Do you believe in failing forward?

13 years ago

Whats up gorvene!

I've never read that book, but I'm sure that you and I share the same mindset.

The way I like to look at failure is this: Mistakes we make are only temporary failures, but once we except them as "the end" then that's when they become real permanent failures.

If you can get past failures, you'll find a golden nugget of knowledge in each. I remember when I first got started with direct mail, I mailed a letter and only got 2 orders, and this was mailed to 1,000 people!

I was really upset, but with marketing TESTING IS KEY. So I started testing different headlines, mail piece designs, and premiums and by my 3rd mailing I was breaking even which was perfect because I had a solid back end set up as well.

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cvan

13 years ago

I do believe in failing forward. With every failure that I've had, it has brought me closer to where I need to be. Let's face it, everybody fails at something. Thomas Edison failed thousands of times before he invented the light bulb but all those failures taught him what DIDN'T work and got him that much closer to what DOES work!

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Rohm 13 years ago

Related gem:

"There is NO failure. ONLY feedback."
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- Carmen_Hudson 13 years ago
  
  I've just added that one to my list on Amazon, cause--I do have a fear of failure. Though I've mostly "Gotten over it" the reminders and additional insight would be outstanding--especially as I'm trying to take my work to the next level.
  
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  peterj 13 years ago
  
  Never read the book, but yeah, if your not failing your not learning.
  
  Failing/making mistakes is is part of the growth process whether it is on a global evolutionary scale or a personal one.
  
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Justin Says

13 years ago

I think that the whole "failure" thing is overrated.

I agree that the beginning, you are going to fail here and there, and that it can be helpful.

But later down the road, you need to focus on doing things right.

There are studies that show those who fail the first time are extremely more likely to fail again, whilst those who haven't failed doing a particular task on their first try are less likely to fail again.

Failure is a learning experience, but don't try to hope for failure.

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The Niche Man 13 years ago

I've failed forward many times in my internet marketing career. Like the times I've tried to be all things to all people, instead of marketing to a specific niche.

And the other times I've trusted individuals, deals and even products without double checking my facts.

And the biggest doozie was jumping from one "can't fail business opportunity" to the next.

All those thumps up side my head took time to learn. But saves me enormous time now that I've learned those lessons.

"Learning the lessons of failure and not repeating them"

That's my definition of failing forward.
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- AC683 13 years ago
  
  Yes, I believe in failing forward. If you learn from your failures and strive to not make the same mistake twice you will get better. And that is the meaning of success.
  
  As Earl Nightingale stated "Success is the progressive realization of a worthy goal or ideal. As long as you are making progress you are succeeding. To often we look at failure as the end when in reality it should be more of a beginning. If used properly, failure forms the foundation for our success. Mistakes give us experience. We can use that experience on future challenges or we can use our experiences to help others avoid the same failures that we have had.
  
  Years ago I had a goal to earn a six figure income in direct marketing. I failed to hit that goal through that vehicle. But during that time I read a lot of books, improved my attitude and learned how to work well with people. I failed to hit my goal, but I am a better person because of what I learned in the pursuit of that goal.
  
  Failing Forward a great book.
  
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Jonathan 2.0

Banned 13 years ago

I definitely agree with "failing forward." I wrote a blog post about it below.

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Michael Ten

13 years ago

I liked that book.

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Justin Says

13 years ago

I just wanted to share something by Jason Fried (37signals).

Post #1: Learning from failure is overrated - (37signals)

Post #2: Failure is overrated, a redux - (37signals)

Audio: [Podcast] Episode #4: Jason Fried's speech at BIG Omaha 2009 - (37signals)

I'm so with Jason on so many levels. He has a much better idea of how failure/success works.

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711gemstone 13 years ago

I look at is this way if you learned something from the attempt then you have grown not failed
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Jonathan 2.0 Banned 13 years ago

Originally Posted by Justin Lewis

I just wanted to share something by Jason Fried (37signals).

Post #1: Learning from failure is overrated - (37signals)

I suppose it's whether people choose to listen to Jason Fried or some of the most successful people in history (literally).

Uncovering the secret to “failure” is amazing.
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peterj

13 years ago

Originally Posted by Justin Lewis

I think that the whole "failure" thing is overrated.

There are studies that show those who fail the first time are extremely more likely to fail again, whilst those who haven't failed doing a particular task on their first try are less likely to fail again.

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I'm pretty sure that if one looked one would find studies that show the opposite to be true also

Originally Posted by Justin Lewis

I just wanted to share something by Jason Fried (37signals).

