Struggling and Ready To Quit?- Here is my story!!!

by ivana
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I cannot walk people through what they need to do to succeed, however, I can tell you this, if you do quit, you will NEVER succeed.

So having said this, let me give you a bit of a background on me and my start with IM. I hope this motivates you to stick it out.

I am not a native English speaker, my grammer most of the time sucks , I did not graduate from some high tech university, and my technical skills were total ZERO when I started in 2007 (Nov. to be more exact). Actually all I knew about Internet at the time was some basic Google search for some stuff, and how to open my e-mail.

I did use eBay to sell some stuff prior to getting into Internet Marketing and Affiliate marketing at the time. I did run successful business prior to this, but in totally different industry - so again, no experience what so ever. add to it my age (at the time just 27)

Now I am writing this to you, exactly how it is. Because I know that at least 50-60% of people who get started in this do not have technical skills at all.

You should also know that at the time I had 3 year old and 1 year old at home. So trying to manage kids, home, and totally new business was not easy.

As many I've invested some money and it was wasted, but one training did help a lot and it was the best $60 I ever spent. I will not say who they are so it does not seem as advertisement, but that training was so good, for one reason only...it showed me basics.

I am a strong believer that you have to build strong foundation in order for your business to stand strong for a long time.

So the basics are:
  • Learn how to build decent sales page or money page.
  • Learn how to drive traffic from multiple sources
  • Build your mailing list along the way

There is no magic formula to this business in reality. You just need those basics. Technical stuff you can learn along the way. Trust me on this, I've wasted so many hours on technical stuff, but fact is, you need just one website, and that one website can earn you a lot of money. You do not need many sites, one is enough.

Take a look at Squidoo. There are Squidoo lenses that make $1000 per day. Gush...I am not saying you need to build squidoo type of site :-) I am just saying that one page on squidoo can make $1000 per day, for most IM-ers that is just enough :-)

Now the problem is, for most newbies, they want to learn a lot right away. I will tell you, get the basics taken care of, and take action. Do the work and make mistakes, because you will learn from them. Follow the simple plan, and not complicated one. Get the traffic to money pages, and use multiple sources of traffic. That will bring you cash, once you know you can earn, do some more of it.

NEVER stop TRYING, because if you do stop, you cannot succeed.

You see...I can say it was "easy" - one of the most popular sales page words. It was NOT easy. But it was doable. The hard work has paid off. Between me and my partner we do earn 5 figure income per month.

Side note: One of the best decisions of my business was to get a partner, someone who is as hard working as I am. This way I would share the workload, and have time to spend time with my kids. If you don't want to work with a partner, get part time assistant at some point and move even to full time when you can.

We are not the best Internet Marketers, our sales page is not the best, and our website is not the fanciest, but we make it work because we do the work every day. We follow that simple plan: we have decent sales page, and we drive traffic to it, we build the list along the way.

One thing we added to the mix is that we personalized our service, so most of our customers we know by name. Also, each month we would set aside "investment" for our business, something we would be comfortable with. Plus we realized that building membership type of site is the best way to go. (listen to that advice ) because recurring income is guaranteed paycheck.

While you can start this business without investment, know also that you will make faster profits if you do invest into basics: Domain, email auto responder, and of course hosting. But besides that outsourcing the work and investing in traffic is very sane business decision.

Now, in the last 4 years, besides having 2 small kids, I've moved from one continent to another, I've worked around the clock building this business, and run into some unexpected personal problems. But even with my life interfering, we (my partner and I) managed to build xx,xxx/mo income. This business now feeds many families because we have employees as well.

I now have time to spend weekends with my kids, go to all their activities, and even spend time with my friends and family. I even have time to work on me, and I am already living the life I dreamed of.

But again, I would not be here if I quit. I thought about it many times, but today, I really am glad I did not.

