What happens if we make Mistakes...?

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Hello everyone. I'm sorry for the posting delay, I'm a little busy with school schedule, but I'll be back with more posts, so stay sharp. Thank you.
Next I'm gonna present my point of view about what happens when you and I making mistakes... I will write about this, because in my life was a bad factor that took my away from trying, presenting new things. Some circumstances that I think fear of making mistakes, would wrap us.
1. Speaking, singing in front of the other people...
2. Work place...
3. When someone involves us in a new action, new domain...
4. When we're stressed, tired...
5. When we meet someone, and we don't know he reacts...
I'm shure that you know more circumstances from your life experience, anyway those were some practical, daily experiences when we feel that fear of what happens if I mistake?... There always will be people who are afraid to make mistakes and they'll need someone to tell them that if they fail, listen me carefully: NOBODY CARES, and YOU CAN DO NOTHING ABOUT...YOU FAIL AND YOU RISE...
Actually I can say that I was afraid many times by assuming risks; but I saw a little detail that helped me a lot;
Nobody came to tell me that I've made a mistake, or I failed in the action from that time...
The only thing that I've done was to underestimate myself by saying: oh, what a weak man I'm, damn I failed I've...and so on...

That was the worst thing that I could tell myself. From now on, I try to this and even if I fail, I'm going forward.
Probably you've gonna ask me: why should I go forward? give me a reason for that...
Well, here is the answer:
1. It doesn't help you to stay and pity, or blame yourself for this... you will became depressed and you will die slowly.
2. The reasons for that why fail or mistake sometimes are to teach us a lesson, and rise us from the death.
3. People don't care about your words, deeds or what if you've done in your life... they care about your failures...
4. Our progress that leads to our success, can't be accomplished...

Finally, I hope this post, fits well for you and if there are some questions about, feel free to ask, even if you fail...
Just think about:
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed...
- Theodore Roosevelt
#fail #make #mistakes
  • Profile picture of the author Nereah
    With an open mind you will surely learn from your mistakes and become better, I still make mistakes fewer though, but always learn from each. Thanks for this, very true!
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    • Profile picture of the author umairsheikh2002
      Originally Posted by Nereah View Post

      With an open mind you will surely learn from your mistakes and become better, I still make mistakes fewer though, but always learn from each. Thanks for this, very true!
      That's exactly right.
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  • Profile picture of the author JustinDupre
    It's trial and error.. one must gets up and learn from that mistake. I must have made over hundreds of mistake to get where I am today. The key is never to give up and keep getting better at whatever it is you do.
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    • Profile picture of the author MIRENGE
      To the wise any mistake should make you better. I always remember not to make the say mistake i had made before.
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  • Profile picture of the author PLR Basket
    A great businessman once said:

    "I was wrong more than I was right, but I was wrong small and I was right tremendous".

    Mistakes can be great opportunities to learn and build your character.
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  • Profile picture of the author Claire Sharp
    Making mistake makes you a better person. So, it is okay to make mistake sometimes.
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    • Profile picture of the author DanielCurpas
      Originally Posted by Claire Sharp View Post

      Making mistake makes you a better person. So, it is okay to make mistake sometimes.
      Claire, I like your answer.. as you said its good to make mistakes...but my opinion is...don't abuse with them.
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  • Yeah ~ Everything is about facing the trial and error in life.
    No pain no gain , isn't it ?
    By the time you failed something , you learn something. Yes or yes ?
    The fact is , I even failed before when cannot successfully finish an assignment ordered by the authority resulted being blamed , I'll take it as another lesson. The truth is, when something is past, it is history and make the history to be another lesson for you to learn.

    So, I guess, starting is hard. But start small , dream big. Thanks for motivating.
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  • Profile picture of the author csmart1
    Mistakes are your way of learning what not to do. Sadly many people take this as discouragement and lose confidenc in themselves
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    • Profile picture of the author MIRENGE
      We learn through mistakes i have taught myself never to give up even when i make a mistake i just try not to repeat the same mistake.
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  • That's why, we, as individual, are the gamer, means that, you are the referee, you are the player of your life, you are the judge who decide you life and make decision, it could be the easiest game to play , but seriously each decision cost you time to make it and it is vital.
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  • Profile picture of the author Debra Barrow
    No one gets through this life without making mistakes. It's just a part of living. The real issue is whether we are learning from our mistakes, or continuing to make the same ones.
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    • Profile picture of the author Promet Analyst
      Originally Posted by marann2 View Post

      No one gets through this life without making mistakes. It's just a part of living. The real issue is whether we are learning from our mistakes, or continuing to make the same ones.
      It's always good to take reference from people who I think has more experiences than I do..especially women, and for that thank you thank you thank you for your knowledge~
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  • Profile picture of the author Gilearn
    question: according to you how effective is personal failures compared to failures of people you know or have come across
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    • Profile picture of the author DanielCurpas
      Originally Posted by Gilearn View Post

      question: according to you how effective is personal failures compared to failures of people you know or have come across
      I think everyone does different kind of mistakes....or I don't know..I'm not sure...yet
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  • Profile picture of the author Expert212
    Mistakes are quick rebuilders, making mistake is not bad... but not learning from it and letting it over come you is seriously a mistake.
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  • Profile picture of the author xtx361
    making mistake is human but you are not granted to make mistake often. learning from mistakes is essential to avoid in future.
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  • Profile picture of the author magnates
    You can't avoid mistakes , it is part of the process. the only people not making any mistakes are the people not doing anything
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  • Profile picture of the author James Foster
    Frank Kern said something once that I thought was almost poetic about this subject...

