"Men heap together the mistakes of their lives, and create a monster they call Destiny"
You create your life and you decide who you want to be, but first you need to figure out what do you want to be. Actually before all the creation removes all the people in your life that order you around and pretend that they are better than you from who knows what reason, you don't need them. Now think what would you like to do? Would you like to be self employed or work for some big organization? Anything you want you can get. To get back on your feet and start running your life you need two things: First one is a good plan and the second one is Stress free environment. That's what I did, I removed anyone who bothered me so I can focus on my work. The truth is that in your way there will be a lot of people who will tell you how to do things. Don't listen to them, that's their opinion not yours.
When you start running your life things won't always be like you want them to be and you will fail a lot but that is good, every time you fail you need to stand up again and prove yourself that you CAN do things. You don't need to prove yourself to anyone. At the end the only person you need to believe is you. We came on this earth alone and that's the way we are going to go out of it. So let's live how we deserve let's not waste the oxygen on this planet. We all have dreams but maybe 1% achieves their dreams and that's not because they are smarter, it's because they know what they want and they will do anything to achieve them. Don't give up after first fall and then return living your old life, where no one asks you anything you live by their rules.
I intended for this post to be short and straight to the point for everyone who needs a wake up call. It's time to wake up and regain the control of your life. Start by doing something small - JUST START.
Taken from Successful life habits blog