I truly hope this post will help you. Today, one person asked a question, why are some Internet Marketers so successful and others are not. I guess, the only difference is that they found one way that worked for them, and stuck to it. Bottom line, they never gave up, they improved along the way, but the strong foundation of basics still stands. And it always will :-)
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  • Profile picture of the author Igirl
    Awesome post...Thanks for sharing your story, I had some rough days recently, but your post has motivated me. Thanks again!
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  • Profile picture of the author alannadodd
    thanks for posting that. i love reading success stories - especially when the writer is so similar to me. my sons are 2 and 10months and between them, the job, looking after husband, housework... i honestly have never worked so hard in my life!
    its wonderful that you've achieved so much in such a relatively short time, many congratulations.
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  • Profile picture of the author xxdksxx
    Awesome post and great story very inspiring. I keep the idea that everything I do online will pay off one day with my business and your story proves that thank you.
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  • Profile picture of the author JustinDupre
    Great story! Very inspirational and moving about your IM experience. I'm glad you get to where you are now and you have more time to spend with your self and family.
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  • Profile picture of the author tobyR
    absolutely great post and very inspirational. We all hit brick walls but we need to be people who climb over or go round them - well done and tjhanks for sharing
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  • Profile picture of the author simbot82
    thanks for the post. Similiar start for me, started on ebay, buying things cheap and selling for profit. Now trying to find my niche
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    • Profile picture of the author Jamie Drew
      I never thought about like this before. I don't know why, because I'm a football (soccer) coach and I should know more than anyone that to be good and successful, then you MUST master the basics! Know and be great at the basics before you can move on to honing the other more advanced skills.

      This post is also really inspiring by the way!

      Originally Posted by simbot82 View Post

      thanks for the post. Similiar start for me, started on ebay, buying things cheap and selling for profit. Now trying to find my niche
      Hey simbot,

      Maybe that could be your niche. How you made money on eBay! Package up the process you went through into a step by step implementable plan.

      Then do as Ivana says:

      "So the basics are:
      Learn how to build decent sales page or money page.
      Learn how to drive traffic from multiple sources
      Build your mailing list along the way"

      All the best!

      Jamie
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  • Profile picture of the author Funkymatic
    Thanks for sharing Ivana. Its great hearing first hand stories of people overcoming personal and/or professional issues to come out on top. Good luck and keep growing strong
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  • Profile picture of the author mohan1218
    You really inspired me...your advice is so clean and straight..find something that works and stick to it.I'm really glad i read this!!
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  • Profile picture of the author andybeveridge
    Very inspirational. Many newbies will quit because they expect to see results all most overnight. The next shiny thing gets dangled in front of them and their off in hot pursuit.
    Then the information that they have gathered from each new idea just becomes overload and blocks them from any real success.
    So it is good to see somebody simplify the whole process, because it does not have to be as complicated as some would have you believe.
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    • Profile picture of the author ivana
      Originally Posted by andybeveridge View Post

      Very inspirational. Many newbies will quit because they expect to see results all most overnight. The next shiny thing gets dangled in front of them and their off in hot pursuit.
      Then the information that they have gathered from each new idea just becomes overload and blocks them from any real success.
      So it is good to see somebody simplify the whole process, because it does not have to be as complicated as some would have you believe.
      It can be very simple. Does it mean it will be easy...of course not...you still have to do the work, but if you don't complicate things, you will be working mainly on things that will make you money. That is it.

      If a person can master basic list building, driving traffic from few sources, and building decent money pages, they can make this business work.

      p.s I mean YOU in general :-)
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  • Profile picture of the author urban0id
    Thanks for sharing your story, nice post!
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  • Profile picture of the author lstoops
    Originally Posted by ivana View Post

    I am a strong believer that you have to build strong foundation in order for your business to stand strong for a long time.

    So the basics are:
    • Learn how to build decent sales page or money page.
    • Learn how to drive traffic from multiple sources
    • Build your mailing list along the way
    Some wise words for sure! Especially about the basics. That is all you need to focus on and I'm seeing the fruits of doing just that as well. Awesome story! Thanks for sharing!!
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  • Profile picture of the author Expert212
    It's really a motivating story one should specially read in down times...

