If you are driving on the road and somebody cuts your way, you get irritated instinctively. You are about to chase the rude driver but suddenly an ambulance cuts your way again.
Notice that you are angry with the first car but not with the ambulance driver. Both of them cut you. It is not the so-called rude act that irritated you.It is what is in your head that made you mad. This means that you can change the rules in your head. For as long as nobody hurts you or take advantage of your God-given rights, you can always choose to be calm, serene, peaceful, happy, living a stress-free life.
Sometimes you need to fight for your rights. Most of the times you need to fight your beliefs by changing them.
Less rules, less expectations, less argument for what you think is right would equal to less stress. Don’t wait for your problems to be solved before you become happy. You can be happy not in their absence but in spite of them. Plant good seeds more and more every day.
Happiness is both a choice and a skill.
IT IS YOU WHO CAN TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE.
YOU MUST CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY NOW!!!
To my fellow Warriors, something to ponder upon:
Do you believe that you are responsible for your own happiness? not your parents nor your friends; not the absence of problems?
Will you agree that when you are unhappy, it is mostly your own making?
Who take control of your life?
Is your happiness dependent on someone else? Why?
When will you be more independent and responsible than simply blaming and pointing fingers?