She Is going to hurt you.

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I thought I'd Share my story on fear. Enjoy...

Her hair is longer than pre-teens waiting outside a rap concert. Her smile spreads across the seas of my thoughts and crashed my starboard. I land upon a deserted island. Alone and isolated from the rest, it's only me and her. And I like it. I guess I love being stranded with a woman who takes me away from my pain and brings me into a land of comfort.

She sat next to me each and every night. The moon would take a hold of the night sky as the sun went on a leave of absence. Her body rested on top of mines. Her bosoms lay on my chest, as her love kept me up all night long. She was an escape from the sinister seas of optimism and opportunity. Opportunity for me to spread my wings and fly away, she was the Venus fly trap which prevented this, and I loved her for it.

She kept me comfortable. As every idea to leave the island was objectified with,

"That wouldn't work."

"No you can't do that."

"May be another time?"

"Just forget it and make love to me."

So I did, for hours upon hours. Until I realized I didn't enjoy the love making as much as she did. No longer was I attracted to her physical features, as her body encompassed every man's lustful desire intertwined into one. Her eyes screamed lust but her thighs liquefied with passion with protection. For every time, I set sail with an idea to escape her loving; she sent me kisses of forgetfulness. And I forgot all about it.

She repeated the phrases such as,

Ž
  • War is peace
  • Ž Ignorance is Strength
  • Ž Freedom is Slavery

And I believed it all. I believed her, as she believed me. I told her I would never leave her. I lied. It was all a lie. We sat on the beach yet again, and between our phalanges and the baking sun beamed at my hairline, I came with one conclusion.

I was in love with fear.

How to avoid her love?

1. Don't let fear get a hold of you for too long.

2. Even though her lips may taste sweeter than a bag of skittles, understand, once you stop kissing, you can choose to walk away.

3. Life your professor, she going to test you. Pass it, but dropping the class and flunking out of school.

4. Sail away from fear and never return.

5. Find others that are on the same island as you. Conjoin in an escape to the main land. A place where few make it. Put those who do, never
regret. Upon arrival.

6. Decide what you want to achieve, and then start building a raft towards it.

7. Avoid her word of comfort, get used to being uncomfortable.

8. Acknowledge you're in love with fear then break the done.

9. None of this will happen overnight, but with a bit of visualization and practice, its sure to do the trick.

10. Take the first step.

How about you, are you still sleeping with Fear? Are you lips still upon this mistress of darkness? Now stop reading this post and End that devilish relationship.
#hurt
  • Profile picture of the author @seo
    got your idea. trying to being out of fear myself.

    for the successful business everybody should be away from fear fact.

    "Even spiderman have to take risk in life, then we should take risk as we are just normal persons "
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  • Profile picture of the author myeanne
    I'm not getting the message. Can someone be so kind and enlighten me on this one? I would really appreciate it. Thanks.
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    • Profile picture of the author thedropoutkid
      She was feeding me false provocations. Opposite of what is just and right. This is what fear tends to do. It tells you what may think is great to you, but in reality traps your mind to believe

      the following

      War is peace
      Ignorance is strength
      Slavery is freedom.

      All ideas i learn form reading George Orwell's 1984. I suggest you read it. Best thing I have every read.
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  • Profile picture of the author pethanks
    You are a good writer and I got your point. Thanks anyway for sharing it to us especially to the warriors.
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  • Profile picture of the author supermance
    Ž Ignorance is Strength -> i dont understand this. care to explain?
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    • Profile picture of the author Trapped
      Originally Posted by supermance View Post

      Ž Ignorance is Strength -> i dont understand this. care to explain?
      When you don't know if it will hurt (ignorance) you will dare to go for it (strength)..

      Very well written post, got the message. Adorable style of writing

      It seems it was yesterday when I was afraid of that lady named Success...i felt comfortable banking every little cent I would earn, and indeed i was a prisoner of my own fears..
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  • Profile picture of the author King Shiloh
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    The fear factor is not living with me anymore. I have divorced her long time ago. She was never really my wife but just a "concubine".

    OP, you have a great post there.
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  • Profile picture of the author Shania
    Hi,
    I agree with you totally. Fear will hold us back and keep us from reaching our very highest potential. We need to over come fear and take calculated risks. We can never really know until we take the 1st step... and guess what, after we take the 1st step, the road becomes clearer and clear.
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  • Profile picture of the author Gary Pettit
    I think the whole environment was the wrong place in which to place your hopes:

    War is not peace. Victory is.
    Ignorance is not Strength. Humility is.
    Freedom is not slavery. Marriage is freedom.
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    • Profile picture of the author CrhisD
      Originally Posted by sparkie2260 View Post

      Freedom is not slavery. Marriage is freedom.
      How do you figure?
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  • Profile picture of the author C2
    Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that something else is more important than fear. -Ambrose Redmoon
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  • Profile picture of the author PeterDunin
    This was a bit over my head buddy but I got the general message.
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  • Profile picture of the author Dave Matthews
    Nice one - you had me going for a bit there too bud, wasn't sure where it was going or if it was in the right place ;-)
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  • Profile picture of the author Radcliff
    Wow..very artistic and valuable.Fear is one of the greatest enemies whom can avoid your success. If we think deeply about our fears we'll understand that they are rootless.Thinking deeply about them logically is the best way to overcome them.
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  • Profile picture of the author ninjawarrior
    that's seriously wicked personification there, seriously. thanks for the post!
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  • Profile picture of the author Furiousx
    great post, thank you
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  • Profile picture of the author William Veasley
    Hey,

    Thanks for sharing this with us!

    I totally agree with you, she is going to hold me back. that is why i wrote a post on learning to be alone. i dont need anyone to keep me happy or make me happy. I happy with myself.

    I'm choosing to follow my dreams and focus on myself. no time for her or anybody else for that matter. Nothing is going to get in the way of my aspirations. The best way to stay focused is to keep the distractions away.

    Thanks again!

    God bless,
    William Veasley
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  • Profile picture of the author winfredjames
    Good post... I like it... Thanks for sharing
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