    Best of Luck for many more ahead!!!
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  • Profile picture of the author Turpen
    Got on the forum today to seek help with a project and came across your post. Thanks! As a newbie and stay at home mom also on ebay and into ecommerce, this was the kick I need. I have spent the last month buying up WSO's knowing full well that the basics, the work, and an action plan is what I need to be focusing on and not the next new thing. Recently discovered a membership site that is teaching me step by step the basics with a daily action plan, ie: homework-and I am on day 7. If seems to move slowly but I know that learning these boring basics from resizing pics to understanding ftp etc. will pay off in the long term. I should have a simple site live within the week, created by non techie me, from scratch and very excited about that. Hope to be feeding other families as well one day.
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  • Profile picture of the author ArticlePenguin
    Very inspiring. Great to stick with it, even when the tough times come. I wish you the best in the future.
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  • Profile picture of the author xtx361
    @ivana thanks for nice post. i am in affiliate market from just 2-3 months. Such motivating stories keeps you move ahead. thanks again
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  • Profile picture of the author xtx361
    @ivana I am following your twitter now. like to get update from your.
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  • Profile picture of the author aditumpro
    Incredibly, I have feeling that you're talking to me!!!
    Inspiring and motivating ...
    I am neither a newbie, but I will be...
    Thanks, you made ​​a great post
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  • Profile picture of the author Debra Barrow
    ivana. Congratulations on your success. You have given us a dose of inspiration. Sometimes we get so caught up in the little things, that we forget the big picture. We feel like we need to know everything about IM to make money.

    I finally realized that if I'm going to make the money I want, I need to get out of the trenches.
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  • Profile picture of the author MickAdamski
    Good Post. I think that the IM world is a tough place to navigate as a newbie. So Many push button this and instant millionaire BS that it is hard to know what is real and what is not. For Me I found somone that I could mentor. Some one who is successful and knows what path is going to lead to success.

    Just stick with one thing that is proven to work and forget everything else for the moment. There will always be distractions. I also think that there is one big reason that most people fail and it is the same reason that offline businesses fail.

    That reason is that they don't really understand the business. There is a business structure behind every single website you see. If you don't know what goes on behind the scenes then you are missing a huge piece of the puzzle. The problem is that very few people actually teach you this. It is easier and sounds better to just click your mouse a few times and money will just pour in .... Right?

    If more people understood this then there would be more success stories and less failures.
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    • Profile picture of the author alannadodd
      Originally Posted by MickAdamski View Post

      Good Post. I think that the IM world is a tough place to navigate as a newbie. So Many push button this and instant millionaire BS that it is hard to know what is real and what is not. For Me I found somone that I could mentor. Some one who is successful and knows what path is going to lead to success.

      Just stick with one thing that is proven to work and forget everything else for the moment. There will always be distractions. I also think that there is one big reason that most people fail and it is the same reason that offline businesses fail.

      That reason is that they don't really understand the business. There is a business structure behind every single website you see. If you don't know what goes on behind the scenes then you are missing a huge piece of the puzzle. The problem is that very few people actually teach you this. It is easier and sounds better to just click your mouse a few times and money will just pour in .... Right?

      If more people understood this then there would be more success stories and less failures.
      couldnt have put it better myself.
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  • Profile picture of the author markspeeding
    Great story! This industry can be very frustrating at times but perseverance is the key to most everyone's success. Hang in there and stay focused.
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  • Profile picture of the author Caragui
    Nice and inspiring story. Just like in any game...you have to play it to win it....I wish you more success Ivana.
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  • Profile picture of the author happyme
    This is how things work don't they? You learn the basics, then you improvise on them. You think of the possibilities, the obstacles in the way, and then you crush them all.
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  • Profile picture of the author JosephCale
    Great post Ivana. May I call you Ivan the Great?

    I agree to all you've written in this post. IM is no easy ride but persistence is a must in this business. One might fall but must always rise again an continue the journey.

