Possibly the best self improvement book ever

by PookDo
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I am currently reading The Answer by John Assaraf and I have to say it is by far the best self help book I have ever read.In the book he talks about something called the neural reconditioning process.There is nothing out there that comes close to this in terms of helping anyone achieve the goals they have.I feel by using the tools and techniques in this book I will become successful in IM in 2009.Check it out
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  • Profile picture of the author Scott Chambers
    I read his "Street Kids Guide To Success" a few years back, and it was certainly a good common sense approach to success.

    I've never heard of this one but will look out for it. Thanks.
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  • Profile picture of the author Demond Jackson
    I'm not familiar with The Answer. I'll have to pick it up. Thanks
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  • Profile picture of the author John Derrick
    Would you care to outline the basic premise?

    I am always leery to picking up new books that have self created terminology. I am not saying that this is the case with "The Answer" but I personally have never heard of this outside of John Assaraf.
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    • Profile picture of the author MaskedMarketer
      Originally Posted by John Derrick View Post

      I am always leery to picking up new books that have self created terminology.
      You mean like NLP? Or maybe tony robbins NAC? Now we have NRP, lol.

      All sounds the same to me... with a different branding/positing strategy.
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  • Profile picture of the author Thugrulez
    I have heard about this book from few of my friends.I dint read it though.I think i will have to check this one out.Thanks
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  • Profile picture of the author lina08
    Yes, i've heard a few people recommending this to me...gotta get hold of it ASAP
    otherwise, for me at the moment, it has to be "One Minute Millionaire"...its more than about money...
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  • Profile picture of the author Ricky Martin
    Read it , loved it.... Good stuff.

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    Thanks for the tip, will check it out.
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  • Profile picture of the author dowa16
    I will surely pick it up! I love books like that!
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  • Profile picture of the author Christie Love
    I've read almost everything from all the members of "The Secret" but I haven't heard about this one. I'll get a copy as soon as I can. It sounds interesting. And, I'm always looking for ways to improve myself.
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  • Profile picture of the author MemberWing
    Christie you have such a sweet smile - I think you already reached mastery!

    Re: books - every different book and technique fits different person at different stages of growth.
    I remember myself 10 years ago pimping self-help books that I loved back then to every human being whom i met.

    Today i feel sorry for my past behavior

    Gleb
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    • Profile picture of the author Valorie
      The Answer was just what I needed to read this week. I have been wanting to meditate for quite some time, and the meditation/visualization instructions were exactly what I needed. I've been doing a lot of the exercises in this book, and already have seen huge results in the clarity of my thinking and my productivity. I'm glad other people are enjoying this book as well.
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    • Profile picture of the author rdbranson
      Hey Gleb,

      Can you explain what you mean. What's wrong with telling somebody about a good book? Or were you being some sort of fool?

      RDB
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  • Profile picture of the author Valorie
    Oh- I forgot to add- You can go to their onecoach website and sign up for a free ezine and their free monthly webinars. Very good stuff if you are on board with what they teach in the book!
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  • Profile picture of the author MemberWing
    I remember reading book about brain Alpha waves and getting so excited about it's ability to solve world's problems so I pitched it to everyone who bothered to listen.
    Looking back I see it was a mistake from my side.
    My point is that we often tend to give best advice from our personal subjective past experiences which may (or more often not at all) applicable to other people's situations and levels.

    Hope it explains. I mean no offence to anyone.

    Gleb
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    • Profile picture of the author here4yoursuccess
      Thanks for sharing. I haven't heard of it. I will check it out.
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      • Profile picture of the author esericsu
        thanks for the recommendation guys and gals.
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        • Profile picture of the author sloth456
          Aren't self help books just for the feeble minded? What is the underlying principle in "the answer", is it basically just *'you can do anything you want to' *'here's some motivation' *'now get to work!' I'm always under the impression that these books just tell you what you already know and that by buying them and reading them you're just excusing yourself for yet more procrastination. What do you guys think, is there more to it than that?
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          • Profile picture of the author Valorie
            Originally Posted by sloth456 View Post

            Aren't self help books just for the feeble minded? What is the underlying principle in "the answer", is it basically just *'you can do anything you want to' *'here's some motivation' *'now get to work!' I'm always under the impression that these books just tell you what you already know and that by buying them and reading them you're just excusing yourself for yet more procrastination. What do you guys think, is there more to it than that?