Post #1: Learning from failure is overrated - (37signals)

Post #2: Failure is overrated, a redux - (37signals)

Audio: [Podcast] Episode #4: Jason Fried's speech at BIG Omaha 2009 - (37signals)

I'm so with Jason on so many levels. He has a much better idea of how failure/success works.

This is all assuming that people are using failing as a goal in itself.

Its not a matter of choosing to fail (everybody does it all the time, like it or not) but of how one deals with failure should it occur.

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Justin Says

13 years ago

Originally Posted by peterj

This is all assuming that people are using failing as a goal in itself.

Its not a matter of choosing to fail (everybody does it all the time, like it or not) but of how one deals with failure should it occur.

Pete

Oh I agree. But a lot of people think failure is a good thing to focus on.. and a lot of people end up thinking that failure is a great thing to do. When they should focus on the success's.

Don't focus on the fact that you spent the last 3 months working really hard and only made $1 (some consider this a failure), when in fact that's a success! Focus on that $1 and prove to yourself that you can do it again.

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Jonathan 2.0

Banned 13 years ago

Originally Posted by Justin Lewis

Oh I agree. But a lot of people think failure is a good thing to focus on.. and a lot of people end up thinking that failure is a great thing to do. When they should focus on the success's.

Hi Justin,

Turning failure into success (by learning something from it) ... Is concentrating on success.

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aLion 13 years ago

"I have missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I have lost almost 300 games. On 26 occasions I have been entrusted to take the game winning shot... and missed. And I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed."

Michael Jordan
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Justin Says

13 years ago

Originally Posted by Jonathan 2.0

Hi Justin,

Turning failure into success (by learning something from it) ... Is concentrating on success.

I absolutely agree

But so many people aim for failure. Even if it's not intentional, they think that it's a good thing to try to fail.

I just find that weird and I wanted to share my thoughts.

To give my own experience, I have a project I spent $7,000 on that didn't succeed. It was a failure. But luckily it gave me the idea and experience to try for something else, which was directly beneficial and has profited since then.

So I can say I succeeded from failure, but I should have looked ahead of myself, because that project took A LOT of my time and work and got no where. Whilst most of my other projects cost me around $10 - $100 and exceed my expectations almost every time.

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Jonathan 2.0

Banned 13 years ago

We're pretty much on the same page. I think people should aim to succeed. When they fail, however, use that failure to be more successful. When you learn something from it failure = success.

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Justin Says

13 years ago

Originally Posted by Jonathan 2.0

We're pretty much on the same page. I think people should aim to succeed. When they fail, however, use that failure to be more successful. When you learn something from it failure = success.

Yep I'm on the same road as you

But that's the only time failure should equal success (IMO), some people aim for failure and that's not the way to go. Aim for success, if you fail, then learn from it, but always aim for success.

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bensonenterprise

13 years ago

I have definitely failed forward in my online career. Made a lot of mistakes, sometimes I allowed those failures to be huge setbacks for me until I realized that if I just change my perspective about these failures I could instead look at them as I am one step closer to finding out what really does work.

Once I stopped looking at it as me "failing" but rather "I was getting closer to my goal" it made it a lot easier to find the right way to do things.

I have never read the book you mentioned but I have read several others including the one I read most recently called "The Magic of thinking big" this one is about looking at setbacks as opportunities and always looking at ways you can do things better.

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Jonathan 2.0

Banned 13 years ago

Originally Posted by gorvene

The question I want you to answer is: what specific failures have moved you forward in life and in internet marketing in particular?

Overcoming social anxiety, depression, and suicide (etc.) made me into a better person.

I'll never forget Napoleon Hill's quotation:

“Every adversity, every failure, and every heartache carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit.”

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gallowayvera

13 years ago

i dont think so...

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Nereah

13 years ago

mmmm am yet to know if there is something like this....

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Daymon

13 years ago

I don't think failure are failure, I think they are important building blocks
I think when I had to quit my job in sudden thats when I realize it was actually not bad but good as I took a better one...

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Kaysa

13 years ago

My biggest failing forward it's asking, expecting and not getting the support of my family in my online efforts.

Now that I've realized the negation of them I turn this energy into motivation to keep moving forward.

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reverseengineering

13 years ago

Of course! I can't even begin to explain how so many things have fallen into my lap. Even mistakes. I can look back and know that I'm a stronger person now. You're kidding yourself if you think you have complete control of all circumstances around you.

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AJ Smith44

13 years ago

Yes, I believe in falling forward. I learned the concept from Denzel Washington. It makes since when you think about it; however, I never knew there was a book about it. I will look into it-thanks...

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