have an easier time learning to ride said bike because Person A has trained in things such as balance and stamina.

        Person B, lives a life in the books. Loves to learn about everything that can be learned. Person B will have an easier time learning how riding a bike can even be possible. But may not have the physical ability to do so yet.

        Now lets say Person A wants to do what Person B says is easy, and Person B wants to do what Person A says is easy. They both try and fail miserably. Why? Because they went in thinking and not understanding the actual concepts of what is going on during the process of either. Well, Person B may already know if he did is research on basic physics as well as human anatomy and the physics of bicycling. But Person A will not understand any of these concepts and will only become frustrated with it and probably give up.

        Fact of life: People lie so there for we cannot believe what anyone says, not even ourselves.

        Fact of life: There are so many things in this world that some of the things that have been discovered do not need to be rediscovered but only realized that they are true and have to be accounted for.

        Fact of life: Universal Facts are created by the universe and are out of human control. But are within the realm of human discovery. The more we discover the more we can know.

        Fact of life: Humans want to be doing the best for themselves and there for will often take the easiest path, which is often manipulation of others for gain.

        Fact of life: You can trust that these facts are true, or you can spend the rest of your life trying to prove them wrong. But chances are, you never will.

        Fact of life: Nothing is impossible, even facts can be removed from existence. But it doesn't mean that at one point in time they were a fact. The world being flat, that was never a fact, only a social idea that was later proven wrong with the fact that the world is round. I don't need to prove to myself that the world is round to be able to use the FACT that the world is round to do other experiments that REQUIRE a round world.

        Now we can go all day with facts of life. But that doesn't mean that these next ones aren't also facts.

        Fact of reality: Everything you think you know is only a perception of what is. Meaning, you are only interacting with facts but your interpertation is simply just that. Your opinion of the fact. But your opinion can never change or impact that fact.

        Fact of reality: An inch is the same as a mile. But the perception of an inch is much different than a mile. Meaning, whats the difference between point A and point B if we move point A over point B or if we fast travel to point B from point A the distance travelled is the same but our perception of it has changed.

        Fact of reality: Time doesn't exist, only an unending chain of events that reoccur periodically which allow us to perceive a passing of time. Time is both a perception and a reality but not a fact or even existent because we can see that object A was here and now object A is there, the movement caused a shift in what we know as time.


        Back onto point with OP. You are all lying to yourselves. Life is easy. People make it hard. Everything in the universe is simple. Humans cause it to be hard because we label everything and our labels are always different for something because we classify everything but often do we not realize that just because its classified as such it is still just what it is.

        Everything we know is just a resonant vibration of the reality that we cannot perceive. Light is just a vibration through what we call existence that reflects and refracts off of other vibrations, combining and amplifying, harmonizing and disharmonizing.
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        • Profile picture of the author paulgl
          Originally Posted by EvanBlack View Post


          No, the truth is. There are universal facts that cannot be changed. Such as the constant of gravity which will always remains CONSTANT!
          False. Various places on Earth have a different rate of gravity.

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          • Profile picture of the author EvanBlack
            Originally Posted by paulgl View Post

            False. Various places on Earth have a different rate of gravity.

            Paul
            Read the rest of what I wrote. IF you read the beginning you would already see that you are one of the idiots I fore mentioned.

            Gravity is constant dependent of a formula. OBVIOUSLY, the rate of gravity changes by location because you have to factor all the other fields of gravity that are around us and not only that but various other fields of pressures that change things. Not only that but based simply on the FACT that the earth isn't the same all over then changes in the rate of gravity will be different but the formula to get those rates remains the same. Even though the variable change or even often can be removed from the equation completely.

            Its people like you constantly proving me right that make me want to kill myself because this planet is doomed.
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  • Profile picture of the author PeterDunin
    I agree with your post,and anyone who thinks it's going to be easy is kidding themselves.I also believe the more effort and hard work you put in the greater the rewards!
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  • Profile picture of the author maidmarion
    It is true what Ryan has said. The top guys make it look and sound easy, but there is work involved for sure! So be prepared to do some work, to learn, to achieve some success at what you are doing. I think we do need mentors, or help from someone who has done it, but there is still work to be done! I am quite enjoying the work, knowing that gradually I am learning and it will get easier as it goes along!
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  • Profile picture of the author jesus72knight
    Originally Posted by ryanman View Post

    STOP THINKING IT'S GOING TO BE EASY...IT'S NOT! PERIOD.


    So in a nutshell...When you do hard things long enough...They get easier. And this is the point most people always ignore.

    Therefore you should expect things to be a bit hard when you do them the first few times...It's only a part of how things work in life.
    Yes. You are indeed right with this one. As time goes, by skills and productivity are being polished through experience. This is in order for us to cope up with any changes at challenges that may come in the way. After all, "experience is the greatest teacher" isn't it?
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    Denial is the only incurable limitation.
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