How Attractive Is Your Personality?

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Do you tend to attract or repel people?

We all would like to agree with the former and reject the latter Most wouldn't give this statement a second thought....or at least their ego wouldn't allow them to.

That's OK, but remember you can only advance by finding and embracing your shadows, or your dark side.

Ryan B
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  • I'd say my personality is a HB10!...

    very very sexy!
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  • Profile picture of the author jointaldc
    I'd say I'm very personable in business, but I'm very isolated in personal life, I can turn it on when it needs to be turned on
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  • Profile picture of the author KenThompson
    Attract or repel... hmmm. Both.

    But it's all good. It always works out. I know for a fact
    that I repel some people here. And it's quite all right.


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  • Profile picture of the author AwesomePossum
    Like Zoolander sexy so uhmmm I dunno if the repels or attracts.....

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  • Profile picture of the author Aira Bongco
    I think that we apply both in everyday life. It all depends on the people we encounter and our current state of mind.

    If you are having a great day and you are positive. I found that people flock to you. But when you don't smile and you are having a problem, people seem to move away from you. But no one can be positive all the time.
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  • Profile picture of the author King Shiloh
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    My face answers the question. You can't look at my face and never smile.

    My personality is very attractive. Don't you think?
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  • Profile picture of the author ryanbiddulph
    Good Stuff here...thanks for sharing!

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    • Profile picture of the author xohaibx
      I've noticed that I have a more attractive personality online rather than offline, even though there isn't much difference.
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      • Profile picture of the author Bashty
        Originally Posted by Mustafa Khundmiri View Post

        I've noticed that I have a more attractive personality online rather than offline, even though there isn't much difference.
        That's definitely the case with me.
        I'm somehow much more open when chatting online and pretty quiet in real life, I don't really know why though..

        So only: very attratctive
        Offline: not repelling, but also not very attracting
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  • Profile picture of the author mahdiyah
    I like reply #9

    its true
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  • Profile picture of the author jimmack
    Look at me...I mean c'mon! Just kidding. I can't believe I am posting this.
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  • Profile picture of the author ryanbiddulph
    Interesting perception on the online versus offline thing.

    I used to be open online and more shy and reserved offline, but after experiencing some adverse situation my energy has changed and I am chatty and more sociable offline too.

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    • Profile picture of the author DanteIlluai
      I'd say it definitely tends to attract people. I tend to have a demeanor that makes people feel comfortable with me.
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      • Hmmm... I think I tend to attract people because I am a funny guy, I never judge anyone or say anything bad about someone, not even behind their backs. I guess I repel people who live their life too seriously for my way of being. I like to make fun of my misfortunes and live every day like it's the last day of my life...
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  • Profile picture of the author Shania
    I must say it does not always come naturally! I have to put effort to ensure that I'm friendly and put a smile on my face!
    The best way to have an attractive personality is to be interested in people! If you show interest people will naturally be attracted to you. Genuine interest!
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  • Profile picture of the author PeterDunin
    I have lot's of friends and people tend to ask me for my advice,so I guess my personality must be quite attractive.
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  • Profile picture of the author YseUp
    For me it's more about being authentic. If some people love me or hate me that's ok. As long as I'm living an authentic life.
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    • Profile picture of the author Deric Neufeld
      Sometimes good. Sometimes bad.
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    • Profile picture of the author hatdance
      Originally Posted by YseUp View Post

      For me it's more about being authentic. If some people love me or hate me that's ok. As long as I'm living an authentic life.
      Agreed. That's the way to go. So some like you and some don't. But you need to be at peace with yourself.
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  • Profile picture of the author WillQuick
    Of course everyone's going to rate themselves as "attractive", regardless of whether or not it's true.

    It's a blessing and a curse that human beings prefer to believe what suits us.

    Of course, this is probably where I chime in with "my personality is extremely attractive".
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    • Profile picture of the author ryanbiddulph
      Originally Posted by WillQuick View Post

      Of course everyone's going to rate themselves as "attractive", regardless of whether or not it's true.

      It's a blessing and a curse that human beings prefer to believe what suits us.

      Of course, this is probably where I chime in with "my personality is extremely attractive".
      Not necessarily. Those with low self-esteem won't.

      In addition, many who see themselves as an ultra-attractive personality often aren't.....their feeling is the product of an overinflated ego.

      The point in this post was to cause us to look at ourselves in the light of truth, to look at our shadows that tend to repel others.

      Of course, not too many like that practice I've had to do so over the last few weeks as I had a great deal of negative energy arise that had to be addressed. It was a humbling experience to say the least but I came out of it with a fresh new perspective on my strengths and weaknesses.

      Thanks for stopping by and sharing!

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  • Profile picture of the author nigelzephyr
    i say, BOTH.

    somehow as i tried to be as friendly as I could, people thinks I have some hidden agenda.. and they seem to think that i am a snob.

    but for myself, i can say that my personality is indeed ATTRACTIVE
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  • Profile picture of the author ColdFire123
    I tend to attract people thats why I have lot's of friends and I can say that I am attractive.
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  • Profile picture of the author mankis
    I am very attractive :p I try not to be so much, but it's hard
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  • Profile picture of the author andy rodick
    i'm too sexy
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  • Profile picture of the author Vicky K
    If I'm standing here and saying that of course I think my personality is attractive - whether or not that's true, it means I got confidence for sure. And confidence is sexy, right?
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