Putdowns outweigh back slaps? Why?
a few bad comments. Someone pointed out that they had 100 good ones.
But, also asked the question,
"Why does one put down trump 10 good ones?"
Isn't that the truth? Those personal digs (even unpersonal digs) sure
can cancel a bunch of positives.
Like the warrior forum. You get a few thanks, smile, then one day you
get one post that trashes you. And you forget about the other dozens
of great comments.
How do you overcome being depressed over 1 comment and not
be lifted up by the other 10?
I'm getting better at it, actually. Sometimes I can think of the terrific
master posters here who I have good relationships with after a bad
one.
I have also decided to ignore certain threads. Many are just there
to bear bait people into an argument.
Anyone have any pointers to ignore the negatives in your life and
just remember the positives? No matter who we are, certainly we
have many more positives than negatives to think about. And yet,
one dig can ruin your whole day!
I also find myself reading the Mind Warriors more often.
Paul
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