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If there is one term that is used by the media a lot that can get my blood boiling, it is "sporting hero." I refuse to see sports people as hero. A hero is a person that takes action to help or save other people while putting aside their own needs. Under no circumstances do sporting people do this. They do their chosen sport to please themselves, not to help anybody else, and they get paid for their actions. I don't blame them for that, we all do things for ourselves but it doesn't make them a hero. Sure, visiting sick kids in hospitals is nice, but not heroic, and they never do it without making sure the media is there to watch them. They are famous and that is all, they are not heroes.

Do you really want to aspire to be like some of the people playing sport? These so call heroes which are there to inspire us, abuse drugs, alcohol, women, the law and even their own fans. Sure they are just a part of the general society and they get picked on because they are in the lime light, but you can ask for the fame then get upset when it works against you.

The best sorts of heroes are the people that do what needs to be done without asking for the fame and glory that goes with it. People that stand up to the plate in times of need for the benefit of other people not for the benefit of themselves. You may think that it can be hard to find these types of people but that is untrue.

Bush fire fighters are a great example of people that are heroes. They volunteer for this duty and they give up their time and money to do this. These people go out to save lives and property every year in some of the worst conditions and they do it for free. They do it because it needs to be done, not for the fame or the glory. Sure they may have in their ranks the same problems as our sporting stars but at least they aren't just in it for themselves like the sporting stars.

However, you don't have to be a fire fighter to be a hero, anybody that volunteers their time to help others around the world, or in their own community are heroes. Members of Lions or Rotary Clubs, members of the Meals on Wheels, the SES, or in any other volunteer organisation are the real heroes of our world. Without them our world would be a lot worse off.

So please stop looking at sport stars for your guidance and please stop looking at them and addressing them as heroes. Look in to your own community and see the real heroes. You can even become a hero yourself in the long run and start helping others.

In the long run, the quality of the community we live is determined by the amount of people that care for it and participate in making better. If you think your community needs improving then it is time to become a volunteer and make a difference.

Just like in your own life, no one will make the changes required unless you get out there and do it.
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  • Profile picture of the author Jonathan 2.0
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    By the way I believe that true sporting heroes can be good role models because of their attitude, determination, and work ethic.
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  • Profile picture of the author SilentX
    Ya, the term hero does get tossed around pretty negligently. Similar to genius. Genius is a term you hear all the time, but its hard to be a fashion "genius". I'm not saying it's impossible, just really damn hard to consider something based in art to be considered at a genius level. Being paid to do your job and calling that person a hero is to being famous at your job and being called a genius.

    Hm... well, on second thought, that's not a really good analogy, but I think you get the idea I'm trying to convey... maybe. lol
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    • Profile picture of the author ucajack
      Well i would beg to differ with you, sports champions train and prepare for years to gain that winning edge ,endure so much and on the D Day give away their heart ,soul and blood for their ultimate dream.

      they end up becoming heroes when they bring laurels to their country.
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        Originally Posted by ucajack View Post

        Well i would beg to differ with you, sports champions train and prepare for years to gain that winning edge ,endure so much and on the D Day give away their heart ,soul and blood for their ultimate dream.

        they end up becoming heroes when they bring laurels to their country.
        I may be wrong, but I think what drwhogoesthere was trying to say was that sports stars are not giving of themselves for others. Their primary motivation is to fulfill a personal goal. Which, as he mentioned, there is nothing wrong with. But, in his personal definition (which I agree with) heroes are those who sacrifice of themselves without expecting anything in return. Sports stars definitely put forth a huge amount of effort, but it is in the hopes of fulfilling a personal goal or dream, and the fact that they bring back honor or accomplishments for their country or team or whoever else is secondary (generally at least, maybe not for all).

        If I'm mistaken, please let me know drwhogoesthere, and I apologize for speaking for you.
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        • Profile picture of the author drwhogoesthere
          Originally Posted by SilentX View Post

          I may be wrong, but I think what drwhogoesthere was trying to say was that sports stars are not giving of themselves for others. Their primary motivation is to fulfill a personal goal. Which, as he mentioned, there is nothing wrong with. But, in his personal definition (which I agree with) heroes are those who sacrifice of themselves without expecting anything in return. Sports stars definitely put forth a huge amount of effort, but it is in the hopes of fulfilling a personal goal or dream, and the fact that they bring back honor or accomplishments for their country or team or whoever else is secondary (generally at least, maybe not for all).

          If I'm mistaken, please let me know drwhogoesthere, and I apologize for speaking for you.
          Speak away. You hit the nail right on the head silentx. Sports stars do it only for themselves.

          I respect sport star, well some of them, and I will never say that they dont do any good or bring joy to millions, but they wouldn't do it if they weren't being paid for it.

          Think about this, at the end of the game, all the sleazy women, want to jump into bed with the sport stars. Why? Most are not god looking, in fact most are butt fugly. But the women want them for the money and the fame.

          At the end of the day for a bush fire fighter, there will be a granny with a cold drink or a cup of tea, a big smile, worlds or encouragement and the most important thing, a thank you. Why? Because she is greatful, and thankful for the effort that they have put in. There is no money and fame, and never will be.

          But there is respect, and that can never be bought.

          And in the long run, heroes dont do it for the fame, they just do it because it needs to be done.

          I dont think there has ever been a need to play football against another counrty, except to line somebodies pocket of course.
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