    Thanks Again.
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  • Profile picture of the author aems
    Hiiii really nice post , I think that your idea of making strong basics is really effective in any business. I would really like to apply your methods.....
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    • Profile picture of the author aems
      Hiiii really nice post , I think that your idea of making strong basics is really effective in any business. I would really like to apply your methods.....
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    Thanks for sharing it, I'm impressed
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      This Story is really inspiring me.. Thanks.
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    Thanks for your story it is really inspirational! Congratulations on your success!
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    Very nice story. Enjoyed reading, also saw alot of my reflection in it!
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  • Profile picture of the author ahnalia
    Excellent post! I am sending this on to a friend of mine who is struggling to break into the world of online marketing. I think she needs to see this
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    • Profile picture of the author bolaji
      Brilliant, Ivana!

      That was a great personal story.
      Not very long, but very full of wisdom. The wisdom that comes from the pain of experience, trial, failure, perseverance, and tough choices.

      You're right that newbies too often want to learn it all at once.
      I found myself as a newbie practicing "Just to see" marketing.

      That is, I would do the bare minimum for each strategy "just to see" if I would get results.
      If I didn't see results early, I would get discouraged, distracted, and derailed.
      I would move on to another strategy.

      Imagine a cycle of doing this for YEARS!

      Eventually, I realized the cycle, broke it, and I'm now able to hyper-focus on one strategy until I reach success.

      I also appreciate how you reached out and got a partner, and also how you built a foundation that works first, then invested in traffic afterward.

      Traffic is such a buzzword - too many newbies want traffic. It's kind of an interim way of feeling successful. But it doesn't put money in your pocket if the foundation you built doesn't convert that traffic to dollars.

      Let's be honest - so many of the aspects of building a solid business are BORING.

      But if they're not done, all we're building is a house of cards.

      I loved your story. Thanks for sharing.

      Bolaji.
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  • Profile picture of the author jennyd79
    Really nice post...

    It is always good to know that everyone started from the somewhere....
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  • Profile picture of the author Workaholic1
    i am so jealous with you, to learn many thing in one time is ok but to implement it without error impossible.

    just take one method and learn it and implement it to check for the error and improved it over over over again. until you truly master it. then it will be much easier to do it.

    I do in same situation where my english grammar is cramping down sea that nobody understand but me
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    I like your story. It's great to hear from people who have achieved their aims.
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    Great story and Very inspirational
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    nice story ... it isn't easy but you have to stick to it ...
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  • Profile picture of the author Scott Skinner
    Very Inspiring! Thank you for reminding us all that persistence cannot be denied in the long run.
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    Hey ivana,
    You're really an Awesome and I respect you from the core of my heart.

    NEVER stop TRYING, because if you do stop, you cannot succeed.
    Yes you're right. I really appreciate this word and seeing a reflection in my life.
    Thanks for sharing such a motivated story to inspire everyone.
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    Quite an inspiration, its only a few weeks ago I was wondering if am on the right track, glad I came across your post, thanks
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  • Profile picture of the author art72
    Originally Posted by ivana View Post


    So the basics are:
    • Learn how to build decent sales page or money page.
    • Learn how to drive traffic from multiple sources
    • Build your mailing list along the way
    Bulls eye! -This is the (grunt) stage I am currently at, and have questioned my investment of both my time and my financial investments into this business.

    Much like ivana;3851315 stated having obstacles to overcome (i.e. family, relocating, time restraints, technical restraints or enduring the learning curve associated to building websites, etc......) all these challenges factor into the equation, and determine your will to problem solve.

    For me, no challenge has been greater than to prove to myself and perhaps more so my family; this is a real business!

    Right now, I like ivana;3851315 am working my business around the clock, and often feel highly insulted (and more motivated) when my wife or kids ridicule my ongoing efforts.

    People often expect instant gratification. They want instantaneous results! They want proof right away!

    Truth is, I feel obligated to deliver that proof! -Not just for me, but for all those who are "On-Tilt" or literally "On-The-Bubble" and ready to quit!

    Just seeing the above quote, and confirming I am focused on the right track definitely subsides some of the pending and immediate pressure and (less-than-welcome) response my wife, kids, and friends are displaying.

    It's funny...at the end of the day my efforts are far from selfish, and will benefit those who "claim" to be supportive...yet everyday it seems the only "proof" they want to see is "MONEY!"

    In closing, my motivation is long-term, residual, and recurring income...not a lottery ticket!

