Don't let anyone run your life

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You write the rules of your life, no one else. Don't let anyone tell you what to do and boss you around (unless that person is your boss) in that way look for another job if you don't like it there. There is no such thing as destiny, and quite frankly I don't like when someone referrers to destiny when something bad happens. There is one saying that goes:

"Men heap together the mistakes of their lives, and create a monster they call Destiny"

You create your life and you decide who you want to be, but first you need to figure out what do you want to be. Actually before all the creation removes all the people in your life that order you around and pretend that they are better than you from who knows what reason, you don't need them. Now think what would you like to do? Would you like to be self employed or work for some big organization? Anything you want you can get. To get back on your feet and start running your life you need two things: First one is a good plan and the second one is Stress free environment. That's what I did, I removed anyone who bothered me so I can focus on my work. The truth is that in your way there will be a lot of people who will tell you how to do things. Don't listen to them, that's their opinion not yours.
When you start running your life things won't always be like you want them to be and you will fail a lot but that is good, every time you fail you need to stand up again and prove yourself that you CAN do things. You don't need to prove yourself to anyone. At the end the only person you need to believe is you. We came on this earth alone and that's the way we are going to go out of it. So let's live how we deserve let's not waste the oxygen on this planet. We all have dreams but maybe 1% achieves their dreams and that's not because they are smarter, it's because they know what they want and they will do anything to achieve them. Don't give up after first fall and then return living your old life, where no one asks you anything you live by their rules.
I intended for this post to be short and straight to the point for everyone who needs a wake up call. It's time to wake up and regain the control of your life. Start by doing something small - JUST START.



Taken from Successful life habits blog
#life #run
  • Profile picture of the author motograter23
    This is an awesome way to view life...sometimes it's not quite that easy, but you're totally right. You can do whatever you want, if you want it bad enough. Sometimes it just takes a whole bunch of hard work to get there. Inspiration is the best sometimes
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  • Profile picture of the author Will Roarke
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  • Profile picture of the author mrelk159
    Agreed 100%, I am the only person that can control what I do, inspriation post by the way.
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Ten
    Good words! No one should be a bossy jerk to anyone.
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  • Profile picture of the author marialeiter
    I agree, as what the saying says, "we are the one who makes our own destiny". It's you who knows what you really want.
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  • Profile picture of the author Usmile
    two thumbs up for this post!

    Indeed, we are given the full authority to run our own life, either we will run it for good or bad we should not let anyone dictate us what to do. Advices and suggestions are welcome but we should just use them as our guide not our destroyer
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  • Profile picture of the author SasaIlic
    Thanks guys, i'm glad you liked it, and i agree 100% with Usmile it doesn't matter how we lead our lives, the keyword here is OUR, and no one can tell us how to live it.
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  • Profile picture of the author gentryliving
    Never i allow anybody to run my life. Whatever happens to me, my career, my love, my relationship to my fellow workers and friends... it's my responsibility and not anybody.
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  • Profile picture of the author Sam Khaled
    yes that is great insight to ask for forgiveness not for permission and it's obvious because only you know your weaknesses and strengths. PERIOD

    >You Already In Pain
    >>You Already in Hurt
    >>>Get A Reward From IT

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  • Profile picture of the author SasaIlic
    Couldn't agree with you more Sam.
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  • Profile picture of the author leorocking25
    Yeah i am totally agree with this...your life is only yours and you are liable for all decisions you have taken.
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  • Profile picture of the author orvillehansen
    You are the one who knows your own streangths and weaknesses, so the one who can really decide whats best for you is you alone.
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  • Profile picture of the author AllenYK2
    We are the one who are responsible and in charge in our lives =)
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  • Profile picture of the author John F Kennedy
    When I first saw your post title, I thought "oh know, a bitter wife"

    But it warmed me very much, life is meant to be an adventure, there should be no time for conflict with anyone especially ones self.

    Take control, but do it now. Right now!

    Thanks for the share
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    • Profile picture of the author tedw
      Originally Posted by John F Kennedy View Post

      When I first saw your post title, I thought "oh know, a bitter wife"

      I really like Mr Felix Dennis quote when I think about the topic of this thread... "And if you're willing to change until it starts working then they cannot stop you for the very simple reason that in the end you WILL get it right... Nothing on this earth can stop you, apart from death, nothing."
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  • Profile picture of the author Lee A Bracey
    Yes, destiny has been used as a scapegoat for non-achievement for too long. Perseverance and determination are better allies for getting what you want out of life. You can create, control, and manifest your own destiny. Choose wisely!
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  • Profile picture of the author Exel
    Very nice post, all the great points.

    Problem with people is they don't want to run their own lives, to take responsibility.

    It is too easy and seductive to do nothing and blame destiny for failure.
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  • Profile picture of the author Pinterest
    Awesome post, your life is yours, it should be in your hands

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  • Profile picture of the author JingQuimPo
    Les Brown sums it up

    "Someone's opinion of you doesn't have to become your reality"

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  • Profile picture of the author eguinan
    You are your best teacher. Be more YOU.
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  • Profile picture of the author LulaFor
    Experience is the best. Last time my girlfriend ruined my life. She Run my life. But from Now on, i`ll stand on my on and no one`s ruin my life.
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  • Profile picture of the author David Sneen
    Absolutely true. Each of us is in charge of our own life. When an individual controls, or tries to control another, both suffer. With a few exceptions [prison for instance] people need to make the important decisions for their life.

    In fact, the way to influence another person is to build them up! If you can do that on a regular, predictable basis, you will be a great friend. And, as you build others up; they will return the favor and build you up.
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  • Profile picture of the author stopper
    The bad side of having a boss is that sometimes he /she is clearly a step behind you but you still have to follow orders.
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