            Well, while I do have my own trouble with putting things off until a deadline forces me to complete them, I will say the following:

            I grew up with a logger father and a stay at home mom. She was the daughter of a chicken farmer. When she was little it was her and her 1 brother and 4 sisters job to crawl under the chicken houses and club rats and mice. I kid you not. On the day I got married she looked at me and my husband and said, "Now you kids will find out life is no longer fun."

            Until I watched "The Secret" and started reading books like this, I thought life was just something that "happened" to you. Some got lucky or born into money, the rest of us just toil along and do the best we can.

            The thought that I actually can control how my life turns out was incredibly powerful for me. The self-help/business books keep introducing me to ways of looking at the world that I have never, ever been exposed to before.

            So for me, I find reading these books helps me expand my thinking and come up with new ideas. And I get to put off writing some articles for a while.
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            • Profile picture of the author Qzertty
              You might love "Awaken the Giant Within" by tony robbins. Awesume stuff
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              • Profile picture of the author Valorie
                Originally Posted by Qzertty View Post

                You might love "Awaken the Giant Within" by tony robbins. Awesume stuff
                Okay, now the hair is standing up on my arms. That book has been in my living room for probably a year. I have had a really hard time getting past the first few pages for some reason. I've found all sorts of excuses for not trying to read it.

                Now I'll give it one more try.
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          • Profile picture of the author Kezz
            Originally Posted by sloth456 View Post

            Aren't self help books just for the feeble minded?
            No not at all. To reach optimum strength and performance, the mind has to be trained just like the body does. You have to deliberately and consciously mold it and sculpt it into what you want it to be, so it will do what you want it to do.

            Self help books are no more for the feeble minded than personal trainers and sports coaches are for the feeble bodied. If you want to get stronger, mentally or physically, the more informed and intelligent you are in your 'work out' processes, the better your results will be. Good quality advice from those with genuine knowledge is invaluable.

            If anything, it is often the people with the most natural mental strength that have the courage to truly self analyze, and set about deliberately improving their ability to control and direct their own mind.
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  • Profile picture of the author bigmoney4me
    Thanks for the recommendation! I'm sure I'll be greatly inspired.
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  • Profile picture of the author yosis
    I liked Power of Intention by Wayne Dyer. One thing that struck out at me in his book is that he pointed out "Discipline" was the key to achieving your goals. It was a good read.

    I'll be on the look out for "The Answer". Thanks for the tip.
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  • Profile picture of the author Karen Connell
    My 'Book of the Moment' is

    NLP The Technology of Achievement by Steve Andreas and Charles Faulkener.

    But this is one I will put on the list of 'things to read'

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  • Profile picture of the author magic456
    Thanks for the info. I will check some of the books mentioned here.
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  • Profile picture of the author 1 Marketing
    Reading motivational books is like a passion to me. The term used by John Assaraf "the neural reconditioning process" is same with which most of us are quite familliar as NLP.

    Do some research on NLP and you will get much more than your imagination.
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  • thanks

    Steven Covey's book " The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People " is also a great book.

    I highly recommend it.
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    Thank you will be checking these books out!

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  • Profile picture of the author OmarKhan
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    Sounds like an amazing book, will have to definitely check it out.

    Thanks!
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  • Profile picture of the author Riz Caan
    all these books could cut a lot out if they just said we need to change our beliefs about money, success, failure and rejection...and then showed exactly how to do that. though john talks sense.
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    I haven't read this one yet, but I will check it out.
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  • Profile picture of the author msdobe
    Thanks for the tip. I'll check it out. I love reading these books, you get something a little different from each one.
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  • Profile picture of the author suneelkumar85
    I remember reading book about brain Alpha waves and getting so excited about it's ability to solve world's problems so I pitched it to everyone who bothered to listen.
    Looking back I see it was a mistake from my side.
    My point is that we often tend to give best advice from our personal subjective past experiences which may (or more often not at all) applicable to other people's situations and levels.

    Hope it explains. I mean no offence to anyone.
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