    These pieces take time to assemble, my advice is stay-focused, follow and pursue your personal (and entrepreneurial) ambitions and goals, and do NOT let other ( no matter how close they are to you) thwart or steal your vision!

    I gotta laugh, because I know...when the structure is in place, and the money starts flowing; all the nay-slayer's will be lining up to receive the benefit of my efforts today.

    *As I am sure my wife and kids alike will not complain when they look back on today, and realize; that new home, car, laptop, iPhone or whatever...was the exacting result of my determination to afford them that luxury! <---I LIVE for that moment!!!

    I wasn't ready to quit when I opened this, I'm just getting started, and already the challenges has become visibly evident - it's up to us to open the eyes of the blind, and bring truth to the ears of the deaf!

    Thank-You ivana....you got me all-fired-up Today, I needed this!

    May You Sustain Great Success Today and Always!
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    What's the Squidoo page that makes $1000/day?

    Link please.
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  • Profile picture of the author Shania
    Good one. We all have a story to tell especially if we do not give up along the way.
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  • Originally Posted by ivana View Post


    ...that training was so good, for one reason only...it showed me basics.

    I am a strong believer that you have to build strong foundation in order for your business to stand strong for a long time.

    So the basics are:
    • Learn how to build decent sales page or money page.
    • Learn how to drive traffic from multiple sources
    • Build your mailing list along the way

    There is no magic formula to this business in reality. You just need those basics. Technical stuff you can learn along the way. Trust me on this, I've wasted so many hours on technical stuff, but fact is, you need just one website, and that one website can earn you a lot of money. You do not need many sites, one is enough.

    ...Now the problem is, for most newbies, they want to learn a lot right away. I will tell you, get the basics taken care of, and take action. Do the work and make mistakes, because you will learn from them. Follow the simple plan, and not complicated one.

    ...Side note: One of the best decisions of my business was to get a partner, someone who is as hard working as I am. This way I would share the workload, and have time to spend time with my kids. If you don't want to work with a partner, get part time assistant at some point and move even to full time when you can.

    We are not the best Internet Marketers, our sales page is not the best, and our website is not the fanciest, but we make it work because we do the work every day. We follow that simple plan: we have decent sales page, and we drive traffic to it, we build the list along the way.

    One thing we added to the mix is that we personalized our service, so most of our customers we know by name. Also, each month we would set aside "investment" for our business, something we would be comfortable with. Plus we realized that building membership type of site is the best way to go. (listen to that advice ) because recurring income is guaranteed paycheck.

    While you can start this business without investment, know also that you will make faster profits if you do invest into basics: Domain, email auto responder, and of course hosting. But besides that outsourcing the work and investing in traffic is very sane business decision.


    I truly hope this post will help you. Today, one person asked a question, why are some Internet Marketers so successful and others are not. I guess, the only difference is that they found one way that worked for them, and stuck to it. Bottom line, they never gave up, they improved along the way, but the strong foundation of basics still stands. And it always will :-)
    I believe the advice about keeping it simple and having a strong foundation can be applied to just about any area of life. My art teacher, who is a professional comic book artist, has pounded into my head that I need to learn the basics. It not glamorous, but it IS critical. He tells me all the time that comic book artist wannabes are constantly giving him their portfolio. He shakes his head because it's clear that they never took the time to learn the foundations of a good drawing. They try to skip ahead to the "good stuff" of people punching each others' lights out. I'm guilty of this as an internet marketer. I tried to jump ahead to the "good stuff" while ignoring the simple foundations of marketing. Having a partner who is as invested in success as you are is a great idea too.
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    great post! it inspires and motivates me more. Thanks a lot for sharing!
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    Thank you so much for your amazing post!
    You are helping here...
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    Thanks for this great advice . Easy to read but difficult to practice. driving traffic is most difficult.
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    Great post thanks.
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    Great post. This should inspire many.

    All the best...
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    Thanks for sharing your story. It gives me hope and makes me smile.
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    Thankyou for your post and the world is big enough to accomadate and provide wealth to all the warriors here to realize their dreams the key is "never ever give up"
    Be the best
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