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You have two options?

by Gino Robin
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You have two options ..to focus on failure or see the bright side of life.Remember all the people stop at a car accident ..but few stop for a scenic view along the road.

Internal failure is a state of mind that can easily beaten..and the only recipe are inside you,nobody else.Never begin to believe that most ideas,will fail,RICHDOM start by a simple idea,inside and outside you.

Mistakes are the learning curve of life and without it you can't build strength to progress further.The more you defeat mistakes,the more goals you achieve.Life comes with the package of problems and that make it much more excited.When solving a single problem you obtain the gratitude of happiness...temporaly..so it go on and on...

It's better to put energy in something and make a mistake as to sit and wait for HOPE that never come..Mistakes and Problems are a TRUE GIFT.
Turn all your defeats in a fruitfull learning experience..this is extremely powerful when considering the cost of learning anything of value..

Today you still learning from your mistakes as you progress in educational, to obtain more skills...Did you learn from your past mistakes or still..hold on it ..and feel regret ..Let Loose ! ..Life to short to blame the past..You can do nothing to the past ..but to start NOW...YOU certainly open up a bright future..even if you ..on the eldery side...

You have learn to ride a bicycle as a child ...and fall...In the adult world when you fall ..you lay down why?

So, don't take past failures personally. Put them behind you and learn from each one and you will open new doors and close old ones....

Enjoy Thanks !
Gino
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  • Profile picture of the author ryanbiddulph
    Hi Gino,

    Super advice here, especially the piece about not taking past failures personally.

    Don't get caught up with failure and don't start a pity party over your shortcomings. Get over the sting of defeat quickly and seize the opportunity - masquerading as failure - immediately.

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  • Profile picture of the author Ruth P
    Interesting you posted this, as I just posted about my personal experience with this very topic

    It's easy to look at things negatively, dwell on every mistake you make. But when you overcome the hard times, you realise just how much those mistakes helped you become the person you are now. There is always something to be learned from a mistake.
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  • Profile picture of the author marketinggremlin
    I agree, killer advice!! I think we'd all be surprised to learn about the failures of some of the greatest success stories known to man...Reggie Jackson, arguably one of the greatest home run hitters, was also legendary for his monster strike out stats lol...
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    • Profile picture of the author webwriter
      Yet, isn't it funny how a big deal was made of failure in elementary and high school? Nearly everything said and done reinforced the whole concept of failure and negativity. You blow one test, for example, and already you're a loser in your teacher's eyes.

      Yep, I failed a few tests, but earned respectable grades in school I'd never want to go through all of that again though.

      Turned out that better things in life happened a few years after graduation. One of those things was overcoming negativity.
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  • Profile picture of the author Gino Robin
    Hi,
    Thanks..The way we see failure NOW and failure in the past ...is a major difference,that certainly tells us, we improving and learning from our mistakes...In the past in school,failure go hand in hand with punishment

    To regeret and hold on to Internal failure...is certainly a life time punishment..
    It's like you climbing a mountain with a bag on your shoulders (The bag is full of regret of failure)..The only way you will reach your goal, at the peak of the mountain is certainly to let GO!, of the regret of internal failures...to reach your DESERVING GOAL
    Never Give Up Thank you

    I apreciate
    Gino
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  • Profile picture of the author JustinDupre
    Can't let failure in the past get the awesome you. I know some people who dwell many years of their life on a few mistakes they made and never really got over it. It's important to learn from the past and keep walking forward with a great attitude in mind. Everyone has ups and downs.. life goes on!
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  • Profile picture of the author katiemcdonald
    Energy matters. If you have negative energy, it's easy to attract negative things. When you feel down or mad or angry, do you ever notice that somehow things seem to keep 'going wrong' for you?

    Let things roll of your shoulder. Life's too short. You'll find that if you're in a more positive state of mind on a regular basis, good things happen around you. People respond better to you. Business goes more smoothly.

    Try it out!
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  • Profile picture of the author Gary Pettit
    I have often been frustrated by well-meaning family or friends who cannot resist citing and dwelling on the decisions/actions of the past that brought about a present challenge or heartache.
    My attempts to deal with current problems is to say, "Okay, that's fine. That's how I got here. (Mental note: Don't do that again!) But the question is, What to do now, from Here, to overcome this challenge and get through it?" I guess I'm more Future-Minded than Past-Minded.
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  • Profile picture of the author abhayam
    Like two sides of a coin, every failure has two sides. On one side, we learn not to repeat the mistakes, and other side we see the opportunity to learn new and better ways to do the same. Anyways, there is always a lesson in every failure. Each failure should become a stepping irrespective of the setbacks. Indeed, failure is a great teacher when acknowledged.
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