Attention All Warriors - I have a problem, and chances are many of you are on the same boat!

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Hi,

My name is Ron, and I am an addict.

Nope, not a drug addict, an alcohol addict.

I am actually physically very healthy and have a healthy relation with people around me.

I even am about to embark in some very lucrative, green, fun offline projects!

And funny, in life I manage to break many addictions that are actually be very hard to break:

-Food
-Sex
-Constant entertainment
-The gods know what other addiction.

But NOTHING beats this addiction: Internet Marketing. I have a feeling that it is worse than gambling (not that I ever was a big gambler).


How did I come to this realization?

After a solid 30 minutes of deep meditation, I realized how my entire life has resolved around internet marketing over the past year and that it was just eating us so much of my time, energy and thoughts!

I started online marketing 6 years ago, and last year, I broke that addiction for a solid 6 months, before relapsing again.

I go to bed with my laptop next to me. I wake up in the morning with one goal, check what's happening online. I spend half my day online, trying to figure all of this out!

Even as I was about to start writing on this thread, I got distracted by a warrior ad, an email from Ryan Deiss, a tweet on getting more traffic from facebook. Sounds familiar?


I learned and tried:

-SEO (White had and bl@$k hat)
-PPC
-Banner Ads
-Social media (Facebook AND Twitter)
-Website flipping (new one to the list)
-All types of list building
-Copywriting (to a certain extent)
-...

Yes, we are thought to focus. But I did focus for quite some time and got bored then distracted and found something nicer to focus at. And so on.

I learned to outsource. Saved me a lot of time, but still not seeing the end of the tunnel.


Then I thought to myself, why on earth am I putting myself through this?

Fine, I learned so much, and I definitely know more than most people I meet about online marketing. And all of these tools do have value online and offline as well.

But it still takes so much of my time, and money, and energy.

Yes, IM has its advantages (Automation, easy monitoring, work from anywhere in the world...) - ONCE you can let it run on its own and peak at it once in a while.

But man, I miss spending days without worrying or thinking about it. I miss not being addicted to it.

So I am making a commitment right here. "I will break from this addiction once and for all, even if it means dropping it completely. If I do succeed, good, but as long as it doesn't eat my life away. Life is meant to be spent outdoors, in nature, with loved ones (or alone as well) and not in front of a computer screen "

There, I've said it. I hope that many of you warriors never fall into this trap, and if you do, to carefully come out of it and transform this addiction to something much more fulfilling.

Cheers!
#addiction #attention #boat #chances #problem #success #warriors
  • Profile picture of the author simonjwarner
    Wise words, I think some of use are caught up in the process rather than knowing there outcome
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  • Profile picture of the author Ash R
    Hi Ron

    I think most successful people are obsessed, at least initially.

    It's good that you are recognizing this obsession, it's a great first step.

    I think the next step may be to start tracking your time, what exactly are you doing when you are obsessed? It sounds like you are trying too many things at once. If that is the case, don't feel bad. There are so many different kinds of opportunities online, it's tempting to try to do everything.

    My advice would be to slow down. Focus on one thing and work hard at it. It's easier to build up something successful than to start from scratch.

    Also, you say that focus is boring. I know it is! But I try to distract myself with a hobby when I'm bored (poker!) and I do a lot of meditation like you do, instead of just trying to do more work.

    Also, outsourcing can be really stressful in itself! My personal solution was to increase the workload and pay of my good workers and fire the rest. Yes, firing is painful, but better than the constant stress of late/sloppy work.

    One of the best IM decisions I made was to slow down and cut myself some slack. Ironically, it was a pretty profitable decision as well!

    Good luck! And I hope you don't quit IM, hopefully it will be a very lucrative "former obsession" for you
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  • Profile picture of the author swilliams09
    Are you selling anything? Are you making any money? Because that's the end goal. Otherwise you just have an expensive hobby in my opinion. I've spent the weekend learning dreamweaver and putting together a sales page as well as constructing a new product. I'm a noob and I'm still trying to learn all of the things you have learned, but my point is to make money to take care of me and my family. If it's not making money, it doesn't make sense. If it's a hobby, call it a hobby and leave it at that, then feel free to indulge as much as your budget allows, knowing that its just a hobby.
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  • Profile picture of the author Dwight Anthony
    It is true, IM like so many other things can take over life. It's important to keep perspective and remember to take time for the other important things in your life.
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  • Profile picture of the author GlobalMedia
    Thanks for this thought provoking post. U just showed us the blatant truth of our life. I'll certainly try to work upon the same.
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  • Profile picture of the author eBusinessChamp
    Well,

    A quick update since the last time I posted on this thread.

    I am definitely turning to a lot more outsourcing! A least it gets the work done, by folks who are much more experienced in their fields!

    Let's see how this goes!

    Great replies!

    Love the advice ash107

    Best!
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  • Profile picture of the author happyme
    This is great. Isn't it good to be addicted to internet marketing? Where I myself am addicted to it. Can't help it, neither do I want to
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  • Profile picture of the author eBusinessChamp
    Hello Warriors,

    After taking a small break from the who IM world, I finally decide to actually create a product instead.

    I will for once complete the product 100% and get it launched regardless if it rocks or flops, at least I get something out there

    Thanks for the positive messages!
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    • Profile picture of the author SEOFriendlies
      Originally Posted by eBusinessChamp View Post

      Hello Warriors,

      After taking a small break from the who IM world, I finally decide to actually create a product instead.

      I will for once complete the product 100% and get it launched regardless if it rocks or flops, at least I get something out there

      Thanks for the positive messages!
      Good luck on your endeavour! It's the third time I'm saying this quote, but I think it'll help you:

      The Great Oak was once a little nut who stood his ground.
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  • Profile picture of the author JingQuimPo
    I always thought that becoming IMs (to most people that is) means more freedom, free time for your family. I still do. Nothings beats IM.
    So Imagine if your back on the 9-5 schedule everyday, that'll be torture.. but maybe heaven to some.

    I dreamed a thousand new paths. I woke and walked my old one.”

    Jing Quimpo
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  • Profile picture of the author tk226
    Hi Ron,

    I doubt your resolution to break the habit of being an Internet marketer. You may have been successful in breaking habits of .... but those were habits where 'money was going out' and not coming 'in' where as in Internet marketing money 'comes' as well as 'goes' and if you have quit day job then surely making a profit to live better becomes a mandatory goal. Although, I appreciate your thoughts to break free but I doubt that it'll be successful.
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  • Profile picture of the author Will Edwards
    We share many of the same addictions.

    I intend to break free after I have become wealthy

    Will
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