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ARE YOU DOING THIS?

by successtricks
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Success they say always leaves a clue. this can also be said of poverty and his brother failure. The question now is;

HAVE YOU EVER BLAME SOMEONE OR SOMETHING BEFORE?

Or maybe you are doing it presently.

THE TRUTH!

All blame is a waste of time. Why? No matter how much fault you can find and how much blame you ascribe to someone, it will not change you. Will it?
No! You can never become successful blaming someone or something for the things you lack. General concept that most people have is to blame the government, the president or the economy for their lack of success.

But if you want to become successful you must accept the responsibility that you also have some fault. When you do this it gives you the power over your situation and also give you the power to change.

In short if you are expecting the government to change for you to become successful or expecting your spouse or friend to change for you to have a good relationship, you are heading for failure. So leave the government to its own activities and you chart your cause of success. You can Crack the Code of success if you can stop blaming right now.

OK if you can not blame can i complain or is it the same? Share your views
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  • Profile picture of the author magnates
    Yes ... That is the short answer

    Blaming is no good because it gives the other people power over your life

    It allows you to smug over failure

    I mean it is not your fault ... your friends are responsible for everything

    When you are ready to responsible for the results that show up in your life , you are ready for success

    Like T Harv Eker said , If you are rich , it is your fault and if you are poor , it is entirely your doing
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  • Profile picture of the author successtricks
    Good input my friend. i just hope most people can understand this.
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  • Profile picture of the author BenKJunya
    Originally Posted by successtricks View Post

    You can never become successful blaming someone or something for the things you lack. General concept that most people have is to blame the government, the president or the economy for their lack of success.
    Thank you!

    This is a great little snippet I'd like to tell a ton of people in my life. Everyone wants to be thin, make a ton of money, have a beautiful boy/girlfriend, live in a dream house, ect. However, 95% of these people are stuck in a rat race, fuddling around everywhere unfocused and blaming everything around them, when they should really be improving their attitude, themselves, or getting all those nasty negative vibes out of there.

    This was a really nice tidbit that struck home with me. I hope the best for your definite success in the future!
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  • Profile picture of the author smilika
    It is my belief that I am solely responsible for all that happens in my life, so I can not blame anyone else for it.

    True article, thanks for it.
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    I make my own luck. That means I am fully responsible for everything that happened or is going to happened in my life.

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  • Profile picture of the author jaywebdev
    No! Because I'm a strong person! And I believe that a strong person is someone who doesn't blame their failures on the strengths of others.That's why most of strong person succeed in their chosen career.
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  • Profile picture of the author Lori Kelly
    You can complain and you can blame. Neither one of those attitudes will get you anywhere.

    I currently run a forum regarding foreclosures. Although the banks are to blame for the collapse of the housing market, the blame game does nothing. I have reached a point to tell my members that they can either file a lawsuit, fight the foreclosure, or walk away. Blaming the banks and/or the government for the crisis does nothing to help the situation.

    The same analogy works in every walk of life.

    It's the easy way out, isn't it? Blame someone for your failure. That way, you take no responsibility for yourself; your actions.

    Taking the easy way out will not build on your success but rather, lead you on a road to self destruction.
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  • Profile picture of the author Jonathan92
    Sure, I've done it, but most of the time I've had no real sufficient cause to do so. It's wasteful of energy.
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  • Profile picture of the author emmndi
    Great article. I basically will not do it.
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  • Profile picture of the author Newview
    What a timely topic! It is so easy to blame everyone or everything else for the challenges we each face. But to pass or hand out blame is not the answer. It just shifts the burden. So many times people get so focused on the problem that they never FIX the problem. By passing the blame to someone else, it is re-enforcing, it is NOT my fault! So they therefore remain static, with no change. My Father challenged me on this thinking long ago. I remember being very upset over a situation. My Father listened intently, then said, I am really sorry to hear this. So what did YOU do to make it better? Such a simple sentence, with such far reaching results. I never forgot that, and thank him daily for it!
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  • Profile picture of the author successtricks
    It is great to have people with a great spirit like this. i can feel the energy in the air, why not let us try share this spirit with other people who still do not get it! Or what do you think?
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    • Profile picture of the author HartechSoftworks
      Originally Posted by successtricks View Post

      It is great to have people with a great spirit like this. i can feel the energy in the air, why not let us try share this spirit with other people who still do not get it! Or what do you think?
      agreed

      i do admire your confidence
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      • Profile picture of the author successtricks
        Originally Posted by HartechSoftworks View Post

        agreed

        i do admire your confidence
        That is the spirit my friend, join the crusade, u are welcome.
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