Please cheer me up

Forget it for today/tonight. Go out and party. Let yourself breath. Come back to it 8:00 am prompt Monday morning. And then go back to bed.

I know what you mean man, I've wasted so much time too. I feel like I could be doing so much better by now, but we can't change the past, all we can do is try to improve now. Pick something you want to write about, and if there's blogs out there already talking about it, do what they do, but better. Research it more, be a better expert, and write better content, people will follow you, it doesn't matter if you're just starting out. Do a better job and you will become a successful blogger, it's all about quality.

It sounds like you have all the right tools: willingness to work, interest in blogging, and computer know-how.. now all you need to do is figure out the best way to use those tools to make money. Yeah, you'll make some mistakes - and keep in mind that it often takes IMers much more than a year to get the hang of it and start making stable income.

Stay persistent, and keep trying new things until you find what works best for you. Good luck!

I think you have time to do these successful blogging things as you are good in these things. Content writing is not an easy task to perform and you say i am very good in this. So start writing forget the past, as no one can change that. Only live in this moment and do what you can really do good.....

You simply weren't ready yet. (Nothing to feel down about.) As I like to say: “That's the past, this is the future.”

Make the most of the time you have now.

Look man, you're 21 and personally, I think you're being unreasonable to yourself. At 21 you SHOULD be just starting out in life. In fact, most people don't get started until 24 or 26, so in reality you are ahead of the game. I didn't figure out what I really loved until my late 20's, and I'm still trying to implement that love in my 30's.

Figuring out what you love to do and then finding a way to do it and make a living from it is a beautiful thing. And it's an insanely beautiful thing if you figure that out before you are in your 30's or 40's.

You've got it good man, probably far better than the large majority of us here on the WF. Suck it up and use your advantages to propel yourself even further. Get your butt back on the forums and capitalize on the fact that you're a young entrepreneur who's already leveled the playing field for himself against a lot of people who are far older and more experienced than you. Congratulations man, I am envious of you.

Positive thoughts get positive results. Now go create a smashing post to show that you have the maturity to recognize that you DO have it good and you ARE farther ahead of the game than your fellow internet marketing peers.

Suck it up. You're doing great.

It's never too late buddy!I ve seen people in Internet Marketing that are from 13-14(eg Caleb Spilchen)*by the way i think he is 16 at the time LOL* and reach the age of 80-85!It's never too late for anyone!All you need is strong will that you can totally do it!

I always believed that age can never be a barrier for accomplishing anything. I understand ur feelings, but u must not let urself down. Start today, it will take time but ultimately u will find urself satisfied in time to come.

Fazal, *I* want to slap you buddy!!! !! Start today by changing your life! LOL. Don't waste a single minute more wishing you had done things differently.

I feel your pain, as I have had many of the same feelings you do. I'm more than twice your age, and have experienced deep pain over the time I wasted in life by not having goals.

But here's the thing - the moment you wake up to the realization that you want life to be different, begin to make those changes. And begin by getting a sense of direction.

Turn your crisis into opportunity man! Decide today that you are going to successful. Whining about it isn't going to change a thing.

Find a support tool and work it!! Join a MasterMind group, pick a self-improvement classic to study (and don't just skim it - put it to work!), listen to motivational audios and then set some goals and go after them.

Without a sense of direction, you will continue to flounder. Be proud of how wise you are at 21!! And make the decision to NOT waste another day. If only *I* were 21 again. But I'm not. So I begin today exactly where I am. Older and wiser with a strong sense of direction.

I've been intensely studying Think and Grow Rich (I'm reading it for the 3rd time). Also I am re-engineering my self-image through the audio course of "The New Psycho-Cybernetics." I understand now, that although I have always had dreams, I never applied a method to achieving those dreams. I essentially did not have a sense of direction.

Today I do. Here are the ingredients for the "Success-Type" Personality. You can find out how to acquire these traits through studying any classic self-development book:

Sense of Direction
Understanding
Courage
Charity (compassion)
Esteem
Self-confidence
Self-acceptance

~Maxwell Maltz, "The New Psycho-Cybernetics"

Start today by determining the direction that you want to go in life. Then make a game plan and GO FOR IT!!!

The fact that you've realized this so early in your life should be cheering enough my friend ...

You are now empowered to move forward to many years of success ... Imagine if you were an old guy like me and just discovering your talents?

Forget what was and what could have been ... Don't live life looking in the rear view mirrors!

Get busy and move into your future before it too is gone

Good luck

Rev

This oughta cheer you up, Fazal. I'm 60, and I figure, if I'm lucky, I've got about 20 more years to blog/IM. You've probably got 60, if you take good care of yourself.

Make the "successful blogging kids" a POSITIVE in your mind. They are helping you by providing sites for you to guest blog on and receive backlinks from. They are implementing ideas you can reverse engineer and build upon. Their success can help empower you, if you frame it right in your mind.

You are what you think you are. Take action on it and make it your destiny. Do not wait to be happy. Be happy now and do. Visualize positive scenes/outcomes. Tell yourself positive words. Carry yourself with vigor.

And don't forget to ask yourself questions. How can I <fill in the blank>? Your mind/super conciousness has a way of coming up with the answers, if you learn to listen to it.

The downside is you're gonna be dead a long time, but the upside is you've got, God willing, 60+ years to create your own destiny. So, carpe diem (look it up if you have to).

When it's all said and done, people will remember you mainly by one thing: how you made them feel. So, when you're out there seizing the day, make sure your heart's in it.

Rock on, Fazal! You've got a lot of life ahead of you.

Wish I was 21 again - the internet wasn't around when I was that age. Think of it this way - with all the opportunities online for making money, it's very possible you could be a millionaire by the time you're 23. Don't sulk - get busy!

You are ONLY 21...many of the 21 year olds out there have NO clue and think that they have to work for 45 years doing what someone else wants them to do.

Have faith and confidence in YOU. Don't look at what everyone else is doing, except to learn how to improve upon what you are doing and raise yourself up even higher.

Find what makes YOU happy and go after it. One step at a time. You were not put on this earth to observe what others are doing. Age is irrelevant...your effect on this world is what matters.

Go out, have some fun...LIVE YOUR LIFE.

Blessings,
Joy

"Remember, there is no perfect time for anything. There is only NOW. We encourage you with all of our hearts to begin your journey to greater levels of fulfillment and productivity NOW." Jack Canfield

You're only 21 and you feel like you've wasted your time? Enjoy the time you have now, because once you start getting responsibilities, you won't have the time to even realize that you're wasting your time.

Fazal, you don't realize how blessed you are to already know where you want to be heading at your age. We all have a lot of false starts, and success comes a lot later than we think, for most of us anyway. The fact that you recognize how you might have done certain things differently means that you're well on your way to making positive changes.

Hey Man,

Look, it doesn't matter what age you are. There are people who get into the game in there 40s. Forget your age. Just get rocking and soon you'll be rollin' with doh :-)

With Love & Gratitude,
--Sean Patrick Simpson
Co-Founder of Adventures in Manifesting

Forget how much time you've wasted - you have 50 more years than me to get it right!

when u r sad for the sunset, u have already missed the stars. so ...before u miss the stars, go for relax and have a good plan for the next!

I'm 28 and feel the same. Have wasted so many time

As they say, learn from your mistakes.

Look on the bright side, you would not have learnt anything now had it not been that mistake.

And where would you be right now without your knowledge?