desicions,desicions,crap how do you knw its the correct 1 to take, Now here is the formula !!!!

by Asanga
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hi

we all take decisions in our life.but how do we really know the decision we took is the right one.and how do we define right and wrong, right and wrong changers according to culture according to time according to ones views. So here is a little trick that i learned that made sure the decisions one takes are the most correct decision one could take at the given situation.

so here it is.It is being said that to make sure that the decision you are about to take are according to the following four factors.these are known as technically "sathara agathi" .And these are suppose to be time proof,culture proof and even safe from ones own views.so here goes,

1. make sure you don't take a decision as a result of your greed -

when you have greed you tend to overly concentrate on that.which makes you forget about other things and with out even knowing you would do wat ever it takes ( good and bad ) to go ahead with the decision. so as an example having a desire to make money is ok but having a greed to make money is probably not

2. make sure you don't take a decision as a result of your anger and ill will

here anger is defined as temporary insanity (lol) so when you are insane most of the decisions you take obviously not gonna be very good. ill will is basically jealousy and stuff like not wanting another to succeed again a big NO NO!!!!!

3. make sure you don't take a decision as a result of stupidity


now this is the hard one how do you actually know the decision you are about to take is out of stupidity.i guess if you don't have enough information (here i say enough info not all the info) to take a decision then dont take it.but how do you know when it is enough, well i guess its more of an art that you learn with experience

4. And tadaaaa last but not least the most important make sure you don't take a decision as a result of FEAR!!!!!

don't be afraid just take action don't think about what others say what others think don't be afraid of failure or even success as long as you are sure the action you taking confirms to the above three point just go ahead with it give it all you got and most importantly be content with the result.hey come on you gave ya best shot right.After all in the end what matters in life is not the end result but the journey one took.


well that's it short and simple.i hope this formula works for you, it worked for me it might not make much sense to you but since it did to me i thought of sharing it with you guys.so comments questions and criticisms are all well come.

finally in this Christmas and in the coming New Year what ever decisions you take (hope they are all good ones wink wink),what ever resolution you make what and ever IM buisiness plan you get in to,may them all bring all you guys success and prosperity for many years to come.

peace!!!! n thank you !!!
#correct #crap #desicions #formula #knw
  • Profile picture of the author scortillion
    It looks what all of them are saying is don’t “react” from your emotions or without thinking about your actions.

    Sound advice all the time.
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  • Profile picture of the author ryanbiddulph
    Good Advice here.

    I would say, instead of making your decisions from a place of what you don't want, make them from a place of what you want.

    Rewording the statement makes all the difference.

    RB
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    • Profile picture of the author scortillion
      Originally Posted by ryanbiddulph View Post

      Good Advice here.

      I would say, instead of making your decisions from a place of what you don't want, make them from a place of what you want.

      Rewording the statement makes all the difference.

      RB
      So true, the subconscious will lock in on your thoughts and give you what you ask for... so it's best to make them good...
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  • Profile picture of the author scortillion
    Understood, but sometimes if you follow just your emotions you can end up in trouble , especially if it involves a highly attractive person and you are married.

    But seriously I agree, sometimes you do have to go with your gut reaction.
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    • Profile picture of the author scortillion
      Originally Posted by Dominique Couffignal View Post

      Oh my goodness! I never thought at this kind of situation! lol

      Joke aside, I would suppose that taking some decisions - following your emotions- is simply an extension of yourself. I mean, if your values are pretty strong (integrity, fidelity, and such) and your love for your partner is real, then I guess that this situation might never occur.
      Because although I am not married yet, I would think that realistically, chances that you come across some very attractive persons at some point while being married are pretty high anyway (just turn your head in the street and here they are!).

      Now be honest, and let us know exactly in how much trouble you are in..(just kidding)
      Exactly, when trusting your gut decisions you also have to stay within your morals. If your emotions say do it and your moral say don't, it's probably good to listen to your morals, which are whispers from the subconscious.

      LOL... not trouble here... morals are high and I listen to them first
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    • Profile picture of the author Johnny Walker
      I like this post. It sounds to me like the process of DETACHMENT, and the power it gives you including decisiveness. You can read more about it in "Thick Face, Black Heart".

      Ryan, I like what you said, "I would say, instead of making your decisions from a place of what you don't want, make them from a place of what you want". I agree. This is a very subtle yet very KEY point in any pursuit we all tend to miss from time to time. Kudos.

      Energy goes where attention flows and I'd say from that point to go from "wanting" to experiencing "having" - Then take decisive action.
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      • Profile picture of the author scortillion
        Originally Posted by Johnny Walker View Post

        I like this post. It sounds to me like the process of DETACHMENT, and the power it gives you including decisiveness. You can read more about it in "Thick Face, Black Heart".

        Ryan, I like what you said, "I would say, instead of making your decisions from a place of what you don't want, make them from a place of what you want". I agree. This is a very subtle yet very KEY point in any pursuit we all tend to miss from time to time. Kudos.

        Energy goes where attention flows and I'd say from that point to go from "wanting" to experiencing "having" - Then take decisive action.
        I agree, sometimes we can get to focused on what we are trying to avoid only to attract it to us in the end...
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    Great points, executable essence, thanks for posting!
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