    "If you screw up... who cares? Everyone else is bat sh*t crazy anyways."
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  • Profile picture of the author majay
    Mistakes do happen to all.The key question would be whether we learn from our mistakes so as to avoid repeating the same errors
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  • Profile picture of the author JustinDupre
    All about trial and error.. Mistake make you a better person, you make mistake and learn from it then move on in life.. Just have to keep getting up stronger and stronger each time with your head up.
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  • Profile picture of the author omoblessed
    The way you handle mistakes is to learn from them and move on with your life. It is said in proverbs that to make misktakes is human, but to forgive is devine. So, you forgive yourself and take the next step.
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  • Profile picture of the author Goldenboy
    Mistakes are there to teach us, to mould us, and to make us a better person in the future. It is where we can't extract lessons, and from those lessons, we improve. We just have to be open that mistake is a normal part of life and that it is as normal as we breathe the air in the environment. When you learn from your past mistake, it is not deemed to make that same mistake again. As a famous line states: History repeats itself" but I would say that history is deem to repeat itself if that person didn't learn from his previous mistakes.
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Johnson
    Sometimes you have to fail before you can succeed
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  • Profile picture of the author JingQuimPo
    Mistakes are normal. My biggest was singing in from of a large crowd. I suck at singing 99%. But the crowd enjoyed it. So Nobody cared, if my singing sucks, as long as we had a great time. You are right, Daniel, we just move forward.

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    "When you fall into a pit, you either die or get out"
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  • Profile picture of the author BXPS
    If we make mistakes, we learn from them.
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  • Profile picture of the author brucedodd
    A person who never made a mistake never tried anything new.
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  • Profile picture of the author franzmark2011
    Learn from your mistakes. Mistakes can't kill you but it can make you a better person.
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  • Profile picture of the author Susovan
    1. Making mistake tells us what we did wrong or did something in a wrong way.
    2. Mistakes makes you pay penalty in various forms ranging from money to life and hence teaches you real lessons of life
    3. Mistakes makes you so called "EXPERIENCED" person
    4. Mistakes takes you towards perfection
    5. Mistakes identifies the areas that you are weak at and need to work on; hence you get an opportunity to mend your loop wholes
    6. A serious mistake, when leads you to a real distress, you get to know who all stands beside you, extending their helping hand and come forward for your rescue. Thus life gives you a rare opportunity to know people and identify your real well wishers

    Hence committing a mistake is not a crime. but we have to learn the most out it and implement the same in life so that we can ensure that the coming days are beautiful. Mistakes and penalties and consequent mental disposition is that fire which turns you into gold. but remember, repeating a mistake should be considered as a "Sin".
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  • Profile picture of the author Goldenboy
    Mistakes should not be a factor for our downfall or viewed as our failure. Mistakes are made if a person chooses the unwise decision that he makes but should not be called as a wrong decision or not a good decision. It was a decision in which he thinks is the right choices at that moment. Learn from that mistakes and we will be a more develop and better person. Other people have this tendency to be passive since most of them have this fear of making mistakes. Let us not fear in what we say or do, as long as it is the right way to do or say, then there shouldn't be someone or something that hinders us from making those choices.
    Learn from your mistakes, because it is normal to make one. But don't let that mistakes occur every time since it will not be normal as it will be a factor in attaining your goal.
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  • Profile picture of the author dominicyordz
    It's either you win or you learn.
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  • Profile picture of the author seanpar
    It's part of the learning process, we all make mistakes.
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  • Profile picture of the author gscottwong
    I read this somewhere:

    A young college graduate once asked a very successful businessman, "To what do you attribute your success?"

    The businessman answered, "Two words: good decisions."

    The graduate asked, "How do I make good decisions?"

    The businessman answered, "One word: experience."

    The graduate asked, "And how do I get experience?"

    The businessman answered, "Two words: bad decisions."
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  • Profile picture of the author Scott Skinner
    A wise person once told me......

    "You will never really learn anything worth knowing until you fail"


    It is failure that allows us to learn, grow and pass on our wisdom.
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  • Profile picture of the author NestZone
    I was losing more when i tried not to make mistakes. I became tired of always trying not to make one, BUT guest what? Things turned drastically around when i insisted on making one whether knowingly or not.

    It became clear, I could do it but I am just refusing to.
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